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yommys01:
me no sex? For where? She is pregnant sef.

She is regretting the life time commitment

Just give her belle, end of story.

Maybe you have champion gbola

Yes cus your dick wont just satisfy her and she is like i don enter one chance. be careful from women cus you can never know them all.

yommys01:
I got married on Saturday 20th of February 2016. We were in an hotel till Monday, wanted us to stay longer but she refused saying she wants to go home ( that used to be my house).

Ever since we got home yesterday ( Monday), she has been crying. Called her mom, she prayed for her, my mom called her too and prayed for her.

She stopped crying for a while, we woke up with another round of crying this morning.

This is breaking my heart. I hate to cry as it often leads me to depression now I am close to tears myself.

I don't know if I have done something wrong or what to do. It is hurting as she cries.

When we were dating, she finds it difficult without her family for long " oh, I am already missing my dad, I am already missing my siblings" could this be the reason?

One day she came to mine from home as we have Dr appointment early and she lives in another state, she got to mine and 1 hour later she wanted to go home. "I am missing my dad sha" which got me annoyed then.

Could it be that the crying now is linked? She is 25 and I am 30 and we spent quite some time together before marriage. The fact we used to be together for so long makes it more confusing. This is a house she has always been in why the crying now?

It is hurting me. Badly and I am confused.

What do I do?

Let her go back to her parents house for a few days. They will wean her then you can go pick up your wife.

She's just very emotional. And her parents can fix that.

lonngmann:
erm..did you pratice no sex before marriage?

It might be because of what she saw on her wedding night that is making her cry

Especially the fact that she has to live with it like that for the rest of her life

Idiat

Thanks to you all. She stopped crying. If only the father can also get used to the idea.

Surprising she didn't answer his call when he call the 4th time today.

lonngmann:
erm..did you pratice no sex before marriage?

It might be because of what she saw on her wedding night that is making her cry

Especially the fact that she has to live with it like that for the rest of her life

she's a spoilt girl probably over-pampered and over-protected.
Bros your problem plenty cuz she seems to be the kind of person that will call up mum and dad for every disagreement at home without discussing with the husband.
She should snap out of it or forget the marriage and go back home
Marriage is not for kids, she knows that so why is she still crying and missing home like this?
SMH

Give her some time and u can also take her out to 2 4get old memories

She's not ready for marriage. You should have married another person and let's watch her miss her dad when she's 35 years old.

MizMyColi:
I think it's pretty normal for someone who has forged very strong familial bonds with their relation.

This might sound harsh
But you need to go tough in love.

While scolding her might sound like an option, it might turn out to be counter productive.

First, stop indulging and petting her.
I'm sure you've told her by now that she is now married to you, and that both of you need to be strong both mentally and emotionally for each other to build your lives.

If you have had this pep talk with her, and she is still tearing up.
Permit her to go to her house.
Tell her to stay as long as she likes and she shouldn't return until you come for her.

This sounds brutal, but it seems an efficient way to cure that unwanted spirit in her.

@ the bolded. Best advise ever. I am 100% sure that this will cure her stupidity. The OP should just abandon her in her parents house for 2 months. call her only once a week, if she complains, He tells her that why shud he bother calling when she could simply stay in her matrimonial home and talk to her husband everyday.
No be person go tell am to grow up. her papa sef go pursue am

Take her to Dubai!











Maybe she's scared of men. Especially Lagos boys. She doesn't want to fall into the hands of an endtime scoutboy.

erm..did you pratice no sex before marriage?

It might be because of what she saw on her wedding night that is making her cry

Especially the fact that she has to live with it like that for the rest of her life





Abi he neva give her the kain wey go make her stop crying

You married an overgrown baby. If the thing pain her, she will tell her mum for you.

[quote author=Bigtoto post=43176460]Take her to Dubai!











Maybe she's scared of men. Especially Lagos boys. She doesn't want to fall into the hands of an endtime scoutboy.[Na w ao]

yommys01:
Thanks to you all. She stopped crying. If only the father can also get used to the idea.

Surprising she didn't answer his call when he call the 4th time today.

God don save her.
I gat no time for nonsense. I will just bundle her back home to stay with her papa and keep marrying him till she is tired.

rubbish!!!!!

She's a big baby, why did she marry if she wasn't psychologically ready?

OP, talk to her calmly about it and let her know its upsetting you.

fctguy:
she's a spoilt girl probably over-pampered and over-protected.
Bros your problem plenty cuz she seems to be the kind of person that will call up mum and dad for every disagreement at home without discussing with the husband.
She should snap out of it or forget the marriage and go back home
Marriage is not for kids, she knows that so why is she still crying and missing home like this?
SMH

Wrong. The only time she called an outsider in our affair it was my mom.

She and the dad are very close though. He has called 4 times today already.

Bro chill! Give her time and be man enough to always let her know that she is married now. I hope she is not hiding a secret that she thinks yôu might get to find out later. And for the father of your wife, he should encourage her daughter to enjoy her marriage. Why the Whatsapp prayers?
Bros wait oo. Did you over hit the akpako or is your JT too mighty for her?
Talk to your wife and hold her close to you. Look into her eyes tell her to free her mind. Assure her that she is in safe hands, let her feel secure

She is a good wife bro, ad try to bliud ur home like her's u already know wat I mean cus few nigerians ladys miss or think abt their home after marriage. Happy marriage life man

yommys01:
me no sex? For where? She is pregnant sef.

Pregnancy hormones at work

Lol,cry cry baby shey dem force her marry ni, just give her sometime she will stop mayb is because of wat u said dat she is close to her family

prettysolid:
Rubbish. Simply cry when shes crying. Lets see who will cry pass

lol. Not funny but I had to laugh when I pictured the scene. You meanie!

yommys01:
I got married on Saturday 20th of February 2016. We were in an hotel till Monday, wanted us to stay longer but she refused saying she wants to go home ( that used to be my house).

Ever since we got home yesterday ( Monday), she has been crying. Called her mom, she prayed for her, my mom called her too and prayed for her.

She stopped crying for a while, we woke up with another round of crying this morning.

This is breaking my heart. I hate to cry as it often leads me to depression now I am close to tears myself.

I don't know if I have done something wrong or what to do. It is hurting as she cries.

When we were dating, she finds it difficult without her family for long " oh, I am already missing my dad, I am already missing my siblings" could this be the reason?

One day she came to mine from home as we have Dr appointment early and she lives in another state, she got to mine and 1 hour later she wanted to go home. "I am missing my dad sha" which got me annoyed then.

Could it be that the crying now is linked? She is 25 and I am 30 and we spent quite some time together before marriage. The fact we used to be together for so long makes it more confusing. This is a house she has always been in why the crying now?

It is hurting me. Badly and I am confused.

What do I do?

give her belle

Well, you have decided to marry a baby what do you expect. To smile or play. She will have to finish the baby thing till she is fully matured. Take her for the baby she is...

yommys01:
me no sex? For where? She is pregnant sef.

This is the solution. Please dont scold her. Pet her when she is crying and no serious discussion about it. Inspite of everything we are told, over-communication is a big problem in marriage When the baby comes, everything will be okay.