Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by Nobody: 6:36pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
wristbangle:
Nice comment.
Are u telling me that most creams produced nowadays has been compromised from the manufacturers? Yes they have been largely compromised speaking from experience haven been a victim so many times. I am becomimg careful these days. And i think people shouldnt rush to use just any cream except they have gathered enough information on them. |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by ipledge10(m): 6:38pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
wristbangle: Despite the saying that all that glitters is not gold, many guys are still being swayed by mere physical appearance/attributes of a lady without thorough or proper evaluation to know if truly these attributes complement the heart.
However, many guys tend to be disappointed and discouraged to stay in a relationship when they later discover that what they thought she is, is not truly what she is.
The following points buttress the misplaced attributes guys check in a lady that often land them into bad relationship/ marriage.
1. Gigantic Butt and Bosoms
I believe that what defines a lady is not the size of butts and bosoms but tell this to some guys and watch them tear you to pieces. Once a lady has huge bosoms and backside, they don't care if her attitude is bad or not. They will try to gain her love and at the end of the day, they will end up regretting because the lady in question only has huge bosoms and but nothing upstairs.
2. Beauty
No doubt beauty remains one of the major reasons why guys approach a lady but what beats my imagination is that, ironically, a lady can be so pretty but won't be able to compute a simple arithmetic. I mean, could it be that these guys are extremely senseless to have chosen a beautiful lady who can't engage in intellectual discussions. To a broad view, one who marries because of beauty may not find joy in that relationship.
Sorry beauty is the first thing I see in a lady...even if she is more virtue than virgin marry I won't notice her 3. Skin colour
In Nigeria, guys normally over-hype fair skinned ladies while neglecting black skinned ladies making it look like being fair in complexion is a blessing and that being dark is a curse. I still don't know what skin colour has got to do with good/fruitful marital life. In fact, this neglect and discrimination cause low self esteem to our dark skinned ladies and therefore triggers competition when many of our ladies resort to bleaching.
4. Experienced in several sex positions
The world has gone weird that you will hear some guys saying they cannot date/marry a lady who is not experienced in sex let alone a virgin lady. Most guys are obsessed with ladies who during love making give them scissors-kick style, cow girl, reverse cow, hot doggy, girl style, devastating bllow job etc. The truth of the matter is that infidelity is their watchword when you can't satisfy their high libido. Prof Tosyne and Dr Ronald4lif can bear me witness.
5. Angelic voice
Some guys can urinate on their body when they exchange contact with a lady they met online, only to ring her up and discover that her voice is as angelic as that of Celine Dion. But when they get to meet this lady offline, she will look exactly like Julius Agwu. They will be disappointed and will look for a way to dismiss her. This is to say that sweet voice has landed many guys into wrong choice.
6. Rich Background
The fact that a lady is from a rich background doesn't mean she will be giving you her father's money. The erroneous belief of many guys is that when a lady is from a rich background, they have narrowly escaped from poverty when they date her, not knowing that their financial troubles just begun. This kind of ideology can send such guys to early grave if care is not taking.
7. She's a regular church goer
The fact that a lady is a committed worker in church or mosque doesn't mean she will become a good wife. In fact, some of them are even worse than we could ever imagine. Guys just need to be very careful so as not to be deceived by these ladies lifestyle because even the perceived wayward ladies may actually be the best wife.
8. Body stature
When you ask question to guys on how they want the body stature of their girlfriend or wife to be, you will hear funny answers such as "I don't want orobo or too skinny ladies o", "I can't marry a muscular lady because she won't be romantic and will end up beating me", etc. Lol, anyway what if you marry your preferred body stature and she turns out to be a nightmare in marriage?
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Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by wristbangle: 6:39pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
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Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by dollyjoy(f): 6:40pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
LORDSAMURAI: WHAT is this one typing? no iota of sense in your post, no sense at all, who have ever fallen in love with a girl just because she is a good cook? that means we all should fall for every cook in a restaurant. "ur post makes no sense at all, well u too have no brain so im not suprise. you can do better.why insult her cos ur opinion differ from hers? Btw,the way to a man's heart is food,most guys can kill for a good cook |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by wristbangle: 6:41pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
Speechless3: Yes they have been largely compromised speaking from experience haven been a victim so many times. I am becomimg careful these days. And i think people shouldnt rush to use just any cream except they have gathered enough information on them. Heya, but how will they know? Besides how many skin doctors(dermatologist) do we have in Nigeria and even we have, how many people can afford to pay for their services t check which cream is appropriate for the skin |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by skywalker240(m): 6:42pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
Michellla: 4. Experienced in several sex
positions The world has gone weird that you
will hear some guys saying they
cannot date/marry a lady who is not
experienced in sex let alone a virgin
lady. Most guys are obsessed with
ladies who during love making give them scissors-kick style, cow girl,
reverse cow, hot doggy, girl style,
devastating Mouth Action etc.
and when you show them all them skills they'd tag you a hoe
Befor nko?
Who taught you d skillsh |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by wristbangle: 6:46pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
misspicy: cooking skills
some guys will go crazy for a good cook,forgetting that relationship/marriage is not all about food,they might even let go of a gentle and beautiful lady all for food,and the cook might end up been a very wicked woman,then they will start regretting,this happens mostly to guys we know as FFO(for food only) What about people like me that are FFO fan? |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by skywalker240(m): 6:48pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
i agree with u on this we need to change some of our views on our idea women to avoid stories dat touch d ass Expecting the counter thread soon |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by misspicy(f): 6:50pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
dollyjoy: you can do better.why insult her cos ur opinion differ from hers?
Btw,the way to a man's heart is food,most guys can kill for a good cook My dear that goat is just a trolling,don't engage a fool na |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by menabae(f): 6:50pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
tosyne2much: OP, you are so on point.. Lemme add my own to the list
9. Tight Kitty-Cat
I can't but smh each time I see saying they can't date a lady whose kitty-cat is loose.. All I know is that it's not kitty-cat that defines a lady.. Whether it's as wide as Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, it doesn't matter.. A lady might have a tight kitty-cat and won't make a good wife while a lady might have a loose kitty-cat and will make a good wife
10. Walking Steps
Just because a lady can cat-walk like Beyonce, some guys go wan die on top her neck.. All I know is that it doesn't matter how a lady walks, whether she walks sideways like a crab, or she walks slowly like a tortoise; all that matter is true love lol@ crab walk |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by Nobody: 6:51pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
dollyjoy: you can do better.why insult her cos ur opinion differ from hers?
Btw,the way to a man's heart is food,most guys can kill for a good cook MCHEEEEW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! a way to a man's heart is not food, he can eat a good food in a restaurant. |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by kayswag726: 6:52pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
misspicy: cooking skills
some guys will go crazy for a good cook,forgetting that relationship/marriage is not all about food,they might even let go of a gentle and beautiful lady all for food,and the cook might end up been a very wicked woman,then they will start regretting,this happens mostly to guys we know as FFO(for food only) Y will a girl not know how to cook?? I can date a girl who dnt know how to cook but I can't marry one |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by kayswag726: 6:54pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
LORDSAMURAI: MCHEEEEW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! a way to a man's heart is not food, he can eat a good food in a restaurant. I disagree with this, so you and ur wife will spend ur entire life time eating in a restaurant |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by dollyjoy(f): 6:55pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
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Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by misspicy(f): 6:56pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
wristbangle:
What about people like me that are FFO fan? make sure your criteria should be met in the lady not about her cooking skills alone,to avoid stories that touch the bumbum |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by Nobody: 6:58pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
kayswag726:
I disagree with this, so you and ur wife will spend ur entire life time eating in a restaurant BRO u misunderstood me, my wife is a good cook do not mean i love her bcaus she is a good cook, she can be a bad cook and i will still love her. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by wristbangle: 6:59pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
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Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by misspicy(f): 7:02pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
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Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by wristbangle: 7:02pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
misspicy:
make sure your criteria should be met in the lady not about her cooking skills alone,to avoid stories that touch the bumbum Lol. So what criteria are u talking about now? Lalasticlala, kindly place this article for wider view |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by misspicy(f): 7:10pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
wristbangle:
Lol. So what criteria are u talking about now?
Lalasticlala, kindly place this article for wider view
I should ask you that |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by Nobody: 7:11pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
@tosyne2much, that your no 9 ehhh.. Could help but LOL |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by wristbangle: 7:35pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
skywalker240: i agree with u on this we need to change some of our views on our idea women to avoid stories dat touch d ass
Expecting the counter thread soon Will u do the honour to drop it? |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by Abbeyunique2(m): 7:56pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
tosyne2much: OP, you are so on point.. Lemme add my own to the list
9. Tight Kitty-Cat
I can't but smh each time I see saying they can't date a lady whose kitty-cat is loose.. All I know is that it's not kitty-cat that defines a lady.. Whether it's as wide as Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, it doesn't matter.. A lady might have a tight kitty-cat and won't make a good wife while a lady might have a loose kitty-cat and will make a good wife
10. Walking Steps
Just because a lady can cat-walk like Beyonce, some guys go wan die on top her neck.. All I know is that it doesn't matter how a lady walks, whether she walks sideways like a crab, or she walks slowly like a tortoise; all that matter is true love Crab walk with bow/k leg |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by tosyne2much(m): 8:03pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
adepeter26: @tosyne,2much, that your no 9 ehhh..
Could help but LOL No mind me jawe.. The thing funny shey? |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by banmee(m): 8:10pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
I agree with the OP. My weakness was/is legs and a well formed ass. The thing don hook me for throat now. Almost 15 years and she still has me wrapped around her finger. Gaddeemmiit!!!! |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by ElPere(m): 8:11pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
Boooooobs!! |
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Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by klassykute(m): 8:11pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
Michellla: Gigantic Butt and Bosoms I believe that what defines a lady is not the size of butts and bosoms but tell this to some guys and watch them tear you to pieces. Once a lady has huge bosoms and backside, they don't care if her attitude is bad or not. They will try to gain her love and at the end of the day, they will end up regretting because the lady in question only has huge bosoms and but nothing upstairs. that na lust nahhh ... guys likes good tin .. mi like big tinz sha but but nt sayin lekpa bad .. my sist na lekpa |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by Nobody: 8:12pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
Michellla: Gigantic Butt and Bosoms I believe that what defines a lady is not the size of butts and bosoms but tell this to some guys and watch them tear you to pieces. Once a lady has huge bosoms and backside, they don't care if her attitude is bad or not. They will try to gain her love and at the end of the day, they will end up regretting because the lady in question only has huge bosoms and but nothing upstairs. so what else should we look for? So do you have em big big? |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by Euckybaby(f): 8:14pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
Una try |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by tosyne2much(m): 8:16pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
bqlekan:
why not, if i can date a lady with tatoo, why not one with tribal marks.. sometimes, they are more of a woman compared to the regular ladies out there.. .. my orientation changed when dad told me how i escaped being given tribal mark... Me I no escape the tribal mark oooo... I've got slight ones on my face |
Re: 8 Misplaced Attributes Guys Check In A Lady That Land Them Into Bad Relationship by noblegrex: 8:19pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
tosyne2much: OP, you are so on point.. Lemme add my own to the list
9. Tight Kitty-Cat
I can't but smh each time I see saying they can't date a lady whose kitty-cat is loose.. All I know is that it's not kitty-cat that defines a lady.. However, it doesn't matter whether it's as wide as Lagos-Ibadan Expressway. A lady might have a tight kitty-cat and won't make a good wife while a lady might have a loose kitty-cat and will make a good wife. This implies that the tightness of kitty-cats has led many dude into wrong choice
10. Walking Steps
I have no atom of regard for guys who lose their right sense of reasoning when they see a lady cat-walking like Beyonce, and will wan to die on top her neck.. All I know is that it doesn't matter how a lady walks, whether she walks sideways like a crab, or she walks slowly like a tortoise; all that matter is true love go ahead and marry a cripple.its your choise, and damn you if you don't marry ashawo. |