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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by iPopAlomo(m): 10:51am On Mar 05, 2016
repogirl:
If you like, wear jalabiya and hijab, a rapist is a rapist.


Prevention ooo... use your brain... prevent such situations ooo... how is that hard to comprehend...?!
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by tranxo(m): 10:52am On Mar 05, 2016
In the issue of rape, like poles attract, most of the time.

We all have sexual beasts inside of us, man and woman.

When a woman dresses almost na.ked and suggestively, she is revealing the sexual beast in her.

When a man sees this state of nu.dity, the sexual beast in him manifests.

This is the basics. This is the reality. This is the norm.

Only a sensible and God fearing man or woman will know how to surpress these sexual beasts.

Ask most girls, they will tell you that their bodies are the most important thing they own. But I wonder, we build houses, sometimes with prison walls and gates, because we do not want to expose our cherised properties to thieves.

And yet we tell ourselves that exposing our bodies should not attract rapists. Well, till that time when every potential rapist becomes born again, the solution remains in not doing those things that attract the wrong attention.

By the way, rape also occurs between girl and girl, and man and man. Don't get it twisted. Women also rape men.

I salute the sensible LADIES that have spoken well here.

Shalom.

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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by johndwayy(m): 10:52am On Mar 05, 2016
@Estherfabian
Very sensible and matured comment.... Some foolish girls won't learn now.
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by sinaj(f): 10:56am On Mar 05, 2016
omostar:


He is saying the truth. A rapist is sick so, you do your very best to avoid him simple.

Really?



Pls tell me how do recognize a rapist when u see one



Wanna know ow to avoid him
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by PissedOffWeed(m): 10:56am On Mar 05, 2016
sinaj:
Who knows how many he has raped b4




Rape has nothing to do with dressing, Itz just a sickness that needs to be treated.
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Blatant Lie of the century!!!!!!!!
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by tranxo(m): 10:58am On Mar 05, 2016
ShiroSan:
Nothing should justify rape.

Women should see fit to express themselves in whatever way they desire, so should men.

Rape and rapists are a menace to society and must be uprooted.
How. What is your solution?
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by tranxo(m): 11:00am On Mar 05, 2016
sinaj:


Really?



Pls tell me how do recognize a rapist when u see one



Wanna know ow to avoid him

Go out na.ked, they will be the ones to recognize you. They will save you the stress of recognizing them cos they will recognize you - willing prey.

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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by tuffgongjo(m): 11:03am On Mar 05, 2016
Women wey con dey rape na nko?
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by gagewonda(m): 11:05am On Mar 05, 2016
The OAP is 100% ryt. I also agree dat even nuns that cover completely could be victims of rape as well as minors also... bt rationally speaking even within d hearts of all dos ladies bashing him, dey knw its true...modest dressing goes a long way in preventing rape. U dont expect to display ur boobs in d street nd don't get assulted one way or anoda...bt hey I've stopped arguing wit women a long time ago cos majority of dem don't argue rationally just like d ones bashing d OAP
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by repogirl(f): 11:10am On Mar 05, 2016
iPopAlomo:



Prevention ooo... use your brain... prevent such situations ooo... how is that hard to comprehend...?!

prevent what? A rapist is a rapist, that's the point.

You guys are looking for excuses to justify a rape attack. A decent guy will not touch a girl even if she's in underwear as far as she is unwilling and says NO.

Use your own sense, except you don't have any.

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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by Nobody: 11:18am On Mar 05, 2016
Hian some people are funny oo. See the way they are saying things like "what arouses a man is so and so", "indecency can push a man" bla bla bla. So because a man is aroused, he therefore has the right to rape that person abi? I guess none of the people that say this have ever had someone close to them get raped so its easy to talk rubbish. Are men animals that women have to try their hardest to not provoke them? What has this world come to?
What then would you say about the one that rapes a child? Oh wait I know....the same people will say the child is spoilt, or she wanted it or something ridiculous. Its sickening.
What about the women who wear full covering clothes like niqaabs and Burkas. You can't even see a single part of their body yet a lot of them get raped daily.
Stop justifying rape because you are only giving potential rapists an excuse to go ahead and rape!!

So all women should live in fear?
So if you have money to buy a Lamborghini, you should go and buy keke instead and pretend to be poor just so that you won't get robbed?
What kind of life is that? Rapists should be punished accordingly

I'm not saying modesty is bad or that indecency is okay but what I'm saying is that regardless of how a woman dresses, she does not deserve to be raped.

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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by MadCow1: 11:23am On Mar 05, 2016
That OAP should be fired
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by bodyloveghetto(m): 11:25am On Mar 05, 2016
Decker:
When this kind of discussion is raised, a lot of people argue that a rapist would rape any woman, irrespective of how she dresses. But one thing these people fail to understand is that_nudity or dressing indecently, sexually arouses a man and intensifies his desire and drive to have sex.
If a sexual offender who isn't in the mood to have sex, sees a woman dress indecently, he is immediately flooded with the compulsion to have sex with her. And due to his lack of self control and his believe of being personally inadequate to get the quick permission to have sex with her normal way, he submits to forceful desecration and defilement of her body.

I am not justifying rape, but women should be cautious and endeavor to stay away from anything that can lead to harm being done to them.
You can't dress provocatively at night and walk alone on a lonely street and expect not to get sexually harassed or raped.


You nailed it....
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by Wallade(m): 11:25am On Mar 05, 2016
May I ask all the ladies on this thread a questoon: why do prostitites dress skimpy when at work? Why do they parade themselves half unclad in revealing clothes? Don't you think they have studied the male psychology and observed that men are moved by what they see.

Let's have no ignorant or stupid lady defending indecent dressing.

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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by atoleybaba(m): 11:26am On Mar 05, 2016
sinaj:
Who knows how many he has raped b4




Rape has nothing to do with dressing, Itz just a sickness that needs to be treated.
it is one of the factors that causes rape...u people won't hear word. It is like standing in a den is not a good reason y lion should eat me at least I av right to stand anywre

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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by 1miccza: 11:26am On Mar 05, 2016
repogirl:
prevent what? A rapist is a rapist, that's the point.

You guys are looking for excuses to justify a rape attack. A decent guy will not touch a girl even if she's in underwear as far as she is unwilling and says NO.

Use your own sense, except you don't have any.

The rate at which guyz tend to succumb to sexual urges these days is really alarming. Where has self control gone to please?

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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by atoleybaba(m): 11:28am On Mar 05, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Even a nun can be raped . Its not about dressing indecently alone, Children are raped too



A rapist will act as one irrespective of the clothes you put on .
they are not saying indecent dressing is d main cause for rape. Dy said it is one of the factors...ladies can make d factors that lead to rape minus one by dressing decently

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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by Wallade(m): 11:31am On Mar 05, 2016
1miccza:


The rate at which guyz tend to succumb to sexual urges these days is really alarming. Where has self control gone to please?

That is not enough reason for ladies to tempt the men with indecent dresses while expecting him to control his sexual urges.

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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by repogirl(f): 11:31am On Mar 05, 2016
1miccza:


The rate at which guyz tend to succumb to sexual urges these days is really alarming. Where has self control gone to please?
exactly.
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by atoleybaba(m): 11:32am On Mar 05, 2016
Adonis3:



lol.. Sure


Buh dressing decently is a good way to prevent it



It is not possible to get rid of all rapists


So don't go on saying "even if I'm naked, it gives you no right to touch me"


Because there are people who just wouldn't listen


And you'll be the one to bear the trauma.


It's just like saying "even if I choose to walk at night, it gives you no right to rob me"


Wetin consign thief consign right


The same way nothing consign rapist consign whether you give am right or not!



Dress decently and you've reduced your chances of being raped.


There are people who get robbed during the day, but not walking late reduces your chances of being robbed or harmed.


Use common sense!


#Adonis3HasSopken
or telling a cultiist in school that u av right to wear black and yellow and whatever colour dy forbid. cheesy they would av killed u before u come back to ur senses

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Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by Adesiji77: 11:34am On Mar 05, 2016
Decker:
When this kind of discussion is raised, a lot of people argue that a rapist would rape any woman, irrespective of how she dresses. But one thing these people fail to understand is that_nudity or dressing indecently, sexually arouses a man and intensifies his desire and drive to have sex.
If a sexual offender who isn't in the mood to have sex, sees a woman dress indecently, he is immediately flooded with the compulsion to have sex with her. And due to his lack of self control and his believe of being personally inadequate to get the quick permission to have sex with her normal way, he submits to forceful desecration and defilement of her body.

I am not justifying rape, but women should be cautious and endeavor to stay away from anything that can lead to harm being done to them.
You can't dress provocatively at night and walk alone on a lonely street and expect not to get sexually harassed or raped.

You have spoken well. She who has ears should hear...or continue to live in denial.
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by atoleybaba(m): 11:35am On Mar 05, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Your comment was convincing me until I saw your last sentence.

So your common sense did not tell you there are different types of rape and their causes are different. undecided


Predator rape for example which involves the use of drugs. It isnt a violent one yet it is rape. And in this case indecent dressing is not really the cause.



Indecent dressing can of course trigger rape but not in all cases.




Now you use common sense. !!!



don't try to act smart with ur comment "predator rape?" Anyways those rapist who drug their victims could av also done that cause dre victim had once dressed indecently and thereby planted evil intentions in them so...
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by 1miccza: 11:37am On Mar 05, 2016
Wallade:


That is not enough reason for ladies to tempt the men with indecent dresses while expecting him to control his sexual urges.

Well even if they do,the self controlled man would stand his ground
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by Wallade(m): 11:44am On Mar 05, 2016
1miccza:


Well even if they do,the self controlled man would stand his ground

How many men can resist the temptations of a woman? Even the fall of Adam, though orchestrated by the devil, was initiated by the woman (Eve).
You must recognize that women have always been an effective tool against or for the will of God in the life of a man.
It is so easy for a man to loose control and discipline around a perverted woman.
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by atoleybaba(m): 11:45am On Mar 05, 2016
gabbytabby:
The question I always put to any man who argues on the modesty issue to justify rape is how many people have you raped because of the way they dressed cos we need to be aware of people who need psychiatric help amongs us so that we can see that they get it.
well according to sociologists all men have tend3ncy of committing crime(including rape) mind u there are diff types of rapist. Rapist are sick people dy need psychiatric help just like robbers and every other criminals just like locking ur door to reduce been robbed, is also d same way a lady should dress well to reduce d chances of been raped. In my class, my lecturer teaching crime and delinqucy does not let a lady dressing inappropriately into her class cos it is a delinquent act to dress in a provocative manner it is against d cultural norms
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by mike76chi: 11:45am On Mar 05, 2016
People and their opinions. Indecent dressing is the major factor in pushing to the fore cases of Rape. The truth is the truth.
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by Jacko01: 11:48am On Mar 05, 2016
Rape is not a crime among yorubas and hausas.... If yorubas rape some1 ppl say


Mmm mmm
E file... Obinrin to ma dress bi beyonce.. Wo ma rape e
E fi bobo ye ile... Kilode ni rape pa pa e file jor
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by kay29000(m): 11:51am On Mar 05, 2016
Decker:
When this kind of discussion is raised, a lot of people argue that a rapist would rape any woman, irrespective of how she dresses. But one thing these people fail to understand is that_nudity or dressing indecently, sexually arouses a man and intensifies his desire and drive to have sex.
If a sexual offender who isn't in the mood to have sex, sees a woman dress indecently, he is immediately flooded with the compulsion to have sex with her. And due to his lack of self control and his believe of being personally inadequate to get the quick permission to have sex with her normal way, he submits to forceful desecration and defilement of her body.

I am not justifying rape, but women should be cautious and endeavor to stay away from anything that can lead to harm being done to them.
You can't dress provocatively at night and walk alone on a lonely street and expect not to get sexually harassed or raped.

God bless you. But our ladies will be busy forming feminist and won't reason with this fact.
Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by Nobody: 11:52am On Mar 05, 2016
iPopAlomo:


First time I agree with you on anything...
LoL!grin


well, good for yah! grin
I tend to be very unorthodox In my views.

Re: OAP @Mayourspeaks's Opinion On Rape Sets Twitter On Fire by Nobody: 11:54am On Mar 05, 2016
johndwayy:
@Estherfabian
Very sensible and matured comment.... Some foolish girls won't learn now.
smiley Gracias! undecided



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