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Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by kajoula(m): 9:12am On Mar 11, 2016

Smellymouth:
And what are lagos girls becoming??

OIL DIGGERS?

WE ARE ALSO INTO 'GOLD MINING' BUSINESS....take note grin

who nor like netter thing ?

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by donbenedict(m): 9:13am On Mar 11, 2016

HateU2:
Close ur eyes to that .
Missing ur ex is a way of moving on

alright.

And hey, I wasn't tryna be jealous cheesy

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Toks2008(m): 9:14am On Mar 11, 2016

donbenedict:
I neva said u should jump into an affair with her. A date isn't an affair. It's where two people meet in person to have a mutual discussion. Since u say u are thrilled by her creativity, I see no crime in u two gettn to be friends offline...

Unfortunately according to wiki..a date is a specific day in the world's calender while dating is pure romance between two people.

But for offline friendship,i actually extended a hand of friendship and we are already friends offline.

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by omoharry(f): 9:15am On Mar 11, 2016

My sister, thank you for this thread..this is whati have been trying to tell our nairaland guys but they keep teasing and mocking the ladies..majority of guys are gold diggers now.. they are no longer the men with pride and ego will use to know them with...they are now boys in mens skin..i have seen a number of them, vain searching for women to see if you are within the class they expect of you, then they will immediately start dating;before you say jack, they have proposed...its is very fast for this rich girls or those from rich family to be propose to than the struggling girls that are independent..i weep for our men,....i have given up hope on them..seriously.Though there are some that still have thier pride and ego intact such guys are very very responsible.but they are reare just the way guys are complaining that wife material are reare..Such guys go about thier activities without beggers before thier girl friends...the only time they will comfortably take money from you is when things avery critical and there is no alternative to get it from.Such men wont ask the women before they step in to support becos they know who he is.unlike thier hungry male guys that have thrown thier pride over board for a pot of portage...this is very common with Lagos guys.they lack respect for women and they are grossly inresponsible.I am reaslly disgusted at them..and feel sorry for the victime.

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Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by 9Too: 9:22am On Mar 11, 2016

Jadekitana:
I'm quite disappointed seeing the way guys in lagos behave these days! This thread is based on stories i'v heard from friends and my experience as well.

Recently a friend in access bank borrowed her boyfriend 800k to start a business but got the shocking news that her boyfriend of 3years has eloped to UK without a trace.

As a pretty tall lady I get to have a lot of these guys as "toasters" even though i'm not always interested but I always have one or 2 things to add to my smartness. These are the questions an average lagos guy ask these days:

1) where do you live? Island or mainland
Once they hear lekki, oniru, ajah the next question is "do u live alone" if the answer is no, you would instantly see the disappointment but if it's yes, the next question is "when am I visiting, hope u cook well, is it a flat or self-con, I would sleep over o......... you can imagine!

2) where do you work? If they hear kpmg,gtb,acceSs, chevron etc instantly they become available for dating! They discharge any side chick to avoid complications as they wouldn't have to spend a dime on you.

If they hear: sorry i'm an applicant or a company that pays 40k e go be later for that babe

3) Do u have a car? Dude seriously? U wanna be driving my car? I buy fuel with my hard earned money while you park yours and you think i'm gonna release my keys to you to tour round lagos? Have a re-think.

4) what's your net worth? How much do you have in your account? How much do they pay you! Trust me they have other ways to check. I once dated a guy who called his cousin in my company to confirm how much I earn. Next thing he started complaining about low funds,how he needed to get a house bla bla bla. I kicked his ass to the curbs!

5) what do your parents do? Are they retired? Does your dad have companies? How many are you guys? Are u the first daughter(to know if u entitled to properties) how many cars do they have? Does your dad play gulf? Is he a member of polo club? no be only polo club na palmwine drinkers club e dey, rubbish!

Have you been out of the country before?? Yes dude i'v been to Somalia, that's abroad as well

Ladies who have no experience in relationship matters or those who are blinded by love tend to talk too much and become victims of these scammers. Next thing u hear is baby we must get married this year, I must settle down with you, this is my last bus stop, u are everything I want in a woman, meeeeen u'v got class babe, and the mumu would be blushing and putting his pics on BlackBerry and instagram with #mybooforages

Fast forward 3months later, u start hearing stories like I borrowed the ediot 300k he eloped, he took my 500k and when I asked he threatened to release my nude pictures etc

So these days it's all a game,the smart ones scale through! It not just ladies who do all that,guys have now adopted this new style and a lot get away with it. So y'all should not come here weeping and wailing about ladies, guys now have a degree in gold digging although some just enrolled in the university of gold diggers, others now have masters and phd.

aunty Janette always trashing guys.

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Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by donbenedict(m): 9:23am On Mar 11, 2016

Toks2008:
Unfortunately according to wiki..a date is a specific day in the world's calender while dating is pure romance between two people.

But for offline friendship,i actually extended a hand of friendship and we are already friends offline.

dnt always rely on everything u read on wiki... I can come up wit anythn and post on wiki also.

Well, I gues our chat ends here.

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by omoharry(f): 9:23am On Mar 11, 2016

enoch273:
Okay just read through, although girls are still the worst, the degree they ve in these gold digging is out of this world..

Well I checked you out and damn! You are beautiful, I hope you don't mind if we become friends? Here is my digit: 08179538301......

my brother, we are women and we seen alot of guys exhibit these things before our eye..you cannot quantify it since you are a man here..you should take it from us women that out of 100% of guys in lagos, 65% are like what the op descripe..vain, lazy..grossly inresponsible and dubious. they are very fake and Lazy..they do not have shame...i have seen alot of them and i will tell you that in as much as you accuse us ladies of comitting things like this..your comrade are also found wanting in this gold digging business..wish is very shameful..men should ahve thier pride and ego intact..they should not be founding wanting less they shouldnt be called men but she-men

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Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by wrongnumber: 9:24am On Mar 11, 2016*

Toks2008:
Unfortunately according to wiki..a date is a specific day in the world's calender while dating is pure romance between two people.

But for offline friendship,i actually extended a hand of friendship and we are already friends offline.

maka why

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by wrongnumber: 9:26am On Mar 11, 2016

Jadekitana:
I'm quite disappointed seeing the way guys in lagos behave these days! This thread is based on stories i'v heard from friends and my experience as well.

Recently a friend in access bank borrowed her boyfriend 800k to start a business but got the shocking news that her boyfriend of 3years has eloped to UK without a trace.

As a pretty tall lady I get to have a lot of these guys as "toasters" even though i'm not always interested but I always have one or 2 things to add to my smartness. These are the questions an average lagos guy ask these days:

1) where do you live? Island or mainland
Once they hear lekki, oniru, ajah the next question is "do u live alone" if the answer is no, you would instantly see the disappointment but if it's yes, the next question is "when am I visiting, hope u cook well, is it a flat or self-con, I would sleep over o......... you can imagine!

2) where do you work? If they hear kpmg,gtb,acceSs, chevron etc instantly they become available for dating! They discharge any side chick to avoid complications as they wouldn't have to spend a dime on you.

If they hear: sorry i'm an applicant or a company that pays 40k e go be later for that babe

3) Do u have a car? Dude seriously? U wanna be driving my car? I buy fuel with my hard earned money while you park yours and you think i'm gonna release my keys to you to tour round lagos? Have a re-think.

4) what's your net worth? How much do you have in your account? How much do they pay you! Trust me they have other ways to check. I once dated a guy who called his cousin in my company to confirm how much I earn. Next thing he started complaining about low funds,how he needed to get a house bla bla bla. I kicked his ass to the curbs!

5) what do your parents do? Are they retired? Does your dad have companies? How many are you guys? Are u the first daughter(to know if u entitled to properties) how many cars do they have? Does your dad play gulf? Is he a member of polo club? no be only polo club na palmwine drinkers club e dey, rubbish!

Have you been out of the country before?? Yes dude i'v been to Somalia, that's abroad as well

Ladies who have no experience in relationship matters or those who are blinded by love tend to talk too much and become victims of these scammers. Next thing u hear is baby we must get married this year, I must settle down with you, this is my last bus stop, u are everything I want in a woman, meeeeen u'v got class babe, and the mumu would be blushing and putting his pics on BlackBerry and instagram with #mybooforages

Fast forward 3months later, u start hearing stories like I borrowed the ediot 300k he eloped, he took my 500k and when I asked he threatened to release my nude pictures etc

So these days it's all a game,the smart ones scale through! It not just ladies who do all that,guys have now adopted this new style and a lot get away with it. So y'all should not come here weeping and wailing about ladies, guys now have a degree in gold digging although some just enrolled in the university of gold diggers, others now have masters and phd.

Konny girl die konny man bury am.No be only women sabi the game abeg.

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by omoharry(f): 9:27am On Mar 11, 2016

ebubemicky:
Guys hustle hard I mean real hard. If a woman feed u bros u are finished

Pls tell them ooo! that was how one guy that i met kept asking me to call him. but he never one day called..he only send email..he is working and not jobless for that matter..what do you say to such men..i blocked him immediately..

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Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Jaydenphoenix: 9:27am On Mar 11, 2016

Jadekitana:
I'm quite disappointed seeing the way guys in lagos behave these days! This thread is based on stories i'v heard from friends and my experience as well.

Recently a friend in access bank borrowed her boyfriend 800k to start a business but got the shocking news that her boyfriend of 3years has eloped to UK without a trace.

As a pretty tall lady I get to have a lot of these guys as "toasters" even though i'm not always interested but I always have one or 2 things to add to my smartness. These are the questions an average lagos guy ask these days:

1) where do you live? Island or mainland
Once they hear lekki, oniru, ajah the next question is "do u live alone" if the answer is no, you would instantly see the disappointment but if it's yes, the next question is "when am I visiting, hope u cook well, is it a flat or self-con, I would sleep over o......... you can imagine!

2) where do you work? If they hear kpmg,gtb,acceSs, chevron etc instantly they become available for dating! They discharge any side chick to avoid complications as they wouldn't have to spend a dime on you.

If they hear: sorry i'm an applicant or a company that pays 40k e go be later for that babe

3) Do u have a car? Dude seriously? U wanna be driving my car? I buy fuel with my hard earned money while you park yours and you think i'm gonna release my keys to you to tour round lagos? Have a re-think.

4) what's your net worth? How much do you have in your account? How much do they pay you! Trust me they have other ways to check. I once dated a guy who called his cousin in my company to confirm how much I earn. Next thing he started complaining about low funds,how he needed to get a house bla bla bla. I kicked his ass to the curbs!

5) what do your parents do? Are they retired? Does your dad have companies? How many are you guys? Are u the first daughter(to know if u entitled to properties) how many cars do they have? Does your dad play gulf? Is he a member of polo club? no be only polo club na palmwine drinkers club e dey, rubbish!

Have you been out of the country before?? Yes dude i'v been to Somalia, that's abroad as well

Ladies who have no experience in relationship matters or those who are blinded by love tend to talk too much and become victims of these scammers. Next thing u hear is baby we must get married this year, I must settle down with you, this is my last bus stop, u are everything I want in a woman, meeeeen u'v got class babe, and the mumu would be blushing and putting his pics on BlackBerry and instagram with #mybooforages

Fast forward 3months later, u start hearing stories like I borrowed the ediot 300k he eloped, he took my 500k and when I asked he threatened to release my nude pictures etc

So these days it's all a game,the smart ones scale through! It not just ladies who do all that,guys have now adopted this new style and a lot get away with it. So y'all should not come here weeping and wailing about ladies, guys now have a degree in gold digging although some just enrolled in the university of gold diggers, others now have masters and phd.

I do understand you but I feel it applies to both men and women.
I think it's best to just find your level n decide once you see certain traits.
Oh and never borrow someone what you can't afford to give.
Cheers....

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Toks2008(m): 9:29am On Mar 11, 2016

wrongnumber:
Na wa o,Bros toks and aunty jadekitana go be powerful pair o.grammer jam grammer and brain jam brain and wait o.two of them sef fine well well.I dey watch una for 5d

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Nobody: 9:30am On Mar 11, 2016

donbenedict:
alright.

And hey, I wasn't tryna be jealous

U ar d most understanding guy i've ever met kiss

.
How was ur 9t?

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by donbenedict(m): 9:31am On Mar 11, 2016

HateU2:
U ar d most understanding guy i've ever met .
How was ur 9t?

I ddnt sleep much embarassed

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Nobody: 9:32am On Mar 11, 2016

[quote author=Toks2008 post=43669891][/quote]Here u ar

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by wrongnumber: 9:32am On Mar 11, 2016

[quote author=Toks2008 post=43669891][/quote]I don talk my own.

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Nobody: 9:34am On Mar 11, 2016

donbenedict:
I ddnt sleep much

warrapen

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by 9Too: 9:36am On Mar 11, 2016

Monalisa185:
my dear, I swear you get time and energy to waste... she's obviously a learner

u better take your nose back cos I won't assist the searching team

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by donbenedict(m): 9:36am On Mar 11, 2016

HateU2:
warrapen

was studyn.,

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Mavor: 9:36am On Mar 11, 2016

Jadekitana:
Your opinion is been used presently to clean my dogs anus

The way you talk shows your level of maturity. Too bad for you. Does this by any chance have anything to do with the guy who took you to a strip club? -->https://www.nairaland.com/2959825/he-guts-take-me-strip

Suddenly all Lagos guys are gold diggers. How much you get sef? Joker!

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Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by donbenedict(m): 9:38am On Mar 11, 2016

omoharry:
Pls tell them ooo! that was how one guy that i met kept asking me to call him. but he never one day called..he only send email..he is working and not jobless for that matter..what do you say to such men..i blocked him immediately..

and if the frequently call, they will b tagged jobless

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Monalisa185(f): 9:38am On Mar 11, 2016

9Too:
u better take your nose back cos I won't assist the searching team

lol, nose wey I don put for pocket since...

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by donbenedict(m): 9:40am On Mar 11, 2016

Mavor:
The way you talk shows your level of maturity. Too bad for you. Does this by any chance have anything to do with the guy who took you to a strip club? -->https://www.nairaland.com/2959825/he-guts-take-me-strip

Suddenly all Lagos guys are gold diggers. How much you get sef? Joker!

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Jadekitana(op): 9:42am On Mar 11, 2016

9Too:
aunty Janette always trashing guys.

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Nobody: 9:43am On Mar 11, 2016

omoharry:
Pls tell them ooo! that was how one guy that i met kept asking me to call him. but he never one day called..he only send email..he is working and not jobless for that matter..what do you say to such men..i blocked him immediately..

that's very good. Don't give a little space for any stingy guy. How much is air time that he can't even get 100 naira airtime to call u. Thanks for blocking his silly ass. Seriously guys need to wake up

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Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by dyn1800: 9:43am On Mar 11, 2016

CORRECT! ONE LOVE

Monalisa185:
hehehehe, you still be my person na...all join

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Dahveydson(m): 9:43am On Mar 11, 2016

Jadekitana, why did you change your pp? undecided

Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by omoharry(f): 9:47am On Mar 11, 2016

Jadekitana:
Ph guys don't have wahala as most of them ain't pretenders! But unfortunately I can't say same for lagos guys, the hustle to live big is real not minding what it would cost.

in concur with your statement..you really nailed it

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Re: Lagos Guys Are Becoming Gold Diggers by Jadekitana(op): 9:55am On Mar 11, 2016

Toks2008 I just feel these lengthy explanations ain't necessary! U attracted to my level of IQ right? Fine I get what you trying to say but mind you there was never anywhere I indicated you were tripping. I haven't even thought about such, this is a faceless forum, we haven't met, you don't know me so I really don't know why u emphasising on the "oh i'm not tripping,its her IQ, if she ain't interested in friendship I walk out". Mind you before joining this forum I made up my mind not to associate with ANYBODY offline! And I haven't changed that. I broke that rule and gave you a private call. You must understand that this friendship u talking about is gonna be at my own pace and if u ain't patient enough.....well too bad, I don't rush things. I'm quite disappointed with the way u'v been going on and on here, I really don't understand where this is coming from. Anyway i'm a very private person, we have brought this issue to the public enough, I would call at night to thrash things maturedly.

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