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Angelberry:
I won't reply now, good you already know that

Smellymouth:
Lol.. maybe I should ask for ur digits..
I know she might say-" he is asking for too much..".Lol. But we should stop derailin threads. Or what do u think??

kenonze:
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I Don't care if he cheats or not.
We are human. We shld show respect to one another.
Put yourself in the shoes of the Innocent girl he invited, undressed and fingered only to tell the girl he cant finish up what he started

Thylord:
According to you,you guys did some romance and touching and she was in cloud9 and probably you are in cloud19 ,are you sure that in the process of that romance and touching you did not ejaculate prematurely on your boxers,and knowing fully well that it will take you like one hour and some minutes to come back to life,you quickly discharge the girl so that you will not expose you weaknesses and you are here forming faithfulness to one girl wa one correct guyman go day scratch her congo republic properly.my friend go and treat yourself of premature ejaculation and stop cooking lies on a public forum like dis.

grad2012:
#Big hug for you,pls don't tell what went down between you an that lady.

corperscorner:
Its been a couple of months since my girlfriend traveled and the frequent rain fall haven't really been helping matters. I initially felt I could contain my urge but sometimes it gets out of hand (GUYS WOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER).

So yesterday, I decided to invite a particular girl over, she happens to have been hoping I would do that a long time though.

To cut the long story short, the touching began and it got to the stage where she gave in and allowed me pull off her entire outfit.....like down to the last. At this point, it must have been so certain to her that we were going to get down.....

But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed through my mind how my girlfriend would call frequently and how she would often profess her love for me.......the fact that we've grown to become an item over time made me feel a prick in my conscience and all of a sudden I started feeling disgusted with myself. While these activities were going on in my head, this particular girl that came over had already arrived cloud 9....waiting for me to 'enter the place'. But somehow, I was able to knock senses into my head and attempted to help her back into her outfit while she completed the process herself. (IT TOOK AN EFFORT - BLIV ME)

She turned to me and asked? 'Whats the problem?'...........I said 'nothing, its not happening'. Then she pulled away hurriedly and vowed never to visit me again. I was really glad but concealed this so it would not be obvious though.

Anyways, with all that past me now........one thing I can say is that. I have no regrets and if any at all, it would be inviting her to come over in the first place. I realized we guys can be faithful, it only takes a little effort towards self control. I called my girlfriend a few minutes after the drama and we spoke at length for close to an hour..............and from the conversation, all I could deduce was......I care about her feelings much more than I thought.

DIKEnaWAR:
Your girl would cheat once a man get her out of the last piece of clothing on her, cos she'd think what the heck, he has seen it all. She'd only vow not to do it again if it wasn't better than what she has with you. Woe betide you if it turns out to be better.


There is a level you will cross with a woman and there will be no turning back for her. Once she starts pleading that you understand why she doesn't want to do it; she has surrendered. Once you reach that level, yank off the remaining piece of clothing, adorn your helmet and start shooting like you are in Sambisa forest. They can pretend to regret after; the next time, they'll be pleading that they abandoned someone for you and you shouldn't toy with their heart. If a woman doesn't want to shag you, she will not let the opportunity of you making serious moves on her to present itself(except she is a hungry and long-throat b!tch. Those ones disgust me). This is too loaded op



@OP I have seen your posts and I can only say that you are naïve with women. The heart of a woman is a deep ocean of secrets. Men are made to brag about their sexploits but women are made to keep the secret of theirs till death. Put a knife on a woman's neck she'll never tell you that secret. Real men don't try to find out, though. Cos "you don't wanna go down there..."

Jadeite:
You forgot to read where he wrote that the "almost gbenshed" girl has been on his tail 4 quite sometime...

richgang:
You too lie

ClassCaptain:
Great stand.

But this will only be reasonable in a situation where the man is 100 percent sure of the loyalty of the girl..or at least to the extent of not commiting the same act elsewhere.

Imagine all this self control only for u to hear later that one guy dey pipe her steady for where she stay..

.
Na sorry case be that oo

but wait oo, u actually removed her clothes till d last outfit and u no contunu ... Shey that kind thing fit happen if na omotola , geneienve or juliet ibrahim ?

Bros no lie.. The body odour and smell oozing from the engine drive u comot

Dklef:
You see, the society we live in has made the wrong things look like the norm and when one try to act mature and be morally upright, people starts calling you a coward.

Our society has 'mis-prioritised' many things to the extent that; a man who neither smoke nor drink alcohol is seen as weak and 'e nor jasi'

I had an elderly friend, a married man. Now his friends, all married used to visit this sex-house to carry women and ofcouse, cheat on their wives.
So the day this my friend was call to join them, he refused and they began to laugh and call him all sort of satirical names like, 'husband material' 'bole' 'weakling' 'mr lover lover' and all.
We have made things of frivolity to become our topmost priority. And OP you've shown how strong of a 'man' you are!


Kuddos to You and you should never allow people make you believe you did anything wrong.
You're a man, human too and so i wont actually fault you for going as far as taking a lady home (and undressing bla bla). Cos all that is just carnality playing out.

Reading your essay alone, one can read through your mind and that you're a real man with conscience and principle. Bravo!

kenonze:
But he did invited the girl at his own will.
He already have cheated on the girl by undressing her plus pre-intimacy

corperscorner:
Thanks bro....most of these guys bashing me don't really know me. Its funny they'v decided to judge me away though.

Thanks anyways, comments like yours - I appreciate and hold with high esteem.

Jadeite:
@Op....Just want to say God bless you...I felt real good reading this...Be you! Thanks for giving hope to a selected few...

corperscorner:
Its been a couple of months since my girlfriend traveled and the frequent rain fall haven't really been helping matters. I initially felt I could contain my urge but sometimes it gets out of hand (GUYS WOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER).

So yesterday, I decided to invite a particular girl over, she happens to have been hoping I would do that a long time though.

To cut the long story short, the touching began and it got to the stage where she gave in and allowed me pull off her entire outfit.....like down to the last. At this point, it must have been so certain to her that we were going to get down.....

But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed through my mind how my girlfriend would call frequently and how she would often profess her love for me.......the fact that we've grown to become an item over time made me feel a prick in my conscience and all of a sudden I started feeling disgusted with myself. While these activities were going on in my head, this particular girl that came over had already arrived cloud 9....waiting for me to 'enter the place'. But somehow, I was able to knock senses into my head and attempted to help her back into her outfit while she completed the process herself. (IT TOOK AN EFFORT - BLIV ME)

She turned to me and asked? 'Whats the problem?'...........I said 'nothing, its not happening'. Then she pulled away hurriedly and vowed never to visit me again. I was really glad but concealed this so it would not be obvious though.

Anyways, with all that past me now........one thing I can say is that. I have no regrets and if any at all, it would be inviting her to come over in the first place. I realized we guys can be faithful, it only takes a little effort towards self control. I called my girlfriend a few minutes after the drama and we spoke at length for close to an hour..............and from the conversation, all I could deduce was......I care about her feelings much more than I thought.

corperscorner:
Tnx for the encouragement bro......but she ain't that type..........we made our acquaintance some 6 years back. Trust me....shez that type who would tell me everything....I mean everything. She would even go as far as giving my number to guys bugging her - just for them to try calling and hearing a male voice over the phone. We've been like a team and it felt awkward trying to ruin what we've had coming a long way. The attempt is what I regret.

Smellymouth:
OP, I admire your courage.But trust me, it also takes the courage of Samson to trust a lady.

My advice? She is just your GF, not your wife.
The only woman you should ever lose your mind over is your MOTHER or your wife.

Other than that- Get your education up, stay fit, stack ur money up to the ceiling and mess around with many chicks as you can

Life is too short, no one gets out alive!!


Stvpid reasons ladies cheat and I won't be surprised if your GF had cheated on you::
1) The grass looks greener on the other side.
2) A bit of excitement and an ego boost.
3) Pure sexual desire.
4) To feel wanted and attractive to other men.
5) Revenge.
6) To fulfill what they consider is lack of attention from their spouse.
7) Sometimes they do it just because they can.

The oldest excuse is that "something is lacking" in the relationship

A cheat is a cheat no matter of what sex or why.


Patiently waiting for the feminists and their As5lickers to quote me

MRBrownJ:
@corperscorner
let me be the bearer of bad news, if you brought a gal home , "touched" her everywhere (possiby kiss her too) and undressed her fully, then you have already cheated bro!

if you believe that cheating is only when you penetrate someone then you are clearly mistaking....
here is a clue: would you allow your gf to be "touched" and undressed fully by some other dude, since it is not cheating?!

GothamLuke:
There was this time I tried cheating on my girl, I cried profusely like a baby all through... I just couldn't do it

Angelberry:
Nah can't give out my digit. I'm sorry MS you making me uncomfortable now. Can I go off now

Smellymouth:

defemidefemi:
#SAY.NO.TO.HUGGGING, It may lead to cheating.

Smellymouth:
OP, I admire your courage.But trust me, it also takes the courage of Samson to trust a lady.

My advice? She is just your GF, not your wife.
The only woman you should ever lose your mind over is your MOTHER or your wife.

Other than that- Get your education up, stay fit, stack ur money up to the ceiling and mess around with many chicks as you can

Life is too short, no one gets out alive!!


Stvpid reasons ladies cheat and I won't be surprised if your GF had cheated on you::
1) The grass looks greener on the other side.
2) A bit of excitement and an ego boost.
3) Pure sexual desire.
4) To feel wanted and attractive to other men.
5) Revenge.
6) To fulfill what they consider is lack of attention from their spouse.
7) Sometimes they do it just because they can.

The oldest excuse is that "something is lacking" in the relationship

A cheat is a cheat no matter of what sex or why.


Patiently waiting for the feminists and their As5lickers to quote me

kenonze:
But he did invited the girl at his own will.
He already have cheated on the girl by undressing her plus pre-intimacy

abnsugbe:
well the fact is this:Lies,unfaithfullness and Prosimcuity is what God can never take away from women....never Trust any woman...Treat any woman like a queen when u are with her,but once she leaves,Forget about her.........

abnsugbe:
lozzz..it happened cos u have conscience.......Some people dont and thats what makes tins happens most!!!!!..congrats though...i wish nt to emulate u cos i dont believe in Love or caring......u might resist this but what of ur girl??..will she have conscience the way u do..its a no cos Women hardly have consceince!!!!!

ehispapa:
Stupid trabalist..what has Edo got to do with this..i know your type trying to concort tribe in everything. who does juju more than the south west?