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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 5:59pm On Mar 20, 2016
bughead:
the funniest thing is that the so called WOMEN are in support of this.


you see why NAIJA WOMEN ARE ANIMALS!

You mean your mother and your sisters? I wonder how they feel about this.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by IYANGBALI: 5:59pm On Mar 20, 2016
bughead:
I guess I understand what the OP is saying!


she is saying that babymama is far better than marriage and her family is a product of babymama, her father just pregnant her mother and oop!! she(the OP) is born.


gbam. Your head dey there

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by slye(m): 5:59pm On Mar 20, 2016
Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

Marriage should not be based on material things my dear
undecided.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by JoeCutie(m): 5:59pm On Mar 20, 2016
Estharfabian:
Are You sure You Know what "UPSURGE" is?


undecided
Ah, my bad. I'm sorry, I should have learnt from the best before jumping protocol.

Would you mind educating me on what 'Upsurge' is, please? Thank you
. smiley
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Meritocracy: 6:00pm On Mar 20, 2016
Only if op daddy is Dasuki that arrange wedding, buy cars and house for him from looted money and didn't allow him to experience how hard to work and get money
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by kaziblake(f): 6:00pm On Mar 20, 2016
porozhniy:
Men sponsor women through school or business only for some of these women suddenly remember 'he ain't my type'.
It's vice/versa and men do it worst.

I know what am talking about.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Elomus: 6:01pm On Mar 20, 2016
Some Idiots Will Just wake up and decide to type THRASH..MTCHEW
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by August17(m): 6:02pm On Mar 20, 2016
Vinshu:


My father wasn't "Rich"! He was able to cater for himself, his wife, Myself, and my 3 Brothers and 2 sisters. Six Kids! Thats what matters. Don't modify my post. I never said a man must be "Rich". Riches are dynamic depending on the individual
. You are fluent in English doesn't mean you'll just wake up and start telling us about your " nightmares" your post only tells me where you are coming from and where you are going to end up in life....
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Ekakamba: 6:02pm On Mar 20, 2016
eyah! Even your 'fortunately' is not fortunately spelt right. grin
Specialbaby:
fortunatly enough,i can never be in such shoes again!!!

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Danfuster(m): 6:02pm On Mar 20, 2016
charliboy654:

Lol, wen pastor ask those girls looking for husband to come out for prayer, na them go first run go outside.


They're the first to get to church and arrange the premises and the last to leave cos they're still rolling at the halter ground. Smh

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by blessedchuks86: 6:02pm On Mar 20, 2016
I disagree with you in some area. the money u are using to maintain a car can pay school fees

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 20, 2016
Ioannes:
hilarious. so let me get this straight. rich dudes should marry BROKE girls?

yeah that sounds right...or NOT.
and broke guys should marry rich girls.. thats called even distribution of wealth

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 20, 2016
donmanuel1:
Let's assume that a man must own a car or house but one question I have for that prostitute(vinshu) is WHAT SHOULD A WOMAN before she can get MARRIED

The bar entry is very low. She just needs to be a WOMAN. :-)
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 20, 2016
redwriter:


I see upright boobs are now a prerequisite for a good marriage. And to think this is your common sense.I wonder what your uncommon sense would be.
If women demad house and cars as prerequisite for getting married then men should also have demand. We demand for upright boobs and virgin pussy.

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 20, 2016
redwriter:


I see upright boobs are now a prerequisite for a good marriage. And to think this is your common sense.I wonder what your uncommon sense would be.

You are not getting his point. If the OP is saying the man must have a car and a house, then he is saying the woman too must have upright boobs before marriage. Now how many women can boast of upright boobs before marriage?

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Taryur3(m): 6:03pm On Mar 20, 2016
Ori O.P ti buru.let them keep waiting till dem reach menopause.iranu Oshi.

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Khez: 6:04pm On Mar 20, 2016
The girl dey think according to how her mind big reach

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by hokafor(m): 6:04pm On Mar 20, 2016
Op u made a very pertinent point there.but in economy like nigeria where the jobless outnumbered the gainfully employed. So if we follow ur advice we may go extinct in nigeria

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by umehmj(m): 6:04pm On Mar 20, 2016
Daniel058:
Imi utaba.. Lol
bia nwokem, don't disrespect elders
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by JoeCutie(m): 6:04pm On Mar 20, 2016
kaziblake:
She works in a bank.She used her hard earned money to sponsor the id!ot abroad.
She is financially okay.
You seem quite emotionally familiar with this "idiot", sweetheart, what are you not telling me? grin

Okay, let's cut to the chase. I don't want you to admit to being the person behind the "she", but you shouldn't deny it either, if it's you. So...
wink

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:05pm On Mar 20, 2016
JoeCutie:
Ah, my bad. I'm sorry, I should have learnt from the best before jumping protocol.

Would you mind educating me on what 'Upsurge' is, please? Thank you
. smiley
LoL!grin



It just didn't rhyme with the question U asked.
i Thought "Upsurge" Meant an Increase in sth?


Relate the meaning To the question You asked. No Correlation.

However, I might be wrong? And if I am?
.....My sincerest apologies. embarassed

Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:05pm On Mar 20, 2016
Lustig:
Ask me again.
Answer na.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by adaweezy(m): 6:05pm On Mar 20, 2016
adeaks:



And the majority of girls who will support this are lazy, gold diggers who are only looking for already-made men that they can just pop out babies for without any thought of adding something tangible to the guy's life.
You deserve a standing ovation......
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:05pm On Mar 20, 2016
Lustig:
Ask me again.
Answer na.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:05pm On Mar 20, 2016
Lustig:
Ask me again.
Answer na.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by bxcode(m): 6:05pm On Mar 20, 2016
Rubbish analogy. If i may ask, by whose standard
A lot of ladies are simply deceiving themselves, so someone who has a house and car today can't go broke tomorrow? Whenever I hear ladies that think materialism is the in thing, I see them as kids who ain't matured at all. It's only a baby that looks at his or her toys for happiness and satisfaction.

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by InvertedHammer: 6:06pm On Mar 20, 2016
Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.
/
You fail to understand that successful guys are equally as scared of getting married as broke guys. There is nothing in marriage for men if you live in the western world which is why marriage is incentivized to reel in unsuspecting and gullible guys.

In other words, there is no magic formula in any issues involving marriage. Linda Ikeji and Basketmouth parents were broke. Umar Mutallab's parents are wealthy. Yet the rich kid who had it all, was raised well wanted to blow up an airplane.

I wish marriage were as simple as house and cars.
/

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:06pm On Mar 20, 2016
Any lady who is a gold digger or encourages others to be gold digger doesn't deserve to be married or dated.

Be an asset to your man and not a liability wife.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Daniel058(m): 6:06pm On Mar 20, 2016
umehmj:

bia nwokem, don't disrespect elders
OKWA joke biko ooooooooooooooo..
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Monalisa185(f): 6:07pm On Mar 20, 2016
Tallesty1:
I didn't reply your other mention cause e too long.


I no even know where to startcrycrycry





Seems you no gbadu this op at allgrin

[b]lol, na the same weakness wey I been get when I see your own that morning....tonguetongue

no bother yourself jare


my dear, nothing do the op oooo, na the thread I no gbadun...

before my dad went to marry my mum, he didn't have any wheel barrow of his own, let alone a car...the only house of his own was even the one my grand dad left for him in the village which they were not even using because they were in the city ...

they both got married and started hustling together...

so, you see? threads like this no too concern me

you see? no one prays to be poor, I'm a hustler, myself... if my husband-to be does not have a house of his own and a car, I actually wouldn't mind. .we both can hustle up together to get them..

I found out that we ladies of today want everything to be already made.... how about you get married to that already made man and after a few years of marriage things come crumbling down... are you going to run outta the marriage?

I prefer things going from the bottom to the top to going from the top to the bottom[/b]

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by BlackBaron: 6:07pm On Mar 20, 2016
Vinshu:
...
I kinda have same mentality as a man but funny enough I get same ladies, women and sundry all pestering about getting married as soon as they see a potential partner. Also if a guy doesn't have a threshold for being comfortable and keeps going until he's probably as rich to afford luxury, what is in it for a lady who would probably tire of waiting for the guy to decide when its ok?

I'm struggling with your point with your car bit especially as you say you live in Europe where many don't see the point of a car as transport systems are very good, are you implying that a car is a prerequisite for marriage now?

Besides I'll also like to know if you mean outright home ownership or what?
I also as a young man do not believe in marrying especially a female who is a liability. There'll be no need to be reminded if married of fatherly duties of provision for family but I'd not expect a scrounger too.

Meanwhile, kindly state the requirements needed of a female looking to get married?
And you living in Lithuania might explain your mentality I think...

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by frakdon(m): 6:08pm On Mar 20, 2016
repogirl:
Ignore him jare, he obviously has some issues he needs to sort with himself.
indeed...

One of these days, I go love to share some personal stuffs with you for an advice, hope you no go mind?

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