Vinshu:
In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

I guess all those guys u have sex with are married to u

prettyboi1989:

hey wat truth? wonder y u girls are after ready made guys who own a house n a car. while on the other end u girls come into the guys house with nothing, no job, no money, n expect manner to fall from heaven. who then is the one suffering from poverty? the average guy trying to make ends meet or the hungry girl who doesnt want to work bt wanna marry a rich guy.

Abegi...no point me there who tell u say I wan depend on one guy to dey gimme money bfr I chop..I get my own hands..so b careful

u girls hoping and looking for the guy with a house and a car, think well b4 u turn 30 cos at that age the available becomes desirable. no guy in his right frame of mind will marry a liability. if u av nothing doing like a job or a business, u case is sorry o, ur name will soon turn aunty.

Shymm3x this OP wants you to have a bananas icelan manshaun and merci oloye maybash before you start knocking out ya rugrats and wifing hos

SirShymexx

yemsai:

Abegi...no point me there who tell u say I wan depend on one guy to dey gimme money bfr I chop..I get my own hands..so b careful

hohoho did i step on a nerve? u prolly shudnt av supported the op if u had a diff angle to it.

xs

adeaks:


But that's the point. The guy is working to better himself but you don't want to give him a chance. You only want someone who has already 'bettered' himself. So if I am already made and I can see that that's the main reason you are going out with me, it means I can replace you at anytime with other girls because you are not adding anything to me. You are only taking away.

Having the money saved up for a home/being able to afford a 3 bedroom flat and owning a car is being a made man to you?

Poverty is curse! Really that is being made?? That is the lowest wrung of financial/economic success. Talk less of owning a business, being a landlord. Hiring employees to help them better their lives, being able to open a charitable organization, doing business overseas etc etc.

The OP isn't yakking about being filthy rich, but being able to afford the basic amenities a middle class family should have.

Vinshu:
In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

As if only married people have sex

adeaks:
Only guys with houses and cars should even date.


Simple question: when your dad was dating your mom, did he have a house and a car?

Let's start from there.

nice question! I can't just accept, but I have to, that some folks are too marginal in thinking. they can't see something good. what is liability n Asset! . only marginal and uninformed people still consider HOUSE n CAR as Asset.
poverty is not the absent of necessities but A COMPOUNDED STATE OF MIND...

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This is exactly one of the reasons why I don't help ladies when am driving.

I guess dis op watched a movie and decided to give us the story line....
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Rotentina:
Well, I have nothing when I married my wife.......I mean absolutely nothing........except one empty room at Shasha in Akowonjo Area of Lagos State.

But today.......all glory to God Almighty, I have my own HOUSE built with burnt brick, no car yet but a motorcycle.

If I should follow what that OP wrote, maybe my first child will have just be around two years old!........and very soon my first child will be writing her junior WAEC.

you try. you are the real MVP

Vinshu:

No not really. I'm actually an Economist.

na this kind OT dey make ladies clock 35 in their fathers house

U dey wait finished product ehn?
continue waiting

what matters most is House and a decent job, I cannot will not marry without a job and house even if the house is 2 rooms. may you all here have a decent job and House, Amin.

pinkpebbles:
Since u asked, all dese does not matter to me. I have dated guys in dia parents houses and no bike talkmor of car. That dey dnt av now doesnt mean they wont av later. I consider much more serios things wen am tryin to date. PS:Now they av cars and have houses so who is to say wah d future luks like?

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Spot on!

Well said bro

Gbyte:


A guy got his hands dirty, yeah he made it, but he's in kirikiri now, serving a double 12yrs jail term, and his biatch who probably only brought her kitten to the table is probably getting fvcked by another dude who has gotten his hands dirty.

Moral of the story, if you wanna get your hands dirty, get your hands dirty for you and you alone, not for someone whose only investment to the relationship would be her public toilet.

Shout out to all the good women out there, those who would come into a relationship not only because of what the man is bringing in, but also what they are bringing to support him and make him a great man (not necessarily financially)
It weep inside of me when I meet ladies like this poster who thinks you must even buy them airtime, pay for their data, buy them cloths, shoes and everything you can think of, just because you are dating. Yeah, we'd do all these things listed, and do it with joy, but don't make it look like those who can't afford to do them are losers, instead, make them see a better part of them.

Only in Nigeria you go on a date with a lady and she's leaving and expect a transport/cab fare, if you don't give her, she ain't picking your call again

Y'all need to grow up and stop making yourselves slaves to men, or thinking y'all are only good for bed and kitchen.

Like I said, shout to those real women out there, they know themselves. And shout out to the economist that brings just her kitten to the table.

prettyboi1989:

hohoho did i step on a nerve? u prolly shudnt av supported the op if u had a diff angle to it.

Y won't I support her? a guy has to put some things in place bfr getting married.. marriage is nt for fucking nd eating alone.. oda things are involved with big responsibilities..so tink well

lastnogood:



Having the money saved up for a home/being able to afford a 3 bedroom flat and owning a car is being a made man to you?

Poverty is curse! Really that is being made?? That is the lowest wrung of financial/economic success. Talk less of owning a business, being a landlord. Hiring employees to help them better their lives, being able to open a charitable organization, doing business overseas etc etc.

The OP isn't yakking about being filthy rich, but being able to afford the basic amenities a middle class family should have.

Lecturer. And who says ladies shouldn't be made before marriage?

olihilistic:
up united

Never knew you is a ManU fan

Oh, money is good.buh it shudnt be a prerequisite for someone to choose a partner. Afterall, no condition is permanent

Eyepencil:
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@ OP... with due respect does you father have a Car and 3bedrooms flat before he got married to your mother?
in your quest to encourage premarital sex by detering young Men (middle class earners) who are willing to get married in order to protect their chastity you woefully ignored the fact that as Man got married his desire to acquire wealth usually accelerate drastically.
Lastly i must confess that am young man of 29years... while i was dating my Wife 3years ago (2013) my monthly salary was 19,600 but to cut long story short i got married to my lovely wife last year, I had a Car and currently building 4bedrooms bungalow in our state capital courtesy of govt work couple with legitimate business!
# To all young men out there keep hustling and follow your heary dont be deter by the Op, get married with the little you have.
God bless u

I came late to this thread and it's too cumbersome reading from page1

Estharfabian:

my dear, pls don't follow tag along with this Op's view oooooo

pinkpebbles:
Oh, money is good.buh it shudnt be a prerequisite for someone to choose a partner. Afterall, bo condition is permanent

see make I marry u

Danfuster:


Never knew you is a ManU fan

you've been following me right?? I'm not just a fan but a lover and a die hard fan

I don't think young men should be worked up by the op's post. Ideally, we're expected to attain some level of financial stability b4 puttin down roots. So i'd say hustle like ur life depends on it while single (me sef wan retire by 45). You're are going to meet these categories of women as u make ur way thru life (a) the hardworking traditional woman who wants u to lead while she supports wit everything she's got (ai) a variant of the traditional woman who will invest in acquiring assets for a secure for for ur family. (b) women who feel like the op. Whatever u do, pls get a prenup to protect ur assets...girls ain't smilling. Pls feel free to have fun with category (b) but abeg no marry so u no go die young.

Hehehe. U cant imagine. Dat story for anodr day jare

kevinscore:


Guys_how many of them pink

All I can say is you should expect a post like this from a lazy girl who doesn't have the urge to contribute in a relationship but always hoping for ready established man to come her way.




Note: Girls alike dated established men trying to force through serious relationship while the men just keep them for fucking sake. After they tried so hard and it didn't work out, they come down to broke guys level because they want to get married.
Then you hear them saying "no sex before marriage or no sex in dating" after their vagina has already widen like ogba river.

Broke, gold digging women. Women should not marry any man unless they can contribute something other than mere p+ussy.

If i wsnt married, i would have remained mgtow for life. I do believe that i accept that a guy shouldnt raise kids if he has not much but ths issue of overdepedence of women on men for survival is totally repulsive. Not in 2016

This is one of the reasons why guys will keep bashing girls on Nairaland.

Hungry gold-digging bítches.