donshady:

it's all about choice bro. We all reap the fruit of what we do.

i'm a sis

Jadekitana2:
i'm a sis

Masturbation in female is still preferable .. But in male it's alarming.

donshady:


Masturbation in female is still preferable .. But in male it's alarming.

yes you maybe right

donshady:

bro
fornication = sex
masturbation is not sex... Every time you stroke your penis to ejaculate, you're destroying it because that not the normal protocol for ejaculation...
People with premature ejaculation are mostly people who masturbate... and if you fall in that category, It's a disgrace to yourself when u can sex a woman.

bro, honestly, i'm not here to argue with you but its like a debate. Stroking joystick with the hand and lube is equivalent to vagi*a wall stroking to me. Why not look at it from the religion aspect and not the moral aspect. I dont think we have any pagan here.

agbajesaid:
I just read a post on FP concerning masturbation. I now asked myself an honest question; isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate. Its what everyone have experienced expecially at early stage of puberty. The urge for sex increases and we are far from marriage due to age, lack of fiancee, money etc. My religion advices fasting as an alternative to fornication and masturbation but for how long? Isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate? Asides the immorality in masturbation, is anything bad in it healthwisely and religiously? Matured opinions needed.

Masturbation is not a sin and infact a good substitute for fornication.

Nevertheless,it is a terrible habbit because it is addictive and any act that is potentially addictive should be avoided expecially acts with not so good aftermaths.

other examples of bad habbits that are not sinful are...

1.Gambling or betting
2.Drinking...not drunkenness
3.Gossiping

And many more..these are bad habbits because they are addictive and they have bad consequences.

agbajesaid:
bro, honestly, i'm not here to argue with you but its like a debate. Stroking joystick with the hand and lube is equivalent to vagi*a wall stroking to me. Why not look at it from the religion aspect and not the moral aspect. I dont think we have any pagan here.

Religiously both is a sin. But we are humans and sinners.
I guess you're sharing your experience on both...
if masturbating with lube is the same as the vaginal wall,
would you advice a bro to masturbate?

Toks2008:


Masturbation is not a sin and infact a good substitute for fornication.

Nevertheless,it is a terrible habbit because it is addictive and any act that is potentially addictive should be avoided expecially acts with not so good aftermaths.

Bro you said masturbation is no sin.. Have you forgotten something ignites masturbation?

donshady:


Bro you said masturbation is no sin.. Have you forgotten something ignites masturbation?

The bible says if you LOOK at a lady lustfully it is fornication so yes you are fornicating if you masturbate while watching porn in any form but when you jerk off THINKING about sex which is perfectly normal as hormonal human,i dont believe you are sinning.

Imagination is not a sin but visually stimulating your urge is.

Nevertheless,masturbating is not a good habbit but a better substitute to fornication.

Toks2008:


The bible says if you LOOK at a lady lustfully it is fornication so yes you are fornicating if you masturbate while watching porn in any form but when you jerk off THINKING about sex which is perfectly normal as hormonal human,i dont believe you are sinning.

Imagination is not a sin but visually stimulating your urge is.

Nevertheless,masturbating is not a good habbit but a better substitute to fornication.

That's the point bro.

rallymento:
I have neither fornicated nor masturbated in my entire life.

It is all about moral and what your brain interprets to you.

I am no saint though and I am not judging those that have found themselves in such mess.

There is a way >>>>>>>>

We call Him the Ocean divider
The Everlasting King
The bright and morning Star
Rose of Sharon.
Lilly of the Valley.
Prince of Peace...
The forgiver of our sins
In Igbo we call Him
Ji ana aru na oku o na epu ome!!
Anu Kporonku na eju onu
Isi iyi nke ndu
Odo mmiri bethseda
Ono ro Ihe noro enyi ma kpuru mgbada no onu!!

Run to Christ and enter your rest

But u were in luv wit a runs gal

Toks2008:


Masturbation is not a sin and infact a good substitute for fornication.

Nevertheless,it is a terrible habbit because it is addictive and any act that is potentially addictive should be avoided expecially acts with not so good aftermaths.

other examples of bad habbits that are not sinful are...

1.Gambling or betting
2.Drinking...not drunkenness
3.Gossiping

And many more..these are bad habbits because they are addictive and they have bad consequences.

you are right bro, but in Islam, drinking and gossiping is sinful

Jadekitana2:
yes you maybe right

are you a fan of masturbation.

donshady:


Religiously both is a sin. But we are humans and sinners.
I guess you're sharing your experience on both...
if masturbating with lube is the same as the vaginal wall,
would you advice a bro to masturbate?

I can imagine how Baba Jehovah will be laughing at us anytime we discuss this issue.

Do you know that sometimes i ease off without even touching my pnis?

Do you think i can survive a month without scrwng d shit out of at least one lady?

If i feel Hot i simply close my eyes and imagine myself doing shits on a sweet lady and im good even without touching any part of the pnis.

Im writing this cos im real,down to earth and non hypochritical..i am a sexually active man and at the same time a lover of christ.

I cant afford to sleep around even when my flesh yearns for it...everyday i feel like tearing a sweet chic apart and do crazy stuffs on her.

Unfortunately i cant toy with the grace of God neither can i fast or pray sexual urge away..it is part of us,GOD created the urge and trying to ignore the feeling is trying to ignore the urge to defecate.

My advice remains the same...avoid masturbation not because its a sin but it is addictive and it can drift you away totally from the opposite sex if not careful.

For me i dont know if what i do is masturbating cos i dont jerk off but whichever way,avoid it if you can but if your passion for sex is so high,i will say it is still better than fornication...but whatever you do,AVOID PORN

agbajesaid:
you are right bro, but in Islam, drinking and gossiping is sinful

I see.

Good to know.

The bible is against the two tho if it progresses to backbitting and drunkenness.

Toks2008:


I can imagine how Baba Jehovah will be laughing at us anytime we discuss this issue.

Do you know that sometimes i ease off without even touching my pnis?

Do you think i can survive a month without scrwng d shit out of at least one lady?

If i feel Hot i simply close my eyes and imagine myself doing shits on a sweet lady and im good even without touching any part of the pnis.

Im writing this cos im real,down to earth and non hypochritical..i am a sexually active man and at the same time a lover of christ.

I cant afford to sleep around even when my flesh yearns for it...everyday i feel like tearing a sweet chic apart and do crazy stuffs on her.

Unfortunately i cant toy with the grace of God neither can i fast or pray sexual urge away..it is part of us,GOD created the urge and trying to ignore the feeling is trying to ignore the urge to defecate.

My advice remains the same...avoid masturbation not because its a sin but it is addictive and it can drift you away totally from the opposite sex if not careful.

For me i dont know if what i do is masturbating cos i dont jerk off but whichever way,avoid it if you can but if your passion for sex is so high,i will say it is still better than fornication...but whatever you do,AVOID PORN

u no go kill person ooo. I was drinking orange while reading ur comment and the juice entered my airway because i couldnt control the laughter. Your comment sounds funny but its the truth.

Toks2008:


I can imagine how Baba Jehovah will be laughing at us anytime we discuss this issue.

Do you know that sometimes i ease off without even touching my pnis?

Do you think i can survive a month without scrwng d shit out of at least one lady?

If i feel Hot i simply close my eyes and imagine myself doing shits on a sweet lady and im good even without touching any part of the pnis.

Im writing this cos im real,down to earth and non hypochritical..i am a sexually active man and at the same time a lover of christ.

I cant afford to sleep around even when my flesh yearns for it...everyday i feel like tearing a sweet chic apart and do crazy stuffs on her.

Unfortunately i cant toy with the grace of God neither can i fast or pray sexual urge away..it is part of us,GOD created the urge and trying to ignore the feeling is trying to ignore the urge to defecate.

My advice remains the same...avoid masturbation not because its a sin but it is addictive and it can drift you away totally from the opposite sex if not careful.

For me i dont know if what i do is masturbating cos i dont jerk off but whichever way,avoid it if you can but if your passion for sex is so high,i will say it is still better than fornication...but whatever you do,AVOID PORN

Bros u hit the nail on the head. I jerk off cos i dont wanna increase body count, and i dont wanna lust nor be caught in a corner. But is it really possible to stay off the both. I am not idle, but those morning attentions or anytime i cant sleep. I really needf to be rid of both

@OP, Both are sins but i say it is better to fornicate than to masturbate...

1. If u are still hustling to be successful, masturbation can cause unexplainable disappointments, setbacks and badluck, TRUST ME.
2. It makes you kinda shy around the opposite cos u partially satisfy urself in the bathroom so u dont see reasons making new friends nd mingling too
3. Imagine a prophet giving u an open prophecy in the midst of friends and loved ones, Trust me it is better for the prophet to reveal that u nid to play safe with women than for him to tell u dat u need to stop masturbating, DAMMN DATS POO IS A VERY SHAMEFUL ACT.

Be wise not to delay ur success because of a hidden bad habit.

Bennie say so

BennieWang:
@OP, Both are sins but i say it is better to fornicate than to masturbate...

1. If u are still hustling to be successful, masturbation can cause unexplainable disappointments, setbacks and badluck, TRUST ME.
2. It makes you kinda shy around the opposite cos u partially satisfy urself in the bathroom so u dont see reasons making new friends nd mingling too
3. Imagine a prophet giving u an open prophecy in the midst of friends and loved ones, Trust me it is better for the prophet to reveal that u nid to play safe with women than for him to tell u dat u need to stop masturbating, DAMMN DATS POO IS A VERY SHAMEFUL ACT.

Be wise not to delay ur success because of a hidden bad habit.

Bennie say so

you might be right. Masturbation definitely makes one shy away from opposite sex

agbajesaid:
you might be right. Masturbation definitely makes one shy away from opposite sex

Bro i am right, keep away from the act.....If u critically think about what i wrote u will confirm everytin to be tru..I wish u success.

Aviero:
Don't tag it fornication. Just call it sex.

Sex, protected sex, is healthier than masturbation.

There are lots of good health benefits that comes with sex/Mastvrbation, but masturbating makes you feel somewhat empty full. After you cum, [s]you come to your senses and then you feel awkward.[/s]

Sex is different tho

y are u discriminating us?

agbajesaid:
I just read a post on FP concerning masturbation. I now asked myself an honest question; isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate. Its what everyone have experienced expecially at early stage of puberty. The urge for sex increases and we are far from marriage due to age, lack of fiancee, money etc. My religion advices fasting as an alternative to fornication and masturbation but for how long? Isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate? Asides the immorality in masturbation, is anything bad in it healthwisely and religiously? Matured opinions needed.

masturbation is like fucking an inanimate objects while fornication is fucking an animate object the wrong way.

why will you use your hand or object and start fucking your self

you are indirectly saying you have a mental problem.


ok! imagine yourself taking a cream and be robing your peniis and ejacullating everywhere, did you see yourself as mentally stable person

auto NAIRALAND! there is different between erupting and ejacullating! stop changing my spelling.
vocano erupt while humans ejacullate .

agbajesaid:
honestly, i get your point. But my own point is this. Isnt it better to masturbate once in a while than to fornicate everytime. All the points u highligted applies to fornication too because sperm is expelled. And one cannot contract any STDs through masturbation as opposed to fornication.

you cannot simply masturbate once in a while..
forget what anyone else told you.
you're either a chronic addict or otherwise... very hard to find the mid point

agbajesaid:
thanks bro. Good advice, but i hope your wife was your FIRST sex partner.

And you think its not possible. Why do you feel we must all have the same weaknesses. What if my challenge is battling on how to stop stealing.

Everybody has that little sin that easily beseech them

delightz:
Hey bro.
This isn't a case of between the devil and the deep blue sea. you dont have to choose from either of them. There are thousands of things you can do that are far more rewording and profitable than those choices. Get engaged with the right mindset and neither of those thoughts will come to your mind. Its a stage of your life where you have to hustle. Not to be thinkin of fiance whatever or porn stuffs. Read the bible and get busy positively.
....cheers.

Abeg make God bless u a million times.

Here to read comments.

lanrywatt:
Answer me first before I talk, Dieing by road and Dieing by plane crash which is better

@ Lanrywatt.... All die na die bro,wether dieing by road or by plane.

clickwtB:
MASTURBATION SINNING ALONE WHILE FORNICATION IS SINNING TOGETHER!!!

WHAT ABOUT SINNING AMONG

seriously how can someone be asking which of these two sins to pick from yeah no one is perfect buh God's grace and self discipline will help one alot not to even consider dem two. I was once a victim of both when I was still living in darkness tho buh thank God I found the light in Jesus and received my salvation. I now occupy my mind and tots with affairs of d kingdom of God. I barely think about sex dese days cos ive already channelled that path to abstinence till i marry. With God by ur side bro, u can overcome dem both, and anoda tip is to avoid watching porn cos it easily leads one to masturbation or fornication.

In human capacity masturbating is less evil than fornicatiing! But with God it serve the same purpose and consequence

Ashez:
seriously how can someone be asking which of these two sins to pick from yeah no one is perfect buh God's grace and self discipline will help one alot not to even consider dem two. I was once a victim of both when I was still living in darkness tho buh thank God I found the light in Jesus and received my salvation. I now occupy my mind and tots with affairs of d kingdom of God. I barely think about sex dese days cos ive already channelled that path to abstinence till i marry. With God by ur side bro, u can overcome dem both, and anoda tip is to avoid watching porn cos it easily leads one to masturbation or fornication.

because no BIIITCHES is coming your way! once they do start coming your way!

you will throw the bible one side and be enjoying yourself.

stop being an hypocrite and advise on how to stop it.

I buy your ideal

[color=#006600][/color]BIKONU,CAN I MASTURBATE AND FORNICATION AT THE SAME TIME?kai my english is bad