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Masturbation Vs Fornication by agbajesaid(m): 2:16pm On Mar 31, 2016
I just read a post on FP concerning masturbation. I now asked myself an honest question; isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate. Its what everyone have experienced expecially at early stage of puberty. The urge for sex increases and we are far from marriage due to age, lack of fiancee, money etc. My religion advices fasting as an alternative to fornication and masturbation but for how long? Isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate? Asides the immorality in masturbation, is anything bad in it healthwisely and religiously? Matured opinions needed.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by donshady(m): 3:15pm On Mar 31, 2016
Do you realise the effect of masturbation? it kills you slowly..till u loose everything.. Beware.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by agbajesaid(m): 3:49pm On Mar 31, 2016
donshady:
Do you realise the effect of masturbation?
it kills you slowly..till u loose everything.. Beware.
but we have rich and successful that masturbates and they lose nothing. But bro, if masturbations kills slowly, what of fornication. I know we have certified psycologist here that will help. What triggered the act in me was the absence of my fiancee. She went for service;so we were apart for almost 6months. So rather than hanging out with another chick or visiting olosho joint, i opted for masturbation. I think knowing what triggered it will help in finding a solution.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by delightz(m): 4:02pm On Mar 31, 2016
Hey bro.
This isn't a case of between the devil and the deep blue sea. you dont have to choose from either of them. There are thousands of things you can do that are far more rewording and profitable than those choices. Get engaged with the right mindset and neither of those thoughts will come to your mind. Its a stage of your life where you have to hustle. Not to be thinkin of fiance whatever or porn stuffs. Read the bible and get busy positively.
....cheers.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by agbajesaid(m): 4:23pm On Mar 31, 2016
delightz:
Hey bro.
This isn't a case of between the devil and the deep blue sea. you dont have to choose from either of them. There are thousands of things you can do that are far more rewording and profitable than those choices. Get engaged with the right mindset and neither of those thoughts will come to your mind. Its a stage of your life where you have to hustle. Not to be thinkin of fiance whatever or porn stuffs. Read the bible and get busy positively.
....cheers.
thanks bro. Good advice, but i hope your wife was your FIRST sex partner.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by Aviero: 4:26pm On Mar 31, 2016
Don't tag it fornication. Just call it sex.

Sex, protected sex, is healthier than masturbation.

There are lots of good health benefits that comes with sex, but masturbating makes you feel somewhat empty. After you cum, you come to your senses and then you feel awkward.

Sex is different tho

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by donshady(m): 4:30pm On Mar 31, 2016
agbajesaid:
but we have rich and successful that masturbates and they lose nothing. But bro, if masturbations kills slowly, what of fornication.

None is advisable. but I'll still prefer fornication to masturbation because

1. Masturbation makes you weak, it drains protein and calcium content in the body

2. Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems

3. Masturbation is one of the main cause for erectile dysfunction.

4. Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace.

5. Masturbation creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired.

6. Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul.

7. Masturbation also affects us psychologically; it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one feeling bad on his own.

8. Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in that environment and it is an indecent activity.

9. Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or, at last to think of a sexual practice/ sex organ of the opposite sex. This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be erased easily. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/ lady/ women without a single thought i.e., sex.

10. Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely; it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you digging worse sexual problems if chance knocks the door.

11. Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge increases day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source for sexual pleasure.

12. Masturbation is the main reason for speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and to your wife.

13. Over masturbation reduces your sperm count. Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.

14. SThe seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formations. Proteins are the building blocks of our body; ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distracts your metabolism of muscle building.

15. Ethically masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect for others. You may be are good in all other regards but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.

16. Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.

17. The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.

18. Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought-provoking ability.

19. Masturbation is not the end of your desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or a satisfaction but seems that it gives.

20. It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail.

21. Guys who masturbate will lose interest in sex with their wife very soon. They can’t feel pleasurable for a long time.

22. Masturbation induces homosexuals in schools, colleges and hostels. Many times the latter creates sexually transmitted diseases like VD, syphilis, AIDS etc.,

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by agbajesaid(m): 4:31pm On Mar 31, 2016
Aviero:
Don't tag it fornication. Just call it sex.

Sex, protected sex, is healthier than masturbation.

There are lots of good health benefits that comes with sex, but masturbating makes you feel somewhat empty. After you cum, you come to your senses and then you feel awkward.

Sex is different tho
sex outside marriage is fornication, and not everyone feel awkward after cumming during masturbation

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by Aviero: 4:35pm On Mar 31, 2016
agbajesaid:
sex outside marriage is fornication, and not everyone feel awkward after cumming during masturbation
Sex outside marriage is fornication to YOU. I see it as something else.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by TIDDOLL(m): 4:35pm On Mar 31, 2016
both ends with TION..... sad,fornication is almost becoming a norm in today's generation ,while masturbation is an aberration...

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by agbajesaid(m): 4:39pm On Mar 31, 2016
donshady:


None is advisable. but I'll still prefer fornication to masturbation because

1. Masturbation makes you weak, it drains protein and calcium content in the body

2. Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems

3. Masturbation is one of the main cause for erectile dysfunction.

4. Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace.

5. Masturbation creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired.

6. Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul.

7. Masturbation also affects us psychologically; it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one feeling bad on his own.

8. Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in that environment and it is an indecent activity.

9. Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or, at last to think of a sexual practice/ sex organ of the opposite sex. This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be erased easily. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/ lady/ women without a single thought i.e., sex.

10. Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely; it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you digging worse sexual problems if chance knocks the door.

11. Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge increases day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source for sexual pleasure.

12. Masturbation is the main reason for speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and to your wife.

13. Over masturbation reduces your sperm count. Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.

14. SThe seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formations. Proteins are the building blocks of our body; ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distracts your metabolism of muscle building.

15. Ethically masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect for others. You may be are good in all other regards but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.

16. Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.

17. The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.

18. Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought-provoking ability.

19. Masturbation is not the end of your desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or a satisfaction but seems that it gives.

20. It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail.

21. Guys who masturbate will lose interest in sex with their wife very soon. They can’t feel pleasurable for a long time.

22. Masturbation induces homosexuals in schools, colleges and hostels. Many times the latter creates sexually transmitted diseases like VD, syphilis, AIDS etc.,
honestly, i get your point. But my own point is this. Isnt it better to masturbate once in a while than to fornicate everytime. All the points u highligted applies to fornication too because sperm is expelled. And one cannot contract any STDs through masturbation as opposed to fornication.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by agbajesaid(m): 4:45pm On Mar 31, 2016
@ uboma or davide470 , please help move it to romance section or possibly front page. I dnt know how it got to job/vacancy. Thanks

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by rallymento(m): 4:48pm On Mar 31, 2016
I have neither fornicated nor masturbated in my entire life.

It is all about moral and what your brain interprets to you.

I am no saint though and I am not judging those that have found themselves in such mess.

There is a way >>>>>>>>

We call Him the Ocean divider
The Everlasting King
The bright and morning Star
Rose of Sharon.
Lilly of the Valley.
Prince of Peace...
The forgiver of our sins
In Igbo we call Him
Ji ana aru na oku o na epu ome!!
Anu Kporonku na eju onu
Isi iyi nke ndu
Odo mmiri bethseda
Ono ro Ihe noro enyi ma kpuru mgbada no onu!!

Run to Christ and enter your rest

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by Nobody: 5:05pm On Mar 31, 2016
agbajesaid:
@ uboma or davide470 , please help move it to romance section or possibly front page. I dnt know how it got to job/vacancy. Thanks
agbajesaid How will this help You refund my money?

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by bright007(f): 5:07pm On Mar 31, 2016
I will comment when this thread hits front page...

egbon lalasticlala ....cum and take over

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by exotiqueify(f): 5:16pm On Mar 31, 2016
Sorry o! but isn't dis supposed to be in the romance abi family section? Nlders tho!

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by BLACKPANTHER(m): 5:36pm On Mar 31, 2016
Agbo and Tramol, Bitter Cola n roots can help you fight abnormal issues if you're here logically hiding with such effects of Masturbation
Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by agbajesaid(m): 5:41pm On Mar 31, 2016
exotiqueify:
Sorry o! but isn't dis supposed to be in the romance abi family section? Nlders tho!
posted it in Romance section. I dont know how it got to job/vacancy section.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by Peacefulgold(m): 5:41pm On Mar 31, 2016
exotiqueify:
Sorry o! but isn't dis supposed to be in the romance abi family section? Nlders tho!
It's already here babe....just comment...
Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by ademasta(m): 5:43pm On Mar 31, 2016
Mastfonication grin ...anyways, all way na way to whom it concerns. But if you look at it critically, fornication betters masturbation. Wait o, na masturbation better. Abeg let the experienced ones comman answer joor.
Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by Nobody: 5:50pm On Mar 31, 2016
abegi. hit like if you believe that all sins na sin. let he who is holy cast the first stone

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by toby2(m): 6:02pm On Mar 31, 2016
this man stole this topic from my mind. I also need answers as i am kinda confused. I really dont want either, but one can easily indulge in masty than forn... Hence the danger in masty...
Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by delightz(m): 6:03pm On Mar 31, 2016
agbajesaid:
thanks bro. Good advice, but i hope your wife was your FIRST sex partner.
I don't see how that question relate to your post.
BTW.... will it help u better your life or undone your past??
FYI ...am not married. And from the way you are responding. ..its like you ve already made up ur mind ....you just need like-minds to compliment your choice.....gud luck bro.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by lanrywatt(m): 6:06pm On Mar 31, 2016
Answer me first before I talk, Dieing by road and Dieing by plane crash which is better

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by agbajesaid(m): 6:12pm On Mar 31, 2016
delightz:

I don't see how that question relate to your post.
BTW.... will it help u better your life or undone your past??
no offence intended bro. Just to emphasize the fact that its easier said than done

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by agbajesaid(m): 6:14pm On Mar 31, 2016
lanrywatt:
Answer me first before I talk, Dieing by road and Dieing by plane crash which is better
lol. None.
Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by donshady(m): 6:35pm On Mar 31, 2016
BLACKPANTHER:
Agbo and Tramol, Bitter Cola n roots can help you fight abnormal issues if you're here logically hiding with such effects of Masturbation
Bro you can't cure masturbation when you still persist in doing it... so taking the mentioned above is abortive unless u decide to stop.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by clickwtB(m): 6:39pm On Mar 31, 2016
MASTURBATION SINNING ALONE WHILE FORNICATION IS SINNING TOGETHER!!!

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by donshady(m): 6:43pm On Mar 31, 2016
agbajesaid:
honestly, i get your point. But my own point is this. Isnt it better to masturbate once in a while than to fornicate everytime. All the points u highligted applies to fornication too because sperm is expelled. And one cannot contract any STDs through masturbation as opposed to fornication.
bro
fornication = sex
masturbation is not sex... Every time you stroke your penis to ejaculate, you're destroying it because that not the normal protocol for ejaculation...
People with premature ejaculation are mostly people who masturbate... and if you fall in that category, It's a disgrace to yourself when u can sex a woman.

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by Jadekitana2(f): 6:47pm On Mar 31, 2016
donshady:


None is advisable. but I'll still prefer fornication to masturbation because

1. Masturbation makes you weak, it drains protein and calcium content in the body

2. Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems

3. Masturbation is one of the main cause for erectile dysfunction.

4. Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace.

5. Masturbation creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired.

6. Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul.

7. Masturbation also affects us psychologically; it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one feeling bad on his own.

8. Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in that environment and it is an indecent activity.

9. Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or, at last to think of a sexual practice/ sex organ of the opposite sex. This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be erased easily. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/ lady/ women without a single thought i.e., sex.

10. Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely; it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you digging worse sexual problems if chance knocks the door.

11. Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge increases day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source for sexual pleasure.

12. Masturbation is the main reason for speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and to your wife.

13. Over masturbation reduces your sperm count. Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.

14. SThe seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formations. Proteins are the building blocks of our body; ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distracts your metabolism of muscle building.

15. Ethically masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect for others. You may be are good in all other regards but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.

16. Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.

17. The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.

18. Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought-provoking ability.

19. Masturbation is not the end of your desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or a satisfaction but seems that it gives.

20. It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail.

21. Guys who masturbate will lose interest in sex with their wife very soon. They can’t feel pleasurable for a long time.

22. Masturbation induces homosexuals in schools, colleges and hostels. Many times the latter creates sexually transmitted diseases like VD, syphilis, AIDS etc.,
masturbation to fornication anyday

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Re: Masturbation Vs Fornication by donshady(m): 6:50pm On Mar 31, 2016
Jadekitana2:
masturbation to fornication anyday
it's all about choice bro. We all reap the fruit of what we do.

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