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Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 3:43pm On Apr 15, 2016
dollyjoy:
why should i marry a liability?or are you an assest?cheesycheesycheesycheesy
whttt huh?
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by LemonBoy1: 3:43pm On Apr 15, 2016
vizkiz:
if I slap you ehn you go vomit fuel angry

What responsibilities are you talking about? "Wifing" a liability right? Believe me, isn't gonna work undecided
in as much as i don't support you in slapping her, the FUEL involved is tempting me... (chai, this fuel crisis sef)
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Vongsama(m): 3:47pm On Apr 15, 2016
This nigger is a snitch. I don't wanna know whether he's right or wrong. Hang him. Hang him now!
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Parollawd(m): 3:48pm On Apr 15, 2016
Op can I share this with my blog readers www.articulatedworld..com...u get all the credits
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by lottomkyes10(m): 3:55pm On Apr 15, 2016
emusmith:
Long throat, you say? There are some that are ready to spend on you or not bother you for money but you don't want them... cry
pls wia are they I need dis type for real dat is if it does exist.
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Dklef(m):
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 3:55pm On Apr 15, 2016
Asslicking op
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 3:56pm On Apr 15, 2016
lottomkyes10:
pls wia are they I need dis type for real dat is if it does exist.
They are around you
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 3:57pm On Apr 15, 2016
Parollawd:
Op can I share this with my blog readers www.articulatedworld..com...u get all the credits
Go on! Spread it
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by koded123(m): 3:58pm On Apr 15, 2016
. . . From your text i quote'You ask out a girl whose cream is half your salary . . . 'tell me a serious minded guy dat will be able to cope with such girl?hw will such girl find mr right easily?hw wil such girl cope in time of hardship?
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by ayusco85(m): 4:00pm On Apr 15, 2016
emusmith:
That's why I tenaciously hold the belief: Date a girl when you're ready for marriage.
The only truth I can agree with.

But unfortunately, lots of guys and girls date for dating sake. For sex majorly.

Until we retrace our steps and know that only those ready to marry shld ve a business with dating, we will keep having lots of single ladies above 30 and lots of bachelor's approaching 40.
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by bongolistik(m): 4:05pm On Apr 15, 2016
KashyBaby:
Oohh another kid wailing down here....have u lost ur toy? undecided sorry this is not the lost & found area mumi...

Have u read what I quote? I said most men, not all men...


Now, gerrarahere! cool
I dey really enjoy you cos u don really blend KashyBaby.... but tek am easy o cos e get some persons wey dier mouth dey hot like pepper here, nd I no go like mek dem descend on you (did you get me?)
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by spafu(m): 4:09pm On Apr 15, 2016
emusmith:
Long throat, you say? There are some that are ready to spend on you or not bother you for money but you don't want them... cry
Give them my number please. I want someone to also spend on me just a quarter of what other girls have sipped and siphoned from me. Lol. Well name joke o, I can't allow my woman to assume the responsibility of catering for my needs financially. I chop witch, abi dem curse me?
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by PastorFire: 4:11pm On Apr 15, 2016
udysweet:
You took the wrong person to pick on sir. Take your expensive jokes elsewhere. Have agreat weekend.
Sure, i will.. Never heard of the cost of a joke though.. I just know a joke to be a joke.. Did you say, its expensive?
Well, have a great weekend dear
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 4:14pm On Apr 15, 2016
bongolistik:
I dey really enjoy you cos u don really blend KashyBaby.... but tek am easy o cos e get some persons wey dier mouth dey hot like pepper here. (did you get me?)
Yes I understand... but need to read atleast 4x for me to get it.
Lol... grin


Well, I need slow down this time, I juz been locked up for a whole wk & I juz got back grin
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by EzeRedd(m): 4:16pm On Apr 15, 2016
I blame you, you blame me like apc and pdp. At the end we still dey where we dey. This has been one interesting thread with hilarious comments and counter comments. with romance blooming among some and war among others. I have had a good laugh and so I am moving to the next thread. Nlander's una too much. Choi! Lwkmd. grin grin grin
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Masterboi(m): 4:19pm On Apr 15, 2016
[img][/img] Wont Lie To You Guys Am Still Up Till Now.And Am 20yr Old,how About That.?
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 4:22pm On Apr 15, 2016
spafu:
Give them my number please. I want someone to also spend on me just a quarter of what other girls have sipped and siphoned from me. Lol. Well name joke o, I can't allow my woman to assume the responsibility of catering for my needs financially. I chop witch, abi dem curse me?
But then, that's not all. It's all about a relationship: not a money-spending spree dating undecided
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Onohbiafra(m): 4:30pm On Apr 15, 2016
MAKES NO SENSE TO ME.IF A GIRL WANTS TO MARRY A TALL,FAIR AND HANDSOME MAN AND SHE KEEPS REJECTING A LOT OF GUYS, AND ENDS UP BEING SINGLE WHO WILL U BLAME.
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Mom007(f): 4:33pm On Apr 15, 2016
I think the state of the economy is the major culprit that keeps guys and ladies single. The average Nigerian wedding costs at least 2mil. Some guys have only seen that kind of money in a bank. It's not as if they ain't getting free sex from husband hunting ladies so they just keep serial dating. When they finish wasting a woman's time and she eventually leaves them, they find another person. The solution to this is if both see marriage as a partnership. The woman should work so she can assist the man with expenses. Also moderate the number of children so as to be able to cater for them and reduce expenses.
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Curvinus(m):
On the contrary, some of you ladies of nowadays are so ugly inside that not even the piss-stained, homeless bums, bottom of the barrel quasimodos and hermaphrodites would have you.

You might manage to get a halfway decent man to dump a hate Bleep in your bitter, charmless and caustically unfeminine pozay but you'll have a harder time getting these men to stick around for a sequel because of your screwed up attitude and out place sense of entitlement.

You simply have no conceptualization of masculinity outside of what you stand to benefit from it.

As for the "Captain save a hoe" that wrote this men-bashing and ladies-exonerating piece, I say wait till your so-called sweet heart gets bored of your routine monogamous idealism and turn around to want to kill off the pathetic love-sick puppy you have become...then it it would dawn on you that the sexual strategy of our ladies is nothing but amoral.


I would not worry about them if I were you cos most ladies of nowadays either have fvcked up boundaries or think they deserve the best that mankind has to offer........until they waste their peak fertility years and lose their sexual market value.....then they turn around and want to settle for you as consolation prize.....but with very limited intimacy........


This explains the very common scenario where you are diligently providing for your woman and doing everything within your power to make her happy, yet she resents you for not being good enough (alpha enough) for her according to her warped sense of estimation......
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by bongolistik(m): 4:40pm On Apr 15, 2016
KashyBaby:
Yes I understand... but need to read atleast 4x for me to get it.
Lol... grin


Well, I need slow down this time, I juz been locked up for a whole wk & I juz got back grin
ok..welcom back. Was reading through ur comments and noticed some places you added our slangs, like "Chaaai" "Gerrarahere". That shows great improvement. Away from Clementi?
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 4:44pm On Apr 15, 2016
bongolistik:
ok..welcom back. Was reading through ur comments and noticed some places you added our slangs, like "Chaaai" "Gerrarahere". That shows great improvement. Away from Clementi?
Clementi is juz great..peace & quiet place to live in..

Hahahhaaa...yeaaah sometime those slangs juz came out of nowhere ooo tongue I learn something bits by bits... grin
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by olac21(m): 4:50pm On Apr 15, 2016
udysweet:
You want her curvy,busty,sexy infact she must keep turning u on anytime u set eyes oon her. She must also be strong chritisan and hav her own money bcs ur too stingy to spend ur own money on her. And you come here to say women are been picky and setting high standards when you as a man has set standards way higher than that of a woman. And if any woman longs for comfort even from a man wch isn't uncommon,you say she is greedy. I've never been rude here on NL before but in Francis Odega's voice"gherarahia mehn"
God bless u @op jare. Me I crave comfrt and the good things of life and it dsnt hav to be by force the man has to give me but if I'm a wife,isn't it a man's duty to see to me as his responsibilty and then anytin I bring as a support is secondary? Not all dis"morn food mony" or "aftanoon food mony"
A lot of factors are responsible for why women are single,some way beyond their power as it also applied to the male folks. Not because of standards.
Abg I'm talking too much jare,lol!
Una good afternoon o from the other side
Do you think we can make any meaning of the crap you wrote up therehuhabsolutely no...so pls fvck away as fast as as you can..
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by ladyF(f): 4:55pm On Apr 15, 2016
babyfaceafrica:
ladyf
lol your assumption is quite true. Nobody don toast me... cry I wonder what the matter is, maybe because I no fine grin
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by dollyjoy(f): 5:02pm On Apr 15, 2016
Lacomus:
whttt huh?
hello darl,why are you surprised?
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by mentorandfriend(m): 5:02pm On Apr 15, 2016
kingcity:
I thought you once dated while still a medical student...were you ready mentally spiritually...financially etc then?
Thanks for asking.

This thread might answer your question.

The Friend Zone: Much Ado About Nothing.


Feel free to ask me any further question if that thread didnt answer your question.

And then, also get it that mental, financial, spiritual maturity is not a function of being a student, or age. Three of my close pals married while we were in school and they still have successful marriages today.

What most immature boys call dating today is nothing other than 'We're sex-partners'. They end up wasting the girl's most productive years. The guy moves on easily, but for the girl, her best years (18-28) have been wasted by an unserious guy who never had marriage in mind. This is what I and Emusmith are trying to point out.
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by bongolistik(m): 5:03pm On Apr 15, 2016
KashyBaby:
Clementi is juz great..peace & quiet place to live in..

Hahahhaaa...yeaaah sometime those slangs juz came out of nowhere ooo tongue I learn something bits by bits... grin
no, not bits, you are quick at grabbing things. Got to sign out now. So keep enjoying urself on the platform, and take it gentle on them... Permit me to gerrarahere now cheesy... Catch u later (mek I go do sometin)
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by jojothaiv(m): 5:03pm On Apr 15, 2016
vizkiz:
Most guys are spending too much time creating silly threads on nairaland undecided

I can't believe you are actually gonna blame me because Cynthia living opposite my compound is yet to marry due to the fact that she is busy playing "hard to get" meanwhile me no even get time to dey pursue woman. undecided

How will I be sitting down here jejely and someone will be blaming me for lady's stupidityhuh

This thread stinks. I think op wants to get laid by winning some ladies hearts undecided
U dey mind am...
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by oluwaphemmy10: 5:07pm On Apr 15, 2016
Business minded fellas
Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by olac21(m): 5:07pm On Apr 15, 2016
Vikings007:
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Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 5:16pm On Apr 15, 2016
olac21:
Teach me how to cross words pls
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