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Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by mysticgal(f): 12:28am On Apr 19, 2016 |
Medley:Yes you are right |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by noucompact(m): 12:30am On Apr 19, 2016 |
ACURATE TALK |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by Medley(m): 12:30am On Apr 19, 2016 |
MarieSucre: trash? Like, bin trash? Or is it the style of writing or the points raised, do you have the luxury of time to elucidiate? |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:31am On Apr 19, 2016 |
Medley: Not only consent. Maybe na agreement we go dey sign soon. And a point of correction: rape cases are not growing by the day. |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by ghostwritter(m): 12:34am On Apr 19, 2016 |
Medley:NO I haven't coz I av only loved one lady who is not a feminist and does not act like a man in a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by HARDDON: 12:35am On Apr 19, 2016 |
It seems some strange laws caught up with Op after reading his signs wrongly now he preaching against dah. Op, tell us d story jor! How many years did u do? Cos u just typed some heavy beating induced trepidation. The best book to reading a woman's mind, is tru her signals n body language whether u r a husby or bf! U have to learn n perfect the skills because even after giving off d signal, u still have to apply wisdom on How best to narrow in To fail in this is to constantly have rolls wit her. Op, How do we know what they r saying when their No cud mean Yes but u have to try harder? Their Yes cud mean Maybe n their maybe cud mean No? How do u deal in dis illogical lane? Huh? |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by Bloggz74(m): 12:35am On Apr 19, 2016 |
thesicilian: Boss so which do we believe? Maybe angels sent by God will speak to us before we move. #moreconfusedafterthetrash |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by MarieSucre(f): 12:36am On Apr 19, 2016 |
lexy070: Number 1 is utmost rubbish. So if a guy comes to my house whether it is christian brother or course mate, I should just prepare to sex him. Number 2 is another balderdash. Except you're saying no girl should trust any guy at all, including you. And you're proud that men have such bad image as to be untrustworthy. Number 3 I don't understand what you mean here. Number 4 you did not explain. Number 5 is quite reasonable. Especially for the woman. I believe in dressing for comfort. But who is to say what will make junior stand attention. Should I now wear niqab because junior will fly into a tantrum? Would it not be better to completely avoid such an irresponsible fellow who can't put his junior under control? |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by MarieSucre(f): 12:37am On Apr 19, 2016 |
Medley:I have edited it. Sorry about the misconception. pls recheck. |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by oshaosha2014(m): 12:40am On Apr 19, 2016 |
It is obvious the Op is looking for validation of women, whereas you and I and the Op and the women know that, if you don't wanna have sex, show no signs. Op is a twisted fellow. Telling guys to ask for consent when we all know naija galz are not verbal with sex request, they only show signs. 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by ghostwritter(m): 12:42am On Apr 19, 2016 |
Vinshu:sorry sey wetin? The last lady (Anita) that tried that rubbish with me was crush by a tipper a week to her wedding...me I no be Ajebutter, I be real omo Alfa with swaggz. No babe will ever cheat me and get away with it...éwö!! |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by HARDDON: 12:43am On Apr 19, 2016 |
MarieSucre: 1 got no ish..... But I got a Q bout two for u: what is major reason that makes ladies down booze? LAdies that otherwise wud do koke? |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by MarieSucre(f): 12:45am On Apr 19, 2016 |
HARDDON: The same reason men take down booze. Coz its liquid happiness. Now I want yo add and its very important to note that a lot women who take coke might do so because they don't trust the company of the men they're hanging with. And alcohol impairs a persons judgement. What is totally disgusting about this is how our society normalizes such a situation and even lauds it. If a woman says you're an untrustworthy fellow to be around. Is that a compliment? Is that supposed to be a good thing? The same reason men take down booze. Coz its liquid happiness. Now I want yo add and its very important to note that a lot women who take coke might do so because they don't trust the company of the men they're hanging with. And alcohol impairs a persons judgement. What is totally disgusting about this is how our society normalizes such a situation and even lauds it. If a woman says you're an untrustworthy fellow to be around Of someone tells a man, "I can't keep this money around you. You might want to steal it one day". Will the man say "its true o, don't try it out. You know we men, we think with our hands not our brains". "Once I'm stealing even my brain cannot force me to stop". Then when they catch him and they've beaten him bloody and put tire around his neck and ate about to burn him to death_ he will now be shouting to the crowd "HE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER THAN TO KEEP THE MONEY NEAR ME!! WHY DIDN'T HE SHOW ME SIGN THAT HE DID NOT WANT ME TAKE THE MONEY!! IF I HAD TOLD MY FRIENDS I DIDN'T TAKE THE MONEY THEY WOULD HAVE CALLED ME A FIRST CLASS MUMU!! Don't you see how silly they sound no |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by Medley(m): 12:45am On Apr 19, 2016 |
BuddhaPalm: I think i understand what you are aiming at. The word may not sound well in your lexicon, but what still stands is that people are raped because of signs being misconstrued and this cases seem to be increasing. |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by HARDDON: 12:46am On Apr 19, 2016 |
oshaosha2014: Wat do u expect from someone that has done time? Seeking permission is a wussbag act only pulled off by pseudo nice guys n dey dont ever get laid |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by HARDDON: 12:48am On Apr 19, 2016 |
MarieSucre: Owh common Merry Marie! U can do better |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by Medley(m): 12:49am On Apr 19, 2016 |
oshaosha2014: I get your point. We all are opinionated and we should do that without smear campaigns. Just be careful with reading signs and gestures. |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by Medley(m): 12:51am On Apr 19, 2016 |
MarieSucre: yup! Have gotten the update. |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by MarieSucre(f): 12:57am On Apr 19, 2016 |
HARDDON: What do you mean I can do better? Do some men not decide to take a different drink on some occasions? Why do women have to have an ulterior motive to do that? Is everything fvck-sign to you guys? |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by Medley(m): 1:00am On Apr 19, 2016 |
HARDDON: one may not necessarily experience bad ordeal before giving out advice. If you read through the piece, you would see that i talked about understanding the stage both partners are in the relationship. You also brought up understanding signs as married men and women, have you heard of a woman/man saying he/she was raped by the other? In this thread we are talking of unmarried partners. I don't even support sex outside marriage. |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by olaremint(m): 1:40am On Apr 19, 2016 |
Nigerians have suffered, it is only here that guyz study babes like u are going on Gulder Ultimate search, try abroad and the girls will laugh @ u with the cave man mentality, this is to say thanks to Bella in cotonou for showing how the world is easy. |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:48am On Apr 19, 2016 |
Medley: You can't rape a woman without excessive force or intimidation. Unless one is socially retàrded or suffers from Asperger's, there's no "misconstruing" a girl who doesn't want to have sex with you. Your write up appears well intentioned, on the surface, but on closer inspection it is pushing very dangerous ideas. Ideas that: 1.) Women have no agency, and are not accountable for their actions. 2.) Men are monsters who are always out to rape women. If your intent is followed to its logical conclusion, then we'll soon have ridiculous scenarios where women can retroactively withdraw consent (out of buyer's remorse), and have guys suffer for it. A society in which women can wield false rape accusations like a bludgeon - without consequences - is not one you would want to live in. 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by itstpia8: 1:54am On Apr 19, 2016 |
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Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by samx4real(m): 3:09am On Apr 19, 2016 |
BE811APP: No be lie |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by Nobody: 3:44am On Apr 19, 2016 |
#hips don't lie #action speaks louder than voice! |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by TheProphetess(f): 4:59am On Apr 19, 2016 |
hobermener: So you will rape her ? Wait first lemme call police officer |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by cevek11: 5:01am On Apr 19, 2016 |
hobermener: Don't know whether to type... no sense or nonsense? If you spend your hard earned money on your mother, or brothers, or sisters, or father, or your fellow guys nko? Smash their ***** |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by henryhemon(m): 5:27am On Apr 19, 2016 |
Vinshu: Not all the time but most times. |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by Decryptor(m): 5:41am On Apr 19, 2016 |
what a very useless post! |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by franugo(m): 5:55am On Apr 19, 2016 |
thesicilian: so true bro. there was this girl whom i had a crush on{she knew i liked her n i think she liked me 2} dt sometimes slept in my room. everytime she comes wearing very tight bumshort. she 'lets' me touch her boobs n all but when i try to get her to lift a lil so i could pull down d bloody bumshort, she pretends to be fast n deeply asleep who falls into a deep sleep barely 5 mins after a conversation n i dnt think its shyness, me i just kukuma let sleeping dogs lie ko,..life's too short to be wasted differentiating green signals from d rainbow colour 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by franugo(m): 5:59am On Apr 19, 2016 |
Vinshu: If dts really u on ur dp, then i dnt blame the guys dt much, u exude sex appeal in droves Nwanyi oma |
Re: Reasons Why Relying On Signs And Not Consent Before Having Sex Can Be Misleading by franugo(m): 6:02am On Apr 19, 2016 |
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