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emusmith:
It's true! It still doesn't change the fact that SOME girls should STOP demeaning womanhood at the age where they should be focused on preparing for marriage and building their careers.

Hadez:
Oh, you are pained now? That is how it feels hurting a woman's personality. Go ahead and face the oloshos in your family since they are also guilty of those lists one way or the other.




Feeling guilty? Only an idiot and someone who's mother didn't train him well on how to respect a lady will type and support that rubbish you called a list. Nairaland boys are just dumb set of misogynists

Teespice:
God knows I have stopped commenting on topics like this but I need to make something very clear.

why are you guys like this? a woman takes this advice, no show. she takes the next persons advice yet no headway. do you know the kind of pressure she is to conform to what society and your likes say all the time.

she decided on the kind of guy she wants to settle down with, you people will be the ones to shame her and her choices. she sleeps with someone, everyone joins the band wagon to slut shame her. she is expected to do this and do that not for her happiness but because of the notion that she will end up in a man's house.

she takes all advice given from boys like you on the internet, from her friends, relatives, siblings and parent. she goes on that date and starts acting all fake. haven't you realised by now that a guy can spot a fake person from afar and by body language. ever wonder how she ends up in a relationship and it looks like she's acting out a script based on all the advice she has gotten. tell me how that relationship is expected to last long when she's acting like a robot that has been programmed to take in information both the good and the rubbish.

I am no feminist and I keep saying that I am all for equity and not equality because I recognise that there are specific roles for each gender to play. I am an advocate for her to do what she wants provided she is able to live with the repercussions of her actions later and it's what makes her happy. you have absolutely no right to tell anybody how to live her life by way of the non- existent advice you give her. a man who sees her will be with her if he wants to and not because he's doing her a favour.

anyhow, I have always learnt not to take anything I read on the internet especially nairaland seriously because more often than not, people would come online and say things to feel good about themselves or contradict themselves and in reality, they shovel and grove for the next girls attention.

women, be yourselves. do things because you want to do them not because of what the next person will say or think. for all you know, you have no idea what goes on in their lives. if you keep living according to the dictates of what people think you will be the one miserable at the end of the day and guess what, these same people will be the ones to gloat.

I am out. going through the comments on this thread so far, my post is more than justified.

Teespice:
God knows I have stopped commenting on topics like this but I need to make something very clear.

why are you guys like this? a woman takes this advice, no show. she takes the next persons advice yet no headway. do you know the kind of pressure she is to conform to what society and your likes say all the time.

she decided on the kind of guy she wants to settle down with, you people will be the ones to shame her and her choices. she sleeps with someone, everyone joins the band wagon to slut shame her. she is expected to do this and do that not for her happiness but because of the notion that she will end up in a man's house.

she takes all advice given from boys like you on the internet, from her friends, relatives, siblings and parent. she goes on that date and starts acting all fake. haven't you realised by now that a guy can spot a fake person from afar and by body language. ever wonder how she ends up in a relationship and it looks like she's acting out a script based on all the advice she has gotten. tell me how that relationship is expected to last long when she's acting like a robot that has been programmed to take in information both the good and the rubbish.

I am no feminist and I keep saying that I am all for equity and not equality because I recognise that there are specific roles for each gender to play. I am an advocate for her to do what she wants provided she is able to live with the repercussions of her actions later and it's what makes her happy. you have absolutely no right to tell anybody how to live her life by way of the non- existent advice you give her. a man who sees her will be with her if he wants to and not because he's doing her a favour.

anyhow, I have always learnt not to take anything I read on the internet especially nairaland seriously because more often than not, people would come online and say things to feel good about themselves or contradict themselves and in reality, they shovel and grove for the next girls attention.

women, be yourselves. do things because you want to do them not because of what the next person will say or think. for all you know, you have no idea what goes on in their lives. if you keep living according to the dictates of what people think you will be the one miserable at the end of the day and guess what, these same people will be the ones to gloat.

I am out. going through the comments on this thread so far, my post is more than justified.

fejicruz:
People castigated the female folks for being oloshos. But nobody castigates the male folks for patronizing them. Sick and depraved society.

Guess you are just realizing its a man's world


especially in Nigeria

Tallesty1:
lwkmd.



You be igbo person bah?

emusmith:
It's true! It still doesn't change the fact that SOME girls should STOP demeaning womanhood at the age where they should be focused on preparing for marriage and building their careers.

nubian999:
This Place is such a hateful place.... They wanna tell women how to be dumb and teach men how to be smart... I feel the change in the Air...

I feel it too

angels09:
When are you paying?

misspicy:
I feel it too

subbieD:
Noted

Angelberry:
no, I can't remember when I agreed to go on a date with you.

Stupedinluv:
Oh the way you guys talk about ladies and marriage i might consider staying single last last.

Why not just let people be for once

If they religiously follow what you have up there, you will use your second mouth to cry fraud and pretence.

This life nawa.

Hi dear


I have always come across your posts on here and noticed something I think i should draw your attention to

@bolded,I just want to say,you should not allow what you read on internet determine your lifestyle, especially not on Nairaland.


if some topics irritates you,just jump am pass,they are not worth your MB.



thank You

angels09:

nubian999:
Why did I come back? See what boredom does

Nne ndo same Nubian?

boredom is a bastard

Teespice:
I modified my post and added few things.

it is nobody's business what she does with her life provided that she knows the repercussions of her actions.

we are her yarning and she's somewhere probably catching her trips.

at the end of the day, we are responsible for our actions.

Angelberry:
Why dat face?

emusmith:
Smithy: Stunts ladies who are 25+ shouldn't be pulling

Hmm...as I look around, I see reasons to also note from a different perspective that everything is not BLACK and WHITE, there are also GREY areas.

The number of 25+ ladies are increasing by the day and funny, some of these women don't understand the significance of etching closer towards '30'.

Like it or hate it, all guys can't be wrong at same time. There are some stunts you shouldn't pulling if you are 25+ and if you persist, history will keep repeating it self:
- Late marriages
- Unhappiness in the home.
- Divorce etc


1. Being Over- Dramatic

Drama! Drama!! Drama!!! Yes, girls are dramatic by default but if you are heading towards 30, you should reset you default settings. All of a sudden, you quit talking to a guy you've known for years or even months and you expect him to...to what? To decipher and doggedly go after you. Later tomorrow, you'll say, "I'ld have left you but you forced me". That's what guys don't understand. Mind you: guys have admirers too but they chose you. Reduce the drama.



2. Changing guys like under wears

You'll see a girl who claims is getting ready for marriage test-running different guys like a guy testing which console will work on his PS2. Yes, you did it as a 'kid' but now? Haba! You wonder why no responsible guy is coming your way, it's simply because you've friendzoned all of 'em.


3. Still upholding the Principle of "oloshos"

Do I know the principles? At least I know that they date all kinds of men, Sugar daddies and Alhajis included. You can't be cross-dating and still expect a responsible young man: Mba! His mummy's prayer negates that!

4. Pursuing guys after "free" rides, meals, dates etc

There is nothing as naughty, demeaning and cheap-looking as a 25+ girl who claims to have no feeling for a guy BUT wants free meals, rides, from same. That's irresponsible. If na so 'love' dey catch you, get a guy that will love you for free. Don't get a guy's hope up, and later you start acting innocent and weird. That's witchcraft!

5. E-robbery

A robber takes from you and doesn't sit with you. "She" runs away. I have heard some guys who have been "robbed" by some of these chicks. To them it's a game but it's an indirect way of strengthening yourself as a "single and searching" for a long time.


PS: It hurts me to see a girl deceiving herself, all in the name of "I still have more time". The truth is: the shortest 5 years in a ladies life is the 25-30 range. A word is enough for the wise.

emusmith:
I guess you are new here. I wouldn't exchange words with you. But answer my question: What contribution have you made on NL? Some, over the years have become friends and admirers. AS USUAL, some like my thread and some don't. What have you done? Don't whine and grine... Be the change you want to see or SHUT UP!

Tallesty1:
Switch off your phone and go to bed if you don't have anything to say.

Women should stop oloshoing if they do not want to be called olosho.

emusmith:
All of a sudden, you quit talking to a guy you've known for years or even months and you expect him to...to what? To decipher and doggedly go after you. Later tomorrow, you'll say, "I'ld have left you but you forced me".
.

angels09:
Am already on a cocktail of aphrodisiacs...

Stupedinluv:
Oh the way you guys talk about ladies and marriage i might consider staying single last last.

Why not just let people be for once

If they religiously follow what you have up there, you will use your second mouth to cry fraud and pretence.

This life nawa.

Hadez:
Oh, you are pained now? That is how it feels hurting a woman's personality. Go ahead and face the oloshos in your family since they are also guilty of those lists one way or the other.




Feeling guilty? Only an idiot and someone who's mother didn't train him well on how to respect a lady will type and support that rubbish you called a list. Nairaland boys are just dumb set of misogynists

Eberex:
I'm looking at your profile now:

1. Some attributes of guys who bash ladies online
2. Guys are the major reasons ladies are still single
3. Sex is overrated
4. Unrealistic demands of girls no guy should ever give in to

All these are your posts. Can you see any similarity? yes i can.

A guy looking for attention with posts he thinks would create a buzz. I will not waste my time on dudes like you bro, if i don't have posts to make i'd rather read sensible posts than this.

joseph1832:

misspicy:
Hi dear


I have always come across your posts on here and noticed something I think i should draw your attention to

@bolded,I just want to say,you should not allow what you read on internet determine your lifestyle, especially not on Nairaland.


if some topics irritates you,just jump am pass,they are not worth your MB.



thank You

subbieD:
Abi na