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| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:04am On May 02, 2016 |
Adasun: all men think same thing @ bolded, but women know better...... wish guys wud learn so that people like us are not seen as goDs in the eyes of these gurls 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Adasun(m): 11:16am On May 02, 2016 |
HARDDON: mehn!!! Some beauty the make head twist twice. Oboy e get one wey i c ba,u knw those fine babes wey da inside del ta soap? Na so da gal fine bt she no knw book one bit.she is a corper serving in a skul  choi bt God design dat gal die.  13 Likes |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:24am On May 02, 2016 |
Adasun: chai u don make my man stand attention!  give me her number, usually i no dey waste time wit dullardinhos but id make exception with her, make ah teach her small book mbok 6 Likes |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by NLjona(m): 12:25pm On May 02, 2016 |
HARDDON: how? |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 1:52pm On May 02, 2016 |
NLjona: your motive is just wrong, here we help guys better understand the web of women and better themselves in trying to get that gurl of their dream not turn monsters and see ladies as OBJECT OF PASSIONATE PLEASURE and treat them like b1tches. if you want b1tches, i think they sell for 1k and above 28 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DonWhizzy: 3:46pm On May 02, 2016 |
Wow Rockstation!!! that was swift! Ah sight you, thanks! ehmmm by the way, when are YOU taking me out so i can check out the personality behind the moniker? Singing " we all need somebody to leannnnn on" you've leaned on dah keypad too long, come let's take to dah skies and taste some clouds . do me a mail with you number and dont keep big deddy waiting for too long  Rich Regards 9 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:16pm On May 02, 2016 |
NLjona: But for the guys with right motives, Here is how u go about this : send her this short message the next day: " hi, i heard u you missed me so much and cant wait to melt into my arms in warm embrace. thatz my line, call." two things you have achieved here: one u didnt introduce yourself, so she wudnt really know who it is(suspense) , so she would be forced to call. when she does, dont take. wait till the next day, early morning, then send her this msg: " hi, saw your beep yesterday, who could this be?" two things here: you are implying you have forgotten(annoying but kul) you told her to call u, and u dont even know who she is. she wud be forced to call back immediately or send a msg: if she calls, take ur time, let the phone ring for some time b4 u pick and say (with a deep relaxed voice: " hello, who im i unto?" she wud say well you sent me a msg yesterday, u take ur time like u thinking and say oh, the Gurl they say is missing me so much she cant eat, sleep or think? ......." u get the jeck? if she ask you who u are, shot back by saying : how can a gf forget her bf's voice? yea i know my voice sound richer now but that doesnt mean it changed" if she doenst still get it, tell her she has 5 secs to guess who u r for u got other things to take care of........whether she guess right or not, tell her you got to go now, and hang up. the idea is to create suspense that leads to attraction . 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:20pm On May 02, 2016 |
DonWhizzy: 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:39pm On May 02, 2016 |
Due to Mail Demands, From now on, we would be posting and answering questions that where sent to me tru emails so that we all can benefit from them also. here go: QUESTION FROM EMAIL Thing is, I'm this closeted, shy kinda person yet not buoyant financially. I'm currently friends with this girl who I now have feelings for. I have in the guise of this done almost all that clingy n first-loving people do in the guise of being nice; I have idolised, over-complemented, smothered n allowed her have her ways before now. Finally, I'll be relocating to another state in some days and I still haven't told her anything, though I guess she's sensed it already. I've been afraid she might rebuff my advance knowing I haven't really built much attraction with her yet. Can this situation be helped, should I still go ahead declaring my mind to her? Will you advise I give her more time n see about doing that from wherever I move to? My Advise: whatever you do, dont you ever tell her anything cos she already knows. what you should do now is strive to create attraction not to sink down deep into the friend zone have u ever kissed , touched , done any intimate thing with her b4? have you guys ever gone dancing b4, club /party? ever drank any form of liquor with her? ever gone to the pool? if u were to call her now and tell her that u are going somewhere tomorow and want her to come along, wud she gladly come? kindly answer these questions so we know how to rightly advise u. 14 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by TheSCRYPT: 4:52pm On May 02, 2016 |
HARDDON, you've got mail. 1 Like |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:56pm On May 02, 2016 |
TheSCRYPT: Replied |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:44pm On May 02, 2016 |
MAIL QUESTION: Met her at a religious gathering, she seemed the calm type, quite young and adorably beautiful. Has the voice that can heal a mad man and the body like Venus'. Dark, shapy and very intelligent. Sad thing, she is much younger than me (She doesn't know this). With respect to class, I am not bad. Good looking and smart with respect to dress sense. I speak well and am the quite type in the organisation. My first attempt to get her contact was not so successful. I blamed myself cause my approach was the type of string a teenager would pull. So, it failed, of course with a little embarrassment. I got over it and tried to say hello, but then she travelled. I got her contact through someone who knew her and we got talking, found out she wasn't good with sarcasm. I am very good with making sarcastic jokes. But this babe just doesnt flow, cant chat and often responds with monosyllables. Couple of times I told her. Anyway, point is, I tried to break her defences. Turned out she bailed. You know, she stopped taking my calls, reads my messages without responding. I resolved to giving her space. I like her, a lot. I don't know what her impression is of me. But I will love to have her in my arms. My Response: You blew it right from the start and tru all ur conversation and actions all along, u have been most boring. U couldnt just get your feet right where this gurl is and that made u fall from one depth to the other. trying too much. No need to try, u cant force a lady to get attracted to you, for everything u do henceforth, just drives her the more away from you. learn your lesson from this and move on. make sure you go tru the thread , mostly the part that talks about meeting ladies. by the way, every lady is gud with sarcasm, only when u put the right foot forward, get it wrong the first time, get it wrong all along and no matter how hard u try, she wud neva laugh. this is why u wud see a lady online chatting with a guy but ignores every other guy or give them the mono syllabic responses. the more she does that, the more u look forward to her responses , the more it frustrates, the more needy u wud get , the more it drives them away. when u notice a lady doing this, be the first to walk and never sell short, u are worth more NB: learn from this skill: learn to ignore ladies u are interested in, learn to relax , take your time, ignore their calls sometimes, make your self unavailable sometimes and create this attractive tension, the more u do this, the more they wud want u SENSE PILL 9: Scarcity leads to High Demand/Price 52 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by NLjona(m): 12:08am On May 03, 2016 |
there's this girl I'm unto now, we've been chatting for long now, i just realise she's already now in control of the friendship, most point you laid out have been practice by d girl towards me. I don't knw how I can reverse d whole thing , after I realize all dis since yesterday, I've not msg her , pls what should I do next 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:02pm On May 03, 2016 |
Thanks Rocktation.....I owe you 2, u owe me 1 1 Like |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:04pm On May 03, 2016 |
MAIL QUESTION: To start with, am an introvert, an exteremely shy person and get embarassed easily but i am exeremely handsome about 6'7 ft, dark but no muscles shaa... lol am just slim, not thin, to the extent that i get complements from fellow guys in my school..... thats just to tell u how i am... There is this girl in my school, we stay in the same hostel. when i was in 100l and still a total novice, i started noticing that she likes me, she comes to my room EVERYDAY, saying she wants to greet me. She calls me on phone just to check on me/find out if i have eaten so on... every boyd in d hostel knows she likes me alot, she even comes to my room with only a tank top that stopsjust at her tigh... without panties, she tells me.. and i know cos of d way she is consious when she sits.. we she talks alot tho about herself cos am not much of a talker, during one of our conversations she found out that am a virgin, since then one way or the other shes asking me y am still a virgin. From indications she wants me to bang her.... but as a shy guy i didnt pay attention to those as i can hardly initiate any sexual contact as i have this fear..... fast forward to present.. i think the attraction has reduced alot, tho she still come to my room but not like b4, just when she needs something, tho she still comes often still wearing those exteremely provocative dresses.. there was a day i wanted to kiss her, i was sure she was ready for it but i couldnt move... that fear just gripped me, i hated my self afterwards.. still i havnt dont anything bout it, i say 'i will try to kiss her today' but when shes leaving to her room maybe around 12 or 1am (yeah she stays that long in my room)i jusy watch her go without nothing happening... this is just one of the cases am having with females, maybe cos of my looks they get attracted but i as a person dont like attention, i dont like talking to people, i have selected people i talk to in d dept tho i have this tendencies to ne exteremely fully if u manage to engage me a convo but i dont like starting one... please help me... i want to be good with women but i cant just seem to take a step to do it. I have read alot of dating tips.. still. Sorry for the very long post... so you could understand me thats y 3 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:07pm On May 03, 2016 |
HARDDON: MY RESPONSE You should deal with your sheyness first b4 we can talk about dealing with women. Sit down and ask your self : Why do i feel shy? What gives me confidence? how do i Grow my confidence and be more outspoken around ppl? Proffer solutions, write them down b4 u go out everyday, read the solutions and practice them in course of the day.. One of the quickest ways to come out of this is to start meeting/talking with people( male of female). Just try and start a conversation with random people. Practice those lines I talked about in the thread and use them. also develop other funny ones. Meet a gurl and ask her: hi, what do u think a shy guy can do to start off a convo with a gurl that likes him? then use what ever she tell u on her instantly and say well, i noticed u like me......... laughs. It is not a very gud trait to have as a guy, it makes u weak, numb and dumb. Gurls talk u down/take you for a maga, guys override u and cheat u, people misunderstand u and u r just along in your world! YOU SHOULD DO EVERYTHING TO OVERCOME IT. HATE BEEN A SHY GUY AND STEP INTO THE WORLD OF SUPER CONFIDENT MALE. GUYS THAT CAN GET ANY GURL OF THEIR DREAM. YOU CAN TOO! PART 2: THE LADY. It is quite obvious she has been begging u silently to be a man and make luv to her. but Your fear wudnt let u even when your Jrod has been pushing u too! Be that as it may, I wud luv to ask you this QUESTION: do u like her person? do u think u wud like to date her? even though indirectly, u guys have been dating without making luv though( she is your gurlfriend, she knows it, your neighbors know it, only u dont) oh poor u! ehmm, i'd luv to know, what do u guys do when she comes around? watch movies? play games or what? IF SHE IS WORTH IT have u ever tried pillow fights? what about TRUTH OR DARE( One of my best erotic games!) . YOU START BY SAYING TRUTH OR DARE: the person is supposed to either say truth or dare.....the idea is to ask hard personal/sexual question or DARE the person to do something crazy/sexual: e.g, U SAY Truth or dare and she says truth: you ask her " what turns you on crazily in ur body?" ( this is to help u know where to touch her when leta) or u ask " when was the last time you had s3x?" or " what is your best s3x position or what is the most crazy thing you have ever done with a guy's d1ck?" hope u get the idea? if however she says Dare: Say i dare you to take off your cloths, or I dare you u pull out my d1ik and suck it or I dare you to kiss me. or i dare you to stoke ur clitoris ..... get the jeck? these are subtle ways to have her help u do ur work and b4 u know it, the deed has been done and a man can always trace his way back to a forest he has visited b4! the above is the best subtle way. but these are other ways: Buy alcohol and coke or fruit juice to mix, Play a collection of her best songs as u guys are drinking( make sure u have eaten ooooo b4 u do this), and u must drink wisely, the idea is to get u tipsy and not drunk. let her drink wild, soon she wud start dancing, join her , if she gives u b00ty, grab it and rock her, b4 u know it, ragae wud turn blue! Or u can go buy an Romance/erotic movie and let the movie do the rest , there must be alcohol too, drink as u watch! pick one of these and apply thank me latter Rich Regards 52 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:13pm On May 03, 2016 |
NLjona: Stay off her for now, if she still cares about u, she wud call to know why u changed n stopped calling all of a sudden . if she does, don't u take the the call, ignore her n let me know so I can tell u the next step to take to untangle urself from d wuss web. But if she doesn't call, just know that she was never with u n was just using u ..... If this is the case, do I need to tell u to move on n never look back?   13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:07pm On May 03, 2016 |
Summary to Drill 2: One be confident when meeting ladies n ooze I don't kare attitude..... Don't go in with an apologetic/needy body language . Maintain a steady deep voice . Make fun of her: find something on her body to make fun of , be it her shoes: " wow to ur shoes, they so tall now I'm havin a hard time guessing how short u r"! Or " wow, u so tall!" Den look down her high heels n make faces like u disapointed 11 Likes |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:42pm On May 03, 2016 |
If u must meet ladies n date, kindly note: 1) women don't choose who they get attracted to n the power lies within the palms of d guy who GETS IT( knows his onion) 2) they r illogical in life n in Luv: men and woman r wired differently, we hv diff psychological make up n therefore see/reason things differently . Men r logical ie they respond to big b00ties, fine bady n melon standing b00bs......very logically physical. A man might have one pair of shoes n one faded jeans, he 'd tell u, "that wud do for the week" But women respond to more of emotions n intuitions . this is why a lady can have warehouse wadrope n yet come complaining she ain't got nothing to wear! they see different shades of one colour, men only see one Ladies want guys that don't want them or guys that SEND them less, guys too busy to worry about some feeble fine bones 35 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:23pm On May 03, 2016 |
HARDDON: Women respond to personality traits , men respond to looks ....... Women respond to talks , men respond to sight Women r subtle and most times, the only way to tell u they r not interested in u romantically,they usually respond with monosyllabic answers at first, then start ignoring ur calls and msges and generally blank u out . Brotherly, Kindly dust urself up n move on....ur turning to a clingy needy wussbae-of-lyf wudnt change a tin, it wud rather drive them off d more. The surest way to come out of friendzone is tru Jealousy ! It is a powerful tool. How u ask? Apply all u have learnt and go get some1 hawter than she is! Date those who she can't hold a candle to n let her know it. Rub it on her face or let her friends rub it, and make sure when she scrubs around to have her share, be too expensive for her razz rat a33 . 19 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:33pm On May 03, 2016 |
Now here is a lil work tru Assignment : U can't keep learning all these gud stuff n not practicing them: Write down list of places u most likely meet ladies every day and possible knock out lines u can use to chat them up. It u don't have any, page 2 n 3 can help . Go tru d chat up lines and pick d best ones.... This is for a start as time goes on, u have to horn ur skills as to think on ur feet n create an instant flow. Then go out n meet at least 5 ladies this week. While @ it, ur main purpose are : make her laugh by been witty n funny , Collect her number n roll off within 4-6 mins 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 12:05am On May 04, 2016 |
HARDDON:you have a mail bro |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:39am On May 04, 2016 |
HARDDON: To get her number, avoid d usuals with guys. Don't ask her if she has a line , don't ask her if she can give u her number ...these r needy lines n they wud return negative responses n leave u feeling like a drenched dock.. This is How To get a lady's line: Make sure u end d convo abruptly by saying got to go now, here is my card. Walk on by. Or , as she is laughing so hard from ur crack knocks, say ur Nokia 3310 luk lovely, let me see..... she hangs over d phone, u punch ur number on d dailpad n dail ur number, if it says insufficient credit, u say with a loud whisper into her ears. .. don't think this relationship wud work, cos I might end up using all my salary to load phone...... Use call me back to get d n0 while @ it. Or this is where I call it a day, as u hand her d phone.....she knows what to do. Or u tell her that u know she wud miss u after now n wud Luv to talk to u again n start calling out ur number very quickly if she didn't get it, tell her its her last chance , if she fails to get it, u be gone n call d n0 a lil gently Or take ur pen , open her palms n write ur number therein while she is laughing. NB: I rather Luv giving my numbers to them n letting them call . much easier that way n it gives me so much room to build up d attraction .... This is because I usually don't care whether they call or not. If they call, its to their benefit , if they don't, they lose a great guy that wud not only have exploded their ribs but make one of d sweetest memory's blowing dah dah dah to them. When they call n after explaining who they r, trust me I usually grill them so that I know exactly which one is calling....very important guys...... My usual line wud be , dear Lord my day cudnt be that bad! Why did I even give u my line? Or I say oh u? Well u finally found me! Blessed is she that findeth a MAN! Ucant imagine the crackle they let out 19 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:42am On May 04, 2016 |
SENSE PILL 10: Get/Give the number, get out within five! The more u hang in there, d more likely u wud screw it up....! So just go while d ovation is loudest 20 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 1:24am On May 04, 2016 |
Now ur life might really get very messy if u don't follow this coding rule in saving numbers. U wud tend to forget who is who n start calling Oge , Nkechi ... This is a huge turn off for ladies. U must remember names, faces, places , last discussion, n voices. Tall order , yea, but u must. Tot u wanted to be Don Juan ?  Avoid saving numbets with fishy names..... U saw what happened to t billz... Avoid saving numbers with explanation because devices let u. Here is d right way to do it: Always use alphabets to help u remember which month u met who . when I was a teen in this thing, ive had situations I saved ladies n0s with just their names n when they called/or im scrolling tru my phone deleting those that dont call, I didn't remember who they were. U can't imagine d stress of having to call to form familiarity n they just know who is calling but I don't remember them. I just use style to make them keep talking n I try to pick d voice or statements.... Till I get who it is, if I still can't I set up a date if d name bears a 5 star. Most times, I don't even ask for their names in our first meeting, ain't no time. Try it, it works. I just save d name with some crazy stuff I wudnt wano share here  N always grade ur new ladies by attaching a star to five stars after their names ..... Eg J Valerie * F Oge *** M Fiona ** S Zina ***** The more x star, d more complete she is physically, emotionally n brain wise . these group r keepers, they call , u burst them, they return d favour .... Ho LA LA , Neva a dull moment 6 Likes |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:41am On May 04, 2016 |
If u can't keep up, don't belt up 3 Likes |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 11:52am On May 04, 2016 |
HARDDON:bro abeg reply ur mail |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by tegak10: 2:18pm On May 04, 2016 |
so like I avoided that girl n now she s chasing me n being affectionate n rubbing boobs on moi... is there still a chance 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 2:27pm On May 04, 2016 |
tegak10: ah, it worked! dont dont just screw it up this time. what happened exactly? and how have u reacted/handled her in this turn around? ofcos there is a chance! |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by tegak10: 2:56pm On May 04, 2016 |
HARDDON: I didn't call or talk to her since Friday..... met her on Monday but was ill.. we talked tho.. not fr long. n then I snubbed her most f d day. pretending I didn't see her n all.. I even passed her side saying nothing then she called me n I waved n kept walking... today was talking to other girls n fr d first time in months she came to look fr me. then we talked fr like 30secs n I said I had somewhere to be n walked out during that tym she was just rubbing boobs.. then I walked out. she spent d rest f d day staring at me... I just kept talking to other girls... 19 Likes |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 3:13pm On May 04, 2016 |
tegak10: hehehe, BOSS LYF! how does it feel? you have to take things to physical level b4 u make her wake up from this slumber again 3 Likes |
| Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by tegak10: 5:38pm On May 04, 2016 |
HARDDON: thanks boss 6 Likes 4 Shares |
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