Reminds me of a lady who cursed me in all possible ways because we broke up. I didn't even say a word. Because I know it's back to sender. . Few months later she called and begged me, if she had offended me I should forgive her. I told her there was nothing on my mind against her and moreover I had moved on.

Few weeks later I received another call from her pleading for forgiveness. Had to ask her what was going on, That was when she opened up telling me how she saw me in her dream in a scary look pursuing her and wanting to knock off her teeth. More like she was fighting for her life.

She had the nightmare twice and she was worried ,waking up in fear, shaking and trembling I just laughed over it and told her that couldn't be me. She was like I attacked her spiritually. Was just laughing because it was strange to me being accused of such.

I hate people who curse and people with such tendencies disgust me. I can see plenty of them on Nairaland. Nigerians and their curses

Rather than cursing someone, Let things take its natural course. Because that curse might come back hunting you.

Even without opening her mouth,this guy is cursed already.
Most Naija guys will do the same,after 4 abortions her fertility is compromised already and I bet ur 22yr old is a virgin
Girls pls watch your back,pls do,all this guy's u help financially rarely marry you except of cos u want to me the bread winner all d days of your life and that your pastor is a liar

Be wise please

Wowzer:
Reminds me of a lady who cursed me in all possible ways because we broke up. I didn't even say a word. Because I know it's back to sender. . Few months later she called and begged me, if she had offended me I should forgive her. I told her there was nothing on my mind against her and moreover I had moved on.

Few weeks later I received another call from her pleading for forgiveness. Had to ask her what was going on, That was when she opened up telling me how she saw me in her dream in a scary look pursuing her and wanting to knock off her teeth. More like she was fighting for her life.

She had the nightmare twice and she was worried ,waking up in fear, shaking and trembling I just laughed over it and told her that couldn't be me. She was like I attacked her spiritually. Was just laughing because it was strange to me being accused of such.

I hate people who curse and people with such tendencies disgust me. I can see plenty of them on Nairaland. Nigerians and their curses

Rather than cursing someone, Let things take its natural course. Because that curse might come back hunting you.

Don't say that! If this story is true, then that guy deserved to be cursed! Do u think its easy to just let go like that Put yourself in the dumped lady's shoe abeg.

Maybe your ex didn't contribute anything to your life aside the nonsense sex u guys have...maybe self u were the one still sponsoring her and spending money on her in exchange for the sex she offers u, and u expect her curse to work on u?

Curses work if u are guilty! Yes I don't encourage someone cursing another, but what the guy did is evil! The lady had no other way of letting out her anger and frustration....some diabolical ladies will even go extra length of using juju, so don't blame the girl.

My only blame for her is her refusal to use contraception and for falling deeply in love with such a heartless guy. She must have seen the tendency in him earlier but ignored it in the name of love, pity her

tanidabi:
Even without opening her mouth,this guy is cursed already.
Most Naija guys will do the same,after 4 abortions her fertility is compromised already and I bet ur 22yr old is a virgin
Girls pls watch your back,pls do,all this guy's u help financially rarely marry you except of cos u want to me the bread winner all d days of your life and that your pastor is a liar

Be wise please

The problem is girls usually accept the wrong guys! Good guys are always single and hardly get noticed or accepted by ladies (because to ladies, they are not lively enough or not handsome enough) while the bad guys get so loved by women, that's something skewed about the world, sadly

crap.. ..nonsense curses. ....nigga fuc.king move on....you both built the relationship in falsehood....no curse can get to you....

go on your knees ...ask for forgiveness for the abortions and fornication you did...

bitch just getting paranoid...she didn't see anyone better all those six years cos trust me she would have dumped your ass

Nigerian gals don't love
your case will become like d man who killed his wife and the comment below will be for you..


now the women folks are out....they want his
head....brothers don't be fooled by the angelic
things we call Nigerian women....some just marry
you cos they want to be married and you are just
the available one that has money enough to pay
the bills...they say it everyday NA LOVE I GO
CHOP...now you marry her things didn't go
well...the abuse begins...the are you a man
talk...your dignity is the only thing that makes
you a man is being abused everyday. ....you talk
about it with friends...family...neighbours are
beginning to hear your voices...the gentleman in
you is gone.....you trip over.....before you kill
someone and the women begin to hunt for you
on Facebook and Twitter.....do us a favour
man....fucking move out. ....find a room
somewhere.....marry a new wife...yes move
out....or else you will kill someone and the
bitches will say I told you so...Nigerian men are
useless.....you go to jail. ...they win again....this
war between men and women won't stop...they
are hell bent to make us extinct.

curses are real,there are powers and if you approach them in the right way,they will serve justice,a neighbour once got disvirgined by a guy she got prego, he denied even knowing her,in the anger,she aborted the pregnancy went to a shrine poured her heart out and broke an egg,my people she met the guy last year,he is married for years no child,she couldn't bring herself to tell him what she did, and she is still unmarried,guess that's the sacrifice she has to make for the curse to be potent,if I was in her shoes, I will not tell him,he will find out when it begins to manifest in his life,wicked men since 000 BC but for the girl,aborting fist and second I understand but third and fourth is being stupid be his baby mama instead

vani86:


Your reply just indicated how shallow and naive you are.

How can you date a girl from when she was 24 to 30, got her prego 4 times and have her abort them all for you to dump her and engage a 22 abi 23 year old months later.


Dude that guy is evil, and very wrong. Imagine if she was your sister. Will you say the same thing.

The mistake of that lady is agreeing to abort 4 pregnancies.

The guy started seeing her as a stu.pid tool only fit for his sexual satisfaction, not marital commitment.

When you do everything just to please another person and deny yourself, you start looking stu.pid..

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
I don't believe in curses. Dude, live your life joor, nothing will happen, never marry out of sympathy. This is the same kind of advice that the feminists on nairaland will give if a girl magas a guy for six years and leaves with a rich dude, so what is good for the goose...

hmm..see this none,younsay you don't believe in curses..Try and get cursed by when a lady gets herself naked..besides if she doesn't curse you ,law of karma go come..

One thing I have come to understand in this life is this:

Guys who choose a partner based on physical beauty always end up with the wrong girls who pretend to love them but do evil things behind them!

Also, ladies who fall for handsome guys and only accept guys based on how tall and handsome he is usually end up with heartless playboys!

So my people, it's up to u...dont come here to cry fowl when u make the wrong choice based on your selfish desires, pls live with the consequences of your foolish choice!

who force her into d relationship, ladies just do crazy tins tinkin at d end they'll make a home.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
I don't believe in curses. Dude, live your life joor, nothing will happen, never marry out of sympathy. This is the same kind of advice that the feminists on nairaland will give if a girl magas a guy for six years and leaves with a rich dude, so what is good for the goose...

Oh myGod.........oH LORDY!........LORDY!


my u know wetin dey play....



na man u be

InvertedHammer:
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I am not worried about the two of them.

I am worried about the next guy who will meet this lady in the church, marry the "sister in Christ", then spend the rest of his life in Pentecostal churches looking for the fruit of the womb not knowing that iyawo don wash her womb tey tey.

As bad as she could be, a lady of 24 or less will definitely have less mileage. Marry young fellas.

Lord have mercy!
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Funnily enough, she may not even have difficulty in getting pregnant. God has his own way of doing things.

The guy did a very bad thing.if it were my sis,he is good as dead

sweetcocoa:
My friend keep quiet, is there ever a time you'll talk like someone with small sense? Ofcourse the aborted baby will hunt her too(if there's such a thing)but why should this guy be let loose?

All relationships must not lead to marriage but if you've been dating someone for six years, planning a future together, promising heaven and earth, then you must have seen that future in your head and it was what you wanted which made you stay, now, how do you explain how all of a sudden, no reason at all, you just no longer want that future? Just how is this possible? You do know what it means to genuinely love someone, right?

I excuse what I may consider stupidity on this girl's part and as I can't tell anyone how to be moral, but on every scale as regards love, this dude never loved this girl.

Don't mind that lady! For that guy to accept financial support from the lady and her family, he ought to have known that the family was already seeing him as their future son-in-law and the girl must have assumed they would get married.

If u know u aren't going to marry a girl or guy, abeg don't allow the relationship to exceed 2yrs maximum, 2yrs is even too long, 1yr is enough. Break it and find another partner than leading someone on blindly.

If u must date someone u don't want to marry beyond 2 years, pls have a written agreement signed and saved safely somewhere, and don't ever use your mouth to promise the person marriage because the spirit rem will use it against u if they pronounce a curse on u later.

Curses are real and work if u are guilty!

vani86:


Your reply just indicated how shallow and naive you are.

How can you date a girl from when she was 24 to 30, got her prego 4 times and have her abort them all for you to dump her and engage a 22 abi 23 year old months later.


Dude that guy is evil, and very wrong. Imagine if she was your sister. Will you say the same thing.

Did he force her to sleep with him? Did he force her to abort? She had laid get bed the way she wanted it so, she should sleep on it. She wasn't wise abd choose not to see the signs early enough.

Guy this is wickedness.

Frei:
Hahahah' bad guy.....I can't blame him tho' if a girl aborted for me four times and I fūcked her for 6years' mehn its a no-no

hmmm thats exactly how dey will dump ur sister after uselessing her...idiot...

Specialbaby:
isn't that wickedness? After six solid years of up and down,six years isn't six days,what about the abortions?

Some guys are devil incarnate.

Were the abortions carried out at gun point? She is only playing the victim card however, the fun was mutual and she should quickly smell the coffee to wake up.

seunwen2:
Guy can you pray that such should happen to your sister?

of course it will happen to his sister, that guy is a big fool...

Forget all that curse,there's nothing on it,if curse and curses are that powerful IBB,OBJ and etc would have been dead by now.

It's all a mental thing,if you believe that you will fail,then you will fail,it's all in your mind.

Negative + positive=positive.

We are all energy.

how can a guy marry a girl that aborted 4 times, she is evil and if am the one I will leave her, her curse won't work because God is not with her. murderer!
use condom you no gree.

emekamigo:
That's serious,I don't know what to say-But the guy should have married her and divorce later to pacify her.

may this ur wicked advice be done to ur sister amen...you animal..

nrexzy:
Wouldn't say I feel either of both pain. But 6years is quite a lot of time for him to just get engage in 4months... I wish him luck shaaa

he will see no luck till he dies, he is a cursed man...

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
I don't believe in curses. Dude, live your life joor, nothing will happen, never marry out of sympathy. This is the same kind of advice that the feminists on nairaland will give if a girl magas a guy for six years and leaves with a rich dude, so what is good for the goose...

u dont need to beleive in curses dude, but try to do what will attract the curses,na ur body go tell you...

LADIES also dump men on daily basis, especially for those based abroad.

Most even dump these MEN without having any idea of what the abroad guy does or what he looks like. Some even fall in LOVE "ab initio" before seeing the man.

PLEASE, Ladies it is a give and take World.
It's ur choice to be Smart or Foolish.
U see why I don't pity them.
So don't blame anyone.

Boy, don't let anyone fool you.... until you make peace with her you're cursed.

halfricanadian:
Its very difficult gather ur sh*ts nd move on

look at ur dirty mouth like sh*ts, what do u know? Let it happen to you let me see how u will cope...

Ourchoice. All your assumptions on my post= False. Most Nigerians believe in cursing. If that is the way curses work, then I guess most Nigerians are walking around with curses.

Because most people have been used and dumped in different ways both male and female. And according to what I have read here, most Nairalanders would have cursed their offenders.

Most Nairalanders may be carrying curses from ex bf and gf they have used and dumped at one time or the other. And I'm sure they have also cursed their ex bf and gf as well just like the lady.

As for me...Cursing is disgusting. People who do that have diabolic tendencies.
The moment something is not going well for the other person they ascribe it to the curse, forgetting that sometimes things may not go well in their own life as well.

TonyeBarcanista:

Bros, with due respect to the guy, his excuse is lame. Perhaps he sees her as old and he needed a fresh meat. He kept talking of attraction and intimacy and not character and companionship.

Why do we marry? is it just for sex? What about character, loyalty, support, care and all? I see no wrong in breaking up with a partner with character issues or whatever, but betraying the emotional investment of a loyal and helpful girl is outright wickedness.



Though placing curse is absurd and invalid

God bless you jareh! You know youths of nowadays are really end-time generation!

They feel love based on physical looks and attraction is the only good reason to marry someone, and that's y many marriages today are in a mess!

The only reasons to marry someone are:

1. Good character/manner
2. Loyalty and respect
3. Support (emotional and financial)
4. Care
5. Sacrifice

Don't marry anyone who doesn't have the above 5 qualities if u don't want to regret!

If u marry because he is tall/handsome, she is pretty/sexy, big ass/boobs, then u will surely regret!

Wowzer:
Ourchoice. All your assumptions on my post= False. Most Nigerians believe in cursing. If that is the way curses work, then I guess most Nigerians are walking around with curses.

Because most people have been used and dumped in different ways both male and female. And according to what I have read here, most Nairalanders would have cursed their offenders.

Most Nairalanders may be carrying curses from ex bf and gf they have used and dumped at one time or the other. And I'm sure they have also cursed their ex bf and gf as well just like the lady.

As for me...Cursing is disgusting. People who do that have diabolic tendencies.
The moment something is not going well for the other person they ascribe it to the curse, forgetting that sometimes things may not go well in their own life as well.

if a girl used her hard-earned money to support u fully and love u, and u promise to marry her, and after u become successful and u meet a younger girl and decide not to marry the girl again and u dump her for the new younger girl, and your old girlfriend out of frustration, broken heart and tears curse u, my brother, it must happen o!

The same way, if a girl do same to a guy and the guy curses her out of tears/anger, it will surely come to pass. Don't doubt it

But if u are dating a girl who never contributed any meaningful thing to your life aside mutual sex, and u never promised to marry her, and u decide to breakup with her and she goes ahead to curse u, it won't happen because u did nothing wrong...u guys were just mere sex mates whiling away lonely times with each other. so no binding agreement or commitment. Sex is not enough commitment to make her curse work, except u raped her!

Don't use your mouth to make promises u can't keep, it's dangerous! Don't promise anybody marriage if u know u can't keep it!

Don't date anybody for more than 2yrs if u know u won't marry them! Keep flings if u can't keep your marriage promises!

Don't accept somebody's financial support in exchange for marriage if u know u won't marry them in future! Make your life simple and curse-free, karma is real no matter your belief or location on earth!

Whether u are an atheist, Muslim, Christian or Hindu, it must work because this life have so many mysteries and spirits controlling our daily affairs, take it or leave it.

please I beg of you bro, simply follow what ur pastor said because if u r cursed for an offence u neva committed it may go void but if u r u av to restitute. I pray she accept ur plea

even the pastor knows that this curse you can't escape it,the girl doesn't even need to..it's karma,it's even in the Bible..What you reap,you sow. Look everyone there is already a covenant between them which involves the guy telling her about how they going to have kids and how she is going to answer his surname.No matter what that guy thinks,those curse will come..A covenant can only be broken early when the other person forgives you or after many years of your suffering God breaks it for you...And most genuine pastor knows this,some fake will just pray for you...He said she was boring later on and that means he never loved her because even the young girl he is about to marry will get boring to him at some point in life and that's why most married men cheat.You have to understand your partner and know how to spice your relationship,ladies BTW 28-35 find such hard in Nigeria because they fill they are too old for such and scare of "WHAT IF" now she has to be strong and pick herself up because the karma must always work on the guy.She messed up tho with 4 abortion,she would have taken one in..it's better to be a baby mama than waste time damaging yourself for a iDiot.Atleast you already have a child you can train up and then a more responsible man who doesn't judge other past can take you on and your baby..No lady above 23 should ever do abortion for any man above 25 or 26 because a man above such age should be ready for life..Carry it,never the end of the world