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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:19pm On May 27, 2016 |
Bidexluv: Has anybody asked you why you avoid eye contact? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:25pm On May 27, 2016 |
Let us share how our introversion has saved us from a big catastrophes? For me, i would have involve myself in a lot of fight, but i was able to control myself. And also , my introversion has prevented me from making some derogatory statement which would have jeopardize my integrity. Some times its better to be slow to speech. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 6:39pm On May 27, 2016 |
Olarewajub:thanks,someties we sound boring we find it difficult to initate conversation even to keep it we find it hard |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Sard(m): 7:09pm On May 27, 2016 |
bukiii:Sound boring?? We are actually boring. Very boring! I've started learning how to keep conversations going. I chat very well online nowadays, but offline conversations are still below what I want. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 7:28pm On May 27, 2016 |
bukiii: Yes I agree with you. The best method is try and become comfortable with those around associated this will make you to be at ease where around them. When initiating a conversation that is engaging. Most introverts are talkatives. This may not work when meeting people for the first time. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 7:31pm On May 27, 2016 |
Sard: We're actually not boring when around with people we have a mutual relationship with. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 7:51pm On May 27, 2016 |
Olarewajub:yea |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by domwas2(m): 12:06pm On May 28, 2016 |
As introvert is an advantage to me staying out of bad company, where I stay people talk about being like me because am the only simple and gentle guy around. Sometimes the temptation of being someone else arises like breaking bottle as rugged as mad to fight in public but no matter what I still calm down and people take it as my weakness. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by MUVA(m): 6:32pm On May 28, 2016 |
Babymama may I get ur attention for a min? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bringbackdgirls: 9:55pm On May 29, 2016 |
Olarewajub:bros the eye contact is a problem o except people that are very closd to me |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 10:40am On May 31, 2016 |
ayodiya:i want to knw hw u hav been able to associate with the opposite sex, bcus up till nw i dont hav bae at this my old age! Bcus of my core introveted nature. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ganie(m): 1:50pm On May 31, 2016 |
I never knew such a thread like this exists,dont even know how i bumped into it.Hope am welcomed because i relate with the topic. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 5:49pm On May 31, 2016 |
wait guys what is our aim here ? or are we just here to no our introvert fellow |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 7:26pm On May 31, 2016 |
bukiii: The aim of this Lounge is to know our strength and weakness as introverts so that we'll be able to compete and cause positive changes in our (extroverted) society. For example, if you are shy, you can ask other introverts here about tips to overcome timidity, and also for anyone currently faced with any challenge, we can all support and see how to assist that individual by proffering solutions and lots of other benefits . It's a pity that majority of the introverts that have been to the Lounge just come here to announce their introversion and leave, thereby making the Lounge aimless and pointless . I'm still thinking on how to solve this menace. Got any idea? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 7:33pm On May 31, 2016 |
ganie: You know you're welcome as as you an introvert. Are you a student? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ganie(m): 8:13pm On May 31, 2016 |
[quote author=Olarewajub post=46150146] You know you're welcome as as you an introvert. Are you a student? [/quoteStream II awaiting nysc member. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 10:14pm On May 31, 2016 |
Olarewajub:oh I get, thanks |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ayodiya: 7:26am On Jun 02, 2016 |
stardragon:i do associate with the opposite sex. i hv good female friend but i hv had only one galfriend sha 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Precious91(m): 7:53am On Jun 02, 2016 |
ayodiya:Diya Diya.The guy can be quiet for Africa.Am more quiet than you sha |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ayodiya: 7:57am On Jun 02, 2016 |
Precious91:if i hear |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Precious91(m): 12:46pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
ayodiya:she I lie? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by betty2013: 4:31pm On Jun 03, 2016 |
I'm an introvert too but I guess I'm getting better daily though I don't have many friends. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:31pm On Jun 03, 2016 |
betty2013: In what area have you been getting better and doing any thing special to achieve such? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:33pm On Jun 03, 2016 |
ganie: |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ganie(m): 8:43pm On Jun 03, 2016 |
Olarewajub:yea it did,some of them are not being able to participate in a debate competition wit anoda dept in one year 1 course,so many girls slipped away cos of my shyness even when there was d green light frm them and anida is not contesting for exco position even wen i am qualified. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 10:52pm On Jun 03, 2016 |
ganie: WOW! Sorry about your experience. On leadership, Introverts usually do not volunteer for such positions unless thrusted upon which they tend to perform excellently. Those ladies who gave you green light, you would have atleast friend zoned them. It is well. I know you are better and stronger now. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Tabelachizza(f): 1:06pm On Jun 04, 2016 |
I don't have friends and people fink i form plentyyy...Ike Introvert nkea agwugomuoooo but it helped me graduate with a good CGPA shaaaa... 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Bidexluv(f): 2:51pm On Jun 04, 2016 |
happy New month everyone 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:22am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Tabelachizza: Ike Introvert nkea agwugomuoooo? Happy Sunday guys! |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ganie(m): 7:12am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Olarewajub:yea i did friend zoned them,but something i am trying to work on now is making friends easily. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LUCAS99: 2:12pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
Olarewajub: Can I be able to talk to you on phone Olarewajub? I feel like am boring because I don't talk too much. I find it so difficult to relate with people and find a common ground. Even when I see people talking I don't really join the conversation because I don't know what to say. Most times I tend to avoid the conversation because I can't even keep a conversation going. Even when I eventually join the conversation and starts talking I feel like am unable to express myself in correct English. I have spoken to my family members and they are so surprised that I find it difficult to speak correct English. I am almost 22 years old and It has been over four years since I had a girlfriend. Right now I don't even have a close female friend. I don't even know what to tell a lady or how to be creative when talking with a lady both online and offline. I have tried reading books and watching television but I always fall asleep when I pick a book to read or try to watch a show. I wonder why I go to sleep so early by 6:00 PM and even when I wake up by 3:00 AM and try to read or maybe do a research online I start feeling sleepy. I know something is wrong with me but I don't know what. Right now I lack direction and motivation. I have low confidence and low self esteem. I am even thinking of giving up on life. How can I get my life back on track? how can I possibly increase my vocabulary and speak more fluently? I tried watching some movies but most times I don't understand what is going on until the end and I always find it difficult to recall the exact words used by the actors. Can something be possibly wrong with my memory? Sometimes somebody can tell me their names and within five minutes I have already forgotten their names. Is there a proven way I can expand my memory and be able to think like a grown adult? What Can I do to improve my basic conversational skills? When I see two coworkers talking and laughing I begin to wonder why I can't get my fellow coworkers to open up to me. Everyone thinks I am stupid because I can't really talk. Everyone I know can speak English correctly why am I finding it difficult to speak correct English? My Self esteem is so badly damaged and I am so lost where do I start? 3 Likes |
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