Bidexluv:

me I don't make eye contact oooooo. I am always pressing my phone or writing or just doing something to avoid eye contact.

sometimes if I do make eye contact, it last a second to two.

Olarewajub:



Its a known fact that Introverts do not like to keep contact with a lot of persons except close pals. So your attitude is quite normal for an introvert. Never feel sorry for your self because your unable to connect with every body, it's just exhausting. Anybody way you can try the Hi with those around you and just try to be humble in your owners way.

Got plans for the weekend?

bukiii:
thanks,someties we sound boring we find it difficult to initate conversation even to keep it we find it hard

bukiii:
thanks,someties we sound boring we find it difficult to initate conversation even to keep it we find it hard

Sard:

Sound boring?? We are actually boring. Very boring!
I've started learning how to keep conversations going. I chat very well online nowadays, but offline conversations are still below what I want.

Olarewajub:



We're actually not boring when around with people we have a mutual relationship with.

Olarewajub:

Has anybody asked you why you avoid eye contact?

ayodiya:
get tired of talking easily, i wonder my people spend so much chating and talking . meet people kind of easily but after first meeting am short of words.
everyday is stressful hve to deal with people who think am quiet because am stupid , They dont know i dont give a f about they are talking abut and most the gals think dey don jam mumu

bukiii:
wait guys what is our aim here ? or are we just here to no our introvert fellow

ganie:
I never knew such a thread like this exists,dont even know how i bumped into it.Hope am welcomed because i relate with the topic.

Olarewajub:


The aim of this Lounge is to know our strength and weakness as introverts so that we'll be able to compete and cause positive changes in our (extroverted) society. For example, if you are shy, you can ask other introverts here about tips to overcome timidity, and also for anyone currently faced with any challenge, we can all support and see how to assist that individual by proffering solutions and lots of other benefits . It's a pity that majority of the introverts that have been to the Lounge just come here to announce their introversion and leave, thereby making the Lounge aimless and pointless . I'm still thinking on how to solve this menace. Got any idea?

stardragon:

i want to knw hw u hav been able to associate with the opposite sex, bcus up till nw i dont hav bae at this my old age! Bcus of my core introveted nature.

ayodiya:

i do associate with the opposite sex. i hv good female friend but i hv had only one galfriend sha

Precious91:

Diya Diya.The guy can be quiet for Africa.Am more quiet than you sha

ayodiya:
if i hear

betty2013:
I'm an introvert too but I guess I'm getting better daily though I don't have many friends.

ganie:
Good to know.

While in school, did your introversion deprived you from achieving some certain things?

Olarewajub:

ganie:
yea it did,some of them are not being able to participate in a debate competition wit anoda dept in one year 1 course,so many girls slipped away cos of my shyness even when there was d green light frm them and anida is not contesting for exco position even wen i am qualified.

Tabelachizza:
I don't have friends and people fink i form plentyyy...Ike Introvert nkea agwugomuoooo but it helped me graduate with a good CGPA shaaaa...

Olarewajub:



WOW! Sorry about your experience. On leadership, Introverts usually do not volunteer for such positions unless thrusted upon which they tend to perform excellently.
Those ladies who gave you green light, you would have atleast friend zoned them. It is well.

I know you are better and stronger now.

Olarewajub:



We're actually not boring when around with people we have a mutual relationship with.