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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by peculyachi(f): 6:15pm On Jun 13, 2016
if a lady in her thirties can jux wake up one fine morning and walk out of an engagement with a promising young man, then there is a problem somewhere...probably you have issues she jux CNT deal with...maybe we should hear her own side of the story before apportioning blames

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by mentorandfriend(m): 6:16pm On Jun 13, 2016
Jorussia:
Bros the lady is not meant for you. Just move on with your life,you are a big boy. To get loyal women these days for marriage,na by luck and divine guidance .
Really?

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by lawlahbammy(f): 6:16pm On Jun 13, 2016
acxlers2014:
My experience buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her
She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.

As for her family, they supported their own.
Lessons learnt.
The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move
on.

Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one

Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.

Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so silly to think feminism can work in our society

Beautiful women always feel they have an option.

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.
Brother I went through your profile and saw your previous threads, I guess most of them are about this same girl.
Anyway back to the issue at hand, first you need to check yourself, weigh yourself in a balance, did you measure up to what your woman actually want? not perfectly well though but at least to a considerable extent. Will you pray for your sister to marry a man like you? What is the foundation of your relationship, is it on God or on personal knowledge and experience?.
Again,thank God she left you... from your previous threads the relationship has always been abusive, you just wanted it to work at all cost because you're in love with her.
My little advice is take a chill pill, work on ur self especially in the area of discipline and love for the things of God, every other things relationship-wise will fall in place. The Lord be with you and help you in your quest.

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by kuchikau: 6:17pm On Jun 13, 2016
misspicy:


So we still have truthful men shocked

God bless your discerning spirit,inasmuch as I don't agree with the way the lady went about it,her response points to one thing ,Op might be impotent or have a small member,not every woman can manage such.

BTW do you still flow? grin
...
dnt tell me you re still mensturating...

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by missyadorable(f): 6:18pm On Jun 13, 2016
Side chic, side guy is a very important necessity for a reasonable person.

Put all your eggs in one basket and go crazy when it crashes!

As long as you are single,have options!

Relationship and love is scam.

Have sense and stop crying of heart break

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by telemapreye1(f): 6:19pm On Jun 13, 2016
Vikky014:
hahahaha..u r funny shaa...abegi move on
Thanks o
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by iamord(m): 6:19pm On Jun 13, 2016
fuckshit:
OP; shιt happens; can fυcking tell you've fυcking moved on and still fυcking standing strong; you're fυcking blessed; and a big fυcking thanks for sharing this;

OP; again; you're fυcking blessed for this comment; from fυcking experience; without a fυcking side chick; it's fυcking terrible;

guys fυcking wise up; most ladies fυcking know this rule and are fυcking good at it; most ladies do not restrict their pυssy to only one diςk grin grin
How come tour fucking post never get fuckd up by the spam bot grin
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jun 13, 2016
khalhokage:
Mtcheww, all this write up just to tell us you're a misogynist, you never told us why she decided that you're not good enough for her, she agreed to marry you and everything then she stays with you for two weeks and suddenly changes her mind about the whole thing for no reason? story.

1 million likes for you. He is obviously a misogynist and thinks every modern woman will take 'shit' all for the sake of bearing 'Mrs' .
Op check yourself and change!

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by naijacommando: 6:20pm On Jun 13, 2016
OP sorry u got ur own share of naija girls venom at dis stage of ur life... people like me av long felt dis sting way back and as a result, have long forgotten that the female gender exists... as a person I've long subscribed to d opinion that these ladies are not worth d stress... as a reasonable Youngman and in dis generation that beset us, it's incredibly stupid to start nurturing any form of emotions whatsoever for all these oloshos in female physiognomy .. hence, I've long resolved to stay far away from women, especially Nigerian women... I would advise u to do d same and devout ur attention to our career... thanks and God bless sir.

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by kuchikau: 6:20pm On Jun 13, 2016
Kachisbarbie:
Your previous topics shows she BEATS you, is destructive, stopped loving you_ shouldn't you be happy the witch is gone?
...
was she mensturating?

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Pchidexy(m): 6:20pm On Jun 13, 2016
Women are both joy and misery. I don't want to say they are more of the later.
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jun 13, 2016

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Rick9(m): 6:22pm On Jun 13, 2016
This is one reason I don't like being so emotionally attached to any female, I just believe that they have nothing bin their lives to offer to me, in fact me being with them should be considered a Blessing, Nor be pride sha, Na self-respect and self-regard more than anything.

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by 4nobody4every1: 6:23pm On Jun 13, 2016
fuckshit:
OP; shιt happens; can fυcking tell you've fυcking moved on and still fυcking standing strong; you're fυcking blessed; and a big fυcking thanks for sharing this;

OP; again; you're fυcking blessed for this comment; from fυcking experience; without a fυcking side chick; it's fυcking terrible;

guys fυcking wise up; most ladies fυcking know this rule and are fυcking good at it; most ladies do not restrict their pυssy to only one diςk grin grin
Chai grin grin grin

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by GoldenJAT(m): 6:24pm On Jun 13, 2016
Vince77:


I also have the feeling that she will come back to beg IF truly he didnt offend the girl in anyway.
she will... but 1st.. she will try 2 pretend as if all is well... but d more she tries to, the more guilty conscience eats her up.. she then have no other choice than 2 cry blood 2b accepted back.

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Arsenalholic(m): 6:24pm On Jun 13, 2016
garnet2:
When we Tell men not to fall in love..... They won't hear

When will Tell men "if you must fall in love then fall with your head and not your heart"..... They won't hear

When we Tell men" Be the boss of your relationship and call the shots"... They won't hear

When we Tell men that it is in our DNA to mate with multiple partners..... They won't hear, They will be forming Real, Gentleman, Nice guys to win women approval

When we Tell men our stories and ask them to learn from it..... They won't hear until they become victims

When we Tell men to stop spending on Girlfriends.... They won't hear, They will be forming Mr Responsible

................................................................................................................................................

Anyways,.. Welcome to the club of the big boiz... Drink away your sins 'cos you have towed the path of self recovery and a player is born.

PUAs please join me and let's give a heartily welcome to our newest member!


cheesy
Bad guy. But it can't be said that he has noined the club fully though. He still needs to learn the ropes.
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by badonkadonk: 6:26pm On Jun 13, 2016
Florblu:
I was feeling your pain abnitio until you started dishing out your unsought for advice.The fact that someone dies in his sleep doesn't mean sleep is harmful to the body.Same way you've gotten your share of heart break doesn't mean other men has not been responsible for ladies heart break.Just move on as she has said and stop misleading the already misled sane minds.

Hian....
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Project400: 6:28pm On Jun 13, 2016
Heartbreak?



*Sigh!*
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by ronald4lif(m): 6:29pm On Jun 13, 2016
She said you're less than a man after spending weeks with you? Hmmm that's finger pointing to one thing - your sexual capabilities. Pal, how big small is your blokos and how proficient are you in the bedroom? I think that's where your problem may lies.

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Lexusgs430: 6:30pm On Jun 13, 2016
acxlers2014:
My experience buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her
She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.

As for her family, they supported their own.
Lessons learnt.
The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move
on.

Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one

Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.

Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so silly to think feminism can work in our society

Beautiful women always feel they have an option.

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.

At least she returned all the rings and gifts. Package them for another befitting boo!!!!
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Lexusgs430: 6:32pm On Jun 13, 2016
ronald4lif:
She said you're less than a man after spending weeks with you? Hmmm that's finger pointing to one thing - your sexual capabilities. Pal, how big small is your blokos and how proficient are you in the bedroom? I think that's where your problem may lies.

Or how deep was her well!!!

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by FabioPeter: 6:32pm On Jun 13, 2016
"....if you love something, let it go, if it is yours it will come back, if it doesn't, it never was"
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by badonkadonk: 6:32pm On Jun 13, 2016
Trina0936:

1 million likes for you. He is obviously a misogynist and thinks every modern woman will take 'shit' all for the sake of bearing 'Mrs' .
Op check yourself and change!

Hian!
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Taryur3(m): 6:32pm On Jun 13, 2016
So some girls still dey drop with this level of husband scarcity
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by kuchikau: 6:33pm On Jun 13, 2016
HaneefahRN:
I strongly believe you must have had one terrible attitude for her to treat you that way. Check yourself too
....
Are you mensturating?
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by henryhemon(m): 6:33pm On Jun 13, 2016
Florblu:
I was feeling your pain abnitio until you started dishing out your unsought for advice.The fact that someone dies in his sleep doesn't mean sleep is harmful to the body.Same way you've gotten your share of heart break doesn't mean other men has not been responsible for ladies heart break.Just move on as she has said and stop misleading the already misled sane minds.

He did no wrong in giving advise for others to learn. One thing I 've learnt in life is there are different type of women.......they ones who understands life and ones who lives in fantasy land......the percentage is 10: 90 .
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by kuchikau: 6:33pm On Jun 13, 2016
HaneefahRN:
I strongly believe you must have had one terrible attitude for her to treat you that way. Check yourself too
....

Are you mensturating?

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by JeffreyJamez(m): 6:34pm On Jun 13, 2016
I am sure the OP has his own faults that he is not mentioning it..because a lady in her 30s can't just opt out of an engagement if she didn't see major red flags..... tell us your faults, then I will take out seriously.

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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Lexusgs430: 6:34pm On Jun 13, 2016
Fuckshit, you are on fucking fire with all the use of this fucking slangs.
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by esonuu(m): 6:35pm On Jun 13, 2016
Sumtin must hav gone wrong, tel me, did u by any chance hurt her badly wen u two were dating(if yes then she revenged in a cold way), did u ever cheat on her(cos doctors are promiscuous)? Do u always satisfy her emotionally and perhaps sexually then,were u there 4 her wenever she needed u?, do u make out tym 4 her then? If u aint guilty of these tins,then she wasnt urs or she aint ready 4 marriage yet
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Subom1(f): 6:36pm On Jun 13, 2016
These days women are learning from men.

I always stated that the difference between men and women is that men do not put all their eggs in one basket.

Now women are are also heeding to this as well.

No offence op you sound a bit arrogant with the I'm a dr with a successful business eish. You sound full of yourself.

A woman even if she wants to break up with you, if she loves and respects you she would not have done it the way your ex gf did unless you did something really bad to her that she wants to pay back with revenge.

How long did you date? You say she is in her early thirties? Some guys will date a girl for 10 years then get surprised when she finds another man

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