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Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by ladyF(f): 5:57pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
All I see is a one sided story. What exactly did you do that made her call off her own engagement? Have you ever hit her, do you yell, are you controlling? No be by proposing, a smart lady will see tendencies when you guys are dating and decide she will never settle down with your kind of person. So please tell us exactly what happened. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
It's unfortunate bro that you didn't realize the truth that no such thing as love. I mean even if any exist it may be just the one from a mother to her child. Emotional relationships are predated on what is to be gained, benefited from the man/woman. Our innate wickedness, selfishness and self centered nature has infiltrated how we relate with one another. The way forward is to improve yourself and value, so another scumbag won't dump you like a waste bag. Grind and hustle till the lady you choose to be with see that she cannot find another more better than you who will stay with her. Bless up and be strong. While you are at it, have all the fun in the world and live life to the fullest. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by STENON(f): 5:57pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Dear OP, The Best Revenge is for you to be successful. 3 Likes |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by oodua1stson: 5:58pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Florblu:auntie florblu , wetin be your own? Hy him advise de pain you? Are we guys complaining? 1 Like |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by tranxo(m): 5:58pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
acxlers2014: Bro, deal with your pride. Being a medical doctor does not make you a god. Women still reject more established men as long as they are not getting what they NEED. You are hurt because you think as a medical doctor with a flourishing practice (made no meaning to this girl), no girl can reject you. Well, you have been proved wrong. You also thought her being in her thirties should make her desperate for marriage. Some in their forties are not even desperate. She insulted you about your capabilities as a man? What does she mean? You think only in terms of providing for her? What of sexual capabilities? Are you weak in bed? Women are complex beings. What moves one may mean nothing to another. Fact is you never knew what this girl NEEDED. She was just hanging with you probably because of the status of your profession, while she waits for another to get ready. Just like most guys will front and hang out with the most dazzling and pretty chic, but when its time for the real deal, settle for a conservative and homely girl for marriage, girls also make similar choices. She has made her choice. Move on. My advice to you is not to let revenge or payback be the foundation of your next relationship. Invest quality time in knowing what your girl NEEDS in order to know if its something you can offer or not. Better to call off a relationship on mutual agreement than have one person live through a lie and gets disappointed at the end of the day. Shalom. PS: Note the capitalized word. 7 Likes |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by masskeemz: 5:58pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Guy I have had two of such experiences. The last one turned me into a hard-rocking player and I enjoyed it. But you know what fellow? Now wey I don get woman wey wan settle, one I have dated for way longer than the rest, my plenty runs' no wan gree delete. I have tried but oboy even death threats I deh get from them. They have gossipped to the hearing of my current woman but she no wan hear cuz I have not left her in the dark about my past life. But now how to escape the snares I had laid for myself in order to ease off the pain created by that experience is what I don't know. No fall inside my shoe oo e go bitter pass as b4 wen ur woman waka go. Meanwhile, from experience, I assure you she's gonna hiy the rock and come back. If she does, even if u luv am no 4get do shakara oo 2 Likes |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Dagoes(m): 6:00pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Have you ever try to find out what happen, when she left your house, were you given her time and show love, how was your performance. 1 Like |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by confy22: 6:00pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
D same tin happened to me, Wat saved me from committing suicide wz "side boo" moral lesson: side... saves. lolz! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Proudlesbiangal(f): 6:02pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Heartbreak is not easy. We have all been through it and the most important thing is not about revenge or becoming bad but rather learning from the mistakes and early signs so that your next relationship can be better. I believe that two people play a role in a relationship. You must have done something cos things don't just change overnight? Did you cheat on her and perhaps she found out or you did something. Gifts and money do not move every girl especially those women that are financially independent. One thing women need is time and attention if you do not give them that and ur partner is not bothered by it then someone else is definitely entertaining her... 4 Likes |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Proudlesbiangal(f): 6:04pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
confy22:Side saves until you find out ur the side boo. It serves you right though.nobody should feel sad when their partner leaves them for someone else when they have so being cheating. Its called karma |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by rodbel(m): 6:04pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
acxlers2014: The big lesson for me: NEVER COMPROMISE YOUR HUSTLE FOR A WOMAN 2 Likes |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by BABANGBALI: 6:05pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Nairaland babes be like "Dokitor see me here" Cc: Aminat508 Rokiatu Prettythicksme Freeglobe Msglobalwonder Osusumustflow Edwife Mukina2 Ishilove Notoriousbabe VickyRotex and funmilade11 1 Like |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Chimaritoponcho: 6:05pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
fuckshit:How come ur f words are never censored despite Not being mispelt 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by macaranta(m): 6:06pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Having no side chick is like going to war with one bullet,you never know how many enemies you need to kill----R.Mugabe 2015 5 Likes |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by DUOz(m): 6:06pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Its sad but dats an inevitable end everyone falls out of love just as dey fall in love. D lucky ones back out b4 marraige 1 Like |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by BABANGBALI: 6:06pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Proudlesbiangal:Hello |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by leestryder: 6:06pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d:This one is very strong |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Vikky014(f): 6:08pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
telemapreye1:hahahaha..u r funny shaa...abegi move on |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
I wonder why guys are blasting the side chick comment. i see nothing wrong in it. The world is crazy enough as it is, cant afford to loose my mind over a woman. bliv me wat the OP experienced was painful, and guys in love hurt more wen they get dumped compared to our female counterparts. 2 Likes |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by kuchikau: 6:10pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Florblu:..... Are you mensturating? 1 Like |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Emaprince: 6:10pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
A player is born!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
acxlers2014:She wasn't meant for u.Who knows,if u had married her,she would have left u suddenly too.So thank God,because nothing happens without God's permission.That He allowed it,is for your own good.U will see reason to thank him later |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by BABANGBALI: 6:11pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
telemapreye1:nairaland guy make una see vacant heart o Cc: seun chukwudi44 lalasticlala eleko1 funjosh and fuckthem0ds 1 Like |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by evy1(m): 6:12pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
You begging a lady that wants to leave,OP no try that kind thing again o..you don see better obstacle dey clear road for you,you wan go jump ontop moving train. |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by sisisioge: 6:12pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
So dude...every woman has an opinion. So sorry about your experience man, God probably used her to prevent you from making a mistake that is her! Silly woman. |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by fireforfire: 6:12pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Op pele. Everyone has his or her own share of bad news in life. That was just ur own turn....... |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by femi4: 6:13pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Florblu:So, we have Pete Edochie's daughter for Nl 3 Likes |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by kuchikau: 6:13pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
naughtynaughty:... Women: a creature of deception. By the way, do you mensturate? 1 Like |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by DUOz(m): 6:13pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
tranxo:Ure a fat c0w 1 Like |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by femi4: 6:14pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Chimaritoponcho:check the 'u' again |
Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by bqlekan(m): 6:15pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Hmmmm.. Lesson learnt! Never, ever put your eggs in one basket.. 1 Like 1 Share |
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