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I had one back then in school. we always engage in a very serious & heated argument.

Blaqsmith:
which of the gods? you mean the one that ordered killings of children? or the one dat raped Mary?

Psalm 137 vs 9..
Deuteronomy 21 vs 18.

Your god doesn't know any love ogbeni. he's just a freaking wicked dude! deal with that.

pls go make peace with ur creator, it's just the matter of time, you'll realise real soon

I can feel your pain, but what i learn so far pertaining atheists is the more you argue with them, the more both of you get confused....

Playing Nas & Damian Marley "Patience"

Blaqsmith:
I believe in humanity.
I believe in Love.
I believe in myself.
I believe in my friends.
I believe in you Timmi

I know you won't send me to hell because I masturbate.
I know you won't burn me with fire because I say a lie.
I know Timmi, that you won't live peacefully in heaven while many of your frends screams of pain in hell.

I don't believe in god. he's too wicked a man to have my worship. I would rather go to hell.

I'd suggest you go to YouTube and get "cartoons" that are very easy to grasp what atheism is... I'd suggest "Darkmatter2525 why do people hate atheists?"

Many people think one just wakes up one day after a tragic event and gets "angry at god"..then claims being an atheist from then on.

VampireeM:
I dont judge atheists cause I believe he/she must ve a reason for being one.


I cant marry an atheist cause I believe in God and its important to me I marry someone who doesnt just believe in the existence of God but also God fearing because thats the foundation I want my family to be built on and also we get to encourage each other in our faith esp during travails.


I'm sorry about the loss of your brother and I know you feel cause I too ve felt and asked same questions BUT I remembered so many other things ve asked God for that he did even the ones I didnt ask and I knew that God is Mystery, faithful and his ways are not the ways of man. Maybe it was your brother's appointed time and according to christian doctrine each man has it own appointed time and would surely die.. Sometimes we dont need to ask questions, we just need to ve FAITH.


Even when Jesus was on earth there we still hungry and homeless people. To We God has given, we are expected to give and help those who are less privledged just like the Story of Lazarus and the Rich man from the bible. Its God's own way to create a balance amongst his creation IMO.

Christianity is surrounded by mysteries which the human mind cannot comprehend. I laugh when people become atheist just to get their questions answered funny enough they get confused the more.

Hogwash

VampireeM:
I dont judge atheists cause I believe he/she must ve a reason for being one.


I cant marry an atheist cause I believe in God and its important to me I marry someone who doesnt just believe in the existence of God but also God fearing because thats the foundation I want my family to be built on and also we get to encourage each other in our faith esp during travails.


I'm sorry about the loss of your brother and I know you feel cause I too ve felt and asked same questions BUT I remembered so many other things ve asked God for that he did even the ones I didnt ask and I knew that God is Mystery, faithful and his ways are not the ways of man. Maybe it was your brother's appointed time and according to christian doctrine each man has it own appointed time and would surely die.. Sometimes we dont need to ask questions, we just need to ve FAITH.


Even when Jesus was on earth there we still hungry and homeless people. To We God has given, we are expected to give and help those who are less privledged just like the Story of Lazarus and the Rich man from the bible. Its God's own way to create a balance amongst his creation IMO.

Christianity is surrounded by mysteries which the human mind cannot comprehend. I laugh when people become atheist just to get their questions answered funny enough they get confused the more.

babe u get brain.......ur d type we r looking for. thumps up for ur gud answers.

[size=24pt][/size]Don't you mean because of your lack of religious beliefs? [size=24pt][/size]

How can an inexistent being be wicked??

Blaqsmith:
You are just like your god... WICKED!

allanphash7:
Tell your girlfriend to get out but before you do so ask her one question which is.........








What is that thing that is above love ?

Let me help: Nothing is above love. But then, God is love. That brings the op back to...God.

PatchBoy:
babe what's up....add me up on bbm 7B54160F we need to talk

Who are u exactly? Can't just add I up like dat? Pls remind me if we've met b4! Tanx

I share your pain my dear, only that its a self impose duldrum which you have willingly put yourself. If I heard you clearly stated some afflictions that has befallen you that made you whom you were today. Stop being childish, Jesus did not promise a trouble free life, He is an example for our suffering for he also suffered. Come to think of Him, He didn't sin, He came to save us, but was molested by whom supposed to protect Him and above all, rejected of by His own Spiritual father. Yet He took no offence in us and His Father but rather pray for us. That is why He said IF WE TOO SHALL SUFFER AS HE SUFFERED (not us looking for troubles but being faithful to Him till death no matter our lots in this evil world), WE SHALL AS WELL BE GLORIFIED LIKE HIM. We were never lbeing left alone by God in consolation because He had already told us that these and many more shall be our portion, that is why he cautioned us against taking offense as though He is the Chief brain behind our suffering. God isn't the one that killed your people, it is Satan, but the book of Roman helped us to know that God could turn evil to his own good and glory. Joseph said it better when He said "they meant it for evil but God meant it for good." You want to ask how? What is so glorious than to leave this wayward world to meet our beloved? Can anything be more glorious than this? Hey, YOU ARE NOW WALKING IN YOUR OWN VALLEY OF THE SHADOW OF DEATH, I BET IT WITH YOU, NO ONE EVER PASSED THROUGH THIS VALLEY WITHOUT CHRIST AND FIND A WAY OUT. THIS VALLEY IS A PLACE OF TEST OF FAITH, IF OUR FAITH IS NOT TESTED HOW SURE ARE WE GOING TO KNOW WE HAVE A GENUINE ONE? HAVE YOU EVER SEEN A MACHINE THAT IMMEDIATELY IT WAS DESIGNED IS NEVER TESTED, IT JUST WENT STRAIGHT TO BE SOLD IN THE MARKET. Stop being childish, don't lay your tents amidst fools that claimed there is no God, for they shall soon be destroyed by the dust of their own enmity before God. Repent my friend, no sane person will love to even marry your kind, seek first the kingdom of God and every other to be added. May the good Lord that saw David through his own valley (psalm 23) see you through. Be courageous... Peace be to the brethren in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

general111:
if you won't worship him,many others will.and he may not even notice that you are not worshiping him..goodluck to you..

Yeah right

Gaborone:
Let me help: Nothing is above love. But then, God is love. That brings the op back to...God.

Does love keep a record of wrongs?... Your "god" does..

How can god be love when love doesn't keep a record of wrongs?


Stop deceiving yourself lady..

My dear brother, I share in your loss and it's only God that can give you the fortitude to bear your loss

I am also a Christian who believes in God, have lost an Elder sister, my younger brother is a special child, am going through serious challenges in all facet of my life.

Despite ALL my problems, I still believe there's GOD who will deliver me one day cos have not stopped calling upon his name.

God has been very faithful towards me despite my challenges and I will advise you put your trust in him alone. Sometimes, some things happen just for the name of the Lord to be glorified. I can go on and on and on talking about God.

But I just want you to watch a movie titled : "GOD IS NOT DEAD". Remain blessed and may you find Favour with him.

Blaqsmith:
Part of it. But most importantly that there isn't evidence for his existence. Even if he exists, I still maintain he won't have my worship.

You worship or not, He won't deny HIMSELF...

Please email me, let's talk. chijiokefbn@yahoo.com

asuustrike2009:
I salute you for your courage and boldness to open up as most guys will hid such information till after wedding . But would you blame her? probably she has been boasting only to receive the shock of her life. You self change your beliefs

It seizes to be love if he has to change his beliefs to win her, let her go if she can't accept you for who you are and what you believe

Blaqsmith:
Thanks. But I just wanted to be free. I've been a prisoner of my own conscience deceiving her all along. She deserves to know the truth.

But why can't you date an atheist?
Why do you think dating theist is a better choice?
Where is your God when I lost my brother after fervent prayers?
What is your God doing to help the homeless and hungry children on the streets?

do u believe that there is a devil (satan) ? u no get juju men abi witches for ur area?

Blaqsmith... it's sad but say goodbye to that relationship.

She'll realise that believing in god is not the same thing as being a good person one day.

Am only trying to tell you,people of different views will never accept it.

but God exist,why not try islam faith and read the quran,you will be amazed.

Blaqsmith:
I was wrong from the beginning but you aren't trying to judge me?

I can see.

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[quote author=Blaqsmith post=47292231]Thanks. But I just wanted to be free. I've been a prisoner of my own conscience deceiving her all along. She deserves to know the truth.

But why can't you date an atheist?
Why do you think dating theist is a better choice?
Where is your God when I lost my brother after fervent prayers?
What is your God doing to help the homeless and hungry children on the streets?[/quote/]
sharap man.na only you don lose person b4...
ur reasoning is flawed.

Miona:
God says more than hi, just that He doesn't speak to everyone especially those that think He's doesn't exist. Thanks to God there are still people that will trust Him all the way. Please, leave the poor girl alone. Let her be, she prefers God's existence to your whatever.

Imagine a child who is born into a family that thinks unicorns are real and worships them. From the age of 1, the child is constantly bombarded with messages from the people he trusts, that if he talks to the unicorns, they will grant him favor. Every positive thing that happens to the child, is attributed to unicorns by his parents and family and friends, until eventually the child begins to "talk to" and "hear" the unicorns himself. Eventually, he truly believes that these unicorns are real and responsible for every good thing in his life.

Your claim that "god doesn't speak to people who are unconvinced of his existence" is precisely correct. Read this sentence carefully please: "GOD" only "speaks" to people who have already been psychologically indoctrinated to believe that he is real. Once that occurs, CONFIRMATION BIAS takes care of the rest.

Confirmation bias is the psychological tendency to only seek out explanations that confirm previously existing ideas. If a person has been previously indoctrinated to think that Yahweh is the one true god, he will then carry on his life attributing everything to this god. If a person has been indoctrinated with Krishna the Hindu God, he'll be attributing things to Krishna. So is the same for EVERY RELIGION THAT EXISTS OR HAS EVER EXISTED (4,000 and counting. and no, Christianity isn't even close to being the first). NO HINDU will ever tell you he talked to Yahweh, just like no Christian will ever tell you he heard Buddha speak to him.

It's all psychological manipulation and brainwashing - THAT is what keeps religion alive. Wake up.

davien:
Does love keep a record of wrongs?... Your "god" does..

How can god be love when love doesn't keep a record of wrongs?


Stop deceiving yourself lady..

what are you saying, you better get a bible and read...

Blaqsmith:
Thanks. But I just wanted to be free. I've been a prisoner of my own conscience deceiving her all along. She deserves to know the truth.

But why can't you date an atheist?
Why do you think dating theist is a better choice?
Where is your God when I lost my brother after fervent prayers?
What is your God doing to help the homeless and hungry children on the streets?

I did not want to put mouth for you before.

But if the questions above is what you say theists have not been able to answer, then you are the one that had not seek for the answer my guy.

Visit www.jw.org look under publications > bible questions answered

Blaqsmith:
I am bringing up this issue here because I don't trust the environment I live and the people I co-habit with. They would open up the bible for me than tell me some truth I need to hear or advise me to go for brain evaluation. I am well ok.

I've been an atheist for some years now, but due to beliefs of people around, I make it a closed affair. Though I raised questions which theists always fail to convincingly answer, I still agree with them that there is god.

I live in this denial of who I am just to satisfy my loved ones and make them happy. They see atheist as a mad man.

All these years, this is what I battle inside of me, but what choice do I have than just to play along? I don't wanna lose loved ones 'cause of my belief.

I muster some courage and decided to reveal my real self to my girlfriend who is also religious. She's told me her love for me is unconditional and I tried to believe her.

She went berserk when I told her am an atheist... She wouldn't just believe it. Since then, she's been looking at me like I'm under some spell.

I'm losing her and I don't ever wanna lose her. If for anything, not because I don't believe there is God who looks by while toddlers die.

bro. I was once like you and I'm happily married now .




The thing with religious people is their narrow way of thinking and seeing things. They believe they are always right. Try to enlighten them Na fight .




Well I made it clear to my missus that I don't believe in any of her invisible bullcrap religion or God. She also thought I was stoopid. Now she believes one day her God will touch my heart(never gonna happen )



I can only advise you to stay true to your beliefs and what you believe in . If she loves you she will be with you and let you live your life.




Don't, I repeat for the sake of love pretend to her that youre a Christian or you have changed. Stand your ground.





At the end of the day if she wants to be with you she will defo be with you

horlumiday:
what are you saying, you better get a bible and read...

Bible you say?




Book of lies you mean?

VampireeM:
hmmm, this one is a tough one cause me cant marry an atheist. I'm even wondering how she could ve been blind to knowing you an atheist. You should ve told her truth earlier in the rship..
I think you should try and make her understand and if she doesnt you can call it quits... its always good to be with someone who you share same belief with or can accept it

Ps There is God.

God?




Prove it

horlumiday:
what are you saying, you better get a bible and read...

I have and still do... or you've forgotten the books that were opened for people to be judged?

Love judges people?

That wouldn't even have been bad enough if "not believing" had not become a sin on its own, it's basically the same as judging someone for not loving you back.

Bro no offense but... U said u do nt believe in God but nw u re saying u prayed fervently but yet u lost ur broda, i doesnt click!
Hw can u Pray to the one u said doesnt nt exist? Hw cn u pray to the one u dnt believe in?

Blaqsmith:
Thanks. But I just wanted to be free. I've been a prisoner of my own conscience deceiving her all along. She deserves to know the truth.

But why can't you date an atheist?
Why do you think dating theist is a better choice?
Where is your God when I lost my brother after fervent prayers?
What is your God doing to help the homeless and hungry children on the streets?

[quote author=WaleTheECONOMIST post=47308667][/quote]yours is warped.

Blaqsmith:
Thanks. But I just wanted to be free. I've been a prisoner of my own conscience deceiving her all along. She deserves to know the truth.

But why can't you date an atheist?
Why do you think dating theist is a better choice?
Where is your God when I lost my brother after fervent prayers?
What is your God doing to help the homeless and hungry children on the streets?

Answer these questions and I'll answer yours.
1. Where are the barbers when we still have people roaming the streets with bushy hair?
2. Where are the teachers when we still have many illiterates?
Or are there no barbers and teachers?