Dab2mydick:
he just ain't put up enough courage to tell her to move on.... He still wants her, but wants to let go.. Hence scared to brake the news to her..



Mixed feelings

Hmmm

ganaziah:



Thanks buh nah

naughty girl... I don't mean that kinda joke nah... I meant being funny, Luke making u like.. Somfin like that

ganaziah:



Hmmm

yeah... It's true.. Just play along, and u'll be alright. Trust me

Dab2mydick:
naughty girl... I don't mean that kinda joke nah... I meant being funny, Luke making u like.. Somfin like that

Oh, ok

Dab2mydick:
yeah... It's true.. Just play along, and u'll be alright. Trust me

Yh...

ganaziah:
Yea, I guess I can survive a couple of days without him buh I hope it doesn't stretch further.

Let's hope it doesn't stretch further. If it does am sure you can easily move on dear.

eph12:

Let's hope it doesn't stretch further. If it does am sure you can easily move on dear.

Yeah, issorite.

He is no more interested my dear. That's how I back out too without having to tell stories that touch.

Dab2mydick:
he just ain't put up enough courage to tell her to move on.... He still wants her, but wants to let go.. Hence scared to brake the news to her..



Mixed feelings

What a jerkwad thing to do.

PunkyV:


What a jerkwad thing to do.

I feel for the lady though... That guy is NOT the only guy in the whole world, I wish could put him aside and move-on


Buh if she applies my method, the guy will fall for her again... Am a genius

bitchcrafts:
He is no more interested my dear. That's how I back out too without having to tell stories that touch.

Alryt

Dab2mydick:
I feel for the lady though... That guy is NOT the only guy in the whole world, I wish could put him aside and move-on


Buh if she applies my method, the guy will fall for her again... Am a genius

LOL, so you're now NL's very own Dr Phil?

You suggested she plays along, what exactly is the point of that?

This thread actually got me thinking myself. Sometimes it's better to just take the initiative & move on without waiting on someone else to give you the go-ahead that may never come, to avoid hanging on a string. Because some guys are just too coward to tell you when they no longer wanna be in the relationship, so they pull all kinds of shìt, hoping you'll read between the lines & sign your own walking papers.

AngelAhnie:
Delete him asap! don't make him feel too important dear. Good luck

you girls are very quick to give negative advice to people struggling with their relationships. Yet you lot sit back and enjoy yours.


Will you delete him if you was in her shoe?

ganaziah:


Alryt!

Act like you don't care and he'll be gone forever

Somebody is about to become single.

bitchcrafts:
He is no more interested my dear. That's how I back out too without having to tell stories that touch.

Best method ever, no drama, no noise, no paparazzi. It reeks of cowardice though and it makes the other party to second guess thinking he/she did something wrong or wasn't good enough.

agrovick:

Best method ever, no drama, no noise, no paparazzi. It reeks of cowardice though and it makes the other party to second guess thinking he/she did something wrong or wasn't good enough.

Yes, there are two things involved here; She either isn't good enough I obviously owe her no explanation or she seems too good I don't feel up to it to admit. Either ways, we aren't meant to be and so be it. I don't see it as cowardice tho, I see it using action to talk. You can get implicated when you try to explain things ykno and ladies won't allow stvpid things like logic ruin their argument; so save me that abeg! I'll rather bone you and your wahala.

bitchcrafts:
Yes, there are two things involved here; She either isn't good enough I obviously owe her no explanation or she seems too good I don't feel up to it to admit. Either ways, we aren't meant to be and so be it. 1) I don't see it as cowardice tho, I see it using action to talk.


2) You can get implicated when you try to explain things ykno and ladies won't allow stvpid things like logic ruin their argument; so save me that abeg! I'll rather bone you and your wahala.

I totally agree with 2 but that 1, boss let's be honest in most cases the only reason why you are using action to talk is because you are trying to leave open the window of smashing her one more time. That window would have closed, if you had verbally tell her you are no longer interested.

agrovick:



I totally agree with 2 but that 1, boss let's be honest in most cases the only reason why you are using action to talk is because you are trying to leave open the window of smashing her one more time. That window would have closed, if you had verbally tell her you are no longer interested.

My life is a lil bit more complex than that. Punkyv understands

bitchcrafts:
My life is a lil bit more complex than that. Punkyv understands

Hahaha, I leave u in her capable hands

agrovick:

Hahaha, I leave u in her capable hands

Its the other way round bruh whispers *I'm the capable hand*

bitchcrafts:
Its the other way round bruh whispers *I'm the capable hand*

Hahaha, I want to hear wedding bells

PunkyV:


LOL, so you're now NL's very own Dr Phil?

You suggested she plays along, what exactly is the point of that?

This thread actually got me thinking myself. Sometimes it's better to just take the initiative & move on without waiting on someone else to give you the go-ahead that may never come, to avoid hanging on a string. Because some guys are just too coward to tell you when they no longer wanna be in the relationship, so they pull all kinds of shìt, hoping you'll read between the lines & sign your own walking papers.

oh girl... I've watched most of ur comments on relationship related issues here on Romance-land, and u gave this same advice abou moving on... Dats wicked!

If u decide to move on without getting to know wats up with the funny behaviour from the guy, and he ain't ready to let go but just busy or sumtin else(sumtin positive) is taking the time, he will return and found out u left just like dat... How do u think he'll feel

U are always ready to move on shaaa... I don't like that, it doesn't fit In all situations of a relationship. I'll tell u something, there are some pple u can NEVER do without. I am an example of such guys, u would always wanna hang around

agrovick:
Hahaha, I want to hear wedding bells

Its just a fling gee

STFUareyouG0d:
you girls are very quick to give negative advice to people struggling with their relationships. Yet you lot sit back and enjoy yours.


Will you delete him if you was in her shoe?

Thought its online relationship

ganaziah:



Sure thing, thank you!

Uwlcm

bitchcrafts:
Its just a fling gee

It doesn't marra, Romancelanders endorse it.

Btw, You're pretty.

AngelAhnie:
Thought its online relationship

I doubt actually

Ganaziah is it online relationship?

STFUareyouG0d:
Ganaziah is it online relationship?

No

ganaziah:


No

Hmmmmmmm I'll advice you don't listen to all these negative advisers

cc AngelAhnie