Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.

let me share my story with you so you can learn........





So I was in a relationship with this girl (a good girl) who I really loved and was very ready to marry her then. She was everything I could ask for and I truly couldn't ask for more .




So later I went to visit her in school and then I saw the picture of a man hung beside her mirror. I wasn't even thinking about anything negative, I just thought perhaps it was her late dad's picture. So after we did jigi jigi I asked her who the person is and she told me it's her uncle ( )


Funny enough I believed her because I loved her. Now later I saw someone who looked like the man somewhere and then I asked people around. It was then I realised he's one of the bosses at NEPA who I used to relate with.



So I told my girl I knew her uncle and we used to relate on business before( she was stunned). I was expecting her to be happy but her mood was otherwise so I decided to find out the truth myself.


One day I was mindingy own business on Facebook and I saw a message from a lady . She asked me to tell my gf to stay away from her aristo( I was like tf). I replied her which of my gf she said .........and also mentioned the man's name. I was like so this man is kpanshing her and she will still use my own phone to even call the man at times




So I kept quiet and went kn a revenge kpanshing I kpanshed her heavily for 2 months before cutting all communication with her.



She reported me to my mom, friends and everybody buh I was fine with her





So moral of my story: your girl's uncle is her aristo and she's just playing you like that girl played me. Be wise now




I only made that short so as not to bore you. There are some details that if I post it here you people would think I'm lying

Back in those days what you doing is called

CARWASHING

Randyhot:
currently iam awake and thinking seriously about this, this is a woman am about paying her bride price in few months time.

Why is it always hard to be objective and truthfully with ourselves? She has a compromised relationship with the so called uncle, even what they shared is so obscene that she even said his wife may be suspecting. My brother tell yourself the truth and stop being stupid.

Trendy247:
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But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


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Lol...
Pls what's the name of the app?

As for OP, if you have to come online to ask then u know your suspicions true jare

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


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I'm interested

mrkayusfit:



@ bolded, if u claim to have dated 32 ladies and still single makes me doubt the credibility of your claim that you indeed confirmed that the said uncle is related to her by blood. I think it's a subtle attempt by you to shield yourself from obvious criticism and advice from intelligent minds. You are deeply in love with someone who doesn't deem it fit to show u off to her uncle despite you showing her to your family and friends as u claim Love is the weakness exploited by most nigerian girls to perputuate their promiscuity and unfortunately u are in love lust. I pity you. I can see your mind is made up and u keep trying all u can to defend her despite the glaring truth been highlighted by every matured mind here. My final advice is go ahead and marry her and get ready to face the consequences of your actions. I wish u a happy married life with your promiscuous wife to be. Smh

my guy, i dnt make empty claims.. The truth is i am in love with her, i dnt pretend or deny that, thanks for ur advice anyway.
It is nw left for me to do the needful and moniter her very closely to know whats what..even if i finally confirmed it, i think i can still fight for her, since the uncle can not marry her becos they are related by blood.
I believe she is not past redemption.

She z dating the man definitely, but u don't have to blame her 4 that cuz that's the only way she can pay her school fees...

Randyhot:
pls read my story well, this uncle has been sponsorin her school needs before i met her, and i do meet most of her financial needs too, but am yet to marry her and fully shoulder all.

Then why has she not introduced u to her uncle since u will soon pay her dowry? The way u are defending her with this statement it seems u Dont really want to hear the truth

You said you saw her selfies in her uncle's house which means you've been there before. Can you also spend a note with her at this same uncle's house? I have nothing further.

That's no uncle...

And between you and her source of funds, for fees and stuff.

The choice is easy...

If d lady is really wants to end up with u as ur wife and u re ready and serious to be with her, stop her from going there and take full responsibility of her up-keep.

My dear, I share your suspicion. Something is definitely fishy.
How about going with her to visit him in his house? Then watch the two of them when you three are together. It really can't hide to a discerning eye.

AlanSugar:
You said you saw her selfies in her uncle's house which means you've been there before. Can you also spend a note with her at this same uncle's house? I have nothing further.

correction.. I saw the selfies on her phone, never been near the mans house before

from your analysis and from personal experience, that man is her man friend, no doubt and my advise to you is that, if you are still courting, kindly take your leave now or you regret later.

smithsydny:
gals and lie be like

This man again... Lols

it really funny u cant see d handwriting on the wall, it either u blind in love or u just turn a blind eye.dude if u marry her just knw u wil share her with her sugar papa com uncle in the rest of ur life!!! how can u be con in this era like damn i fear her jazz

Codedboy95:
tho i didn't read what you wrote well.. but next time the uncle is around tell your girlfriend that you want to pay him a visit just to thank him for all he has been doing .....

True!....in fact ...with wedding bells around the corner... he should ask her why is she not introducing him to the uncle that is soooo close to her!

Gbam Gbammer Gbammest
u'r on point jare my guy.

the op dull nobe small, Shey anybody need babalawo to tell say d guy dey straff him babe.
babes sef dey look face befor dem lie sha, d babe don see am lik dat befor she lie dah kain cheap lie

Randyhot:
thats what am afraid of bro..i am deeply inlove with her. All my family members and friends has taken a particular liking to her. Infact of about the over 32 ladies i have dated since teenage/adulthood, she is the first to pass a night in my family house and help in chores and stuff. I just cant loose her

SO NA ONLY 32 GALS U DONE DATE. AND NOW, SHE DONE DEY SHOW HER 'CLEANING' ABILITY FOR UR HOUSE. SO WHY YOU COME NEED OUR ADVICE NAA. CLOSE THE THREAD, SINCE NA HOUSE-CLEANING-WIFE YOU DEY LOOK. GO AND PAY HER AND MARRY HER SHUOOOO. DEM PUT PEPPER TO BLIND RANDYHOT'S EYES!

ivyy:
I love you Miami ko I love you Texas ni
Someone is conveniently taking you for a fool and you are there loving up foolishly too

Oh the wickedness in this world!

Chaii!

ivyy:


@bolded, you're finished

No am Not! [quote author=ivyy post=47594866]

Jfactor:




SO NA ONLY 32 GALS U DONE DATE. AND NOW, SHE DONE DEY SHOW HER 'CLEANING' ABILITY FOR UR HOUSE. SO WHY YOU COME NEED OUR ADVICE NAA. CLOSE THE THREAD, SINCE NA HOUSE-CLEANING-WIFE YOU DEY LOOK. GO AND PAY HER AND MARRY HER SHUOOOO. DEM PUT PEPPER TO BLIND RANDYHOT'S EYES!

lol..funny dude.

Hypertension ke? I can handle the outcome

Charmarlegne:
why are you playing with hypertension?

Girls can b funny sometimes, dey want to wear prada, Gucci etc , from all indication there is a dirty game going on everytime d so called uncle is around. My ex don played me like a mugul like that b4, she dey strife my lecturer n she dey call am for me uncle. Anytime everyone don comot d department she go go back n play games,d man go stife am, she too go head am to her fullest. But pple dey tell me but I kno won believe. Untill one faithful day that I caught her in d act,in d lab wif this lecturer pant down. I don't like remebering that day. She came to me in d night laughing cos she does not know how to start begging, d annoying part b that. Wake up oo boy b4 It is too late. A word is enough for d wise.

..oga forget am...I had that shit happen with m relation too..forget that uncle shit... We ve got too many cheerful givers just willing to do anything for money..don't start what you will abandon on the long run..she no worth am..

Randyhot:
Above is the sms of tonite that futher roused my suspicions.

Relation to her grandma, great grand ma's second cousin's lil brother's 2nd son, her father's brother's wife's 4th cousin.....all those long family tree wey no gree bear edible fruit!
Bro all na wash wash!!! You don't need to wake up....just confront your fears.

Randyhot:
my guy, i dnt make empty claims.. The truth is i am in love with her, i dnt pretend or deny that, thanks for ur advice anyway.
It is nw left for me to do the needful and moniter her very closely to know whats what..even if i finally confirmed it, i think i can still fight for her, since the uncle can not marry her becos they are related by blood.
I believe she is not past redemption.

Carry ur self imposed cross bro,buh don't blame God 2morrow.

She's sleeping with him.


Nuff said.

She's screwing him...

Funny Op...dem dey tell you now say make you leave her, you say " i think i can still fight for her, since the uncle can not marry her becos they are related by blood"

You no well aswear....

Kontinu...Iranu abasha

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name

pls can I get this app. Am interested