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Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Polyestar(m): 5:27pm On Aug 07, 2016
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by mizzbouqui(f): 5:35pm On Aug 07, 2016
stan241:


How exactly?....... You know what he wants and wont give it to him so why have him around, really ladies really are confusing
There was a guy I friendzoned years back, and we were doing very fine after that.
Recently we had to build a website for an arm of the company where I work and I recommended him to do the job, he was very grateful and he also introduced us to some of his clients which were of great benefits to the company, he won't also hesitate to call me if any other big opportunity shows up for me in future. Lets say I didn't friendzone him I will have forgotten him and all those beautiful things wouldn't have happen.

I will rather choose to friendzone a guy than to loose him(thats my opinion), I believe in future benefits.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Oahray: 5:35pm On Aug 07, 2016
mizzbouqui:

We can't date everyone, and they are some guys one will not want to loose so we had rather friendzone them smiley
that's all shades of selfish.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Beamborla(f): 5:38pm On Aug 07, 2016
Femiartalade:



yes oooo


just that things are exorbitantly expensive here...
I bet you were excited when you saw Abj.
On the brighter side, you'd learn how to be prudent... smiley

Keep calm and learn the best you can... Life after service is no joke. Could be worse and could be better.

NYS won't last for forever.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Polyestar(m): 5:39pm On Aug 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
grin you mean..... a slave ta men.
He can cook is own food undecided And he can cook her's 2.
....Called being considerate!
.....
You made a typo, I fixed it wink
The Nigerian man doesn't regard his girlfriend or wife as a slave. She's a partner but she's expected to know her place. No responsible lady sees herself as an equal to her man too.
It wasn't a typo; it's a slang for errant chicks who spread their legs faster than a bird would spread its wings.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by stan241(m): 5:39pm On Aug 07, 2016
mizzbouqui:

There was a guy I friendzoned years back, and we were doing very fine after that.
Recently we had to build a website for an arm of the company where I work and I recommended him to do the job, he was very grateful and he also introduced us to some of his clients which were of great benefits to the company, he won't also hesitate to call me if any other big opportunity shows up for me in future. Lets say I didn't friendzone him I will have forgotten him and all those beautiful things wouldn't have happen.

I will rather choose to friendzone a guy than to loose him(thats my opinion), I believe in future benefits.


Well to each their own i guess, the dude must have been really happy to remain just friends with you. Just dont see its benefits really, it reeks of childishness if you wanna be friends say so from the get go, dont go giving the dude who might genuinely like you false unecessary hope
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Nobody: 5:44pm On Aug 07, 2016
Polyestar:

The Nigerian man doesn't regard his girlfriend or wife as a slave. She's a partner but she's expected to know her place. No responsible lady sees herself as an equal to her man too.
It wasn't a typo; it's a slang for errant chicks who spread their legs faster than a bird would spread its wings.
Ah,then you must be the HOE who told her 2 open wide wink
......
You can't be 'partner ',without being equal
The latter part of yer statement goes against the former.

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Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Femiartalade(m): 5:45pm On Aug 07, 2016
Beamborla:

I bet you were excited when you saw Abj.
On the brighter side, you'd learn how to be prudent... smiley

Keep calm and learn the best you can... Life after service is no joke. Could be worse and could be better.

NYS won't last for forever.


awwww thanks dear...you are bae

i needed that encouragement

meanwhile ayam managing ooo...
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by mizzbouqui(f): 5:47pm On Aug 07, 2016
stan241:



Well to each their own i guess, the dude must have been really happy to remain just friends with you. Just dont see its benefits really, it reeks of childishness if you wanna be friends say so from the get go, dont go giving the dude who might genuinely like you false unecessary hope
We might end up being together wink
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Beamborla(f): 5:49pm On Aug 07, 2016
Femiartalade:



awwww thanks dear...you are bae

i needed that encouragement

meanwhile ayam managing ooo...
Oh well, today's Sunday and I have my best-behaviour regalia on cheesy I'm glad I was useful.

Cheers!

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Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Polyestar(m): 5:51pm On Aug 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Ah,then you must be the HOE who told her 2 open wide wink
......
You can't be 'partner ',without being equal
The latter part of yer statement goes against the former.
Partnership and equality have different meanings. Go ask your teacher.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Beamborla(f): 5:51pm On Aug 07, 2016
Polyestar:

The Nigerian man doesn't regard his girlfriend or wife as a slave. She's a partner but she's expected to know her place. No responsible lady sees herself as an equal to her man too.
It wasn't a typo; it's a slang for errant chicks who spread their legs faster than a bird would spread its wings.


I'm doing my best to ignore your posts. Pls, just stop posting already.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Polyestar(m): 5:52pm On Aug 07, 2016
Beamborla:



I'm doing my best to ignore your posts. Pls, just stop posting already.
Good choice. Ignore it. wink
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Beamborla(f): 5:54pm On Aug 07, 2016
Polyestar:

Good choice. Ignore it. wink
You my dear are not being helpful.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by stan241(m): 5:56pm On Aug 07, 2016
mizzbouqui:
We might end up being together wink
Lols you must be a heartbreaker
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Nobody: 5:56pm On Aug 07, 2016
Polyestar:

Partnership and equality have different meanings. Go ask your teacher.
or you could ask yers .
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Polyestar(m): 5:59pm On Aug 07, 2016
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by mizzbouqui(f): 6:00pm On Aug 07, 2016
stan241:


Lols you must be a heartbreaker
No I'm not
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Nobody: 6:01pm On Aug 07, 2016
Polyestar:
.....
Bye
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by firstking01(m): 6:07pm On Aug 07, 2016
And a man with brains will see all these and still stick around with her, smhundecided…all these tips are floored before meundecided
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by stan241(m): 6:25pm On Aug 07, 2016
mizzbouqui:
No I'm not
Get the vibe you are
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by stan241(m): 6:26pm On Aug 07, 2016
firstking01:
And a man with brains will see all these and still stick around with her, smhundecided…all these tips are floored before meundecided


Too flawed my brother, feels like something a p**sy whipped dude would allow himself fall for
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by oloyede252(m): 6:26pm On Aug 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Why will a woman cook.for a man? undecided
Why can't he cook for them both? Take turns even.
hy are you serious or just trolling cos with this your comment it shows how unfortunate you are..
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Nobody: 6:32pm On Aug 07, 2016
oloyede252:
hy are you serious or just trolling cos with this your comment it shows how unfortunate you are..
on the contrary, it shows I won't be taken advantage of.
......
You think a woman should be the only 1 cooking? undecided
..... or at all? He's not husband.
Why can't the man cook 2....is he a cripple?

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Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Nobody: 6:33pm On Aug 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Why will a woman cook.for a man? undecided
Why can't he cook for them both? Take turns even.
gender roles are pretty strong in Nigeria.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by BARRIKADE: 6:33pm On Aug 07, 2016
mizzbouqui:

There was a guy I friendzoned years back, and we were doing very fine after that.
Recently we had to build a website for an arm of the company where I work and I recommended him to do the job, he was very grateful and he also introduced us to some of his clients which were of great benefits to the company, he won't also hesitate to call me if any other big opportunity shows up for me in future. Lets say I didn't friendzone him I will have forgotten him and all those beautiful things wouldn't have happen.

I will rather choose to friendzone a guy than to loose him(thats my opinion), I believe in future benefits.
Then I hope to God you meet a guy that's just like you. And by "just like you",I mean a manipulative,Inconsiderate,self-absorbed & Self-centered opportunist.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Nobody: 6:35pm On Aug 07, 2016
Teempakguy:
gender roles are pretty strong in Nigeria.
Nah nah,yer Amercan counterparts think like this 2
it's just I can't cook for 1 2demand I do for him
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by mhisbliss(f): 6:43pm On Aug 07, 2016
irrespective of what you do if you want a guy in friend zone he'll be there in a jiffy, sometimes you dont have to do anything just be boring
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Nobody: 6:46pm On Aug 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Nah nah,yer Amercan counterparts think like this 2
it's just I can't cook for 1 2demand I do for him
the speed at which you reply mentions is frightening.

Anyway, I guess this is just a case of you being unhappy with societal norms because they don't benefit you. If that's the case, you should probably marry a chef, seeing as you love food but won't cook it yourself.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by BARRIKADE: 6:53pm On Aug 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Nah nah,yer Amercan counterparts think like this 2
it's just I can't cook for 1 2demand I do for him
The man-hate is strong with this one.

Polyestar ,bro! keep doing the Lord's work.
Someone's gotta preach the gospel to these bítches.
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by Nobody: 6:54pm On Aug 07, 2016
mizzbouqui:
The friend zone is a situation which a friendship exists between two people, one of whom has an unreciprocated romantic or sexual interest in the other.

So you fuvcking open a thread to tell girls to friendzone us?
Re: Ladies, Here’s How To Push A Nigerian Man Into The Friend Zone. by BARRIKADE: 6:55pm On Aug 07, 2016
Teempakguy:
gender roles are pretty strong in Nigeria.
As opposed to where?

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