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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by SycophanticGoat: 6:40pm On Aug 08, 2016
hungryboy:
Aunty LuveU2 I no blame you sha, Na Telemundo and Zee world I blame,
A hustling man is not one to be obsessed with his looks,
What you asking for is a sugar boy, who will chop your food, take pocket money from you,
And spend all day in the gym trying to grow his 6packs to 'No Park'

LoL.. Whenever they watch those craps, they paint in their minds, Utopian islands, inhabited by only Utopian guys. They eventually turn down guys with good intentions that wouldn't create poems or lyrics of love songs and sing to them, for conmen who'd go the extra mile, just to dig her under. When those kinda guys finally leaves them, they turnaround and bash all guys, calling them names.

Op, I employ you to cheat on your man and may God give you a possessive man to handle your cheating àss
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Babamama: 6:40pm On Aug 08, 2016
I love the way you lie too wink



LuvU2:
I love the way u lie.
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by chukwurah12345(m): 6:41pm On Aug 08, 2016
Sexxkillz:
My dear, stop denying your true calling.
hahahaha
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by pippimp(m): 6:42pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
I love the way u lie.

Which part?
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by paragon40(m): 6:45pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
Did u read the part where i said i will caution him first? undecided
yes i did.. Doesn't change anything...i hope it dsnt get to that stage, it is easy to fgv a cheating husband, than a cheating wife.#FACT i rest my case.
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Kgdavid(m): 6:46pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
*musing-* For real i cant stand a pot-bellied man for long
I cant stand a scruffy looking man for long
I cant stand a smelly man
I cant stand a man who is wealthy but looks messy.

Why would a man be wealthy and erm unappealing to look at? If anything, he should look the best.

He can afford to gym. He has time too. He is in the best position to always eat healthy and stay fit.

Why would he want to look like my dad after 2,3 years of marriage?

If ive planned to look good even after having kids. Why not him?
Yes i plan looking good like my mum.

I remember my dad started to grow belly fat in his early 40s and my mum wasnt pleased. She didnt voice it bt my dad sensed her displeasure and hit the gym asap, continuously, until he trimmed completely. Till today, he still visits...

Well, if my hubby would be insensitive, I will try to caution him, if nothing works, its not i may cheat, i would cheat on him.

*How a man looks matters a lot*


Nothing wrong with knowing what you want but resorting to cheating should not be an option... weigh up the cost vs the benefit in your mind. by the time you are ready to get married you would have understood some things better.

I think you just need to be upfront with your partner before marriage, about what you are looking forward to.
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by MrTour: 6:49pm On Aug 08, 2016
Op I want to see how you look since looks matter to you and your looks must beat the guy represented in the pic x2.

If it doesn't then you are dreaming with your eyes open cos you can't sustain such men.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 6:49pm On Aug 08, 2016
What exactly are you saying undecided undecided.
We all have the imagination of the 'type' of person we want to spend the rest of our lives with, she just stated her own and you just have to accept it or walk away undecided.

You want ur wife to be 'sexy a
and beautiful' after 5kids Why cant you do the same for her undecided. Pot belly is a No NO for me!
firstking01:
Leave me and focus on the message i 've given you cos it will help you...i will never trade my body for/with any woman at the expense of my wife's happiness, never...her happiness is my utmost priority, it ain't negotiable sweetheart...and for your info, i see your own view of ugliness is just limited to looks, you 've already lost it if you dnt retrace your steps now that your still vibrant and young...

There's a song in my dialet(ibibio) that says "if only your character can be beautiful as your skin"...immediately you have bad character you are ugly my dear.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 6:51pm On Aug 08, 2016
lol what a topic, though they say beauty fades, me not really big on beauty, because sometimes beauty can be a curse, imagine someone falling for you because of your looks, that puts unnecessary pressure for you to maintain that look, so for every weight you gain, you gain an extra sense of insecurity, because you know your relationship was built on looks, and let's face it no matter how beautiful/handsome you are, there's always someone better than us. That's no way to live, the constant fear of losing a significant other because of looks and all. All beauty will all fade one day.

but what do i know ? am a just a mortal man sad sad , i think i need my weedman this topic has depressed me cry

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by firstking01(m): 6:53pm On Aug 08, 2016
HateU2:
What exactly are you saying undecided undecided.
We all have the imagination of the 'type' of person we want to spend the rest of our lives with, she just stated her own and you just have to accept it or walk away undecided.

You want ur wife to be 'sexy a
and beautiful' after 5kids Why cant you do the same for her undecided. Pot belly is a No NO for me!
Smh, another one spottedundecided

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by DUOz(m): 6:53pm On Aug 08, 2016
Lol people are loosing it everyday. LuvU2 is a living proof

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Filmdirect: 6:54pm On Aug 08, 2016
Men men relax. But honestly you guys are regurgitating what someone has told you about women to fit the box you have created.

Women care about what men look like. A lot more than you believe. Also we are attracted to the physical, more so than you think.

A lot of women will endure the ugly look because at least they are financially secure but wouldn't be surprised if they might cheat later.

I'm a woman. Married. My man is fit, I'm fit. Pot belly is unattractive. Being in the gym is not 24/7 but can be an added part of a healthy lifestyle. Fat is just not attractive. Not saying resort to cheating but make no mistake we like men to look pleasing to the eye.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by lastmessenger: 6:56pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
shocked
can I talk with you in private? I sent you a pm.
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 6:57pm On Aug 08, 2016
Ho,ho,ho...... Santa has come early.
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 6:58pm On Aug 08, 2016
Ger
firstking01:
Smh, another one spottedundecided
gerrarahere undecided

With the way(story) of how you treated halfricanadian, i'm not surprised. Just change undecided




Hello luvu2, u girls shaa like my moniker tongue
Are u diff from luveu2

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by firstking01(m): 7:00pm On Aug 08, 2016
HateU2:
Gergerrarahere undecided

With the way(story) of how you treated halfricanadian, i'm not surprised. Just change undecided




Hello luvu2, u girls shaa like my moniker tongue
Are u diff from luveu2
undecided
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Beamborla(f): 7:01pm On Aug 08, 2016
I don't get it.
Men want ladies to be in good shape even after childbirth. I've seen lots of threads about how ladies should always look sexy and presentable to keep their men suddenly it's now bad for a lady to request same from her man.

Ladies should always strife to meet up with the physical requirements of men but they should never ask the man to keep fit.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by lizzlix(m): 7:02pm On Aug 08, 2016
These hoes ain't loyal
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by frubben(m): 7:02pm On Aug 08, 2016
How dat one take concern us, thank God u said you wedding not our wedding.

And this one go still enter church on sunday lifting hands to heaven with this mentality

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by chronique(m): 7:07pm On Aug 08, 2016
*in bingo's voice*

Na wa oooooooooo


Lord,take me back to theperiod when life was sweet. Take me back to when We said "I love you" and we meant it for real.
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Beamborla(f): 7:08pm On Aug 08, 2016
SycophanticGoat:


LoL.. Whenever they watch those craps, they paint in their minds, Utopian islands, inhabited by only Utopian guys. They eventually turn down guys with good intentions that wouldn't create poems or lyrics of love songs and sing to them, for conmen who'd go the extra mile, just to dig her under. When those kinda guys finally leaves them, they turnaround and bash all guys, calling them names.

Op, I employ you to cheat on your man and may God give you a possessive man to handle your cheating àss
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

Issorite!
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by skywalker001(m): 7:08pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
spits
babe i knw and believe u dnt mean diz ur thread...
Jst bored and wanna catch fun i guess grin
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Atmmachine(m): 7:08pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
I love the way u lie.


David, how far.
Dude, it's been long time, i know this is your new account

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by wadetaw202: 7:09pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
Fabulove men who cheat on their wives still love them. I can cheat on a man and still love him.


Hmmmm.....this world is upside down.

What kind of home did you come from?

What kind of upbringing did your parents give you?

Was there anything like godliness in the way they brought you up?

I doubt it.
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by vesselman: 7:10pm On Aug 08, 2016
Fabulocity:
Don Benjamin grin

Op trust me, if you indeed are in love with him and not just his physical body, you'd never want to cheat.
The grass withereth, the flower fadeth: but the word of our God shall stand for ever.
Isaiah 40:8 KJV
ola a ma shilo Nile aniyan ,bee sini ewa pelu: sugbon ope aniyan laafi oun wonyi se opa osuwon ife. pls help interpret for her if she does not understand. ire o
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 7:10pm On Aug 08, 2016
firstking01:
undecided
Just change undecided
Stop attacking the OPundecided
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by ncoolsome(m): 7:13pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
Fabulove men who cheat on their wives still love them. I can cheat on a man and still love him.
so after u have done touch ur toes,somersault,missionary,tea bag,doggie with someone else n u think u wld still love ur husband the same way...n if ur new toy isnt sexual good u look for another n another..what is the difference btw u n cynthia that stands on the road,let me guess she get paid n u dont..
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by odutolasodiq(m): 7:13pm On Aug 08, 2016
u hav plans to cheat on ur husband, u hav the gut to say it out and still boastful of it! u are one of the reason i'm scared to get married. shameless wh.ore turned wife.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Isryl02(m): 7:14pm On Aug 08, 2016
Live and let the OP live biko undecided
It's her world... angry

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by danieljessy: 7:15pm On Aug 08, 2016
Beamborla:
I don't get it.
Men want ladies to be in good shape even after childbirth. I've seen lots of threads about how ladies should always look sexy and presentable to keep their men suddenly it's now bad for a lady to request same from her man.

Ladies should always strife to meet up with the physical requirements of men but they should never ask the man to keep fit.
SMH.anoda potential adulteral sighted.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by diva90: 7:15pm On Aug 08, 2016
Sorry to say but your write up is shallow. It's your job as his wife to change his looks if they don't please you. Looks you can change, behaviour you cannot change and Trust me, men are not very difficult when it comes to that area... I am a living testimony to this. If his sense of fashion is off, offer to be his stylist by advising him on what to wear and what not to wear...If he's putting on too much weight , offer to cook him healthier meals, if he doesn't smell good, go out of your way to buy him new deodorants and perfumes and make sure that you help him observe proper personal hygiene by ensuring and advising him to shower twice daily. One thing women must understand is that men are like big babies, it's the way the wife handles them most times that they will turn out. Cheating is never always a solution to the problem. I'll advice you to use corrective measures instead

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