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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by LuvU2: 9:14am On Aug 25, 2016
songzDaniel01:
so because he's broke, he shouldn't have a girl . wah bout u broke ass girls , lookin for already made niggas, why don't u sit ur scrawny ass down nd build yourself cos no sane responsible dude is gonna marry a gold digging liability
So because i am a girl i shouldnt hv a well to do man by my side? I shouldnt have a choice? But the broke dude shd hve the choice of having a girlfriend? Foul reasoning based on double standards.

Sorry, women hve been marrying rich responsible men for security since time immemorial. Nd there aint nothing u can do about it.

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by alobright17(m): 9:17am On Aug 25, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
must I comment relating to the topic always? undecided
if you don't comment relating to the topic,then is either you're derailing or misleading.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by LuvU2: 9:17am On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:


Please help me tell them.

Coming to my thread to cry because I told painful truth.
They want feminism too but just the part that favours them: where women shd work their asses off nd still perform their biological roles. E no fit work na

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by AfricanApple(f): 9:19am On Aug 25, 2016
songzDaniel01:
op why can't u be financially independent too., mind u I'm not broke but I was once nd I'm still with my girl that was with me when I was broke AF .. and she was independent. Now she's begging me to stop buying her gifts. Op u re a broke ass , gold digging biatch
kiss

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 9:20am On Aug 25, 2016
alobright17:
if you don't comment relating to the topic,then is either you're derailing or misleading.
True! But that's what makes the thread fun tongue

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by deturla: 9:21am On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.


Wow....I kind of love this piece....

Please can it go up on www.deedeesblog.com?
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by AfricanApple(f): 9:21am On Aug 25, 2016
firstking01:
In this 21st century, no guy is broke...we just temporary run out of money...it could be for 1year, 2year, a day, 2days, 1week, 1month...it varies based on your momemtum of hustlingsundecided
this is funny. what do you think broke means?
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by tsilva: 9:22am On Aug 25, 2016
Where do I start from. Looking at it the ladies have a strong point for not dating broke guys but in the real sense, the few guys who are already made are in their 30's who are looking for ladies that are doing well for themselves.And these guys are about10% that is if it has not dropped because of the economic conditions we are at the moment.Guys this same ladies will come running after you when they feel the need to settle down.But that is not an excuse not to work hard cos it is to your own advantage at the end of the day.

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by songzDaniel01(m): 9:23am On Aug 25, 2016
LuvU2:
So because i am a girl i shouldnt hv a well to do man by my side? I shouldnt have a choice? But the broke dude shd hve the choice to hv a girlfriend? Foul reasoning based on double standards.

Sorry, women hve been marrying rich responsible men for security since time immemorial. Nd there aint nothing u can do about it.
ur confused ..really confused, Do u think before u reply me ? The broke guy is allowed to date too, rich men for security ?? I laugh in Swahili, who re u deceiving with that.ur mentality has been stained. Do me a favor go nd work on urself , get ur own money like Linda Ikeji, Oprah Winfrey .. I respect those women.. ur here gallivanting round town looking for rich men to suck dry nd devour..

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by LuvU2: 9:29am On Aug 25, 2016
songzDaniel01:
ur confused ..really confused, Do u think before u reply me ? The broke guy is allowed to date too, rich men for security ?? I laugh in Swahili, who re u deceiving with that.ur mentality has been stained. Do me a favor go nd work on urself , get ur own money like Linda Ikeji, Oprah Winfrey .. I respect those women.. ur here gallivanting round town looking for rich men to suck dry nd devour..
oops my bad. I forgot only intelligent people decipher facts.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by alobright17(m): 9:33am On Aug 25, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
True! But that's what makes the thread fun tongue
And you're making that tongue for me to tear it out abi if I catch u there ehnn
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by songzDaniel01(m): 9:33am On Aug 25, 2016
LuvU2:
oops my bad. I forgot only intelligent people decipher facts.
ok

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 9:33am On Aug 25, 2016
songzDaniel01:
so because he's broke, he shouldn't have a girl . wah bout u broke ass girls , lookin for already made niggas, why don't u sit ur scrawny ass down nd build yourself cos no sane responsible dude is gonna marry a gold digging liability
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by STILESGANG: 9:34am On Aug 25, 2016
You don't have a car and you expect your boyfriend to have one,yet you will be the screaming equality...

Who even gives these broke girls the audacity to call guys broke?..Really mind baffling

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 9:36am On Aug 25, 2016
LuvU2:
So because i am a girl i shouldnt hv a well to do man by my side? I shouldnt have a choice? But the broke dude shd hve the choice to hv a girlfriend? Foul reasoning based on double standards.

Sorry, women hve been marrying rich responsible men for security since time immemorial. Nd there aint nothing u can do about it.
This is reality tho, even in the animal kingdom the female go for the most dominant and powerful male, you can't change nature grin grin

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 9:36am On Aug 25, 2016
LuvU2:
So because i am a girl i shouldnt hv a well to do man by my side? I shouldnt have a choice? But the broke dude shd hve the choice to hv a girlfriend? Foul reasoning based on double standards.

Sorry, women hve been marrying rich responsible men for security since time immemorial. Nd there aint nothing u can do about it.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 9:39am On Aug 25, 2016
alobright17:
And you're making that tongue for me to tear it out abi if I catch u there ehnn
is that a threat?! cheesy cheesy wink
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by LuvU2: 9:39am On Aug 25, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
This is reality tho, even in the animal kingdom the female go for the most dominant and powerful male, you can't change nature grin grin
No one can grin

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by alobright17(m): 9:41am On Aug 25, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
is that a threat?! cheesy cheesy wink
is that what you see it as? come on everything there is a joke besides where am I going to see u? that question is not needed.

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by LuvU2: 9:43am On Aug 25, 2016
STILESGANG:
You don't have a car and you expect your boyfriend to have one,yet you will be the screaming equality...

Who even gives this broke girls the audacity to call guys broke?..Really mind baffling
Who only screams equality these days more than the men when it has to do wif finance? grin

Why not scream the same equality for men to become stay-at-home dads, nursing dads? or even cooks?

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 9:45am On Aug 25, 2016
sad I dont understand what you just typed
alobright17:
is that what you see it as? come on everything there is a joke besides where am I going to see u? that question is not needed.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 9:45am On Aug 25, 2016
LuvU2:
No one can grin
Only God grin cheesy
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by firstking01(m): 9:47am On Aug 25, 2016
AfricanApple:
this is funny. what do you think broke means?
My own view of brokeness is poverty in abjectivityundecided

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Caprigal: 9:49am On Aug 25, 2016
LuvU2:
They want feminism too but just the part that favours them: where women shd work their asses off nd still perform their biological roles. E no fit work na

Honestly it time women start speaking up and being selective about what they want.

A man will demand your loyalty and respect in a relationship to prove that you are wife material but at the same time wants you to put up with a mediocre relationship where he cannot play his role as a man that can take care of you after marriage.

What nonsense.

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Caprigal: 9:51am On Aug 25, 2016
deturla:


Wow....I kind of love this piece....
Please can it go up on www.deedeesblog.com?
yes please. More people need to know the truth
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by alobright17(m): 9:53am On Aug 25, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
sad I dont understand what you just typed
yes because you made me felt bad,Is never a threat of any kind,it was just a joke.... I don't even know ur location for me to touch ur tongue.hope you gat it bera now
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by lilmax(m): 9:57am On Aug 25, 2016
songzDaniel01:
so because he's broke, he shouldn't have a girl. wah bout u broke ass girls , lookin for already made niggas, why don't u sit ur scrawny ass down nd build yourself cos no sane responsible dude is gonna marry a gold digging liability
a big yes, I will say it till tomorrow broke guys have no business with relationships

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 10:08am On Aug 25, 2016
alobright17:
yes because you made me felt bad,Is never a threat of any kind,it was just a joke.... I don't even know ur location for me to touch ur tongue.hope you gat it bera now
Oh! Don't get me wrong, I'm never serious, I'm always in the joking mood grin cheesy wink kiss I was joking as well... I reside in lagos, on the island wink
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by alobright17(m): 10:17am On Aug 25, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Oh! Don't get me wrong, I'm never serious, I'm always in the joking mood grin cheesy wink kiss I was joking as well... I reside in lagos, on the island wink
While ayam across the terrain of the country,though ayam son of the soil,you see there is no way I can touch the tongue.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 10:21am On Aug 25, 2016
alobright17:
While ayam across the terrain of the country,though ayam son of the soil,you see there is no way I can touch the tongue.
eya too bad tongue grin
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by alobright17(m): 10:28am On Aug 25, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
eya too bad tongue grin
Nothing spoil sha
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 10:40am On Aug 25, 2016
alobright17:
Nothing spoil sha
I saw you and mhisbliss love talk this morning, so you're now her daddy?, grin gudmrnin!.

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