Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

For your last paragraph, only you can answer that question. It's obvious the guy isn't interested in winding up with you.

Oops

if u were raped, I cld hv told u that u could abort. d day I had my baby was d happiest day of my life. I can't imagine life without her. u shldnt just calculate ur physical and most especially TEMPORAL problems and then decide to end a life. dont get rid of that child. forget d guy, u made a mistake but d same way its not d end of ur life, it shldnt be d end of little cute unborn baby too. pls think abt this. be strong

http://clinicquotes.com/abortion-at-10-weeks-pictures/
Go through the graphic pictures and tell if you still wish to proceed with murder.

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

its amazing how quick u are to tell her to" get rid of..." in order words, u are saying "kill that baby fast...." u shld really be careful. on behalf of d unborn child, receive forgiveness and pls no more

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

That's murder

So? sometimes in life you just have to sacrifice something for the benefit of many, it's called logic it will result to peace and prosperity

Chubhie:

That's murder

CrazyQuinn:
So? sometimes in life you just have to sacrifice something for the benefit of many, it's called logic it will result to peace and prosperity

Wrong. What if there are complications? All you advisers won't be with her. Whereas, she can give birth to the child and her mother would take care of the baby and she goes to struggle for Life. A year + would be wasted but it will be worth it.

why did you have to write "Yoruba deemon" and include no offense when you actually intended the offense. I can relate to reasons why he did not deem you fit to be his wife. This may just be part of the reasons. Coming from a responsible home doesn't make you responsible. Responsibility is a personal decision. I'm not scolding you but you are certainly going to leave with this scar if you abort for the rest of your life. You would have killed a full humanbeing. Now you pregnant with no hubby, that's bring shame to your family and stigma to yourself. You can pray to God to make you lose the pregnancy or get your mother involved while you chase after who got you pregnant. Marrying him though doesn't guarantee a happy marriage cuz he might not be happy with you. From the look of things, you were not a baby, how you got pregnant shows your carelessness. You engage in premarital sex and you get caught in the hook. I wish you luck sha cuz your only saving grace now is if you loose the pregnancy naturally, if not, welcome to the world of single mothers.

CrazyQuinn:
So? sometimes in life you just have to sacrifice something for the benefit of many, it's called logic it will result to peace and prosperity

In this case,an innocent baby? Pray tell what crime the baby committed to warrant such gruesome brutish death as sacrifice for peace and prosperity?

I wish to understand this logic you talk about.

Jay542:

Wrong. What if there are complications? All you advisers won't be with her. Whereas, she can give birth to the child and her mother would take care of the baby and she goes to struggle for Life. A year + would be wasted but it will be worth it.

If I were in her shoes, it won't be worth it to me ..... and you are actually being selfish because the child will be traumatized emotionally for the rest of his/her life because he/she doesn't have a dad

byvan03:
For your last paragraph, only you can answer that question. It's obvious the guy isn't interested in winding up with you.

Or the child

Chubhie:

In this case,an innocent baby? Pray tell what crime the baby committed to warrant such gruesome brutish death as sacrifice for peace and prosperity?

I wish to understand this logic you talk about.

and please tell me what crime did Jesus commit to warrant such gruesome brutish death as sacrifice for peace and prosperity?

CrazyQuinn:
If I were in her shoes, it won't be worth it to me ..... and you are actually being selfish because the child will be traumatized emotionally for the rest of his/her life because he/she doesn't have a dad

There are lots of people without a dad. Is how you relate it to the child that's paramount. In the real sense it's you that's being selfish cos when you wer enjoying it you didn't know abi.

CrazyQuinn:
and please tell me what crime did Jesus commit to warrant such gruesome brutish death as sacrifice for peace and prosperity?

Are you saying the unborn baby is Jesus that will usher peace and prosperity?

Jesus was given birth to and went about doing good.Why murder the unborn child and deny him/her Jesus brand of miracles?

I wish to understand your logic and comparisons.

Jay542:

There are lots of people without a dad. Is how you relate it to the child that's paramount. In the real sense it's you that's being selfish cos when you wer enjoying it you didn't know abi.

human beings make mistakes we are not perfect and this is one of those mistakes so are you saying we are not allowed to make mistakes again? No matter how stupid or expensive the mistake is, mistake is still a mistake

CrazyQuinn:
Or the child

Very unfortunate for OP.

CrazyQuinn:
human beings make mistakes we are not perfect and this is one of those mistakes so are you saying we are not allowed to make mistakes again? No matter how stupid or expensive the mistake is, mistake is still a mistake

Lol. Yea we make mistake but we should be responsible for our mistakes. That's all I'm saying. Doesn't mean we should commit murder to correct the mistake. Moreso there can even be a greater mistake by committing and abortion and you'll loose at both ends.

Chubhie:

Are you saying the unborn baby is Jesus that will usher peace and prosperity?

Jesus was given birth to and went about doing good.Why murder the unborn child and deny him/her Jesus brand of miracles?

I wish to understand your logic and comparisons.

what you are ranting here just didn't make sense to me, stop avoiding the facts which is right in front of you. Both stories are different situations but same scenario

CrazyQuinn:
what you are ranting here just didn't make sense to me, stop avoiding the facts which is right in front of you. Both stories are different situations but same scenario

I'm yet to understand you.

Jay542:

Lol. Yea we make mistake but we should be responsible for our mistakes. That's all I'm saying. Doesn't mean we should commit murder to correct the mistake. Moreso there can even be a greater mistake by committing and abortion and you'll loose at both ends.

Life is all about taking risk and making sacrifices my dear which results to great benefit

Chubhie:

I'm yet to understand you.

Too bad

Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf(yoruba deemon #noOffense Pls) for about a year nw.Heaven knws I love him,about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

How much is condom in the market if you can't abstain from sex

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

just as ur name implies

CrazyQuinn:
Life is all about taking risk and making sacrifices my dear which results to great benefit

I agree but this is not the risk or sacrifice life is talking about. If Cristiano Ronaldo mother had aborted her pregnancy there wouldn't have been this great footballer today. The mother took the risk of giving birth to him and sacrifice of taking care of him. Now that's the risk and sacrifice life is talking about

bennyrazz:
why did you have to write "Yoruba deemon" and include no offense when you actually intended the offense. I can relate to reasons why he did not deem you fit to be his wife. This may just be part of the reasons. Coming from a responsible home doesn't make you responsible. Responsibility is a personal decision. I'm not scolding you but you are certainly going to leave with this scar if you abort for the rest of your life. You would have killed a full humanbeing. Now you pregnant with no hubby, that's bring shame to your family and stigma to yourself. You can pray to God to make you lose the pregnancy or get your mother involved while you chase after who got you pregnant. Marrying him though doesn't guarantee a happy marriage cuz he might not be happy with you. From the look of things, you were not a baby, how you got pregnant shows your carelessness. You engage in premarital sex and you get caught in the hook. I wish you luck sha cuz your only saving grace now is if you loose the pregnancy naturally, if not, welcome to the world of single mothers.

This must be the Yoruba demon the op is talking about Ben take it easy with the op, she is going through a lot right now.

honeygirl17:
How much is condom in the market if you can't abstain from sex

easy thing for u to say......

Oghenetega!!! Na three time I call you so. Pls whatever you decide to do, remember that that baby has a right to live. I'm not sanctimonious but pls, give him/her a chance. It might be the best decision you ever made. May God forgive us all and help you through this.