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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 8:05pm On Sep 06, 2016
Jay542:

I agree but this is not the risk or sacrifice life is talking about. If Cristiano Ronaldo mother had aborted her pregnancy there wouldn't have been this great footballer today. The mother took the risk of giving birth to him and sacrifice of taking care of him. Now that's the risk and sacrifice life is talking about smiley
the risk and sacrifice is 50/50 so what happened to ronaldo's mother doesn't mean it's going to happen to her sad btw sacrifice is sacrifice, it only depends on the situation tongue

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 8:09pm On Sep 06, 2016
lofty900:
just as ur name implies undecided
her situation has nothing to do with my name undecided sad stop focusing on me and focus on the Op, I'm not the one with the problem here grin

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by honeygirl17: 8:10pm On Sep 06, 2016
Tega4B:


easy thing for u to say...... angry
what are your plans concerning your unborn baby?
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Jay542(m): 8:17pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
the risk and sacrifice is 50/50 so what happened to ronaldo's mother doesn't mean it's going to happen to her sad btw sacrifice is sacrifice, it only depends on the situation tongue
Yea. A greater thing can happen. A less thing can happen. The Op didn't complain bout finance. She complained she doesn't want to be a babymama and i think that's selfish. As long as her background finance is okay, there's no problem. They don't just give advice about abortion like that.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by babysophie(f): 8:19pm On Sep 06, 2016
You are already a babymama. Congrats.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 8:26pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
her situation has nothing to do with my name undecided sad stop focusing on me and focus on the Op, I'm not the one with the problem here grin
grin
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:12pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life angry
Seconded. No need bringing an unwanted child into this world.

We all make mistakes, nobody is perfect.

What I find funny is that, just on the other side of nairaland(health section) You will see lots and lots of women praying, fasting, doing all sorts of test just to get a child.

May God have mercy on us. smiley

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by 1o1o1o1: 9:12pm On Sep 06, 2016
I know about six couples married for ages now and still desperately trying for babies.

Now, I have realised how previous babies are and would never advice anyone to abort except in very rare/desperate circumstances.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:15pm On Sep 06, 2016
VikingsOO7:

Seconded. No need bringing an unwanted child into this world.

We all make mistakes, nobody is perfect.

What I find funny is that, just on the other side of nairaland(health section) You will see lots and lots of women praying, fasting, doing all sorts of test just to get a child.

May God have mercy on us. smiley
Amen smiley

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by stagger: 9:23pm On Sep 06, 2016
Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

How many stories do YOU need to hear of this scenario before you wake up and ZIP UP?

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by herzern(m): 9:27pm On Sep 06, 2016
I'd advise yhu keep the baby......

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by aninexzy(m): 9:28pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Too bad tongue
. My dear just follow ur heart n move on.
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Tobyshegz(m): 9:29pm On Sep 06, 2016
Ooh!!. All men are senseless and cruel— except me
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by femi4: 9:30pm On Sep 06, 2016
Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.
Baby mama loading.....unfortunately there is nothing you can do about it. Please don't abort it, brace yourself cos tough time lies ahead
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by goingape1: 9:32pm On Sep 06, 2016
Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.
you came from a responsible family but yet open ya yansh for an irresponsible boy or man undecided

what does that make of you?

pls open ya responsible yansh for the doctor at the hospital so that you can deliver the babe safely..


nonsense naija women everywhere

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nasa28(m): 9:32pm On Sep 06, 2016
But the thing sweet u wen u were doing it.

Madam biko no kill that baby oooo.



Baby mama calls so u got to answer

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by naniawini(f): 9:33pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life angry
seconded

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by femi4: 9:33pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life angry
From their comments you shall know them.......murderer

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by OLUJOSHINS(m): 9:34pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life angry




U are a terrible counsellor.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by OLUJOSHINS(m): 9:35pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life angry




U are a terrible counsellor.

Do U know that she could DIE during the abortion?

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by naniawini(f): 9:35pm On Sep 06, 2016
femi4:
From their comments you shall know them.......muderer
wats ds one saying
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:36pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life angry
u idiot, do u know that baby can give her open doors

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by NONNYG: 9:36pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life angry
I wish your mother got rid of u. idiaaat

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by thedarkside: 9:37pm On Sep 06, 2016
oyyy....your typ of fooolishness is extraordinäer...sooo,,,he is planning to marry another woman without you...?......oyyyyyyyyyyy



walahi..you are not serious....even women should be careful with their emotions.....you suppose to know that.....

well...na your sorrows till you die.....kpele...
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:37pm On Sep 06, 2016
OLUJOSHINS:





U are a terrible counsellor.

Do U know that she could DIE during the abortion?
I'm not a counsellor in the first place grin

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by CharlieMaria(m): 9:38pm On Sep 06, 2016
Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.
Please dear give the baby a chance to Live. If you kill the baby you may not live to tell the story. Besides the Baby you are thinking of getting killing might be the only saving grace God gives you in this life, you never knew the Path God had prepared for you. It's painful though the dilemma you are in, but two wrongs don't make right. Keep the baby, bear the shame. All things work out good for those who Love God whether good or bad. You can call if need be (zero eight one eight two three five three zero eight zero.)

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:38pm On Sep 06, 2016
Just negodu. Sha you know what to do.
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by transient123(m): 9:38pm On Sep 06, 2016
You don't want to be a baby mama and you are opening your legs like a dog. Your cross, carry it. But, be assured you are murderer if you terminate the pregnancy.

Welcome, newest baby mama in the village. Nonsense!
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:38pm On Sep 06, 2016
grin grin grin cheesy
femi4:
From their comments you shall know them.......muderer
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by WebSurfer(m): 9:38pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
If I were in her shoes, it won't be worth it to me undecided ..... and you are actually being selfish because the child will be traumatized emotionally for the rest of his/her life because he/she doesn't have a dad undecided

You are just talking nonsense all through.. How dare you openly advice someone to get rid of a baby without thinking of the consequences that might come with it, you didn't even bother to ask how long the prenancy was and the likes..


May God forgive you

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Petroking: 9:38pm On Sep 06, 2016
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Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

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