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uyiekpen26:
Bros now I know better. This is someone I picked up from the gutter and cleaned up. Now she's saying it was the bad advice her friends gave her. I've told her I'm not interested. She will eat sand.

Danfuster:
so then... What is the primary responsibility of a woman that's adequately and rottingly catered for??

Where In my write up did I address that paragraph to YOU?, I addressed that paragraph to OP and I was concise about it using "OP" as opening paragraph. You're the one who needs to go back and read through again but this time, slowly and apply basic reading rules... I wonder if you ever passed English Tests?!

So again... I think I have to school you on this English thingy, I said Girls hoes and not women, can't you tell the diference between the two? I bet you can't tell the difference between a Lady and a woman. Your idiocy is legendary and irredeemable.

I won't return your quotes anymore cos your mind is too small to hold an intellectual convo. Maybe you could try electrotherapy to stimulate your cerebral cortex only then will your cerebrum function at it's optimum.

Adios

uyiekpen26:
thank you my brother. Now I know better. No woman will ever see my #5 not to talk of my #20. I would have given her the beating of her life before but I chose not to.

One time for you bro cos now you know...better. If they can cheat on Ice prince and Drake is always singing about heartbreak, mehn....God help us . I just want you know there're still a few sisters out there.

Crazy thing is, they don't do it for money no more. They do it for variety. I have a Jam for you to ease off bro...You'll love it

J Cole - No Role Model

warrah:
Go on and do what ever you deem right, but remember, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.....

thecatch:
With what u said she did u didn't go far. But looking inwardly to the matter I think there is more to the story. Maybe op wasn't satisfying her sexually or something is wrong some where if not a lady in her right sense doing everything you mentioned here wouldn't want to cheat on you. (just saying)

Snow5:
Lols... OP I feel your pain oo...


Mine is a different direction.. I felt for the guy that was dating the lady.. So dat night.. I couldn't touch her cos I have a conscience...

NOW THE STORY..


we were good friends(I and the lady) .. Last time we saw ourself was way back 2010,..so I was serving in benin 2014 /2015 when I saw this my old time friend... We hugged each other and almost kissed while on the road self.. We got talking and she said she is a student in uniben.. I was too eager to visit her or she visits me... Either ways.. What was on my mind was to kpansh her(enjoy a night with her)..

We got to a point when we discussed almost everything... And I got to realise that she already has a fiancee.. And that finance graduated 2yrs before I graduate... And was doing a meager job... And from that meager job that nigga was doing... He rented an apartment for this my lady friend.. Bought everything that was literally in that house... The lady was comfortable.. And the nigga visits every Saturday jst to satisfy his fiancee in all ramification..

She visited me in my room.. Where I was serving and she passed the night in my house... Immediately she came in.. We hugged but dint kiss at all(she was even surprised at my attitude).. I cooked for her.. She ate... And she quickly took a shower... It was about 7pm then.. She came and sat on the bed NAKED.. jst only panties on..

I was busying pressing my phone and doing nothing inside my phone... Lols...she was like "Patrick what's wrong? Are u angry at me?.. I said no oo.... I moved closer and and we started gisting again oo... I in initiate almost all the stories that night... Jst to make her tired and weak...


She eventually fell asleep I dint even kissed her... I couldn't even romance her... Cos my minid nor let me do the thing... Because I WAS FEELING FOR THAT NIGGA THAT THought HE HAS A GIRL HE WANT TO MARRY ALREADY... I couldn't do it.. I slept on the floor that night..

She woke up the next morning and left about 7am to catch up with lectures.. That evening... Her watsapp status was "dem give you knife and yam you nor fit do anything"... I knew that status was for me... I jst shook my head and till I left that Benin... Na twice we see and na for road we take talk and chat..

Almost all ladies act like this.. I don't know why... What will it take u to be loyal? U see someone that does almost visually everything for you... U still cheat on him... As in... Wetin u dey find? SMH..

bro take heart jor

GiMngo:
Dude...I'm lost for words but honestly you deserved some adorations. I pray God give you the woman that will honour, cherish, respect and love you. #such a heart#

thecatch:
With what u said she did u didn't go far. But looking inwardly to the matter I think there is more to the story. Maybe op wasn't satisfying her sexually or something is wrong some where if not a lady in her right sense doing everything you mentioned here wouldn't want to cheat on you. (just saying)

uyiekpen26:
Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in, send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within and outside the country.

I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice. So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I just came to check up on her.

I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the following week I opened an account for her and closed the account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of coming to remove everything in that same house by the weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself. Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and family members have been disturbing my phone begging. Saying I'm taking things too far.

ucsparks:
[size=15pt] Op is just a joke,, girls with fish brain now will start sending PM's
Be weary of this guy, he's not real. His first post is about a car he bought in which he showed us only one image of the car(bloody liar), and now this .....
Making y'all think he is well to do, this dude is one retarded psychotic poor fellow with hidden agenda. Please beware
Rich guys don't make this senseless noise [/size]

uyiekpen26:
I'll do that bros. I said Friday cos of my schedule. I'm not gonna exchange words with her. The presence of mobile policemen will humble her. If she tries to create any drama I'll ensure she gets arrested.

uyiekpen26:
funny enough we dey strave well but women can never be content.

Terryindeed:
My brother God bless you too, please do one thing for me before you leave the house, spit on her face and walk away, don't exchange a word, don't say I have heard you, just pack everything, then when she comes to you , get hold of her face and spit on her forehead. That will make her in her life never cheat with even a dog. What I just said will follow her to her entaph (grave) . Brother Friday is too far, what happens tomorrow? Abeg I don't want u to forgive her o.

abokibuhari:
baba, leave that phone make she use for remembering you. most babes no get joy at all, I dated one but later found it that she was dating someone even before i asked her out. I almost wept

davdjayj:
When you give someone something, you do not collect it back. Dont let her make you petty and childish. Stopping future payments, rent and so on is OK, but taking back what was given in love is going to.far,too petty and extremely childish. Not bashing you or anything as you have every right to be mad at her for cheating. Men invest in women for 10-20 years and they still cheat. Buy houses,cars, what have you. Bragging about paying fees in a 9ja university, rent and upkeep is nothing.
Years of experience has taught us a woman or man that will cheat will do so regardless of what you do. Move on already!!

uyiekpen26:
Bros now I know better. This is someone I picked up from the gutter and cleaned up. Now she's saying it was the bad advice her friends gave her. I've told her I'm not interested. She will eat sand.

uyiekpen26:
thanks bro. Even the phone she has been using to call me was bought by me. I'm going to collect it and everything as well.

ucsparks:
[size=15pt] Op is just a joke,, girls with fish brain now will start sending PM's
Be weary of this guy, he's not real. His first post is about a car he bought in which he showed us only one image of the car(bloody liar), and now this .....
Making y'all think he is well to do, this dude is one retarded psychotic poor fellow with hidden agenda. Please beware
Rich guys don't make this senseless noise [/size]

thecatch:
With what u said she did u didn't go far. But looking inwardly to the matter I think there is more to the story. Maybe op wasn't satisfying her sexually or something is wrong some where if not a lady in her right sense doing everything you mentioned here wouldn't want to cheat on you. (just saying)

uyiekpen26:
Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in, send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within and outside the country.

I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice. So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I just came to check up on her.

I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the following week I opened an account for her and closed the account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of coming to remove everything in that same house by the weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself. Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and family members have been disturbing my phone begging. Saying I'm taking things too far.

nma24:
The lady bleeped up big time... If you want to cheat, cheat with someone far better than your boyfriend an or not a lowlife. I'm sure she was even feeding the guy from your money. Take it easy op, You'll find a better person with time. That your babe need one resetting slap though

rosieluv:
yea she bleeped up big time but it hasnt gotten to d extent of u harassing her with police officers. closing her account n stopping d visa processing is enough,dnt take it too far by collecting her fone n properties u bought for her,act mature n move on wiv ur life. Girls plenty out there mbok

xtervaganza:
if she wants to cheat she should with someone better than him?



What kind of moronic reasoning is this? Would it be cool if your guy cheated on you with a richer lady orore beautiful lady?



Why do you ladies move around with empty head?

uyiekpen26:
Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in, send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within and outside the country.

I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice. So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I just came to check up on her.

I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the following week I opened an account for her and closed the account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of coming to remove everything in that same house by the weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself. Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and family members have been disturbing my phone begging. Saying I'm taking things too far.