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Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by na2day2(m): 8:08am On Nov 19, 2009
megacity:
@Na2day
About who I want to leave the left over for. As I was not her 1st, 2nd, 3rd or even 4th, why should I be the one to keep the left over?
spoken like a true thoughtless soul. the time u went to mark present on her register, why didn't u remember to carry out ur CIA work first to know all the terrorist that have bombed that zone, now u contribute finish con dey yan rubbish. abeg waka far
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by Druss(m): 10:29am On Nov 19, 2009
Thank GOD you know what you want. Megacity - All this peeps misyarning here. Me I have my own rule - If you are 25 and below and you have had more than 2 serious boyfriends that is it!!

Different people have different standards , afterall na this ones go come stay with you for your house. Na them go dey by your side when your 'Vanessa Blue' girlfriend gets winks from different guys. Abeg lets call a spade a spade. The past matters ESPECIALLY to guys.

Ladies dont let anyone fool you. Your history also has some value in a guy's eyes!! It is not the only criteria/variable but it is one of them! The less history the more valuable.
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by C2H5OH(f): 10:41am On Nov 19, 2009
That last line was succintly put, guy. wink
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by OBVIOUS(m): 10:43am On Nov 19, 2009
Druss:
Thank GOD you know what you want. Megacity - All this peeps misyarning here. Me I have my own rule - If you are 25 and below and you have had more than 2 serious boyfriends that is it!!

Different people have different standards ,  afterall na this ones go come stay with you for your house. Na them go dey by your side when your 'Vanessa Blue' girlfriend gets winks from different guys. Abeg lets call a spade a spade. The past matters ESPECIALLY to guys.

Ladies dont let anyone fool you. Your history also has some value in a guy's eyes!! It is not the only criteria/variable but it is one of them! The less history the more valuable.
No wonder babes hide in churches and under the umbrella of religion after bleeping their lives away in some past lives. No wonder people move to another country and state-- just to find a husband--- all of these TRICKs na lie--- a leopard never changes it spots--- no matter how hard they try to pretend and lie about their past.

I would rather marry a woman for who she is and telling the truth--- than have her live with the burden of her past.
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by OBVIOUS(m): 10:44am On Nov 19, 2009
I heard this one girl advice her friend "as you get closer to when u are ready to marry: move to another state or country and make sure to go to church every sunday" fastest way to get a Nigerian husband----  I guess such pretentious tricks really works on men.  undecided undecided

that day I laughed but looking at some comments on this thread--- I see that she's actually telling the truth.

WHAT A NIGERIAN MAN DOESN'T KNOW YET, WILL NEVER HURT HIM.
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by bigrod1: 10:46am On Nov 19, 2009
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Druss:
Thank GOD you know what you want. Megacity - All this peeps misyarning here. Me I have my own rule - If you are 25 and below and you have had more than 2 serious boyfriends that is it!!

Different people have different standards , afterall na this ones go come stay with you for your house. Na them go dey by your side when your 'Vanessa Blue' girlfriend gets winks from different guys. Abeg lets call a spade a spade. The past matters ESPECIALLY to guys.

Ladies dont let anyone fool you. Your history also has some value in a guy's eyes!! It is not the only criteria/variable but it is one of them! The less history the more valuable.
word.

@na2day,the past could be a pointer to d future.its very easy for u to say all that u are saying.when u are in such situation,u will do worse.its better one never knows abt his girl`s past.because if u get to know,u`ll never be happy.why are these guys just pretending?could it be because they are sourcing for girls here or what?

most of guys(about 96%) will not be happy when they get to know.even the babes are not helping matter.they live stupid life these days (cos they know dat pple like na2day will gladly applaud their achievements) and expect u to close ur eyes and move on with then like a fool.
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Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by OBVIOUS(m): 10:49am On Nov 19, 2009
big rod:

word.

@na2day,the past could be a pointer to d future.its very easy for u to say all that u are saying.when u are in such situation,u will do worse.its better one never knows abt his girl`s past.because if u get to know,u`ll never be happy.why are these guys just pretending?could it be because they are sourcing for girls here or what?
What if she wants to tell you about her past, she that she can be free ? You will dump her after she's done discussing? I guess SOME Men would rather not know the truth.
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by bigrod1: 11:01am On Nov 19, 2009
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OBVIOUS:
What if she wants to tell you about her past, she that she can be free ? You will dump her after she's done discussing? I guess SOME Men would rather not know the truth.
better not to know.but then this world is a very small world.u `ll be surprised dat the person dat will reveal d gist is someone u never thought existed.

something like this happened to my friend.his babe was bleeping almost all the guys on her street.guess who told d guy(ma friend)?one of the guys who bleeped her.with enough evidence.

if only these girls will learn.but they wont.they want to play well well.we want to play too .so let d game continue[/size]
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by OBVIOUS(m): 11:04am On Nov 19, 2009
big rod:
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better not to know.but then this world is a very small world.u `ll be surprised dat the person dat will reveal d gist is someone u never thought existed.

something like this happened to my friend.his babe was bleeping almost all the guys on her street.guess who told d guy(ma friend)?one of the guys who bleeped her.with enough evidence.

if only these girls will learn.but they wont.they want to play well well.we want to play too .so let d game continue[/size]
I understand what you mean--- but some people change and mature over time. Plus, SOME WOMEN who spend most of their lifetime bleeping away--- are normally not very successful. IMO----

Sucks for the girl if the man has some actual proof but sometimes----some of those talks are just RUMORS---- sometimes
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by OBVIOUS(m): 11:06am On Nov 19, 2009
of course, I don't expect to date a porn star or a girl who has been naked on camera, or a woman with children----- lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

But if its a "mo ti je mbe" conversation---- I normally don't trust those. I've seen stories of Men who have talked about about a particular woman just to discourage their friends and turned around and married that same woman---- undecided undecided undecided
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by Nobody: 11:10am On Nov 19, 2009
OBVIOUS:
of course, I don't expect to date a porn star or a girl who has been naked on camera, or a woman with children----- lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

But if its a "mo ti je mbe" conversation---- I normally don't trust those. I've seen stories of Men who have talked about about a particular woman just to discourage their friends and turned around and married that same woman---- undecided undecided undecided
;DHahahahaha. So diplomatic you are wink
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by Nobody: 11:20am On Nov 19, 2009
megacity:
This r/ship will have end soon. I have gotten used to this woman these past few months, and so I know I‘ll miss her after she has gone. I‘ll miss her company, I‘ll miss her friendship, I‘ll miss those smiles, I‘ll miss her intelligence and brilliance, I‘ll miss her jokes and I ‘m sure I‘ll miss the other one too. But only if she didn’t have such a past! How can I marry a woman that now and again we‘ll run into some man waving at my wife – one of the men she used to romp with? I can’t live with that
God you are such a fraud! You miss her but you can't wait ot leave her for something fresh! When you've contributed to spoling her more.

Tomorrow you are gonna join in the crowd of men she'll be waving at as someone 'she used to romp with' . . . . . Good reason for another man to reject her abi?

So you are comfortable with knowing that the only thing you added to her life is more trouble, sorrow and heartbreak. After she has given you so much love, companionship, friendship and a really good relationship? I hope you are able to sleep at night when you lie down!
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by smooooooth: 11:25am On Nov 19, 2009
megacity:
This r/ship will have end soon. I have gotten used to this woman these past few months, and so I know I‘ll miss her after she has gone. I‘ll miss her company, I‘ll miss her friendship, I‘ll miss those smiles, I‘ll miss her intelligence and brilliance, I‘ll miss her jokes and I ‘m sure I‘ll miss the other one too. But only if she didn’t have such a past! How can I marry a woman that now and again we‘ll run into some man waving at my wife – one of the men she used to romp with? I can’t live with that
please give her my number, and make sure when u run into her in future, all u do is wave from a SAFE distance. or i will chop off ur hand.
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by OBVIOUS(m): 11:25am On Nov 19, 2009
If a man isn't soo sure about a woman--- he shouldn't Bleep her.

Women too also have a responsibility not to open their legs soo quickly----- maybe that way, they will be thinking with their brain and NOT their heart.
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by Nobody: 11:30am On Nov 19, 2009
Druss:
Thank GOD you know what you want. Megacity - All this peeps misyarning here. Me I have my own rule - If you are 25 and below and you have had more than 2 serious boyfriends that is it!!

Different people have different standards , afterall na this ones go come stay with you for your house. Na them go dey by your side when your 'Vanessa Blue' girlfriend gets winks from different guys. Abeg lets call a spade a spade. The past matters ESPECIALLY to guys.

Ladies dont let anyone fool you. Your history also has some value in a guy's eyes!! It is not the only criteria/variable but it is one of them! The less history the more valuable.
You guys are such hypocrites! And you wonder girls have no qualms lying to you? The past matters abi true . . .  but you forget that it's not as important as the future.
undecided
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by bigrod1: 11:40am On Nov 19, 2009
OBVIOUS:
I understand what you mean--- but some people change and mature over time. Plus, SOME WOMEN who spend most of their lifetime bleeping away--- are normally not very successful. IMO----

Sucks for the girl if the man has some actual proof but sometimes----some of those talks are just RUMORS---- sometimes
most times they are true.

@uju,wetin dey worry u.why u dey attack d guy.if u were a guy,u will do worse.
Ujujoan:
You guys are such hypocrites! And you wonder girls have no qualms lying to you? The past matters abi true . . . but you forget that it's not as important as the future. undecided
the past is a pointer to d future.
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by OBVIOUS(m): 11:42am On Nov 19, 2009
big rod:
most times they are true.
Not all the time. I would rather base choosing my mate on prayers and fasting----- than what someone else thinks--
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by Nobody: 11:50am On Nov 19, 2009
big rod:
most times they are true.

@uju,wetin dey worry u.why u dey attack d guy.if u were a guy,u will do worse.
the past is a pointer to d future.
Will I? I dont think so . .
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by na2day2(m): 12:51pm On Nov 19, 2009
big rod:
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better not to know.but then this world is a very small world.u `ll be surprised dat the person dat will reveal d gist is someone u never thought existed.

something like this happened to my friend.his babe was bleeping almost all the guys on her street.guess who told d guy(ma friend)?one of the guys who bleeped her.with enough evidence.

if only these girls will learn.but they wont.they want to play well well.we want to play too .so let d game continue[/size]
my friend, shut ur mouth if u dont have anything intelligent to say angry angry angry angry
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by Nobody: 1:01pm On Nov 19, 2009
^^^ For someone who has absolutely nothing to say, he does know how to highlight his nonsense! Big letters . . pink . . huh Geez, Nlers sef! cheesy cheesy
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by bigrod1: 1:21pm On Nov 19, 2009
na2day?:
my friend, shut your mouth if u dont have anything intelligent to say angry angry angry angry
low life fool
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by na2day2(m): 8:59pm On Nov 19, 2009
big rod:
low life fool
are u referring 2 ur father?
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by brutal(m): 10:05pm On Nov 19, 2009
topic--everybody have a past. . .nobody is a saint. . .i'll advise u 2 discuss d subject with her(ask her 2 tell u about her sexual past)if she tells d truth,bury d past and marry her. . .this could be d least invasive and painful route.
in order 4 this 2 work,both of u must be open and releasing your past once and 4 all.
let her go if u cannot handle her past.
note:if u don't marry her,someone more matured and understanding will.
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by Demdem(m): 7:59am On Nov 20, 2009
Druss:
Thank GOD you know what you want. Megacity - All this peeps misyarning here. Me I have my own rule - If you are 25 and below and you have had more than 2 serious boyfriends that is it!!

Different people have different standards , afterall na this ones go come stay with you for your house. Na them go dey by your side when your 'Vanessa Blue' girlfriend gets winks from different guys. Abeg lets call a spade a spade. The past matters ESPECIALLY to guys.

Ladies dont let anyone fool you. Your history also has some value in a guy's eyes!! It is not the only criteria/variable but it is one of them! The less history the more valuable.
To him/her who has eyes/ears let him/her see/hear. its so unfortunate that its tilted unfavourably to the ladies considering the fact that most guys generally arent clean themselves but eh, life itself isnt fair. i wont stop telling my sisters and and love ones that bold part.
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by bigrod1: 11:43am On Nov 20, 2009
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na2day?:
are u referring 2 your father?
olodo rapata
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Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by na2day2(m): 11:27am On Nov 21, 2009
big rod:
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u invented stupidity
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by no1madman(m): 10:12pm On Nov 21, 2009
wink kiss
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by ellapie(f): 10:44pm On Nov 21, 2009
guy,past is past.ifu love her,u can get down wit her.no body is perfect and the only constant thing in life is change.find out if she has change then u can now conclude.remember,alot of men Bleep with their mind just to feel among.sum people are outgoing and friendly,maybe shes one.i dont see the reason y a woman shd sllep with several men.is she a LovePeddler?even a LovePeddler can change.the devil u know is better than d angel u dont know.odas may pretend just to marry.be wise'
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by otokx(m): 10:52pm On Nov 21, 2009
The guy is just as guilty; why did he not carry out the check before going to unleash the dragon?
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by Nobody: 10:56pm On Nov 21, 2009
this poster was quick to fo.ck the gurl, and yet find it hard to marry her.
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by tRoOE(f): 8:55am On Nov 23, 2009
poster u ve your sef to blame here, y did you go diggin in her past
Dnt u have a past too,or do u want to tell me you have never committed any atrocities
free d babe now
I can't stand immature boys, that are not ripe enough to handle relationship !!!!!Shio
Re: Her Past Is Too Much For Me by bigrod1: 6:07pm On Nov 23, 2009
na2day?:
u invented stupidity
ur mama and papa invented foolishness.omo ale.
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