KingCheezyPuff:
I bet you dark skinned 2 but you wanna come in here an act up .The ignorance is astounding

TSOM:


[b] Get a grip on yourself, pumpkin!

Eurocentric standards of are only as valid as the basis for accepting them.

You black women are mental slaves! You fix weavons and wear wigs by white women 'cause you want to look them. Heck! Even my missy knows I prefer her long, curly natural hair to the silky straight weavons she fixes. You fix all of these things then you draw your eyebrows to be arched and add mascara so you'd achieve the exotic Asian looks. You copy foreign women way too much!


African men, on the other hand, have evolved. White men copy our haircuts. They even use hair products to achieve our natural jerrycurls. I have had white folks commend my naturally-curly full beards and laser-sharp hairline on Facebook.


African women imitate White women;
White men imitate African men.

Black women, emancipate yourselves from mental slavery and inferior beauty complexes. Stop blaming us men for your faults. We didn't ask you to fix weavons or tone your skins - you do it 'cause you have low self-esteems.

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Them endearments again
you insult me up an down in past and now you wanna give me pet names? The logic
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we do not all conform to Eurocentric ideals of beauty
are we not here celebrating our skins
Does not my dp and a few other women's here display our full heads of afro hair?
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Answer: Yes!!! We have rejected these rigid standards place upon us but you and a few other males here are fighting against it
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TSOM:


[b] Get a grip on yourself, pumpkin!

Eurocentric beauty standards are only as valid as the basis for accepting them.

You black women are mental slaves! You fix weavons and wear wigs by white women 'cause you want to look like them. Heck! Even my missy knows I prefer her long, curly natural hair to the silky straight weavons she fixes. You fix all of these things then you draw your eyebrows to be arched and add mascara so you'd achieve the exotic Asian looks. You copy foreign women way too much!


African men, on the other hand, have evolved. White men copy our haircuts. They even use hair products to achieve our natural jerrycurls. I have had white folks commend my naturally-curly full beard and laser-sharp hairline on Facebook.


African women imitate White women;
White men imitate African men.

Black women, emancipate yourselves from mental slavery and inferior beauty complexes. Stop blaming us men for your faults. We didn't ask you to fix weavons or tone your skins - you do it 'cause you have low self-esteems.

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KingCheezyPuff:
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[i] you can't compare beauty standards placed on men and women any rce because for men they are nonexistent

TSOM:


I don't expect you to get it. You're just one of the airheaded Romance Section girls who never comprehend or partake in intelligent discussions about topical issues except on threads about simpleton-esque chitchats and derailing of threads.

If the thread was titled "NAME YOUR BEST FRIEND ON NAIRALAND", you'd have understood it and you and your happy-go-lucky likes would have flooded this thread with stupid comments. Now that it requires intelligence, you've all fled and you can't understand.


Begone! Off you go to banter with the dummies. I have zero tolerance for dumb girls.

TSOM:


Let me give you a reality check, warm caramel, a shot of 'truth serum':

In the not-too-distant past, the idea of a 'Prince Charming' was a clean-shaven , blonde man , long hair with blue eyes.

Over time (due partly to the relegation of the stereotype by blacks), it's changed.

Now Prince Charming is basically a good-looking man with a nice haircut probably with well-groomed beards for effects who's confident. You see? We men fought our way out of that box. WOMEN fight your battles.

that's because the fantasy of a charming prince was for white women,
Black women weren't afford that even that small privilege
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You know little of racial issues, educate yerself before you speak anymore

TSOM:


Let me give you a reality check, warm caramel, a shot of 'truth serum':

In the not-too-distant past, the idea of a 'Prince Charming' was a clean-shaven , blonde man , long hair with blue eyes.

Over time (due partly to the relegation of the stereotype by blacks), it's changed.

Now Prince Charming is basically a good-looking man with a nice haircut probably with well-groomed beards for effects who's confident. You see? We men fought our way out of that box. WOMEN fight your battles.

lovelygurl:



So when I open threads so that our ladies wouldn't be doing copy copy and actually appreciate themselves, you still come here and complain. Wtf? You aren't make any sense dude

TSOM:

[b] I've deliberately kept the debate with you devoid of insults to your person but you've started it, I'd ruin your psyche with scathing remarks! Woe befalls you if you play the victim's card.


Your self-esteem wouldn't weigh half a nanogram if it were possible to scale it physically.

Ugly cretin! I can mention about ten beautiful dark-skinned girls in this section who've never created any "BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL" thread. They know they are beautiful and it's not wholly templated on their skin colour.


You created this thread to placate your battered self-esteem. People call you ugly everyday but you fail to realize it's not because of your skin colour, it's 'cause your facial features are disproportionately aligned.

This thread is a feel-good sympathy gathering. Your write up and the corresponding "black is beautiful " tirades by self-denying oafs.


If you really have a healthy self-esteem then swear on your life that you've never used a bleaching cream intentionally to "tone up" your skin or fix the silky-straight hair of white women.

Self-denial, hypocritical mental slave!

Woe betide you if you skip the challenge to swear! [/b]

lovelygurl:


Bruno Mars is such a cutie

AlexCk:


Hehehe,
yes yes

I see u crushing on him, yea?

KingCheezyPuff:
that's because the fantasy of a charming prince was for white women,
Black women weren't afford that even that small privilege
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You know little of racial issues, educate yerself before you speak anymore

lovelygurl:


Lol I love that man . Unfortunately he is too old but hey a little girl can dream right

PeachyP:

I don't see any objectification here. Even some men face such discrimination for being 'black'. There is racism among our own race.
And when someone's actually saying the fact you blame it on low self-esteem. If you even read the post you'll see she said she's not dark-skinned. It just saddening that we africans try so much to be like the caucasians that we see our coloured skin as well as every thing else as inferior.

Elucidate

if this crap isnt about promoting burnt rejected black girls, whats it about? #pertinent

AlexCk:


Hahahaha,
Ofcourse, it's not bad to dream.


Y'all still arguing about this Dark/Fair ish, lol.

lovelygurl:



YOU ARE MENTALLY SICK. Honestly you need to visit a psychiatric. I don't have self esteem problems and nope I am not ugly but you bro have nothing upstairs. U get it? No brains. You are a pathetic human being and honestly I pity you. You are not making sense at all. First you are like we african men have shown people that we are handsome blablabla, but you ladies all have self esteem problems blablabla.

This thread was created for dark skinned ladies to appreciate their skin. I have never used a bleaching cream before because I am not dark skinned and I don't think being dark skinned should make you want to bleach your skin, since the color of your skin does not mean you are ugly. So I created this thread to tell them hey you, put that bleaching cream away you are beautiful. And you are going gaga because of that . Acting like a mad man. Loooooool, stop embarrassing yourself. At least stop displaying your stupidity to the whole world.


Mental slave? I am like black girls you rock, don't try and look white, you are beautiful, don't put chemicals on that skin. And u call that a slave mentality.


Bro, r u sure u r ok? Or is that u can't read and comprehend a sentence

KingCheezyPuff:
wrong. It's never ok, I never said it was ok But aside that 1 picture she hasn't objectified any women

what now!

Do you even know the meaning? @bolded

This poo is objectification at its finest

promoting "black" as beautiful #garbage

TSOM:


You're as contemporary as a two-hundred-year-old disused fishing boat - still functional but not in keeping with the times.

Prince Charming was created based on the European standard of beauty which evolved into the world's standard of beauty.
Just like Sleeping Beauty is a slim, blue-eyed blonde. Being blonde and blue-eye was the standard for both sexes but it is now ONLY for women because you encourage it.

Don't forget, the standard was long, straight blonde hair.


Now it's ridiculous for a man to wear his hair long. Blonde men do not get that much patting on the back as they used to.


Every male celeb or normal man now shows off his haircut - haircut which are reminiscent of the average African man's choices.

You enjoy playing the downtrodden.

Btw i see you completely ignored my distaste for yer bipolar treatment of me.
Why do you call me "cupcake,pumpkin etc. When you insult me the next post?

TSOM:

I did.


You're suffering from a chronic case of nadir-esque self-esteem.

Black is beautiful? How about the picture below?

TSOM:


Dyslexic 'fuglyna' , since you've asserted that you have a healthy self-esteem and you are convenient in your black skin, I'd hit you with this:

If you've ever used a toning cream or bleaching cream to lighten your skin colour while you come here to type hogwash about "black is beautiful" may you be struck death by lightning for lying to all of us!

KingCheezyPuff:
SIGH. I'veexplained this already,i won't again.
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I do not like to play downtrodden
You like to ignore the reality of race relations.

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Btw i see you completely ignored my distae for yer bipolar treatment of me.
Why do you call me "cupcake,pumpkin etc. When you insult me the next post?

lovelygurl:



Lol, that guy is just annoying. If he had made sense it would have been ok but he is bipolar

herbie27:
I really don't get the bases for this argument.

You need not create a thread to either encourage or promote black women...not taking sides...bleaching is an epidemic that has come to stay and no matter what you say or advice against it, who wants to bleach will bleach...it's a choice.

Even the fair skinned ladies are still bleaching to look fairer, it all boils down to self esteem...haven't seen what will make me want to alter my skin color, just haven't.

lovelygurl:



I feel you when it comes to the explaining and explaining and he still doesn't grab, gosh!