Blackmail her (lol)

Bro. Which kind level you put urself so? An overly demanding woman will drain even a multi millionaire if he is not wise. Address the issue with her and put her where she belongs. She is obviously not a wife material I tell you.

Habbatically:
No sense.

of course!! this is how we know them

bigcp:
first of all what are u doing with such a liability?

don't get me wrong bro...i ain't saying u shouldn't gv if u hv but 2 much of everything is 4kn baaaahd ma nigga....
u might hv just jst turned yourself into an ATM-101/MAGA1.1...u just cant stop nw cos she's kinda addicted 2 it... d moment u stop...you guys will start havin problems...
my opinion..sit her demanding ass down n reset her factory settings with meaningful vocalz ...tell her u ain't feeling d r/ship anymore... that u dislike her recent demanding attitude... that she should slow it down...after all u ain't made yet...u r still hustling....
by d way...does she work...
if she does...then she's 4kn stingy n greedy...but if nt...hmmnnn....u r on ur own...

this is d reason i don't date a students....unless she don really sacrifice much 4me...then i can do anything...i mean everything 4her n more...that 1 alone go show say she truly love me...but if not...naaah...because dem go turn ur helping hands into maga hands/aka ndi ocha...I'm way 2 cool/smart 4 'TEAM GOLD DIGGERZ' prefer a working class lady..be wise bro...good luck with her...

thanks buddy, i think l do somtin like dat

Send her to the kitchen or u put her at the other simple!!

Very simple. Anytime she ask, tell her you don't have. If she keeps asking, go straight to the point and asked her why is she leeching on you? Or she a gold-digger? Simple!

xendra:
of course!! this is how we know them

This is how we know beggars forming to love, extorting money from their boyfriends.

Benita27:
The issue is not giving her before she ask.

I think the op wooed her with big big talk, this is the result...she is overdemanding cos he created an impression that he has and will always give.

Deal with it.

datz not true ma'am, she knows my financial status from adam

xendra:
that advice is not silly but can be taken wrongly by broke guys who think it's a plot to wreck them, but a guy that understands that logic always wins

haha really you make me laugh seriously, this statement of yours only gives more light to the saying, ''most ladies have nothing more to offer in a relationship than just sex'' and am sure a logical guy knows that as well and wins at the end after having a hand full of it, more reason why is easy to dump such girls when they see someone who would give more than just sex to them..

Send her to the kitchen or u put her at the other room simple!!

E be like say u dey induce the girl to love u, U sound like bobo ode! By the way what does she do for a living? Make i borrow 1 sense never spend so much on gf only ur wife... Try to minimize what u give her and observe if would still loves u. Use ur brain.. Me give woman money like father xmas Tufia!!!
Last missile on relationship
be as gentle/nice as a dove,
be as cunning/crafty as tortoise and
be as poisonous/dangerous as a scorpion... So that u will not fall a victim of a gold digger.

tolexy123:
thanks for your contribution bro. if I talk to her as u rightly said, she might see me as depriving her or as a stingy boyfriend and dat hurts

Let me comment too if OP go read am.

This is the fact.

You are also frequently demanding sex. Am I right?

It's a game that the rules don't change.

She's trying to balance. Once she feels she's losing (i.e. She feels you are getting too much in terms of sex), she will increase the frequency of demanding for money to balance herself psychologically.

Seem like you are 'Okay financially' but not rich. They are 2 very different things. That's why you can't cope but no problem.

Solution.
1.) reducing frequency of sex with her or stop totally while still seeing her and let her wonder what's happening. Also start reducing spending on her gradually (not suddenly) and there won't be problem. She won't even complain.

2.) If you want to keep on having sex frequently and not spend as much. Start double dating with a new, beautiful but less demanding (or not demanding at all) girl to meet up you sexual demand while you still do the above with her.

And
3.) you can break up too without delay and pick another fish from the pool altogether.

All the best Bro. #Brotherhood.

"No"

OP, Fire her

xendra:
and you are happy

should I be sad? Or I should leave her because she is financially independent? Is it a must to give ladies money? I'm not talking about a lady of your level sha

Habbatically:
This is how we know beggars forming to love, extorting money from their boyfriends.

dude! you will never understand

xendra:
Give her before she asks you won't have this problem.

Shame on you
Relationship is now a poverty alleviation scheme huh?

tolexy123:
Hello nairalanders, please I want you to advice me on how to handle my excessively demanding girlfriend. She demands money excessively from me at regular intervals (everytime i go to visit her which is now discouraging me from visiting her now) without considering my pocket and its really making me to see her from another angle negatively as a gold digger and it's affecting my true feelings for her.

I don't want to be too rude to her but at the same time, I want her to get the information across to her. its not like am not financially supportive or am broke but I want to exercise some financial disciplines in her cos am thinking of seeing her as more than my girlfriend but this is not telling well about her.

Mature advice please!

Do not let this girl milk you dry. Just cut off further communication with her and whenever she calls you, tell her you're quite busy. Busy here implies that it's all over for her.

She'll get to know you're no longer interested in her after couple of days.

asitis752:
should I be sad? Or I should leave her because she is financially independent? Is it a must to give ladies money? I'm not talking about a lady of your level sha

don't worry about level yet, pls Dont use a diff moniker when you come back on NL to cry .... you guys made my day

Pennah:
is she ur first love?

no

Have this conversation with her next time you visit. i guarantee something tangible
You: babe how far
She: am good you
You: i will like to pass a thought across to you, hope you dont mind
She: Not at all
You: What comes to your mind when you see me
She: i dont understand you
You: repeat the question What comes to your mind anytime you see me
She: where are you going with this
You: i want you to be frank with me, i dont have time for bullshit
She: my boyfriend
You: cos anytime you see me i assume your first thought is Ah Thank God my atm don reach

She........
THEN WATCH HOW SHE EXPLODES, GOOD OR BAD GIVE ME A FEEDBACK

xnsandrxns:

Shame on you
Relationship is now a poverty alleviation scheme now huh?

Oh please, shame on your generation, go make money and leave women alone.

My guy forger how to handle her.just run away look for another woman.she will calm down wen she see a monster like her

xendra:
Give her before she asks you won't have this problem.

It's your type that i dump thereafter. You sound like a gold-digger.

Guy you should have enforce that financial discipline in her right from the on set. And not now that it seems she has grown flyable wings that she do not know every pocket is in recess in the country. she left you in THE OTHER ROOM

asitis752:
am sure the girl is giving the money to the other guy she loves. With my experience in relationships, It's very difficult for a lady that truly loves you to request for money even when she genuinely needs it not to talk of requesting for it always. I always ask my partner maybe she needs my financial assistance but she will always say no. She prefers to go get it from her mum. And this is a lady that always buy gifts for me

Hope u're planning 4marriage too?
don't lose her, rare outthr.

Are u strong enuf to choose logic over emotion?

strong enuf to choose love over lust?

In btw, most of d girls in our society today ar sometin else, experience wil shape n help u out as u grow up.

If u are ready for marriage search for a girl this is equally ready, otherwise na OYO

xendra:
don't worry about level yet, pls Dont use a diff moniker when you come back on NL to cry .... you guys made my day

cry over what exactly? Over a lady I dated for 5years before getting married this year?. If you're waiting for a day I'll come here to 'cry', you'll definitely wait forever dear

tolexy123:
dat way, she will see me as real ATmachine

What are you now? Fake ATM?

Habbatically:
Very simple. Anytime she ask, tell her you don't have. If she keeps asking, go straight to the point and asked her why is she leeching on you? Or she a gold-digger? Simple!

What if op too is digging her sexually. She might as well ask too that is he a sex digger?

DeeTus:
It's your type that i dump thereafter. You sound like a gold-digger.

if I'm a gold-digger it means I'll never come near you right?? since you got no gold.