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[quote author=deturla post=51551083]After my crazy Prostitute experience and post, a friend and a reader of my blog decided to share his crazy story with me! Lalasticlala, please help review in case it is front page worthy.

Mind you, this is a true life story!

Are you with me? Sit tight!

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Back in the days, I used to ask myself. Why do I always feel this evil urge to snoop on my partner’s phone? Well, this story I
Men are also dsame, u cant trust dem. I had similar experience

rawpadgin:
am planning to propose next year but her attitude right now is really suspicious

there is need to know the kinda woman i planned to marry

C your life outsyd...U wan propose without knowing what kinda woman she is Lolz I pity u

2dugged:
First, even some married women still have toasters not to talk of a lady you probably don't know her father's house, secondly, that she didn't pick the call in your presence should make you know that she probably respects the relationship she has with you, like I said, sometimes good girls don't want to put their eggs in one basket because they are not sure you are ready to meet them half way, so if from your accessment excluding the suspicion, you feel she is a good girl, then it's up to you to earn her loyalty

like i said, it's not everything u say in a public forum

I have dated well over 30 girls(aint proud of it though) so I know Wen a girl is cheating & wen she's not

I don dey fear gals pass devil these days . who be devil to even lie reach gals

Mimido2:
exactly
guys cheat a lot too and dey don't see anything wrong with it but a lady cheats on her bf dey will trash her

Oops!
i dey sense something..

pocohantas:
Reminds me of my ex.
Such a lying deceitful i-diot.
He was shagging this girl and calling her his 'bestie'. I'll give him money, he'll go and buy burger with juice for her .
The day I saw their messages, I started laughing.
You know that kind laugh... if not properly controlled, you'll find yourself inside market wandering.
I was broken!
Damn!I loved that guy...

He buys her burger nd juice with the money you give him. Was he your school son?

after travelling from all d way to kaduna to c my fiancee, i observed some suspicious movement from him n decided to check his sms. N i saw an sms from a lady who i know n have asked him to stop all communications with , saying 'its just a week i left but am missing u already'. So dont make it seem like girls are always d culprit

Lankaline:
Mine was a terrible case,,yu knw coming out from a hrt break and moving into another relationship,, that sortof thing,loved a girl when i was in 2nd yr,(a jambite),,the girl was a saint i swear,,yu cnt evet knw shes a player,bae came into my skul when i was then i 4th yr,,and dealt with me,,,biggest lesson of ma life,she had 4 guys aside me,,i vowed not to love again,,,then came Isabella with her tempting love,,to even bring out 1kobo gv ma current babe d hard,,afta all i saw with the last one,,
Bleep yu Victoria!!!
Bleep yu Victoria Edeh

which of the Victoria's?

Mimido2:
just try and talk to her
suspecting her will only make u loose trust in her
besides she might be innocent

u know, i wanted to open a thread about this but i don't Really like discussing my private life in public

I have spoken to her on several occasions but she usually come up with some flimsy excuses


did u know she refused to show up wen i celebrated my birthday

what was a excuse, she was tired & decided to rest @ home

CorGier:
He buys her burger nd juice with the money you give him. Was he your school son?

No he wasn't.
He just happened to come from a very humble background, I had to help out regularly.

I cant start talking about my own, But i bet if any of you guys are dating my GF and check her chat as i do...Una for don die.... I still believe that the Devil you know is better than the Angel you dont know.

rawpadgin:
like i said, it's not everything u say in a public forum

I have dated well over 30 girls(aint proud of it though) so I know Wen a girl is cheating & wen she's not

I am only advising from a neutral angle, you have already concluded based on your suspicion, but I am just trying to let you know that you can actually make her put all her eggs in your basket,cos it might be that you have not given her a reason why she should be a ride or die chick for you
@topic by the way, I have never regretted going through a guy's phone, I even stumbled on a sex video he made with his so called neighbor form the next compound, imagine if I didn't check his phone, I will still be blindly be in the relationship

Ennyhorlar:
which of the Victoria's?

Walahi you're a nutcase
I suspect it's the Benue State Uni chick

this songs didnt help me
Beautiful pain -Eminem
Goodbye my lover-
When im gone-Eminem
Think edge-Eminem
Say somthing-Pantonix
And so ON,,,
Na God d heal broken hrt,,

When you are dating a girl always prepare yourself for the worst experience

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pocohantas:
No he wasn't.
He just happened to come from a very humble background, I had to help out regularly.

Heeya.
The bros con dey play father Santa Claus ontop ur head.

never try to settle for lesser... besides i don't exactly know what partner mean here!

ItsQuinn:
Both partners are supposed to respect each other's privacy

olosho. spotted

I just scrolled through hurriedly to check if I will see the OP write HIV,disappointed it's not a HIV story now I'm forced to read the damn thing

rawpadgin:
am planning to propose next year but her attitude right now is really suspicious

there is need to know the kinda woman i planned to marry

Must you marry her?

Shared a similar experience where I talked about my "experience with a church girl"

Truth Is based on lifestyle it's soo easy for me to decode boys n girls sef.

Pity guys who think it's not important to know the kinda woman you dating/marrying or even just doing "friend with benefits " sef

Many have died following a babe they had no idea was married to do FWB .

Summary: be wise... everybody lies

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rawpadgin:
u know, i wanted to open a thread about this but i don't Really like discussing my private life in public

I have spoken to her on several occasions but she usually come up with some flimsy excuses


did u know she refused to show up wen i celebrated my birthday

what was a excuse, she was tired & decided to rest @ home

nawa o....dis one is too much......maybe she is tired of d relationship or u are not giving her d attention she needs



a babe might not attend her bf's bday because he annoyed her or he ain't giving her wat she wants
even if she is cheating on u she will still attend ur bday party


d truth is I don't think she is cheating on u

Lankaline:
Never knew i could move on like this,,november made it a year i broke up with her for d 7th time,,(7 tyms cos i kept tinking she will change,i loved this gal like say na juju,most tyms,na me d go mk up even if na she offend me),,,and this songs didnt help me
Beautiful pain -Eminem
Goodbye my lover-
When im gone-Eminem
Think edge-Eminem
Say somthing-Pantonix
And so ON,,,
Na God d heal broken hrt,,

Hmmm.
Guy, na so Victoria pūssy sweet? She really had ur number.

U been think say na only u de Bleep her?

deturla:
After my crazy Prostitute experience and post, a friend and a reader of my blog decided to share his crazy story with me! Lalasticlala, please help review in case it is front page worthy.

Mind you, this is a true life story!

Are you with me? Sit tight!

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Back in the days, I used to ask myself. Why do I always feel this evil urge to snoop on my partner’s phone? Well, this story I am about to share will tell you why it is never ever good to want to check your partner’s phone and how what I saw almost gave me a heart attack.

The reasons for me wanting to spy on my partner are not far-fetched. They are the backdrop of these two probing questions.

1. Why was she always laughing heartily when chatting?

2. Why was she uncomfortable when I tried to touch her phone?

I learnt my lesson the bitter way during my NYSC days and trust me I would never try it again.

I was posted to a school in a village somewhere in the Southwest as a teacher, and I decided to settle in after trying countless times to redeploy to PortHarcourt to no avail.

On my way to report at my place of primary assignment (PPA) as ‘they’ call it, I met two other female Corp members in the bus headed same way.

Ada and Cynthia (not real names) were very beautiful girls, but based on my ‘convo’ with the two of them, Ada seemed more exposed and mature than Cynthia.

I therefore resorted to choosing Cynthia as my target for NYSC relationship since she appeared the easier ‘catch’ based on my analysis. After all, NYSC is National year of Sex and Cohabitation.

After settling down in Corpers’ lodge provided by the school, I tried my best to get close to Cynthia but she always seemed not to be interested in me. I got my lucky break a month later when both Cynthia and Ada had a serious misunderstanding.

We became close and I told her my intentions.

Cynthia ‘claimed’ to be a church worker/evangelist in nearby Lagos and continued with her church activities in school and the village. I once saw Cynthia counselling female students on premarital sex and keeping boyfriends at such age.

Cynthia refused my sexual advances due to her ‘seeming’ religious beliefs, although she was not a virgin. She claimed to be born again and in my mind I was like

E be like say I don find wife oh!

Cynthia would tell me stories about the numerous guys toasting and disturbing her and the fool that I was, we would laugh over it, not knowing ‘she and I were both laughing at my foolishness’

As Konji was taking a hold of me, I began to look for alternatives, but the fear of Cynthia made most of my targets say No.

Thinking to myself, I would say:

Nawa o, babe dey help chop my 19,800 allawi plus 25000 my uncle sends me and yet no show.

Cynthia would travel down to Lagos every two weeks for church activities, and share me stories of the crusade service and I would say to myself,

This geh really loves me sha, well, I love her too.

Cynthia usually makes use of my Laptop to chat on Facebook. There was this particular occasion when one of her so called toasters once sent her a nude pic, and she screamed to me;

‘Boo, can you see this arrant nonsense’?

Such a wonderful and faithful girlfriend! I would say!

Our corper love wantintin continued until one Friday, I was alone and bored in the lodge, just staring at the ceiling doing nothing.

Cynthia had gone to Lagos as usual for her crusades and other corp members had gone for celebration at a nearby village. I brought out my laptop, connected my modem and began to surf the internet.

After surfing for about an hour, I decided to check Facebook.

As I opened the Facebook page, Cynthia’s ID stared at me in the face.

I remembered it was her account that was last logged in. At that moment, the evil thought of checking her Facebook chats occurred to me.

You know, when you use another person’s device to log into your Facebook account, you will untick the remember me text box so that no one will be able to check your account when you are gone.

I was in this process trying to figure out what her password would be when I remembered that earlier that week I had helped Cynthia register for a job advert using a username and password she wrote at the back of my Jotter.

I quickly searched for that jotter, found it and tried the same password and Hooray! I was in her account.

I began to check her chats with her so called toasters/disturbers.

In her chat with Felix (not real name), he was making some crazy sexual requests (that blew my brains out), which my born again Cynthia obliged.

They chatted about their last escapade how he enjoyed her so much.

You need to see as drops upon drops of sweat cascaded down my face as if I just finished having my bath without drying the water off my body!

Wallahi, that water could fill a glass cup of drink. It was crazy, I was shocked!

So the so called church programs she went for was all a lie, I opened my mouth in disbelief.

I found two other chats with some other guys she was sleeping with.

Have you ever felt heartbroken before? The beats of your heart? Like you wanted to floor to open and swallow you up?

Mine was more. I was perspiring, heavy breaths oh! It wasn’t a small something.

I could not eat for 2 days till I fell ill. I practically kicked myself so hard. I was so naive and stupid.

I felt like I wanted to die!

I learnt my lesson that day, Never ever snoop on your partner because what you may find can lead to heart attack.

Biko, if you know you cannot deal with the worst! Don’t ever snoop on your partner’s phone oh!

You want to know what I did to Cynthia when she returned?

Hehe! Funny readers, I’d leave that for another day! Abeg! I cannot share it here, maybe when you come check Deedeesblog, I can decide to share! LOL!

I am very sure a lot of you guys can relate to this! Have you ever snooped on your partner’s chats before? Did you see the unbelievable, as for me, na only God go allow me trust woman again as I almost had a heart attack.

Feel free to share your experiences!

http://deedeesblog.com/2016/12/01/day-died-girlfriend-phone/

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You met a gal on ur way to Nysc camp and you believe you could win her heart just like that..that's stupid abeg

Lankaline:
Mine was a terrible case,,yu knw coming out from a hrt break and moving into another relationship,, that sortof thing,loved a girl when i was in 2nd yr,(a jambite),,the girl was a saint i swear,,yu cnt evet knw shes a player,bae came into my skul when i was then i 4th yr,,and dealt with me,,,biggest lesson of ma life,she had 4 guys aside me,,i vowed not to love again,,,then came Isabella with her tempting love,,to even bring out 1kobo gv ma current babe d hard,,afta all i saw with the last one,,
Bleep yu Victoria!!!
Bleep yu Victoria Edeh

Mimido2:
u can neva know everything about a lady
its beta u leave d issue alone so dat u will not get hurt

I dunno why, I hate hearing this!

Lol