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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by macfish101(m): 9:39am On Dec 11, 2016
Why would I marry a lady whose piussy is very popular in the neighbourhood....... Any lady wey sleep around pass me, I no go marry......for now, my body count is 2, I hope it will end at 3. so my future wife should be checking hers too.....Lolz
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Gratefulsoul(m): 9:39am On Dec 11, 2016
vizkiz:


I have done 18 ladies since birth. Still small Sha. wink

I can bet my whole pension and gratuity that you've not slept with more than three girl.. First you did was an accident and second is with your current girlfriend... Deny it and I will show you proof... lolz

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by NLchat: 9:40am On Dec 11, 2016
Intrepid01:
I can see people of like minds consoling each other on this thread. It is true that no one owes anyone the way he or she chooses to live his or her life.....but having self worth, dignity and value for self important recipe of LIVING....

Your body count shows the kind of person you are and you should attract like minds.

Okay.

I'm assuming it's a no on the body count then? Do you have this opinion of both men and women?
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by eph12(m): 9:41am On Dec 11, 2016
NLchat:


Okay fair enough.

Say she casually mentions you're the 30th guy she's been with. Would it turn you off at all? And how would you behave on the flip side, if the lady you're courting enquiries about your body count, would you be comfortable with telling her?
I don't think I can remember all so will mention those I can remember grin
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by xendra: 9:42am On Dec 11, 2016
Gratefulsoul:


Hope we not talking about a professional sex worker here
uhm whats the difference if they've been doing numbers?

personaly, I wont be asking. but if i ever get to find out you've done alot then I am going to have alot more questions, and what follows determines how I see you from then on.
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by NLchat: 9:42am On Dec 11, 2016
Splinz:
What difference does body count makes in one's choice of partner?

I think to some extent, it does really matters. For example, religious people will always go for their partners on the banner of virgins.

So, body count will always be a case of choices between two disagreeing sides- those who think it matters and those who think it doesn't.

Of course. As is with most discussions.

The question is more about how body count is perceived within gender.
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Intrepid01(m): 9:43am On Dec 11, 2016
NLchat:


Okay.

I'm assuming it's a no on the body count then? Do you have this opinion of both men and women?

Who am I to say no on the body count.....I am no saint myself. ...Listen , my point is this; we should all have some dignity. ...both male and female.

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by eph12(m): 9:43am On Dec 11, 2016
macfish101:
Why would I marry a lady whose piussy is very popular in the neighbourhood....... Its quite embarrassing u know..... I have a cousin, whose wife was my friend's ex and ex to a lot of dudes I know.....but my cousin married her without knowing that his wife was a konji killer in the zone. Well, I hope he never founds out.
What's the problem exactly? That she did hers in the neighbourhood? Or that she had sex at all?
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by jamalnation(m): 9:44am On Dec 11, 2016
Lost count.
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by vizkiz: 9:45am On Dec 11, 2016
Gratefulsoul:


I can bet my whole pension and gratuity that you've not slept with more than three girl.. First you did was an accident and second is with your current girlfriend... Deny it and I will show you proof... lolz


I can bet my Christmas chicken you have no idea what you are saying. You just typed this to sound funny tongue

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Gratefulsoul(m): 9:45am On Dec 11, 2016
NLchat:


Okay.

Would you also be comfortable enough to disclose your body count as a man?

Such discussion shouldn't even come up between serious lover but if at all It did happen I will only but state the fact.. I can say for myself and not others.. I fall easily for a lady's intellect not for her sexy body structure.. I see love making as a call of nature and not a movie script that you memorize and act.. So with the few points above I can authoritatively say that my body count is as low as the current oil price in Nigeria at the moment.. lolz

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Intrepid01(m): 9:45am On Dec 11, 2016
eph12:

What's the problem exactly? That she did hers in the neighbourhood? Or that she had sex at all?

That she had no self worth...it could go either ways..
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by NLchat: 9:48am On Dec 11, 2016
Intrepid01:


Who am I to say no on the body count.....I am no saint myself. ...Listen , my point is this; we should all have some dignity. ...both male and female.

So there's no limit for you? There's no number that you'll draw a line at and say that's not okay?
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Intrepid01(m): 9:49am On Dec 11, 2016
dollyjoy:
Actually,her body count, to an extent matters.

Everyone's body count counts....male n female
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by NLchat: 9:49am On Dec 11, 2016
macfish101:
Why would I marry a lady whose piussy is very popular in the neighbourhood....... Its quite embarrassing u know..... I have a cousin, whose wife was my friend's ex and ex to a lot of dudes I know.....but my cousin married her without knowing that his wife was a konji killer in the zone. Well, I hope he never founds out.

Okay. What's the number you would consider high then?
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Intrepid01(m): 9:49am On Dec 11, 2016
NLchat:


So there's no limit for you? There's no number that you'll draw a line at and say that's not okay?

Obviously the intellectual point in the conversation you didn't get....bye
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by NLchat: 9:51am On Dec 11, 2016
Intrepid01:


Obviously the intellectual point in the conversation you didn't get....bye

I didn't mean to come off a rude. I was just trying to understand. The first part of the discussion was what number would you consider a high body count. Since you didn't give one, I just wanted to clarify that you don't think there is one.
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Gratefulsoul(m): 9:52am On Dec 11, 2016
xendra:
uhm whats the difference if they've been doing numbers?

personaly, I wont be asking. but if i ever get to find out you've done alot then I am going to have alot more questions, and what follows determines how I see you from then on.

My dear the difference is much ooo... its like trekking backwards from Nigeria to Malaysia.. A sex worker is into serious business and the higher the number of her clients the richer she becomes while an average girl that has been in let's 50 crashed relationship in search of true love and end up having sex with 40 out of the 50 guys is clear different scenario.. The circumstances that led to the high number of counts is what matters here and not the number..
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by eph12(m): 9:52am On Dec 11, 2016
Intrepid01:


That she had no self worth...it could go either ways..
Had key word there.

So she had no self worth because she slept with guys in the neighbourhood when she was younger and stupid? I guess it would have been ok if she did it in another neighbourhood. because most girls before they get married must have had not less than 3 sex partners so whether it's in the neighbourhood or not does not count. To me though. The one you don't know about lived in some other neighbourhood and fvcked some guys there too so why bother over things that don't matter?

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by eph12(m): 9:56am On Dec 11, 2016
Gratefulsoul:


My dear the difference is much ooo... its like trekking backwards from Nigeria to Malaysia.. A sex worker is into serious business and the higher the number of her clients the richer she becomes while an average girl that has been in let's 50 crashed relationship in search of true love and end up having sex with 40 out of the 50 guys is clear different scenario.. The circumstances that led to the high number of counts is what matters here and not the number..
grin
Nice excuse though grin

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Intrepid01(m): 9:56am On Dec 11, 2016
NLchat:


I didn't mean to come off a rude. I was just trying to understand. The first part of the discussion was what number would you consider a high body count. Since you didn't give one, I just wanted to clarify that you don't think there is one.

My brother you were not rude in anyway..I hope I wasn't too. My point in general is that we should all have a high dose of dignity in whatsoever we decide to do with our body. Our past determined out present and influences the future. ...it is self deceit to think you can delete the past from your life...

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by vicben27(m): 9:57am On Dec 11, 2016
as long as shez stil fresh n fatile n of gud character n ready to stick to me who gives a Bleep! nobody holy pass! i tested quit a few so i wud b considerate
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Intrepid01(m): 9:58am On Dec 11, 2016
eph12:

Had key word there.

So she had no self worth because she slept with guys in the neighbourhood when she was younger and stupid? I guess it would have been ok if she did it in another neighbourhood. because most girls before they get married must have had not less than 3 sex partners so whether it's in the neighbourhood or not does not count. To me though. The one you don't know about lived in some other neighbourhood and fvcked some guys there too so why bother over things that don't matter?

You missed the point....sleeping around in the neighbourhood or in foreign land is an indication of lack of self worth and dignity....it applies to a guy who sleeps around as well...
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Nobody: 9:58am On Dec 11, 2016
Considering the amount of judgement that will passed I am certain that double digits will be trimmed to single digits and the actual truth will never be known. A woman will potentially lower the number in an attempt to appear somewhat virtuous ,a man if asked what is the likelihood that he will actually state the true figure as that might come up in arguments with the wife later on in their marriage because some women cannot let things go.
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Nobody: 10:00am On Dec 11, 2016
Intrepid01:


You missed the point....sleeping around in the neighbourhood or in foreign land is an indication of lack of self worth and dignity....it applies to a guy who sleeps around as well...
There is a lot of things that happen in foreign lands many things I have witnessed and most have robbed people of their dignity and survival trumphs over self worth.

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by eph12(m): 10:01am On Dec 11, 2016
Intrepid01:


You missed the point....sleeping around in the neighbourhood or in foreign land is an indication of lack of self worth and dignity....it applies to a guy who sleeps around as well...
Oh! I guess I missed the point then. So what would you propose? When does it becomes too much? 1, 2, 3?
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by macfish101(m): 10:02am On Dec 11, 2016
NLchat:


Okay. What's the number you would consider high then?
You can't attach a numeric figure to this as a standard..... but we all know that there is an amount of body count ur spouse might have had and u will be forced to take a second look at him or her. Like, am I not getting married an osho free prostitute?? so, its a personal thing, some like the numbers high, I like mine very low. Thank you.

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Intrepid01(m): 10:07am On Dec 11, 2016
eph12:

Oh! I guess I missed the point then. So what would you propose? When does it becomes too much? 1, 2, 3?

Bros...no one has the right to determine when it's okay or too much for anyone...I can only determine that for my own life, do you get?

But as a lady or a guy you should know that no one wants a partner that compares you with others as a result of substantial experience....note that it comes with experience even when not intended.

I think we should all preach dignity, abstinence.....A lady shoulnt allow a guy have her until she's certainly certain that he'll marry her.

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Smellymouth: 10:08am On Dec 11, 2016
Gratefulsoul:
Those she slept with before we met is immaterial to our relationship and should be left in the past where it belongs... What matters most is that am the only one she's counting now..
hope my comment is fair enough..

Well said..

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by NLchat: 10:11am On Dec 11, 2016
Intrepid01:


Bros...no one has the right to determine when it's okay or too much for anyone...I can only determine that for my own life, do you get?

But as a lady or a guy you should know that no one wants a partner that compares you with others as a result of substantial experience....note that it comes with experience even when not intended.

I think we should all preach dignity, abstinence.....A lady shoulnt allow a guy have her until she's certainly certain that he'll marry her.

And a man? A man shouldn't allow a woman to have him until he's certain she will marry him?
Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by Nobody: 10:13am On Dec 11, 2016
Sure... High body cOunt means nofin to me

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Re: Would You Marry Someone With A High Body Count? by NLchat: 10:13am On Dec 11, 2016
macfish101:
You can't attach a numeric figure to this as a standard..... but we all know that there is an amount of body count ur spouse might have had and u will be forced to take a second look at him or her. Like, am I not getting married an osho free prostitute?? so, its a personal thing, some like the numbers high, I like mine very low. Thank you.

Okay that's fine. Let's say you consider 3 to be a high body count for example, would you apply the same for men? Would you think 3 was too high for a man too?

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