Nma27:
Sure... High body cOunt means nofin to me

NLchat:


And a man? A man shouldn't allow a woman to have him until he's certain she will marry him?

NLchat:


Okay fair enough.

Say she casually mentions you're the 30th guy she's been with. Would it turn you off at all? And how would you behave on the flip side, if the lady you're courting enquiries about your body count, would you be comfortable with telling her?

Raine80:

There is a lot of things that happen in foreign lands many things I have witnessed and most have robbed people of their dignity and survival trumphs over self worth.

Benita27:
Some failed to understand that the past of one's partner shouldn't matter, provided he/she is committed to you alone.

You couldn't have said it better!.

Raine80:

There is a lot of things that happen in foreign lands many things I have witnessed and most have robbed people of their dignity and survival trumphs over self worth.

kaboninc:


It matters a lot. What matters is not for one to dwell in it.

Benita27:
It doesn't matter.
I wouldn't ask a guy how many girls he has been with, but if he out of his own will says have dated 30 girls so far, then i will see him as one of those spontaneous dudes to have dated 30 girls, and of course we all want spontaneity in our relationships.

For a girl i wouldn't say same cos moderation is key.

NLchat:


For both men and women?

NLchat:


Okay that's fine. Let's say you consider 3 to be a high body count for example, would you apply the same for men? Would you think 3 was too high for a man too?

NLchat:


Really? Spontaneity. Interesting.

Why would you not hold the same standard for a woman?

vizkiz:


I have done 18 ladies since birth. Still small Sha.

macfish101:
I believe u r a Lady, that was why I was very careful not to push my comment to the gender equality ish that you ladies are so sensitive too, that was why I said spouse, which could be either male or female. its a personal thing, 3 could be high for some and low for some. Personally, am on 2 and am almost 30years, I hope to end on 3. so for me, 3 is high enough whether u are a guy or a girl..... its a personal issue.

Benita27:
Because the life of a woman and that of a man are totally different, there is nothing like gender equality, and even those who fight to uphold it know there are things a man can do that a woman shouldn't.

For instance, a guy who slept with as much women as he pleases will any day and time pick a virgin for a wife.
While a girl who slept with as much men as she pleases will have her pussy as wide as river Niger...it's always a win-win for the guys here, they have nothing to lose.

Berlynn:
I cant marry a guy with high body count! getting married to a virgin

NLchat:


Well that's biologically incorrect.

So you think when it comes to body count, only a woman's should matter? Women should keep their body count low whereas, men should do as they please?

Gratefulsoul:
Those she slept with before we met is immaterial to our relationship and should be left in the past where it belongs... What matters most is that am the only one she's counting now..
hope my comment is fair enough..

Benita27:
It doesn't matter.
I wouldn't ask a guy how many girls he has been with, but if out of his own will says "have dated 30 girls so far", [b]then i will see him as one of those spontaneous dudes [/b]to have dated 30 girls, and of course we all want spontaneity in our relationships.

For a girl i wouldn't say same cos moderation is key.

Benita27:
I didn't say men should do as they pleases, but in a situation were a man's body count is high then it isn't a minus to me; a plus i will say, moderation from both sex should be ok, but women just have too much values and dignity to uphold than being too carefree.

Benita27:
Because the life of a woman and that of a man are totally different, there is nothing like gender equality, and even those who fight to uphold it know there are things a man can do that a woman shouldn't.

For instance, a guy who slept with as much women as he pleases will any day and time pick a virgin for a wife.
While a girl who slept with as much men as she pleases will have her pussy as wide as river Niger...it's always a win-win for the guys here, they have nothing to lose.

dollyjoy:
Number of people a lady/guy has slept with.

kaboninc:


Lol.. A plus to you.

Men also should be told that they have too much values and dignity to uphold than being carefree.

Men should not do as they please answer a high body count for a man is as bad as for a woman. My view anyway.

Berlynn:
I cant marry a guy with high body count! getting married to a virgin

Fabulocity:
Why would I even ask him how many girls he's been with

iykedare:


Cc berl.ynn.

This post is referring to women not men. Be smart.

iykedare:


Cc berlynn.

This post is referring to women not men. Be smart.

majour:
Interesting topic guys, applauds to everyone who has replied honestly

For me, what makes a woman special to me is compatibility, am at the age where I want to get settled soon and my present gf is a virgin, but she isn't what I want in a woman, she doesn't blend with my view of a wife, she isn't spontaneous, as a man who has experienced life through school and service, I want a woman who can challenge my being, a woman who can make me feel complete and it all boil down to compatibility, not the number of men a woman has slept with

Ironically, every man wud not deny dey want a spontaneous woman, who makes them go gaga but u see its different experience in life that has made her matured enough to be this perfect bin, sex to me isn't the in thing, its a spice, which for me is an addiction, either way, what happens after the sex is what makes a man choose to keep u at home, some women have the sex to offer and that's all, some hardly engage u in reasonable conversation or desire the need to push u forward, don't know if am making sense to you but this is my little bit. I've called my girl after church and talked to her as I've always done, she says she will change but believe u me, body count or no, if I meet the woman I seek, am home

NLchat:


That's an interesting perspective.

So as long as she has what you're looking for in a woman and there's chemistry, it wouldn't bother you at all that she may have been with several men in the past? This is not in comparison to a woman you don't have a spark with, just in general. Body count wouldn't be a deciding factor at all?