vizkiz:


I have done 18 ladies since birth. Still small Sha.

Intrepid01:
I can see people of like minds consoling each other on this thread. It is true that no one owes anyone the way he or she chooses to live his or her life.....but having self worth, dignity and value for self important recipe of LIVING....

Your body count shows the kind of person you are and you should attract like minds.

NLchat:


Okay fair enough.

Say she casually mentions you're the 30th guy she's been with. Would it turn you off at all? And how would you behave on the flip side, if the lady you're courting enquiries about your body count, would you be comfortable with telling her?

Gratefulsoul:


Hope we not talking about a professional sex worker here

Splinz:
What difference does body count makes in one's choice of partner?

I think to some extent, it does really matters. For example, religious people will always go for their partners on the banner of virgins.

So, body count will always be a case of choices between two disagreeing sides- those who think it matters and those who think it doesn't.

NLchat:


Okay.

I'm assuming it's a no on the body count then? Do you have this opinion of both men and women?

macfish101:
Why would I marry a lady whose piussy is very popular in the neighbourhood....... Its quite embarrassing u know..... I have a cousin, whose wife was my friend's ex and ex to a lot of dudes I know.....but my cousin married her without knowing that his wife was a konji killer in the zone. Well, I hope he never founds out.

Gratefulsoul:


I can bet my whole pension and gratuity that you've not slept with more than three girl.. First you did was an accident and second is with your current girlfriend... Deny it and I will show you proof... lolz

I can bet my Christmas chicken you have no idea what you are saying. You just typed this to sound funny

NLchat:


Okay.

Would you also be comfortable enough to disclose your body count as a man?

eph12:

What's the problem exactly? That she did hers in the neighbourhood? Or that she had sex at all?

Intrepid01:


Who am I to say no on the body count.....I am no saint myself. ...Listen , my point is this; we should all have some dignity. ...both male and female.

dollyjoy:
Actually,her body count, to an extent matters.

macfish101:
Why would I marry a lady whose piussy is very popular in the neighbourhood....... Its quite embarrassing u know..... I have a cousin, whose wife was my friend's ex and ex to a lot of dudes I know.....but my cousin married her without knowing that his wife was a konji killer in the zone. Well, I hope he never founds out.

NLchat:


So there's no limit for you? There's no number that you'll draw a line at and say that's not okay?

Intrepid01:


Obviously the intellectual point in the conversation you didn't get....bye

xendra:
uhm whats the difference if they've been doing numbers?

personaly, I wont be asking. but if i ever get to find out you've done alot then I am going to have alot more questions, and what follows determines how I see you from then on.

Intrepid01:


That she had no self worth...it could go either ways..

Gratefulsoul:


My dear the difference is much ooo... its like trekking backwards from Nigeria to Malaysia.. A sex worker is into serious business and the higher the number of her clients the richer she becomes while an average girl that has been in let's 50 crashed relationship in search of true love and end up having sex with 40 out of the 50 guys is clear different scenario.. The circumstances that led to the high number of counts is what matters here and not the number..

NLchat:


I didn't mean to come off a rude. I was just trying to understand. The first part of the discussion was what number would you consider a high body count. Since you didn't give one, I just wanted to clarify that you don't think there is one.

eph12:

Had key word there.

So she had no self worth because she slept with guys in the neighbourhood when she was younger and stupid? I guess it would have been ok if she did it in another neighbourhood. because most girls before they get married must have had not less than 3 sex partners so whether it's in the neighbourhood or not does not count. To me though. The one you don't know about lived in some other neighbourhood and fvcked some guys there too so why bother over things that don't matter?

Intrepid01:


You missed the point....sleeping around in the neighbourhood or in foreign land is an indication of lack of self worth and dignity....it applies to a guy who sleeps around as well...

Intrepid01:


You missed the point....sleeping around in the neighbourhood or in foreign land is an indication of lack of self worth and dignity....it applies to a guy who sleeps around as well...

NLchat:


Okay. What's the number you would consider high then?

eph12:

Oh! I guess I missed the point then. So what would you propose? When does it becomes too much? 1, 2, 3?

Gratefulsoul:
Those she slept with before we met is immaterial to our relationship and should be left in the past where it belongs... What matters most is that am the only one she's counting now..
hope my comment is fair enough..

Intrepid01:


Bros...no one has the right to determine when it's okay or too much for anyone...I can only determine that for my own life, do you get?

But as a lady or a guy you should know that no one wants a partner that compares you with others as a result of substantial experience....note that it comes with experience even when not intended.

I think we should all preach dignity, abstinence.....A lady shoulnt allow a guy have her until she's certainly certain that he'll marry her.

macfish101:
You can't attach a numeric figure to this as a standard..... but we all know that there is an amount of body count ur spouse might have had and u will be forced to take a second look at him or her. Like, am I not getting married an osho free prostitute?? so, its a personal thing, some like the numbers high, I like mine very low. Thank you.