₦airaland Forum

machi25:
sure

queenbetsy:
There's really no point keeping a guy if he still considers himself single. Simply put, he's better off without me.

tosyne2much:
hmmm

GentlemanUnltd:
I know what you want!

Let me chat you off here, what about that?

dissybling:
okay but certainly you don't know what I want

GentlemanUnltd:
Let's forget what you want, you mind an offline chat, preferably a whatsapp?

dissybling:
it okay

ericessien24:
do DNA for all your children, bitchess ain't loyal

stubbornman:
Lolzzzz..... this guy sef

Lizzdeb:
Humm..Love has done more of bad that good to Nairaland guys and babes..Its tells through some comments here.



Lesson: Love with both heart and brain..That what I learnt from my previous relationship.

Lizzdeb:
Humm..Love has done more of bad that good to Nairaland guys and babes..Its tells through some comments here.



Lesson: Love with both heart and brain..That what I learnt from my previous relationship.

Nmanuanu:
LOL, you must have encountered a Yoruba demon

xxxtedyxxx:
you will keep making the same mistakes, even if you end up with a new date. You need to understand the basics of Game first. Don't ever invest in a girl when she is not invested in You. ...

GentlemanUnltd:
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ikp120:
Never spend on a girlfriend until she spends on you.

Never really fall in love until she is dead in love with you, but act as if you're dead in love with her.

Delete her phone number once she begins to really misbehave.

Treat her the way she treats you.

Never date a lady who tells you not to access her phone but you can lick her pussy.

Never build your life around her because no lady is worth it except your momma.

GentlemanUnltd:
1. Even when you want to break up, do it peacefully because you might again meet and need the person in future.

And....

2. Never you trust a woman, even when they seem loving and caring, they can easily backstab and betray your love and trust for them.

Finally...

3. Women, I mean all women have one problem or another, you can only know this when they become close to you. Its either she is facing family problem, or her past still hunt her, or she is facing financial problem, or she is facing academical problem, or she sees her period irregularly or she is always having stomach ache, or she finds it hard to love or .... just too numerous to mention.

To those ladies that intend to quote me and post trash, kindly know that I am not a kid in age and as at the last count I have dated 22 girls, from almost all tribes, religion, etc, so I know what I am saying, Nigeria women are all problematic.

And an advice to my fellow men...

4. Use every opportunity to fvck your gf pussy whenever it stares at you because she could dump you for another guy the next day morning no matter how much she claim to love you.

Final whistle...

5. Women crave for dick more than men crave for pussy.

firstking01:
Date with an open mind...

Expect heartbreak at anytime..

Don't be too clingy and expectant...

If the both of you know for sure you won't marry, then keep your options open..

Even when the going seems you guys are gonna marry, still keep your options open until you see yourself on the alter with him/her.

Never date because you love the person...love ain't just enough...

And the list of what i learnt in my last and other relationship is endless...

mirrakk:
hmm,
learnt not 2 hang on to an indicisive fellow/girl.

Don't remain with a girls who has nt gotten over her ex.

Run from a girl who is sturbon and wants things her way all the tym. U wl one day loose ur patience and dat wl turn u a bad person.

damesilver:
Put God first before everything else.

Give up unreasonable expectation.

Be the first to do the right thing. Do not wait for the other person.

Trust in the power of intuition.

Love your partner as you love yourself.

Respect them as you would love to be respected.

Do not do anything that will later oppress them.

Do not let familiarity breeds contempt. Refuse the temptation to take your partner less than esteemed.

Always act in such a way as you would meet a new person for the first time.

Do not cloud the sense of individuality. Enhance the sense of separateness no matter how close.

Let the word of God be your priority, your guide, source of strength, and your ultimate standard of living.

Do not see your bodies only as an object to be marshalled for the purpose of sensual gratification.

The physical body must be equally respected like the soul, it must be seen as something inviolable and not to be lustfully exposed in order to entice.

It is a temple of a higher power. Keep it pure.

Be humble; be teachable and be willing to learn.

Always remember that whatever you sow you must reap. What you do for your neighbor you do in reality only for yourselves.

Seamareggae:
Never date a stingy lady vos they are good for nothing....

Never date a lady that's too concern with sex... But dull in other tinz...

Date a lady that can't sleep without you...

Date a lady that can't eat without you...

Date a lady that can't shit without you...

Date a lady that can't walk without you...

Chai.... E no easy to see better babe after school life...

DedeNkem:
My advice for young people;
- There's no soul mate waiting for you.
- You make your soul mate.

Barigaboy:
1. Don't attract a woman with material things.
2. Don't spend crazily on a woman becos u wanna get her love cos she would get use to it n once u don't have what u ve been keeping d relationship she lives.
3. Don't date a woman who doesn't possess the qualities u want in a woman cos if she mistakenly get pregnant u will hate yourself.
4. Don't love her too much or she will be making u fail exams.
5. When she is in love with u nack her well. Every guy who date a girl without sex is a toaster those who had sex her ex bf. So no where u belong
6. Don't jump around your girl or tighen her she would soon get tired of u. U can't watch her at all n don't ever think u following her around wouldn't make her cheat. If a woman loves u n u r following her here n there she would soon hate u. Woman get sex in a seconds before u open your eyes. So stop watching her around.
7. Women who doesn't like u r d ones who demands a lot. They don't demand from that ugly boy they r in love with.
8. If your woman is flirt don't beat her do your own n leave only weak guys beat women n its a course
9. Forgive whatever your babe must have done to u when she is doing something important eg exam, menstruate etc
10. When a woman is too demanding break up with her cos she go soon kill your carrier but if u go love? Good luck your account will soon b dormant.
11. Don't ever tell your babe about your salary or someone paying u some cash. She is going to place her percent on that n it might later result to break up.

Majesticniyi:
'For God is not mocked, whatsoever a man soweth that shall he also reap'. The pictures are not stunts. What you do to people, expect same to be done to you. The Bible says if the foundation be destroyed, what shall the righteous do? Also, what you expect from life is what you see. People do get married everyday and some of us are in beautiful relationships that work. Not because we are perfect or those we are with are perfect but because we put God first in our lives. I am in no way a saint but when someone goes into a relationship fully expecting his partner to be unfaithful, he would start seeing unfaithfulness even when there is none. Someone here said he has slept with over 200 girls and yet he can stand to accuse girls of cheating.


Anyways, back to the topic. One thing I learnt from my ex is that love is just not enough to build a relationship on. We tried making it work thinking love would make up for our incompatibles but we discovered those issues would always come back to haunt us. Number one of such issues was the unwillingness of both families to accept the inter-tribal marriage. Add that to we both having similar career paths as engineers (our children would just lack parental attention ).

Eberex:
What can i say? I once dated a girl and even proposed to her. She accepted but after two weeks she called to say she cannot accept it. Reasons best known to her. I collected my ring back. But remained friends, since i aint the type who let such issues disturb my peace.

Fast forward to three years. She is back in the picture, but i'm already in a serious relationship. And to worsen it, she is a friend to my girl on facebook and yet she still comes and hang around me.

Meanwhile the devil in me is telling me to have my own pound of flesh. Pretend to accept her back and dump her too. This was a girl i loved, and even did almost everything to make her happy and comfortable.

firstking01:
COMPATIBILITY..this is just all you need for a long lasting relationship or marriage...ok, just imagine your spouse liking everything you like, your fantasies is her fantasies...you have a high body count, she too has a high body count...you love pounded yam, she loves pounded yam...you love to pray, she loves to pray too...where disagreement and quarrel wan from come??..


I usually counsel people to marry because they have similar traits and believe both in religion and other aspects of life with their supposed spouse or fiancy...don't just marry because you have feelings for that person cos feelings or love will fade away with time.