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stubbornman:
Ogbeni you're on the right track ....leave the bitch and move on ....how dem go dey hug you every time you be Santa Claus if you didn't fvck her leh her go....but if you still got the chance to Bang her...crack the heavens on her then

Senorprinz:
HA FA

Stallione:
If i loose someone like u,its better i commit suicide

omooba969:
So who left the other, wetin happen gan gan?

You care to share?

princetom1:
U are still in d shadow of ur first relationship, one point that characterizes moving on, is, falling again and being happy. I bet u are afraid and all up till now. U need to feel that way again, that's d only way, all this hard woman feeling is crap, its being heartless. Same thing u are afraid of, u doing it to someone else, well, i don't blame u. U need to jam a guy like me, who will sweep u off ur feet no matter how strong u try to act, besides, wasn't d love sweet? I bet it was

2dugged:
let's just say we have had our own share of "things you do for love", had to leave, cos it was the best for me, some guys don't know what loyalty means

2dugged:
i dey o

Senorprinz:
eye see, like you're well versed in a whole lot of aspects.

omooba969:
@bolded,

You are the surest & badest chick

Nice 1 there girly.

princetom1:
U are still in d shadow of ur first relationship, one point that characterizes moving on, is, falling again and being happy. I bet u are afraid and all up till now. U need to feel that way again, that's d only way, all this hard woman feeling is crap, its being heartless. Same thing u are afraid of, u doing it to someone else, well, i don't blame u. U need to jam a guy like me, who will sweep u off ur feet no matter how strong u try to act, besides, wasn't d love sweet? I bet it was

uzolexis:
Not so sure that's a good thing though


Biko
Oh well, you have a point but one has to thread carefully in matters of the heart

drizzymtbee:
A girl visited her boyfriend. After
entering his room, the girl greeted and hugged him. After about 30
minutes, the girl unzipped her clothes, removes her clothes and she was left with only bra and
undies nearly naked. Then the
following discusions took place:
GIRL: darling pls make love to me.
BOY: No dear. I wont make love
to you pls.
GIRL: Am I not sexy enough? See.
I am half naked. Pls make love to me. I beg you.
BOY: Yeah u are sexy but pls put
on your clothes pls I dont want to have sex pls.
GIRL: (She removes her bra): darling pls na I beg you. Have sex with me.
BOY: No. Put on your clothes. I am in the mood but I wont make love to you.
GIRL: Why? Dont u love me?
BOY: yeah I love you so much. Pls I want to wait till our wedding night. Put on your clothes. Let us wait till our wedding night before we will
have sex. I love and respect your body. Then the girl puts on
her clothes back without any sex taking place...
DO SUCH MEN EXIST?
YES & NO .

2dugged:
seen things, that's all

2dugged:
I disagree, but you are entitled to your opinion

Hidorano:
Big YES to your question, to be precise this kind of scenerio happens to me just of a recent.

omooba969:
Chill out love , you've had your reality check but you still wanna flirt with 'being in denial'.

omooba969:
You have no idea the kinda battle you fought unscathed, some fought the same battle & lost their mind.

I mean they LOST!

NairalandDSS:
It is common to fail in relationships. There is nothing wrong in failing. It is important to learn from your mistakes in order to move further in your life.But at the same time, it is good to realise why we fail in relationships. When you look back, if you see any corrections to be made to your behaviour, go ahead and do so. This will help you avoid future relationship failures.Pain, hurt and depression are common reactions after a breakup. But soon after that small stage is over, it is better to rejoice.Here are some reasons why to be happy after a breakup.

Reasons why to be happy after a breakup are:


1.You Can Start Life Afresh: Remember that a breakup is a good chance to start everything again from scratch with a new person. This means that you can commit less mistakes this time as you have some experience.

2.You Can Learn From Your Mistakes: Treat it as an opportunity to learn what you have done wrong. In your future relationship, ensure that you don’t repeat mistakes.

3.You Can Do Well In Your New Relationship: Relationship experts say that those who generally have experience from past relationships tend to do well in future relationships as they tend to be more careful.

4.You Will Become Stronger: After you overcome the pain of a breakup and loneliness, you tend to be stronger. This will help you deal with many other ups and downs of life.

5.You Can Make Better Choices: The chances of making wrong choices will greatly reduce after a failed relationship. You tend to tread carefully after a miserable experience.

6.You Will Never Get Carried Away: Even if you come across the most attractive partner who promises the heaven to woo you, you won’t get carried away easily.

7.You Will Learn To Change Or Adapt: This is a very important quality to learn. We all must learn to be flexible to others around us and failed relationships teach us such qualities.

8.You Will Be Grounded: Some relationship failures tend to ground us a bit. Flying in clouds isn’t healthy. Dreaming of ideal relationships isn’t realistic. So, staying grounded is better.

These are the reasons to be happy after a breakup.

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dammysel:
This helped so much thanks.

UnbiasedView:
It's easier said than done.... No one knows what her smile does to me... Even after I know it's over I still can't get over her smile... Damn I messed up! There I go putting the blame on myself.... can't get over her and that's the sincere truth... But Life must go on.....!

dammysel:
This helped so much thanks.

Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.

Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.

samdeyking01:
Thanks bruh

dont listen 2 him move on.

Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.

dingbang:
Story

dingbang:
Story

Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.

uzuede4:
Op is very very correct Op is very very correct

cocoberry:
Been trying, in fact trying soo hard, I still can't get over TJ there is nothing to be happy about breaking up with him