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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by samdeyking01(m): 11:30pm On Dec 28, 2016
stubbornman:

Ogbeni you're on the right track ....leave the bitch and move on ....how dem go dey hug you every time you be Santa Claus if you didn't fvck her leh her go....but if you still got the chance to Bang her...crack the heavens on her then




Thanks bruh
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 11:31pm On Dec 28, 2016
Senorprinz:


sad HA FA

i dey o
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 11:31pm On Dec 28, 2016
Stallione:
If i loose someone like u,its better i commit suicide

Suicide kwa, cos of woman? shocked

Nawa o
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Kingsleytobe(m): 11:32pm On Dec 28, 2016
Break up helps you find the true love of your life money cool
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 11:32pm On Dec 28, 2016
omooba969:


So who left the other, wetin happen gan gan?

You care to share?
let's just say we have had our own share of "things you do for love", had to leave, cos it was the best for me, some guys don't know what loyalty means
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 11:35pm On Dec 28, 2016
princetom1:


U are still in d shadow of ur first relationship, one point that characterizes moving on, is, falling again and being happy. I bet u are afraid and all up till now. U need to feel that way again, that's d only way, all this hard woman feeling is crap, its being heartless. Same thing u are afraid of, u doing it to someone else, well, i don't blame u. U need to jam a guy like me, who will sweep u off ur feet no matter how strong u try to act, besides, wasn't d love sweet? I bet it was

Bro u simply DO NOT UNDERSTAND! cool
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 11:41pm On Dec 28, 2016
2dugged:
let's just say we have had our own share of "things you do for love", had to leave, cos it was the best for me, some guys don't know what loyalty means

Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 11:44pm On Dec 28, 2016
[quote author=omooba969 post=52344768][/quote]I disagree, but you are entitled to your opinion
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Senorprinz(m): 11:49pm On Dec 28, 2016
2dugged:
i dey o

cool eye see, like you're well versed in a whole lot of aspects.
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 11:51pm On Dec 28, 2016
Senorprinz:



cool eye see, like you're well versed in a whole lot of aspects.
seen things, that's all
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by uzolexis(f): 11:52pm On Dec 28, 2016
omooba969:


@bolded,

You are the surest & badest chick grin

Nice 1 there girly. cool

Not so sure that's a good thing though

princetom1:


U are still in d shadow of ur first relationship, one point that characterizes moving on, is, falling again and being happy. I bet u are afraid and all up till now. U need to feel that way again, that's d only way, all this hard woman feeling is crap, its being heartless. Same thing u are afraid of, u doing it to someone else, well, i don't blame u. U need to jam a guy like me, who will sweep u off ur feet no matter how strong u try to act, besides, wasn't d love sweet? I bet it was

Oh well, you have a point but one has to thread carefully in matters of the heart smiley the love was bitter sweet and when I really fall in love, I can be a serious mumu which can make the person take advantage of me....it's best to avoid that till i'm sure I have someone who would not take advantage of me.
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 11:56pm On Dec 28, 2016
uzolexis:


Not so sure that's a good thing though


Biko
Oh well, you have a point but one has to thread carefully in matters of the heart smiley

You have no idea the kinda battle you fought unscathed, some fought the same battle & lost their mind.

I mean they LOST! cool
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Hidorano(m): 11:59pm On Dec 28, 2016
drizzymtbee:
A girl visited her boyfriend. After
entering his room, the girl greeted and hugged him. After about 30
minutes, the girl unzipped her clothes, removes her clothes and she was left with only bra and
undies nearly naked. Then the
following discusions took place:
GIRL: darling pls make love to me.
BOY: No dear. I wont make love
to you pls.
GIRL: Am I not sexy enough? See.
I am half naked. Pls make love to me. I beg you.
BOY: Yeah u are sexy but pls put
on your clothes pls I dont want to have sex pls.
GIRL: (She removes her bra): darling pls na I beg you. Have sex with me.
BOY: No. Put on your clothes. I am in the mood but I wont make love to you.
GIRL: Why? Dont u love me?
BOY: yeah I love you so much. Pls I want to wait till our wedding night. Put on your clothes. Let us wait till our wedding night before we will
have sex. I love and respect your body. Then the girl puts on
her clothes back without any sex taking place...
DO SUCH MEN EXIST?
YES & NO .
Big YES to your question, to be precise this kind of scenerio happens to me just of a recent.
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Senorprinz(m): 11:59pm On Dec 28, 2016
2dugged:
seen things, that's all

thought as much.
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 12:00am On Dec 29, 2016
2dugged:
I disagree, but you are entitled to your opinion

Chill out love grin, you've had your reality check but you still wanna flirt with 'being in denial'. cool
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 12:01am On Dec 29, 2016
Hidorano:
Big YES to your question, to be precise this kind of scenerio happens to me just of a recent.

Story! cheesy
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 12:07am On Dec 29, 2016
omooba969:


Chill out love grin, you've had your reality check but you still wanna flirt with 'being in denial'. cool
the choice of words "always" and "often" is what i don't subscribe to,I am already an exception to the "always" ,atleast from my end, anyway sweet dreams
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by uzolexis(f): 12:18am On Dec 29, 2016
omooba969:


You have no idea the kinda battle you fought unscathed, some fought the same battle & lost their mind.

I mean they LOST! cool


Lol, thankfully I'm still sane. I should be grateful for that.
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by UnbiasedView: 12:25am On Dec 29, 2016
It's easier said than done.... No one knows what her smile does to me... Even after I know it's over I still can't get over her smile... Damn I messed up! There I go putting the blame on myself.... can't get over her and that's the sincere truth... But Life must go on.....!

Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by dammysel(f): 12:33am On Dec 29, 2016
NairalandDSS:
It is common to fail in relationships. There is nothing wrong in failing. It is important to learn from your mistakes in order to move further in your life.But at the same time, it is good to realise why we fail in relationships. When you look back, if you see any corrections to be made to your behaviour, go ahead and do so. This will help you avoid future relationship failures.Pain, hurt and depression are common reactions after a breakup. But soon after that small stage is over, it is better to rejoice.Here are some reasons why to be happy after a breakup.

Reasons why to be happy after a breakup are:


1.You Can Start Life Afresh: Remember that a breakup is a good chance to start everything again from scratch with a new person. This means that you can commit less mistakes this time as you have some experience.

2.You Can Learn From Your Mistakes: Treat it as an opportunity to learn what you have done wrong. In your future relationship, ensure that you don’t repeat mistakes.

3.You Can Do Well In Your New Relationship: Relationship experts say that those who generally have experience from past relationships tend to do well in future relationships as they tend to be more careful.

4.You Will Become Stronger: After you overcome the pain of a breakup and loneliness, you tend to be stronger. This will help you deal with many other ups and downs of life.

5.You Can Make Better Choices: The chances of making wrong choices will greatly reduce after a failed relationship. You tend to tread carefully after a miserable experience.

6.You Will Never Get Carried Away: Even if you come across the most attractive partner who promises the heaven to woo you, you won’t get carried away easily.

7.You Will Learn To Change Or Adapt: This is a very important quality to learn. We all must learn to be flexible to others around us and failed relationships teach us such qualities.

8.You Will Be Grounded: Some relationship failures tend to ground us a bit. Flying in clouds isn’t healthy. Dreaming of ideal relationships isn’t realistic. So, staying grounded is better.

These are the reasons to be happy after a breakup.

mynd44 lalasticlala




This helped so much thanks.

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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 12:35am On Dec 29, 2016
dammysel:





This helped so much thanks.
thanks for not bashing me like others

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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 12:54am On Dec 29, 2016
UnbiasedView:
It's easier said than done.... No one knows what her smile does to me... Even after I know it's over I still can't get over her smile... Damn I messed up! There I go putting the blame on myself.... can't get over her and that's the sincere truth... But Life must go on.....!

When you truly love someone you tend to blame yourself for the mess, forgetting that it takes the two of you to create the mess in your relationship.

Why do yourself the injustice? undecided

Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 12:57am On Dec 29, 2016
dammysel:





This helped so much thanks.

Are those your hips or Photoshop? shocked grin

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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Recoverd(f): 12:57am On Dec 29, 2016
Be greatful about it. Every relationship must not end in msrriage
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by sweetilicious(f): 1:40am On Dec 29, 2016
Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.
Okay
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Sunnytech91: 1:47am On Dec 29, 2016
Thanks for this piece.
Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 2:24am On Dec 29, 2016
samdeyking01:





Thanks bruh
dont listen 2 him undecided move on.

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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Xynthialuvy(f): 3:05am On Dec 29, 2016
Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.
Nice
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by uzuede4(f): 3:14am On Dec 29, 2016
dingbang:
Story
Op is very very correct sad
dingbang:
Story
Op is very very correct
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by ruzell86: 6:20am On Dec 29, 2016
Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.
Honestly, I like this.
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by dingbang(m): 6:31am On Dec 29, 2016
uzuede4:
Op is very very correct sadOp is very very correct
he isn't. Its not applicable to everyone
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by metallisc(m): 6:38am On Dec 29, 2016
cocoberry:
angry Been trying, in fact trying soo hard, I still can't get over TJ sad there is nothing to be happy about breaking up with him


as cocoberrylicious as you are, you are still drooling over someone that dumped you because he felt you are not good enough! young woman, where is your pride of self??

oya come with me, after one week you will never remember there was ever a TJ in your life! grin grin grin

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