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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by waluga(m): 2:14pm On Mar 02, 2017
TOPCRUISE:
Only a single at her 20's can make such comment not a single at her 40's
even a reasonable single at 15 this days knows what she want in a man...not only his money or what he can buy but...a man to make her a complete wife and mother

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:14pm On Mar 02, 2017
hehehehehe i avoid girls who think like this, shallow minded if their husband loses his job nko does he lose the right to be with them. anyway it's for you guys that worship women enough to go with someone who thinks like that

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:15pm On Mar 02, 2017
oxon:
eya so a woman can't use good cream except she turn olosho or a luxury LovePeddler ...and its funny how women are quick to call a guy broke when they can't even afford their own cream , gender equality my ass

I didn't say all women who use expensive creams are love peddlers. That's why I said SOME.

There are women who earn well enough in decent jobs to afford the luxury they live in.
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Promismike(m): 2:15pm On Mar 02, 2017
kennygee:
Hmmn.

Really offensive.

Some will see a clean and cream chic whose body lotion alone is 20k-50k, her perfume is 50-100k, her hand bag is from 150 above, that is the kind of women they'll be going after when their salary range is 80k to 100k.

Some won't even bother finding out how the woman affords such lifestyle.

It could be a maga sponsoring them, then they will come to Nairaland and make dumb posts about how women love money and will only follow a man with money.

Cut your coat according to your cloth.

Modified

Guys, insulting me won't change my comment.

Just take the advice and don't fall prey to runs girls.
U just potray how disgusting you are. I pity the man that will call u a girlfrind or even a wife. Spittttt!

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by jtjohn(m): 2:15pm On Mar 02, 2017
kennygee:


Go after woman wey you go fit maintain.
That's the reason why those yahoo guys use and dump u girls, Girls are so materialistic gosh....

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by kingNovak: 2:16pm On Mar 02, 2017
kennygee:
Hmmn.

Really offensive.

Some will see a clean and cream chic whose body lotion alone is 20k-50k, her perfume is 50-100k, her hand bag is from 150 above, that is the kind of women they'll be going after when their salary range is 80k to 100k.

Some won't even bother finding out how the woman affords such lifestyle.

It could be a maga sponsoring them, then they will come to Nairaland and make dumb posts about how women love money and will only follow a man with money.

Cut your coat according to your cloth.

Modified

Guys, insulting me won't change my comment.

Just take the advice and don't fall prey to runs girls.
clap for yourself. Later na when u reach 35 without any man taking u serious u will start asking God why.....mtchew

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:17pm On Mar 02, 2017
Promismike:
U just potray how disgusting you are. I pity the man that will call u a girlfrind or even a wife. Spittttt!

Dude. I'll take your apology after you must have read that comment properly and deduced what I am trying to say.

The morale of my comment is some women live lavish lifestyles funded by magas, stay away from such women if you can't maintain their lifestyle.

I never supported runs.

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by KennyID17(m): 2:18pm On Mar 02, 2017
Genea:
not all babes with an expensive lifestyle are oloshos, date the ones you can afford period!!!

Pls ladies stop using d word "afford", u make it sound like y'all some kinda item,commodity,service e.t.c. If u can afford to maintain something, u wouldn't b happy if that thing begins to have a mind of Its own. And kennygee, I like that moniker, and i also get ur point, but d way u put ur first post across was just somehow
and no mind them, for my eye u b fine Bae.

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:19pm On Mar 02, 2017
kingNovak:
clap for yourself. Later na when u reach 35 without any man taking u serious u will start asking God why.....mtchew

Oga read my comment well, read am finish. Then comment.

Did I say anything that encourages runs?

All I'm saying is there are decent women out there with decent sources of income, don't leave those ones and go after women with lavish lives being funded by magas

Did I say anything wrong?
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:20pm On Mar 02, 2017
crunchyg:
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cheesy cheesy cheesy you just get luck say I no fit catch you now I for do you strong thing. Wetin man dey do woman

Abeg park well.
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by daveelly: 2:20pm On Mar 02, 2017
Elle277:
I disagree, relationship is not about your financial worth..

Now, here is a Lady with ethics, home training, a great interpretation of the reality of life and can be termed #RealWoman. This Kind woman, if u dash am money... God go bless U. Unlike those whores promoting prostitution.
I for one, work and so does my woman (who earn a little above me), Yet she respects me to the moon and back.

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Prince3d(m): 2:22pm On Mar 02, 2017
kennygee:


How
By reducing the essence of a relationship to just 'maintaining a woman'. No reasonable man, no matter how reach, will go after such a woman. Most times, these type of ladies will reduce a man to a piece of rubble..
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by 100Cents: 2:22pm On Mar 02, 2017
Johnsown1:
Broad daylight olosho, attention seekers.
I am nt suprise at all cos recession is hitting like dry season and the end time lazy gold diggers are looking for where to steal.

Calling them thief is in order.

Babe go come your house, perfume go loss, stored toilet soap, wine and juice, rechargeable lamp, phone charger, this is broad day light robbery.

If men don't start taking this seriously, one day, you come home and see that your flat screen, your decoder and laptop are gone.
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by pweetixandy: 2:23pm On Mar 02, 2017
SweetBoyFriend:


Pained me ??

When I'm sitting in my mansion in New York at the age of 25 smoking weed and knowing how much i have in my bank account

Nothing pains me except the death of a loved one

You're a poor rat
I'm living in my mansion in Lagos too tongue what do you have that I don't have, no tell me, just tell me
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:25pm On Mar 02, 2017
kennygee:
Hmmn.

Really offensive.

Some will see a clean and cream chic whose body lotion alone is 20k-50k, her perfume is 50-100k, her hand bag is from 150 above, that is the kind of women they'll be going after when their salary range is 80k to 100k.

Some won't even bother finding out how the woman affords such lifestyle.

It could be a maga sponsoring them, then they will come to Nairaland and make dumb posts about how women love money and will only follow a man with money.

Cut your coat according to your cloth.

Modified

Guys, insulting me won't change my comment.

Just take the advice and don't fall prey to runs girls.
lol


y not say girls should cut their coat according to their size by dating someone dah they can afford?? We've seen situations whereby guys buy expensive phones for their babes and the babe in return buys him...BOXERS! Wah would you say to this?


Moreso no situation is permanant the guys dah earns 80k 2day might earn 80m tomorrow...never look down on anyone...you should even at least be grateful the guy attempts to give you gift

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by kingNovak: 2:25pm On Mar 02, 2017
kennygee:


Oga read my comment well, read am finish. Then comment.

Did I say anything that encourages runs?

All I'm saying is there are decent women out there with decent sources of income, don't leave those ones and go after women with lavish lives being funded by magas

Did I say anything wrong?
the way u put it seems as if u supporting such....... Sorry for the harsh words

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:26pm On Mar 02, 2017
Prince3d:

By reducing the essence of a relationship to just 'maintaining a woman'. No reasonable man, no matter how reach, will go after such a woman. Most times, these type of ladies will reduce a man to a piece of rubble..

My dear, don't you plan to take care of your woman?

Has it become a bad thing for a man to ensure the standard he married his woman is still maintained after marriage?

I don't see anything wrong in it.

A woman can do good by herself, but marriage should be add more to you. Because you have a husband who should take care of you.

If you have a job, then your salary can augment what he cannot afford to do.

We have become so accustomed to this trend that a man must not handle all the responsibility of a woman because he married her, then what is the benefit of marriage if there is not added value?

Won't the woman just remain single to take care of her own needs?

If we keep thinking like this, the institution of marriage will just be anyhow.
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:28pm On Mar 02, 2017
nwakibie3:
Nonsense. The boyfriend to the lady governor of sydney in Australia is barber.
thats a white lady bro cheesy
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:29pm On Mar 02, 2017
Harbosede02:
lol


y not say girls should cut their coat according to their size by dating someone dah they can afford?? We've seen situations whereby guys buy expensive phones for their babes and the babe in return buys him...BOXERS! Wah would you say to this?


Moreso no situation is permanant the guys dah earns 80k 2day might earn 80m tomorrow...never look down on anyone...you should even at least be grateful the guy attempts to give you gift

I am not supporting the OP o. I don't support runs.

But how many BIG girls go gree stay with struggling guys?
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by judian: 2:30pm On Mar 02, 2017
SweetBoyFriend:

I find it offensive when women can't get off their lazy asses and go get a job so they can afford whatever they want

I find it offensive when women depend on men for money, cars, gifts and houses, what do these women bring to the table ?? Their stinky pusssy, that's all they can offer

I find it offensive when women ask for money or gifts, they now take relationships as a full time employment

At the end of the day they will start shouting "All men are the same"

May God strike me dead any day i spend money on any girl or even buy her an ordinary gift (except my families and wife if i ever marry)

I'm constantly flying to different countries running my business, sometimes i go 4 days straight without sleeping, stacking up my money while you're laying on your comfortable bed calling yourself Slay Queen on Instagram and at the end of the day you will ask me for a 100k perfume ?? Don't let me vex for your family

Why is it the guy's responsibility to buy things for you ?? Don't you have a father ?? What have you bought for the guy ?? He would waste his energy and strength having sex with you and at the end of the day you will have the courage to ask for money ??

This is how stupid they are, wanting a 100k perfume when she should be asking the guy to buy a brand new used brain for her

These hoes don't deserve anything

*Spits
I don't get this life is just soo complicated a lady works for her money buys her self stuffs and looks good and she's labeled a slot or runs girl some guys even tell u to your face that you are too independent, it's soo funny and I begin to wander what men actually want #been labeled a snub most times I think am getting use to that #u guys are just soo complicated, some would even say Ure not feminine u should learn to ask from your boyfriend #its just soo funny # reminds me of a past relationships I had, we started dating a month to Valentine got me some stuffs and he told me he has never been given a gift before at Valentine and I was like WTF #guys are just soo confusing #smh
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Johnsown1(m): 2:30pm On Mar 02, 2017
100Cents:


Calling them thief is in order.

Babe go come your house, perfume go loss, stored toilet soap, wine and juice, rechargeable lamp, phone charger, this is broad day light robbery.

If men don't start taking this seriously, one day, you come home and see that your flat screen, your decoder and laptop are gone.

my brother ur on point, it has happened to ma brother once, what she stoled was 4 tubbers of yam,almost half bag of rice and our stainless tea cup( that one that magnets spoon inside) and also collected 10k from him.
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:31pm On Mar 02, 2017
kingNovak:
the way u put it seems as if u supporting such....... Sorry for the harsh words

Its okaym
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:33pm On Mar 02, 2017
kennygee:


I am not supporting the OP o. I don't support runs.

But how many BIG girls go gree stay with struggling guys?
those whose perspective about life is diffrent from that of the original poster.

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by engrchykae(m): 2:34pm On Mar 02, 2017
i will like this runsgirl to run into these malaysian boys,they will give her enough money to buy 1milion naira perfume but it wont stop coachroach or maggots from doing station of the cross from her pussy,i have never desired the so-called big girls because a lot of things have gone through them,alhajis,malaysian boys,occultic traders,evil lecturers,politicians,pastors.the dirtiest village girl is far better than them.

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:34pm On Mar 02, 2017
Is she for sale? Men are looking for wives not commodities. cheesy

Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:36pm On Mar 02, 2017
Harbosede02:
those whose perspective about life is diffrent from that of the original poster.

They are very few.

Meanwhile, there are still guys that will complain that you are too independent because it makes them feel less if you make them feel they are not needed.
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by BlaQWolf: 2:39pm On Mar 02, 2017
SweetBoyFriend:

I find it offensive when women can't get off their lazy asses and go get a job so they can afford whatever they want

I find it offensive when women depend on men for money, cars, gifts and houses, what do these women bring to the table ?? Their stinky pusssy, that's all they can offer

I find it offensive when women ask for money or gifts, they now take relationships as a full time employment

At the end of the day they will start shouting "All men are the same"

May God strike me dead any day i spend money on any girl or even buy her an ordinary gift (except my families and wife if i ever marry)

I'm constantly flying to different countries running my business, sometimes i go 4 days straight without sleeping, stacking up my money while you're laying on your comfortable bed calling yourself Slay Queen on Instagram and at the end of the day you will ask me for a 100k perfume ?? Don't let me vex for your family

Why is it the guy's responsibility to buy things for you ?? Don't you have a father ?? What have you bought for the guy ?? He would waste his energy and strength having sex with you and at the end of the day you will have the courage to ask for money ??

This is how stupid they are, wanting a 100k perfume when she should be asking the guy to buy a brand new used brain for her

These hoes don't deserve anything

*Spits


Abeg bros, I'm interested in your kind of biz....
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Prince3d(m): 2:39pm On Mar 02, 2017
kennygee:


My dear, don't you plan to take care of your woman?

Has it become a bad thing for a man to ensure the standard he married his woman is still maintained after marriage?

I don't see anything wrong in it.

A woman can do good by herself, but marriage should be add more to you. Because you have a husband who should take care of you.

If you have a job, then your salary can augment what he cannot afford to do.

We have become so accustomed to this trend that a man must not handle all the responsibility of a woman because he married her, then what is the benefit of marriage if there is not added value?

Won't the woman just remain single to take care of her own needs?

If we keep thinking like this, the institution of marriage will just be anyhow.
Taking care of your lady in a relationship is a normal thing to do. But, all i'm saying is that 'maintaining your lady' shouldn't be a prerequisite to a relationship. The man whose salary can't buy that 'super perfume' today might start up a perfume factory for his lady tomorrow..
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:40pm On Mar 02, 2017
These naija oloshos don give me wrong mindset. Any time I wan meet babe, I go dey reason hold like 40 or 50k for pocket, which is not to be so unlike when I was abroad.Sometimes na only my transport I need to see babe, but here is a different mindset. Make dem continue to dey ashawo, I will no longer patronize them.

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Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Okpabana: 2:42pm On Mar 02, 2017
Mrop:
I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford - Twitter User

She shared her thought on twitter about men chasing the so call big girls that they can't afford .....read what she wrote below


Source :: http://www.praizeblog.com/2017/03/i-find-it-very-offensive-when-men.html?m=0


So ladies should be subtractions to men's life abi? I no blame her. Na because our politicians don pack all our monies and invest them on una. 100k perfume indeed.
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by Nobody: 2:42pm On Mar 02, 2017
Prince3d:

Taking care of your lady in a relationship is a normal thing to do. But, all i'm saying is that 'maintaining your lady' shouldn't be a prerequisite to a relationship. The man whose salary can't buy that 'super perfume' today might start up a perfume factory for his lady tomorrow..

I never said taking care of your lady should be a prerequisite, if you love your woman, you'd love to see her look her best and it would give you joy to be the one paying to make her look her best.

Likewise, if she sees something she thinks will look good on you, it won't hurt her to get it for you.
Re: I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford by augustine: 2:42pm On Mar 02, 2017
Mrop:
I Find It Very Offensive When Men Cannot Chase Only Women They Can Afford - Twitter User

She shared her thought on twitter about men chasing the so call big girls that they can't afford .....read what she wrote below


Source :: http://www.praizeblog.com/2017/03/i-find-it-very-offensive-when-men.html?m=0

And why must a woman depend on a man for her extravagance, is she handicapped?

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