Yorubest:
Good morning family

I can't sleep and cried all night

I've been married for 3yrs with a son

Before getting married I dated my husband for less than a year and everything was fine.

I don't want to bore you with the details but before getting married, my husband and I agreed to be honest and tell each other everything. I told him about my previous affairs and he didn't have problem with it but I couldn't tell him about the one with my present GM because I still work with him.

Somehow, he got to find out through one his friends who knows my boss. It's not as if he was told the details but he came from a meeting last Friday asking so many questions. It was about my boss and I had to confess to him.

Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

My husband keeps saying he doesn't trust me anymore. He's stopped touching me and he rarely talks to me and raises his voice now

He has a good job that pays well and his salary dwarfs mine but I love the job and my career.

What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please

royalroy

And That Is How You Just Broke The Trust You Had With Your Husband Forever.You Promised To Tell Each Other The Truth,So Why Did You Lie About That One?

Yorubest:
Good morning family

I can't sleep and cried all night

I've been married for 3yrs with a son

Before getting married I dated my husband for less than a year and everything was fine.

I don't want to bore you with the details but before getting married, my husband and I agreed to be honest and tell each other everything. I told him about my previous affairs and he didn't have problem with it but I couldn't tell him about the one with my present GM because I still work with him.

Somehow, he got to find out through one his friends who knows my boss. It's not as if he was told the details but he came from a meeting last Friday asking so many questions. It was about my boss and I had to confess to him.

Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

My husband keeps saying he doesn't trust me anymore. He's stopped touching me and he rarely talks to me and raises his voice now

He has a good job that pays well and his salary dwarfs mine but I love the job and my career.

What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please

royalroy

You are a slut. Your husband should dump you asap. Shioor

Op, I feel your pain. But the truth is if you calculatedly endure this and try to tell your husband that you didn't tell him because you still work there and you don't want to make him feel small whenever he comes around your office and see your boss. But i truly hope you ain't playing behind with the boss anymore. Try talking to him or any close person who can help you understand the issue.

Please is your GM not making himself available to you again just park your loads to his house and continue flexing

urself there, PIG cant joke with mood

I will advice u after I fucck u as well

Yorubes t:
Good morning family

I can't sleep and cried all night

I've been married for 3yrs with a son

Before getting married I dated my husband for less than a year and everything was fine.

I don't want to bore you with the details but before getting married, my husband and I agreed to be honest and tell each other everything. I told him about my previous affairs and he didn't have problem with it but I couldn't tell him about the one with my present GM because I still work with him.

Somehow, he got to find out through one his friends who knows my boss. It's not as if he was told the details but he came from a meeting last Friday asking so many questions. It was about my boss and I had to confess to him.

Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

My husband keeps saying he doesn't trust me anymore. He's stopped touching me and he rarely talks to me and raises his voice now

He has a good job that pays well and his salary dwarfs mine but I love the job and my career.

What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please

royalroy

That is how my Girlfriend always vomit lies like say na Hangover beer.

You can win your Husband back my dear.

1> Just play so well as Barcelona have been playing untill they over took Real Madrid at the top spot of Laliga

2> Play really good as Manchester City did to beat Monaco two weeks ago in UEFA CHAMPIONS LEAGUE

3> Defend your Actions so well as Chelsea is defending to win Premier League.

4> Don't let your Husband be like Pep Guardiola who replaced Joe Hart with Licking Bravo.

5> Use your Sense and head to get my comment. I love you.

Yorubest:
Good morning family

I can't sleep and cried all night

I've been married for 3yrs with a son

Before getting married I dated my husband for less than a year and everything was fine.

I don't want to bore you with the details but before getting married, my husband and I agreed to be honest and tell each other everything. I told him about my previous affairs and he didn't have problem with it but I couldn't tell him about the one with my present GM because I still work with him.

Somehow, he got to find out through one his friends who knows my boss. It's not as if he was told the details but he came from a meeting last Friday asking so many questions. It was about my boss and I had to confess to him.

Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

My husband keeps saying he doesn't trust me anymore. He's stopped touching me and he rarely talks to me and raises his voice now

He has a good job that pays well and his salary dwarfs mine but I love the job and my career.

What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please

royalroy

Just twice ke?

Abeg two times no be "just" again.

Pack your load and go!

Did you say "just" twice.

Once, I would have forgiven you but twice? You are just a cheap slut

Quit the job!



Start from there!

Gentle2015:
My dear, you have to make sacrifices. If you still work with your boss, your hubby will still belives something is still going on between you two.

Resign and don't show him your resignation letter until he queried you on why you didnt go to office. Show him and tell him you have to do this for your relationship.

The earlier you do this the better for you. Men think deeper than you assume. Soon, he might starr flirting and that signals the danger (hope you understands)

For him to find out himself is a danger on its own. Some peeps would have kept silent and dealt with their spouse secretly. He loves you so much and that was the reaspn why he confronted you. A word they say....

Wow! This is just it. OP, do this and am sure you will regain his trust back.

Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job


Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans

U don't get it.. She is still with that same man who bleeped her! Her husband's friend knows about it and that is big shame for him... Also, how can the man feel knowing fully well that his wife still works for the same man who didn't ask her out but just called her to come to his house when his wife wasn't around and he banged her and banged her again and again? If her hubby gets to pick her up at office, how will he feel? How will he be comfortable knowing fully well that the same man who banged his wife is still her boss? My sister, sentiment aside, it is hard to chew..

My own be say, I am a realist.. The man will never ever trust her again for not telling him this part of her life and for hearing it from a friend..

Any man who will ask u to tell him everything about ur past so that he can swallow them and forgives u is the hard one o and honest one.. He is just like me.. I love honesty to the core.. He doesn't touch hee again is such a sign of a man who is faithful to the core because for him to sleep with u as a lady, he must be honest with u.. He can't pretend it..

So, it is either she resigns and begs her hubby and show serious reptence and gradually win his heart over or she forgets the marriage because my dear, that man will hardly forget that thing as long as she works with the same man who messed up with his wife.. Is shameful..

Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job


Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans

What rubbish is this one saying, common text message or email, you ladies turn it to a big fight, you are now saying the man should forgive a liar and a cheat easily, abeg use that thing wey God give you now

Yorubest:
Good morning family

I can't sleep and cried all night

I've been married for 3yrs with a son

Before getting married I dated my husband for less than a year and everything was fine.

I don't want to bore you with the details but before getting married, my husband and I agreed to be honest and tell each other everything. I told him about my previous affairs and he didn't have problem with it but I couldn't tell him about the one with my present GM because I still work with him.

Somehow, he got to find out through one his friends who knows my boss. It's not as if he was told the details but he came from a meeting last Friday asking so many questions. It was about my boss and I had to confess to him.

Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

My husband keeps saying he doesn't trust me anymore. He's stopped touching me and he rarely talks to me and raises his voice now

He has a good job that pays well and his salary dwarfs mine but I love the job and my career.

What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please

royalroy

One thing I have discovered about life, is nothing is hidden for ever. Call him in the middle of the night, naked yourself, knee down and beg him. Tell him why you didnt tell him earlier ask for his forgiveness. Why all these GMs/MDs they sample our wives. For Warri dem go talk am se, water no level garri

Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job


Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans

lailai.....its all over.....she called two times "just"

The probability that this kind mistake will repeat itself is high

But you were really cheap abeg. I'm not condemning you but WTF?! You only visited and it happened? Was it before or after you got married? My chest is even beating now with fear. What's happening these days?

If it happened and ended before he married you, I can understand. But if it happened after he married you, I just weak.

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I don't pray such should happen to you when you get married. As long as the man keeps seeing or hearing similar issues, he would never forget only if she should act fast by quitting her job.

You broke the trust he had now you'll have to bear your cross. If you had exercised a little self control this would not have happened. You have to rebuild that trust all over again with serious commitment and sincerity.

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After the cat ate the first fish...you still want the fish seller to be comfortable that the cat is guarding her remaining fish...wedon

One thing I have discovered about marriage is to be sincere with yourself and expect the worst from your partner. When I newly married I tried to carry everyone along and make corrections where necessary but I find out that the more I correct my partner the worst she become. More so if you have a partner who believes he must win in any arguments. My only advise for you is to cry unto God for help and reposition your self spiritually and engage yourself I some spiritual exercise that will convince your spouse that you are genuinely repented. Nothing breaks a man down more than what you did.If my spouse break the trust I have for her I will forgive but she can never get it back, because I will configure my mind to expect the worst fro her so that I can live longer.

in the middle east youd pprobably be stoned to death. thank God this is Nigeria so whatever comes your way take it in good faith. wishing you the very worst outcome though.

Yorubest:
Hmmm. Thanks for all the advise. I was wrong but there's nothing happening again. Although I used to talk to him fondly about my boss and things in the office which I'm sure makes him not want to trust me. My boss was also at my wedding and he gave us presents and cash which he is aware of.

What can I do now? The trust is gone.

This matter just plunged down south

Sleeps with wife steady

Dashes husband money at d wedding

In what oda way wld u wanna be humiliated

I feel sorry for the dude.......

Sincerely, He will never trust you anymore,not this life.

Rubbish..I hope he kicks you out of the house olosho,you are indeed very cheap,you lucky it's not me you r married to,gerarahiamen women like you disgust me.

Yorubest:
Good morning family

I can't sleep and cried all night

I've been married for 3yrs with a son

Before getting married I dated my husband for less than a year and everything was fine.

I don't want to bore you with the details but before getting married, my husband and I agreed to be honest and tell each other everything. I told him about my previous affairs and he didn't have problem with it but I couldn't tell him about the one with my present GM because I still work with him.

Somehow, he got to find out through one his friends who knows my boss. It's not as if he was told the details but he came from a meeting last Friday asking so many questions. It was about my boss and I had to confess to him.

Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

My husband keeps saying he doesn't trust me anymore. He's stopped touching me and he rarely talks to me and raises his voice now

He has a good job that pays well and his salary dwarfs mine but I love the job and my career.

What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please

royalroy

You've had previous affairs?

Why do you keep cheating on your husband after just 3 years?

Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job


Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans

Dyt calm down. Was the fling after she got married? If so, don't expect easy forgiveness especially if the husband has been faithful. If it was before the marriage, then I can forgive easily. Speaking for myself.

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dragonking3:
You are a slut. Your husband should dump you asap. Shioor

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Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job


Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans

Is This One A Human Being?A Woman Lies About An Affair With Her Married Boss And You Are Typing Rubbish...Na Wa!

ajealadick:
Op, I feel your pain. But the truth is if you calculatedly endure this and try to tell your husband that you didn't tell him because you still work there and you don't want to make him feel small whenever he comes around your office and see your boss. But i truly hope you ain't playing behind with the boss anymore. Try talking to him or any close person who can help you understand the issue.

The best thing is to quit that job. That alone will mean a lot to the husband as a huge sacrifice since the husband is working. Then she can leverage on her working experience to start looking for another job or find a small business to do pending the time she will get another job. As long as she's still working there, the probability of it happening again is very high.

Yorubest:
Good morning family

I can't sleep and cried all night

I've been married for 3yrs with a son

Before getting married I dated my husband for less than a year and everything was fine.

I don't want to bore you with the details but before getting married, my husband and I agreed to be honest and tell each other everything. I told him about my previous affairs and he didn't have problem with it but I couldn't tell him about the one with my present GM because I still work with him.

Somehow, he got to find out through one his friends who knows my boss. It's not as if he was told the details but he came from a meeting last Friday asking so many questions. It was about my boss and I had to confess to him.

Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

My husband keeps saying he doesn't trust me anymore. He's stopped touching me and he rarely talks to me and raises his voice now

He has a good job that pays well and his salary dwarfs mine but I love the job and my career.

What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please

royalroy

Why did u not tell him abt ur boss wen u were telling him about past relationships? That means u were still having an affair with ur boss at that time. I would stop trusting u too if I was in his shoes. Best thing for u to do is to quit that job.