opibycar1:
thanks for the advice babe. I appreciate

blacktallest:


No no. Nobody stops you from being "over busy and thinking outside love". Infact go ahead. The least you could do is tell her that a man is "over busy and is thinking outside love" so make love park well.

Intact to solve the whole matter, don't have a companion. Shikena

Slimzjoe:
Every man with his problem.

All I want is for her to return my calls

kimbra:
Jack, I didn't quote you base on op's story but a false submission you made.

Is obvious op allowed her ego take the best of her. And from what she said: she happens to be a fan of calls. It's not that she doesn't reciprocate but the guy doesn't understand her love language.

This statement is 100% true "If you love someone you would make out time to call". My ex would only call when he feels like but whenever I do he takes my calls...I used to wonder how much effort it takes to call somebody, if I complain he goes " You of all people should know how busy my schedule is". It was depressing and annoying till I found out he was a serial cheat. Would I say he ever loved me? Hell No!. The best she could do is to move on, the dude doesn't understand what she desires most.

Jacksparr0w127:
what false submission?

Your story is interesting but won't change nothing. I still stand by my point; he could be busy and maybe he's the type thaT likes to enjoy his time alone after a stressful day

Jacksparr0w127:
A man can be over busy the last problem on his mind will be love or whatever it's called

My sister, they are not even married. They're just BF and GF. Niggahz got a lot ahead of him to catch up with. Ain't nothing gonna hold him down

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

blacktallest:


You have said it finish....gbam!!! Nah so e dey take start. Boyfriend go turn husband one day. Them no dey teach adult how to use left hand for old age. You get the character now, e go follow you. Just pray you have or meet a Lady who understands you cause many of us won't even when there is no cause for alarm. Our brain no dey strong for some kin things, no matter the gragra.

phintohlar:
ur own even beta babe.. My own guy go dey online on whatsapp & will find it so hard 2 say hi,he dey there dey form 1 kind fine guy wey i no understand,acting like an Oxygen dat i needed him 2 breath or something.. Abeg make i face my work jare, stylist toh bad..

Jacksparr0w127:
You girls are just MFckin greedy lot. All you lot care about is yourselves. You don't even wanna know how busy a hustling niggah could be. All you want is 24hrs attention. Really bad

So a dude that tries to call 'Atleast' once a day isn't caring enough? Even though he calls more on days he isn't busy. Smh

You bunch are just confused lot

Nobody should quote me. If you don't like my comment, kill yourself

Twaci:
lol, saying this for likes?

Jacksparr0w127:
The likes will pay my bill

Twaci:
Was wondering same

nikkyharry:



The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

Jacksparr0w127:
You girls are just MFckin greedy lot. All you lot care about is yourselves. You don't even wanna know how busy a hustling niggah could be. All you want is 24hrs attention. Really bad

So a dude that tries to call 'Atleast' once a day isn't caring enough? Even though he calls more on days he isn't busy. Smh

You bunch are just confused lot

Nobody should quote me. If you don't like my comment, kill yourself

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

Jacksparr0w127:
But this is not about me na. Hian!

But if you're my lady, I'll run you down with calls and attention

daewoorazer:
Let me tell you the blatant truth


Your ego is what will finish you up.

So u have a call'o'meter to measure his calls before u reciprocate.

Your bf is just like me.... I'd never call u once I realise ur childish mentality... Him still try pass me sef...


Yeye


#zanga

daewoorazer:
Let me tell you the blatant truth


Your ego is what will finish you up.

So u have a call'o'meter to measure his calls before u reciprocate.

Your bf is just like me.... I'd never call u once I realise ur childish mentality... Him still try pass me sef...


Yeye


#zanga

Masterclass32:
Some people are too afraid (or is it emotionally immature) to open their hearts to another. You can never really 'connect' with them. Once your closeness or intimacy starts to grow to a certain level, they just turn cold and shut you out for no reason. Its frustrating. What's more? The harder you try to show them that you really care, the more they give you the cold shoulder (as in very chilled shoulder). Relationships with such people actually go nowhere.

Sometimes the cause might be the individual's belief ( false belief) that they're inherently 'unworthy' of love. It actually scares the living daylight out of them to open up their hearts to recieve they love they need. Being abused as a child can also produce such result in some people. Also witnessing one of their parents cheat\abuse the other can also make them morbidly afraid of trusting members of the opposite sex. At other times its just the plain stupidity and immaturity of the person. Bottom line: relationships with such people are never fulfilling. And its not your job to fix them.

I will suggest: talk to him again, make him understand how his actions hurt you. Give him another chance. If he doesn't change after that, then pull the plug on the relationship. Your happiness is paramount.

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

daewoorazer:
Let me tell you the blatant truth


Your ego is what will finish you up.

So u have a call'o'meter to measure his calls before u reciprocate.

Your bf is just like me.... I'd never call u once I realise ur childish mentality... Him still try pass me sef...


Yeye


#zanga