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Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Safiaa(f): 11:29am On Mar 11, 2017
Now, I know that know that not everybody is going to agree with me, but this is strictly my opinion. This is a thread strictly dedicated to the ladies.
If you're a virgin, kudos to you! I applaud you as it takes a lot of self control. However, this thread is not aimed at you.

We all have a past, and as we know most ladies these days are sexual active. A lot of girls are sexual active from the age of 18 +. I don't have time for hypocrisy on this thread, because we all know what happens behind closed doors. We live in a society where women are not allowed to be comfortable sexually. We are shamed for talking about our sex lives and labelled with derogatory names for having more than the average sex partners in our lives. This needs to stop and it starts from us.

The reality is that women enjoy sex just as much as men do. Probably even more. If you like to have sex, make yourself happy and do you! If you have slept with more than 5 men in your life, so what? Now i'm not promoting women to sleep with every tom dick and harry, but stop with the lies! Stop lying to your partners about sleeping with 1 or 2 guys when you know its 6 or 7. Be real and live in your truth. I'd rather someone judge me for my truth than for my lies. Stop with the pretense. If we accept our sexuality more, we could be looking at a positive change. Its okay to like sex, it doesn't make you a hoe! It's okay if you've had more than 1 or 2 sexual partners, doesn't make you promiscuous. STOP TRYING TO FIT IN WHAT SOCIETY WANTS YOU TO BE, BE YOURSELF!!!!

There's someone out there, who will love you for you.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 11:38am On Mar 11, 2017
For me, I have nothing to hide. If you don't like my past then use the exit door!.

One silly ass said she has had one boyfriend and she's actively dating.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Safiaa(f): 11:43am On Mar 11, 2017
I really don't understand. We need to stop with the lies. !
kimbra:
For me, I have nothing to hide. If you don't like my past then use the exit door!.

One silly ass said she has had one boyfriend and she's actively dating.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 11:47am On Mar 11, 2017
Safiaa:
I really don't understand. We need to stop with the lies. !
People are afraid of what others will say. Guys are also guilty, ask them of their body count and it's always 2 or 3. What happened to the rest?. grin

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by EWAagoyin(m): 11:52am On Mar 11, 2017
proud of bodycount abi.... only a prostitute will have more 2 body count before marriage... as a woman u need to have respect for ur body.... only male dogs sleep around the females don't.... dere is different between a male and a female.... u don't sleep around because u like sex.... u sleep around because u think its right and that's what makes u to be an in-house olosho... stop the rubbish.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by daewoorazer(m): 11:52am On Mar 11, 2017
Safiaa:
Now, I know that know that not everybody is going to agree with me, but this is strictly my opinion. This is a thread strictly dedicated to the ladies.
If you're a virgin, kudos to you! I applaud you as it takes a lot of self control. However, this thread is not aimed at you.

We all have a past, and as we know most ladies these days are sexual active. A lot of girls are sexual active from the age of 18 +. I don't have time for hypocrisy on this thread, because we all know what happens behind closed doors. We live in a society where women are not allowed to be sexually liberated. We are shamed for talking about our sex lives and labelled with derogatory names for having more than the average sex partners in our lives. This needs to stop and it starts from us.

The reality is that women enjoy sex just as much as men do. Probably even more. If you like to have sex, make yourself happy and do you! If you have slept with more than 5 men in your life, so what? Now i'm not promoting women to sleep with every tom dick and harry, but stop with the lies! Stop lying to your partners about sleeping with 1 or 2 guys when you know its 6 or 7. Be real and live in your truth. I'd rather someone judge me for my truth than for my lies. Stop with the pretense. If we accept our sexuality more, we could be looking at a positive change. Its okay to like sex, it doesn't make you a hoe! It's okay if you've had more than 1 or 2 sexual partners, doesn't make you promiscuous. STOP TRYING TO FIT IN WHAT SOCIETY WANTS YOU TO BE, BE YOURSELF!!!!

There's someone out there, who will love you for you.



To show us u mean business, tell us ur body count.... Lest we believe ur own body count is low yet encouraging such wink

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by TheSonOfMark(m): 11:52am On Mar 11, 2017
kimbra:
For me, I have nothing to hide. If you don't like my past then use the exit door!.

One silly ass said she has had one boyfriend and she's actively dating.

What if she's actually right? Technically she might have dated one guy; that's if you exclude the probable numerous one-night-stands and the not-so-defined groping and humping with random guys at birthday parties.

The annoying thing isn't even the high body counts but folks who have sex outside the confines of defined relationships. A lot of ladies - scratch that, they aren't ladies- are increasingly more open to the idea of wild, random sex in drunk _orgies.

A girl who's open to casual sex is what most guys can't tolerate, not one who's had it with someone/people she dated.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by TheSonOfMark(m): 12:01pm On Mar 11, 2017
kimbra:
Guys are also guilty, ask them of their body count and it's always 2 or 3. What happened to the rest?. grin

Have you really interacted with guys? Guys exaggerate their body count. Even virgin boys or relatively inexperienced ones would brag about having threesomes_ with girls just so their friends would pat them repeatedly on the back with ego-swelling statements like ," Bad guy! Dude, you're the real MVP!"
Tell a group of friends you've had just three or two women in your life and they'd look at you condescendingly like you're a half-man or something.

The bottom line is, reducing body count is nearly entirely a female thing.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Safiaa(f): 12:01pm On Mar 11, 2017
I have absolutely nothing to hide.I don't live in a life full of pretense. I live in my truth and i'm happy with that. My future husband will definitely know the amount of guys I've had sex with. That's what i'm trying to encourage other ladies to do.
daewoorazer:



To show us u mean business, tell us ur body count.... Lest we believe ur own body count is low yet encouraging such wink

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 12:10pm On Mar 11, 2017
what is a body count?

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Safiaa(f): 12:13pm On Mar 11, 2017
You sound very ignorant. Do you what the definition of a prostitute is? Not once in my post did i advise women to sleep around. I wont argue with you because you're entitled to your opinion.
EWAagoyin:
proud of bodycount abi.... only a prostitute will have more 2 body count before marriage... as a woman u need to have respect for ur body.... only male dogs sleep around the females don't.... dere is different between a male and a female.... u don't sleep around because u like sex.... u sleep around because u think its right and that's what makes u to be an in-house olosho... stop the rubbish.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by iamdurent(m): 12:14pm On Mar 11, 2017
EWAagoyin:
proud of bodycount abi.... only a prostitute will have more 2 body count before marriage... as a woman u need to have respect for ur body.... only male dogs sleep around the females don't.... dere is different between a male and a female.... u don't sleep around because u like sex.... u sleep around because u think its right and that's what makes u to be an in-house olosho... stop the rubbish.
bro. You even try say 2. Zero sef. All this girls of nowadays, no shame.

Imagine d idiot comparing herself to men.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 12:14pm On Mar 11, 2017
TheSonOfMark:


Have you really interacted with guys? Guys exaggerate their body count. Even virgin boys or relatively inexperienced ones would brag about having threesomes_ with girls just so their friends would pat them repeatedly on the back with ego-swelling statements like ," Bad guy! Dude, you're the real MVP!"
Tell a group of friends you've had just had just three or two women in your life and they'd look at you condescendingly like you're a half-man or something.

The bottom line is, reducing body count is nearly entirely a female thing.
Guys do. Some would even say they're virgins, just so you don't judge them. grin

The female folks do it mostly. I don't want my past hunting me and the few guys have dated where not casual relationships so I tend to open up more easily.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Safiaa(f): 12:14pm On Mar 11, 2017
The amount of people one has had sexual intercourse with.
Love Machine:
what is a body count?

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 12:16pm On Mar 11, 2017
iamdurent:
shut ur mouth there! Before i slap it

Ashawos everywhere.

You even have guts to post this nonsense. Your mother must hav been proud of her body count. Stupid girl
Why you dey find trouble?
Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 11, 2017
Safiaa:
The amount of people one has had sexual intercourse with.
Alright.
Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by iamdurent(m): 12:18pm On Mar 11, 2017
Safiaa:
I have absolutely nothing to hide.I don't live in a life full of pretense. I live in my truth and i'm happy with that. My future husband will definitely know the amount of guys I've had sex with. That's what i'm trying to encourage other ladies to do.

You had better tell him!!
Before he wastes millions of naira to marry a hoe with wide toto.

P.S - Keep ur perversion to yourself and stop "encouraging" ladies to follow ur path.

Its obvious u lack home training.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by vedah: 12:19pm On Mar 11, 2017
iamdurent:
shut ur mouth there! Before i slap it

Ashawos everywhere.

You even have guts to post this nonsense. Your mother must hav been proud of her body count. Stupid girl

Adults are talking, and funny how this boy comes to insult. Slap her mouth through the phonegrin

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by iamdurent(m): 12:21pm On Mar 11, 2017
Love Machine:
Why you dey find trouble?
how is it trouble?

While growing up. I can remember my mother warning my sisters to avoid fornication. She was stressing it to d ladies even more than we guys.
A woman is not supposed to fvck around. But they never learn..
This idiot even carry her useless phone and be typing "Ladies be proud of ur body count" . No shame again.
Lord pls no give me ashawo as wife

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 12:21pm On Mar 11, 2017
Once your body count exceeds what I expected, you loose my respect and love, don't expect me to go though cos I'll use u and then use the exit door like Kimbra said... It won't hurt a bit but u will realise you're only creating ur own path of destruction!

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 12:22pm On Mar 11, 2017
TheSonOfMark:


What if she's actually right? Technically she might have dated one guy; that's if you exclude the probable numerous one-night-stands and the not-so-defined groping and humping with random guys at birthday parties.

The annoying thing isn't even the high body counts but folks who have sex outside the confines of defined relationships. A lot of ladies - scratch that, they aren't ladies- are increasingly more open to the idea of wild, random sex in drunk _orgies.

A girl who's open to casual sex is what most guys can't tolerate, not one who's had it with someone/people she dated.
When I see one who's being truthful I would know.

Her current age should be a determining factor, the year she had this first relationship should be considered. If sex was involved how long has she been celibating and would she say none of her specs has asked her out after her first relationship?. most of them lie blindly to boast their ego or feel better off.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by EWAagoyin(m): 12:23pm On Mar 11, 2017
Safiaa:
You sound very ignorant. Do you what the definition of a prostitute is? Not once in my post did i advise women to sleep around. I wont argue with you because you're entitled to your opinion.
having 7 to 6 bodycount according to ur post ain't prostitution abi...u girls like to self denial too much.... just shut up and continue abeg.... don't compare urself or body to that of a male dere is difference... female body has value males don't.... ur body should be sacred not public.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 12:24pm On Mar 11, 2017
iamdurent:
how is it trouble?

While growing up. I can remember my mother warning my sisters to avoid fornication. She was stressing it to d ladies even more than we guys.
A woman is not supposed to fvck around. But they never learn..
This idiot even carry her useless phone and be typing "Ladies be proud of ur body count" . No shame again.
Lord pls no give me ashawo as wife
Is it because she isnt as secretive as most pro?

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by vedah: 12:24pm On Mar 11, 2017
iamdurent:


You had better tell him!!
Before he wastes millions of naira to marry a hoe with wide toto.

P.S - Keep ur perversion to yourself and stop "encouraging" ladies to follow ur path.

Its obvious u lack home training.
I hope you'll appreciate it when your wife lies about her body count.

And please stop calling a kettle black, you showed you had no basic home training by calling her mother. All these kids!

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Safiaa(f): 12:24pm On Mar 11, 2017
LMAO

You're entitled to your opinion, as well as i'm entitled to encourage ladies in what i believe.
Hopefully you'll marry a lady who doesn't divide her body count by 5 and substract by 10.


Wake up, this is 2017 !!
iamdurent:


You had better tell him!!
Before he wastes millions of naira to marry a hoe with wide toto.

P.S - Keep ur perversion to yourself and stop "encouraging" ladies to follow ur path.

Its obvious u lack home training.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 12:25pm On Mar 11, 2017
SorftWerk:
Once your body count exceeds what I expected, you loose my respect and love, don't expect me to go though cos I'll use u and then use the exit door like Kim.bra said... It won't hurt a bit but u will realise you're only creating ur own path of destruction!
For me I don't have issues with that. I tend to be very truthful because tomorrow one ex I didn't tell my husband of could come pestering me and in order to avoid friction of any sort I tend to discuss them.

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by EWAagoyin(m): 12:25pm On Mar 11, 2017
iamdurent:
bro. You even try say 2. Zero sef. All this girls of nowadays, no shame.

Imagine d idiot comparing herself to men.

u dey mind dem.... trying to make dere useless actions seems right

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by daewoorazer(m): 12:25pm On Mar 11, 2017
Safiaa:
I have absolutely nothing to hide.I don't live in a life full of pretense. I live in my truth and i'm happy with that. My future husband will definitely know the amount of guys I've had sex with. That's what i'm trying to encourage other ladies to do.





Then you have limited the lesson intended to ur FUTURE husband undecided

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Nobody: 12:28pm On Mar 11, 2017
EWAagoyin:
proud of bodycount abi.... only a prostitute will have more 2 body count before marriage... as a woman u need to have respect for ur body.... only male dogs sleep around the females don't.... dere is different between a male and a female.... u don't sleep around because u like sex.... u sleep around because u think its right and that's what makes u to be an in-house olosho... stop the rubbish.
You missed on her line of thought.
Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by iamdurent(m): 12:30pm On Mar 11, 2017
vedah:
I hope you'll appreciate it when your wife lies about her body count.

And please stop calling a kettle black, you showed you had no basic home training by calling her mother. All these kids!
lie about what? If i see virgin toto, i no go know?



Yes, i called her mother and would do it a thousand times. When a lady misbehaves in public, who is to blame? Her mother!

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Re: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by EWAagoyin(m): 12:31pm On Mar 11, 2017
kimbra:
You missed on her line of thought.
why open ur leg to most guys that comes ur way in the first place if u can't hold it get married for God sake

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