SNOWCREAM:



Bro why are you crying over spilled milk? Man up. It's your fault you allowed her chance to make up with another guy during your brawl. You know you love her, why push her away for 2 weeks. You think she go dey cry, dey call you about abi?

Now she's shown you she has an alternative incase you fvck up so deal with her like you're never gonna fvck up, if you don't want to do it like that, you too get a female friend and hangout with her frequently (do it to her knowledge, let her know she's just a friend, if possible introduce them to each other). If she wants you she'll understand the game and reduce the interaction with the alternative guy, at that point you too will adjust.

Good luck

guy surfree na, if only pple sugarcoat the truth, i believe pple that jump into lagoons would reduce drastically

JOEFY:
Hi. This a true story and I will really appreciate mature advice

I have been dating my gf for a while now (over 4 years). we broke up in September last year due to unreconciled differences among st others. Within 2 weeks of breaking up, she went out with a friend and during going out the friend hooked her up with a friend (who is 8 years older than her). My GF and the guy started talking and where even discussing marriage. After 3 weeks, I started talking with my GF and realized I wanted her back, it was a struggle but she agreed to leave the guy (they had not kissed nor had any sexual encounter in this time). roll forward 6 months later, I still feel she likes the guy coz the guy keeps calling her and asks if she has changed her mind.

I donno what to do and I need help with figuring out what to do. I told her not to hang out with her friend who hooked her up with the guy, but she says she cant, she even went out with him recently, which I got upset about

This issue has affected us and now we are not even in a stable relationship. she is effectively my ex. What should I do

Move on n let her be

Bro, how much are you worth?

pappisco:

But u just indicated "why is he crying over spilled milk" yet u still giving him strategy to use.why are u contradicting urself? smh...

lol i decided to help, then i edit it

@op ...relationship is by choice not by force ...


My 2 cent

Michellekabod:

Sweetheart, she is an ex for a reason. Why chase her a second time? I believe you will meet someone better

you wrote wisdom...God bless u.
everyone is quick to blame the OP...not the partner who upon two weeks of breakup found someone else...it shows she never loved him as he loves her...
OP move on...better days ahead

JOEFY:
Hi. This a true story and I will really appreciate mature advice

I have been dating my gf for a while now (over 4 years). we broke up in September last year due to unreconciled differences among st others. Within 2 weeks of breaking up, she went out with a friend and during going out the friend hooked her up with a friend (who is 8 years older than her). My GF and the guy started talking and where even discussing marriage. After 3 weeks, I started talking with my GF and realized I wanted her back, it was a struggle but she agreed to leave the guy (they had not kissed nor had any sexual encounter in this time). roll forward 6 months later, I still feel she likes the guy coz the guy keeps calling her and asks if she has changed her mind.

I donno what to do and I need help with figuring out what to do. I told her not to hang out with her friend who hooked her up with the guy, but she says she cant, she even went out with him recently, which I got upset about

This issue has affected us and now we are not even in a stable relationship. she is effectively my ex. What should I do

Move on.........She's gone already.

Go and look for a better person. Until you meet someone new, you'd always think your ex-girlfriend is the best thing on earth.

Truth is that she's not, the thought of seeing her with another man only makes you jealous, reason you're sad.


Just move ahead already, and don't let anyone make you feel bad. You're both at fault. If she can ignore her 4 yr old relationship, then let her go.

SNOWCREAM:



Bro why are you crying over spilled milk? Man up. It's your fault you allowed her chance to make up with another guy during your brawl. You know you love her, why push her away for 2 weeks. You think she go dey cry, dey call you about abi?

Now she's shown you she has an alternative incase you fvck up so deal with her like you're never gonna fvck up, if you don't want to do it like that, you too get a female friend and hangout with her frequently (do it to her knowledge, let her know she's just a friend, if possible introduce them to each other). If she wants you she'll understand the game and reduce the interaction with the alternative guy, at that point you too will adjust.

Good luck

I would have subscribed to your comment but I don't like the part where you advised him to get a female friend and hangout with her frequently just for the game? That's not cool. Why drag an innocent girl into the mess only to use and dispose her after he straightens things out with his lover? If he must get another girl then he should let go of the one he has issues with. He can't eat his cake and have it

Bumbae1:
Next time dont be too hasty to dump her when she became your ex the first time
You move right on...
Now ujust dey yama yourself .. why? In 3 weeks she already talking marriage with a guy that calls her constantly when she around you right..

Be smart
Let it go .. as e sweet reach you will find sweeter

I love you dear, what a response. Hope you have a great relationship

Suspect33:
guy surfree na, if only pple sugarcoat the truth, i believe pple that jump into lagoons would reduce drastically

lol this one won't jump

FvckShiT:


whåt då fūçk dō you fúçking gåin frõm fúçking úr gf? if nöt why dã fúçk dö yöú stíll kéëp fúçking hër?

Nairaland makes me happy when ever i'm down! Ur comment make be like

If u go ahead wit that relationship, u've bred a space 4 a concubine cos she will surely return 2 her vomit after marriage.

4GET HER

TinaAnita:


I would have subscribed to your comment but I don't like the part where you advised him to get a female friend and hangout with her frequently just for the game? That's not cool. Why drag an innocent girl into the mess only to use and dispose her after he straightens things out with his lover? If he must get another girl then he should let go of the one he has issues with. He can't eat his cake and have it

Okay it doesn't necessarily has to be a new friend, if he has old female friends... Well. Just an opinion..

Move on Brush..it'll never be the same even if she decides to forget about the other guy. Abandon the mission! Stand up and go get a better girl, there many fishes in the river

You will do Nothing!!

You have said "she's effectively your ex" with a tone finality, so you shouldn't expect us to advise you again.

Just move on.

Op don enter moving on is hard but that's the only way out.

they there they kill your self

rossyc:
You don't know the value of what you have until u loose it..Most guys can't let go of there ego but immediately they feel the gal has moved on they now realize her worth.. Well all u can do is try to be nice and show her u still love her if she's yours she will come back but if she decides to move on with the other guy then let her be..

Really moving on just after 2 weeks of breakup? If you are a Judge, innocent people will be behind bars.

JOEFY:
Hi. This a true story and I will really appreciate mature advice

I have been dating my gf for a while now (over 4 years). we broke up in September last year due to unreconciled differences among st others. Within 2 weeks of breaking up, she went out with a friend and during going out the friend hooked her up with a friend (who is 8 years older than her). My GF and the guy started talking and where even discussing marriage. After 3 weeks, I started talking with my GF and realized I wanted her back, it was a struggle but she agreed to leave the guy (they had not kissed nor had any sexual encounter in this time). roll forward 6 months later, I still feel she likes the guy coz the guy keeps calling her and asks if she has changed her mind.

I donno what to do and I need help with figuring out what to do. I told her not to hang out with her friend who hooked her up with the guy, but she says she cant, she even went out with him recently, which I got upset about

This issue has affected us and now we are not even in a stable relationship. she is effectively my ex. What should I do

guy go and make money and you would get tired of women ... as for your gf am advice for you is to turn her to a sex mate....bro when next u wanna fu*k her buy ACTION BiTTERS

@ OP,how old are U and ur Gfriend? 2, love is not by FORCE,let her go,she's not ur type.

Then don't force it, let her go where her heart is. its always good when someone have sincere love for you than you forcing yourself on them. The aftermath negative is usually worst. The hurt you get no is better compare to havoc and damage you'd get when you force yourself on someone who doesn't love you. Let love flow freely. And also, work on yourself there might be something you're doing that she don't like. Well love is crazy, there might not be a thing you do that is wrong and yet her heart might not be with you. Just let her go, better woman will eventually be with you.

op, why you they disgrace guys now
pls build your balls first before venturing into any relationship

all u this lover boy, una matter they always they tire me

JOEFY:
Hi. This a true story and I will really appreciate mature advice

I have been dating my gf for a while now (over 4 years). we broke up in September last year due to unreconciled differences among st others. Within 2 weeks of breaking up, she went out with a friend and during going out the friend hooked her up with a friend (who is 8 years older than her). My GF and the guy started talking and where even discussing marriage. After 3 weeks, I started talking with my GF and realized I wanted her back, it was a struggle but she agreed to leave the guy (they had not kissed nor had any sexual encounter in this time). roll forward 6 months later, I still feel she likes the guy coz the guy keeps calling her and asks if she has changed her mind.

I donno what to do and I need help with figuring out what to do. I told her not to hang out with her friend who hooked her up with the guy, but she says she cant, she even went out with him recently, which I got upset about

This issue has affected us and now we are not even in a stable relationship. she is effectively my ex. What should I do

You already answered your own question so why not move on.She stopped being your GF after you broke up due to reasons you said were un-reconciled differences.
She needs room to decide who she really wants and continuing with her may not help matters. Move on, if she comes back to you after deciding, fine, otherwise you already moved on.
Right now she's ur Ex and it's good you already know that.
This is my opinion.

such is life my brother

You dey date one babe for over 4 years nd you never marry her...

Giy.. U get mind shaa

bro pls leave her and move on biko or else u will get frustrated and jump inside the lagoon

JOEFY:
Hi. This a true story and I will really appreciate mature advice

I have been dating my gf for a while now (over 4 years). we broke up in September last year due to unreconciled differences among st others. Within 2 weeks of breaking up, she went out with a friend and during going out the friend hooked her up with a friend (who is 8 years older than her). My GF and the guy started talking and where even discussing marriage. After 3 weeks, I started talking with my GF and realized I wanted her back, it was a struggle but she agreed to leave the guy (they had not kissed nor had any sexual encounter in this time). roll forward 6 months later, I still feel she likes the guy coz the guy keeps calling her and asks if she has changed her mind.

I donno what to do and I need help with figuring out what to do. I told her not to hang out with her friend who hooked her up with the guy, but she says she cant, she even went out with him recently, which I got upset about

This issue has affected us and now we are not even in a stable relationship. she is effectively my ex. What should I do

If I were you, i would be happy. That bea is a not a wife material, in fact she's a slut. How can someone hook up with another guy just two weeks after a break up? No time for reflection or trying to see if things will be ironed out. A 4 years relationship for that matter. Only hoes do that. Kick her azz outta ya life niggure. Bumbea is a slut, period.

This is one reason why it's not cool to let issues linger before resolving them. If the other dude is really cool then there is no way she would let go of him. The fact that they are already discussing marriage poses a big threat to your relationship with her. I don't know whether to ask you to wait or move on.