nijaomegacode:


I was just afraid she might turn me down.

its beta to try dan nt to try at all! if u want sometin jst go for it! ladies ar nt difficult to get if u understand their methodology jst b urself arud dem n d'll lik u 4 who u ar!

Godswillnwaoma:
op how old are u

Correct question. The thing way I see tire me

I can see u watch too much telemundo that ur common sense didn't remind u that u are in a church to worship God.

lol, some comments here ehn fit make pesin kolo

Hmmm...u no even fear na ur church girl u wan straff...u c d problem we Christians have....

nijaomegacode:
Guys please help me out. I'm confused.
I love how you help people with their relationship headaches. May you be blessed. I hope you will be of help to me too.
There is this pretty girl I like so much. We are just church members and never spoke to each other but I look at her a lot whenever she is singing. She also stares at me. We can maintain eye contact for about 2minutes without saying a word to each other. Because I like her so much I decided to join the church's choir with the hope that I will get to talk to her but things were not different; at first I she smiles at me a lot and once told me she's happy with me around. I also told her I love her voice and she appears flattered. I decided to walk her home one night and we spoke at length, that night she told me she doesn't like about the choir members, she also complained to me about a guy in the choir that annoys her. I advised her try and get along with him. I also noticed that her dressing changed; she wears more make up and more sexy clothes. This went on for about 2 months. Recently, she begins to ignore me. She became unreceptive to my. For instance, there was a day she told everyone in the choir that she has a song to share with us. So everyone should come with his/ her phone to receive the song. I went to her to get the song but her action was not welcoming. She sent the as song after hesitating. She also didn't give me her phone to hold but gave another guy(which she has no interest in) to go with it and send the song himself. When she gave him, she looked at me (maybe to see my reaction).
With these signs I get it that she's not into me( maybe I'm wrong), but what confuses me is that this girl still stares at me and uses some of the words I use when I'm talking. She seems to be aware of my presence. As a matter of fact, she's the only in the entire congregation that looks straight into my eyes always. (Tried to avoid her gaze but if I happen to look in her direction, she look at me and she will quickly pretend as if she's looking at something beside me). I really need your opinion on this

Nigga ask her out and stop being childish..... As a matter of fact, she's so much in love with you. Just play your cards well.

crackhouse:
I can see u watch too much telemundo that ur common sense didn't remind u that u are in a church to worship God.

I think God will be happy if she falls in love with me. Since, I do not want to cheat her

As in!!!! All these epistle, no pick up line

dingbang:
Why is it so hard for you to say girl I really like you and I want you to be my girlfriend

jonaifame22:
Long story short,
U wasted too mch time and there is familiarity now, so u've been friendzoned live wth it and move on

Sup bro!!!!! My ASSidious broda!!!!!!! I replied ur rhyme joor.....let's continue!!!!

after all d GREEN LIGHT she is givin u bros .....or u dey wait 4 her make she com toast u??

luminouz:

Sup bro!!!!! My ASSidious broda!!!!!!! I replied ur rhyme joor.....let's continue!!!!

lol

Guess you never heard about "reverse psychology"

nijaomegacode:

I'm 26 and she's 24.

she gave a chance that night you walked her home and you didn't tell her what she was expecting from you, tell her that she is the woman you are dying for and you shall use all of your effort and wisdom to make her happy.

next time you see her say these words looking into her eyes and you shall see her shyness and respect for you, before she reply or you say anything, embrace her and keep her close and tight on you. You will be answered. she will thinj of you all night boy.

junido501:


Nigga ask her out and stop being childish..... As a matter of fact, she's so much in love with you. Just play your cards well.

don't waste your time asking her out!! she can make u her atm for the rest of your relationship with her

jaycyclopedia:
after all d GREEN LIGHT she is givin u bros .....or u dey wait 4 her make she com toast u??

Hmmmmm. I feel like she will reject me o. And if that happens, I won't forget it within short time because we will always meet in the church.

G12:
Guess you never heard about "reverse psychology"

What's it all about ?

darkandclear26:

don't waste your time asking her out!! she can make u her atm for the rest of your relationship with her

What do you suggest I do; ignore her?

Godswillnwaoma:
op how old are u

hahahahahhahhahahaha......
That's exactly what I was about to ask him.

nijaomegacode:
Guys please help me out. I'm confused.
I love how you help people with their relationship headaches. May you be blessed. I hope you will be of help to me too.
There is this pretty girl I like so much. We are just church members and never spoke to each other but I look at her a lot whenever she is singing. She also stares at me. We can maintain eye contact for about 2minutes without saying a word to each other. Because I like her so much I decided to join the church's choir with the hope that I will get to talk to her but things were not different; at first I she smiles at me a lot and once told me she's happy with me around. I also told her I love her voice and she appears flattered. I decided to walk her home one night and we spoke at length, that night she told me she doesn't like about the choir members, she also complained to me about a guy in the choir that annoys her. I advised her try and get along with him. I also noticed that her dressing changed; she wears more make up and more sexy clothes. This went on for about 2 months. Recently, she begins to ignore me. She became unreceptive to my. For instance, there was a day she told everyone in the choir that she has a song to share with us. So everyone should come with his/ her phone to receive the song. I went to her to get the song but her action was not welcoming. She sent the as song after hesitating. She also didn't give me her phone to hold but gave another guy(which she has no interest in) to go with it and send the song himself. When she gave him, she looked at me (maybe to see my reaction).
With these signs I get it that she's not into me( maybe I'm wrong), but what confuses me is that this girl still stares at me and uses some of the words I use when I'm talking. She seems to be aware of my presence. As a matter of fact, she's the only in the entire congregation that looks straight into my eyes always. (Tried to avoid her gaze but if I happen to look in her direction, she look at me and she will quickly pretend as if she's looking at something beside me). I really need your opinion on this

u joined d choristers to get her attention? sounds weird tho...i hope you can sing well.
Back to d issue...probably she was waiting for you to ask her out...and it wasn't forthcoming... dat might have got her pissed off.....my ideal is try ur best to find a way of talking to her....then ask her about d all reactions she has been showing off lately.......i hope it works

nijaomegacode:
Guys please help me out. I'm confused.
I love how you help people with their relationship headaches. May you be blessed. I hope you will be of help to me too.
There is this pretty girl I like so much. We are just church members and never spoke to each other but I look at her a lot whenever she is singing. She also stares at me. We can maintain eye contact for about 2minutes without saying a word to each other. Because I like her so much I decided to join the church's choir with the hope that I will get to talk to her but things were not different; at first I she smiles at me a lot and once told me she's happy with me around. I also told her I love her voice and she appears flattered. I decided to walk her home one night and we spoke at length, that night she told me she doesn't like about the choir members, she also complained to me about a guy in the choir that annoys her. I advised her try and get along with him. I also noticed that her dressing changed; she wears more make up and more sexy clothes. This went on for about 2 months. Recently, she begins to ignore me. She became unreceptive to my. For instance, there was a day she told everyone in the choir that she has a song to share with us. So everyone should come with his/ her phone to receive the song. I went to her to get the song but her action was not welcoming. She sent the as song after hesitating. She also didn't give me her phone to hold but gave another guy(which she has no interest in) to go with it and send the song himself. When she gave him, she looked at me (maybe to see my reaction).
With these signs I get it that she's not into me( maybe I'm wrong), but what confuses me is that this girl still stares at me and uses some of the words I use when I'm talking. She seems to be aware of my presence. As a matter of fact, she's the only in the entire congregation that looks straight into my eyes always. (Tried to avoid her gaze but if I happen to look in her direction, she look at me and she will quickly pretend as if she's looking at something beside me). I really need your opinion on this

Go and ask her out and tell her how much you like her...

For two straight months you have not asked her out no matter the attention she has given you....

Go and ask her out before she gets tired and goes for another guy...

Brother what the hell is wrong with ya
You've been crushing on her over 2 months without saying the word?? Common. its obvious she likes you too that is why she is always looking at you. Forget about her new behaviour towards u that seems a little off, The girl is getting fed up waiting for you to official say the magic words to her!! That is why she is acting like that and if u go on like this without telling her how u really feel deep down, Brother she is going to loose interest in you!! Please tell her how u feel!! There is no need to keep wasting your time and hers.

nijaomegacode:
Guys please help me out. I'm confused.
I love how you help people with their relationship headaches. May you be blessed. I hope you will be of help to me too.
There is this pretty girl I like so much. We are just church members and never spoke to each other but I look at her a lot whenever she is singing. She also stares at me. We can maintain eye contact for about 2minutes without saying a word to each other. Because I like her so much I decided to join the church's choir with the hope that I will get to talk to her but things were not different; at first I she smiles at me a lot and once told me she's happy with me around. I also told her I love her voice and she appears flattered. I decided to walk her home one night and we spoke at length, that night she told me she doesn't like about the choir members, she also complained to me about a guy in the choir that annoys her. I advised her try and get along with him. I also noticed that her dressing changed; she wears more make up and more sexy clothes. This went on for about 2 months. Recently, she begins to ignore me. She became unreceptive to my. For instance, there was a day she told everyone in the choir that she has a song to share with us. So everyone should come with his/ her phone to receive the song. I went to her to get the song but her action was not welcoming. She sent the as song after hesitating. She also didn't give me her phone to hold but gave another guy(which she has no interest in) to go with it and send the song himself. When she gave him, she looked at me (maybe to see my reaction).
With these signs I get it that she's not into me( maybe I'm wrong), but what confuses me is that this girl still stares at me and uses some of the words I use when I'm talking. She seems to be aware of my presence. As a matter of fact, she's the only in the entire congregation that looks straight into my eyes always. (Tried to avoid her gaze but if I happen to look in her direction, she look at me and she will quickly pretend as if she's looking at something beside me). I really need your opinion on this

Brother what the hell is wrong with ya
You've been crushing on her over 2 months without saying the word?? Common. its obvious she likes you too that is why she is always looking at you. Forget about her new behaviour towards u that seems a little off, The girl is getting fed up waiting for you to official say the magic words to her!! That is why she is acting like that and if u go on like this without telling her how u really feel deep down, Brother she is going to loose interest in you!! Please tell her how u feel!! There is no need to keep wasting your time and hers.

nijaomegacode:

Yes I had a girlfriend ( she went abroad so we couldn't reach ourselves again). I recently broke up with the Fourth one.

fourth one ? Are u competing with king Solomon?

I met the girl today. She was in a very bad mood so I couldn't ask her the ultimate question. But something happened when she was talking to the group ( which I am the only guy present); she unconsciously and continuously robs her chest ( you're right, I mean to say her breasts). When she noticed my eyes were fixed on hers, she became conscious of the act ( she didn't stop like you think she would) and continued. She then looked at me( still robbing the chest) and said 'I am sorry o for robbing my chest '. Before I could say anything, she continued with her discussion with the group explaining how God saved her life from the deadly hands of illness. As soon as the meeting finished, I tried to follow her and say something to her but she had gone before I could make it to the door. Honestly, I really really love her this girl but she seems to not show any other sign if interest in me except for the eye contact she maintains with me which have become very frequent and does not last more than 2 -3 seconds. Just keeping my good advisers updated. Your opinion to whether she's into me or not is welcome!

nijaomegacode:
I met the girl today. She was in a very bad mood so I couldn't ask her the ultimate question. But something happened when she was talking to the group ( which I am the only guy present); she unconsciously and continuously robs her chest ( you're right, I mean to say her breasts). When she noticed my eyes were fixed on hers, she became conscious of the act ( she didn't stop like you think she would) and continued. She then looked at me( still robbing the chest) and said 'I am sorry o for robbing my chest '. Before I could say anything, she continued with her discussion with the group explaining how God saved her life from the deadly hands of illness. As soon as the meeting finished, I tried to follow her and say something to her but she had gone before I could make it to the door. Honestly, I really really love her this girl but she seems to not show any other sign if interest in me except for the eye contact she maintains with me which have become very frequent and does not last more than 2 -3 seconds. Just keeping my good advisers updated. Your opinion to whether she's into me or not is welcome!

This guy, you be proper Ju man...I swear!
So even after all the hints, the green lights, the advice from experienced Nairalanders, you still dey ask questions?
Keep asking, ok?
I hope that when you finally gather liver to say whatever rubbish that will come out of your mouth to her, na slap she go scatter for your face for being too slow.
You too dull abeg!

Kingsteve:


This guy, you be proper Ju man...I swear!
So even after all the hints, the green lights, the advice from experienced Nairalanders, you still dey ask questions?
Keep asking, ok?
I hope that when you finally gather liver to say whatever rubbish that will come out of your mouth to her, na slap she go scatter for your face for being too slow.
You too dull abeg!

I didn't ask na. I just told my guys the update so they can know that I'm not taking their advice as a joke- I actually followed it.

dingbang:
Why is it so hard for you to say girl I really like you and I want you to be my girlfriend

The guy weak me i swear common i love you oya talk your own you can nt say.
Is it how u use to do?

Hmmmmm ,e no easy like that o. But now that I know that Nairalanders got my back, I'm going for her.

ikp120:
Guy you're a learner. She has given you all the "Abeg Fvck Me" and "Mad Over You" signs on earth but you no dey respond. Now she is just trying to get at you to see if you really care about her. That song sharing stuff is a clear pointer. She's trying to get over you.

Just call her and tell her that you wanna hang out with her on Xday (Xday is any convenient day you'll be free to hang out with her). Then play ya game well.

guy, you didnt say this in pidgin

nijaomegacode:
I met the girl today. She was in a very bad mood so I couldn't ask her the ultimate question. But something happened when she was talking to the group ( which I am the only guy present); she unconsciously and continuously robs her chest ( you're right, I mean to say her breasts). When she noticed my eyes were fixed on hers, she became conscious of the act ( she didn't stop like you think she would) and continued. She then looked at me( still robbing the chest) and said 'I am sorry o for robbing my chest '. Before I could say anything, she continued with her discussion with the group explaining how God saved her life from the deadly hands of illness. As soon as the meeting finished, I tried to follow her and say something to her but she had gone before I could make it to the door. Honestly, I really really love her this girl but she seems to not show any other sign if interest in me except for the eye contact she maintains with me which have become very frequent and does not last more than 2 -3 seconds. Just keeping my good advisers updated. Your opinion to whether she's into me or not is welcome!

am 18 now but the last time i felt like you would be 10 yrs ago or there about. You wouldnt die if you walked up to this woman and tell her how you feel for her. Come on, she is just a human being like you and you are even older than her. Besides, you have dated other gals in the past. Pls you are old enough so stop acting like a kid. To me sef, you have bleeped up because am sure by now she would have degraded you both in maturity and being man enough (confidence). All the same, i still dont think its too late. You can still reverse everything.

Ebuka2016:

am 18 now but the last time i felt like you would be 10 yrs ago or there about. You wouldnt die if you walked up to this woman and tell her how you feel for her. Come on, she is just a human being like you and you are even older than her. Besides, you have dated other gals in the past. Pls you are old enough so stop acting like a kid. To me sef, you have bleeped up because am sure by now she would have degraded you both in maturity and being man enough (confidence). All the same, i still dont think its too late. You can still reverse everything.

Brother! You have spoken well