Chicybez:
I cant imagine loving anyone except my Ex.

Chicybez:
your criticism is welcome and your matured advise will be appreciated.
After a break up with my Ex, its extremely difficult moving on. Lots of eligible spouse comes to me but i feel so empty for them and now, there are this two that wouldn't give up despite my continuous rejection in words and in my actions. After so many advise and counseling from my mum and friends to give some one a chance. i decided to just go straight to the point and marry instead of the dating phase but the problem is i dont know who to marry between this two guys. mind you, LOVE criteria is not on my bases because, i cant imagine loving anyone except my Ex , i just need to marry to fulfill an obligation. Pls how do i choose among the two guys

thanks

ThinkSmarter:
at the bolded, like seriously .
First love is not always the best love.
If u re a single lady and ur feelings about men re not polarised, u will be prone to depression.
Cuz, u will end up fantasizing about someone that doesn't give a fvck about u.
Run a test in ur brain concerning the men making advances to u and know the one that most satisfies ur requirements ....

[/quote]thanks Dear, but it seems like i might never heel, its been three years since we broke up and he is even married yet it always seems to be like yesterday to me. i have tried all i could but he is not just getting out of my head.[quote author=raydatluvs post=55931625]Ma'am it's important you heal first before attempting marriage else you might be worse off what you meet on that end..

Chicybez:
your criticism is welcome and your matured advise will be appreciated.
After a break up with my Ex, its extremely difficult moving on. Lots of eligible spouse comes to me but i feel so empty for them and now, there are this two that wouldn't give up despite my continuous rejection in words and in my actions. After so many advise and counseling from my mum and friends to give some one a chance. i decided to just go straight to the point and marry instead of the dating phase but the problem is i dont know who to marry between this two guys. mind you, LOVE criteria is not on my bases because, i cant imagine loving anyone except my Ex, i just need to marry to fulfill an obligation. Pls how do i choose among the two guys

thanks

Chicybez:
thanks Dear, but it seems like i might never heel, its been three years since we broke up and he is even married yet it always seems to be like yesterday to me. i have tried all i could but he is not just getting out of my head.

Chicybez:
your criticism is welcome and your matured advise will be appreciated.
After a break up with my Ex, its extremely difficult moving on. Lots of eligible spouse comes to me but i feel so empty for them and now, there are this two that wouldn't give up despite my continuous rejection in words and in my actions. After so many advise and counseling from my mum and friends to give some one a chance. i decided to just go straight to the point and marry instead of the dating phase but the problem is i dont know who to marry between this two guys. mind you, LOVE criteria is not on my bases because, i cant imagine loving anyone except my Ex, i just need to marry to fulfill an obligation. Pls how do i choose among the two guys

thanks

OLAJADON:

My advice
Just stay away from any form of relationship for now either marriage or dating since u still have feeling for your ex because if you get married just because of hearsay, you know the rest
Divorce is very common now I pray you don't be a victim of one. Give yourself time, you will find love again

Chicybez:
your criticism is remember that ur ex av gone to be with another lady so sister pls u need to move on with ur life,and remeber dt u cant marry cos of ur mum or whoever so try to develop the love u giv to ur ex and try give d same to one of the two God will help uwelcome and your matured advise will be appreciated.
After a break up with my Ex, its extremely difficult moving on. Lots of eligible spouse comes to me but i feel so empty for them and now, there are this two that wouldn't give up despite my continuous rejection in words and in my actions. After so many advise and counseling from my mum and friends to give some one a chance. i decided to just go straight to the point and marry instead of the dating phase but the problem is i dont know who to marry between this two guys. mind you, LOVE criteria is not on my bases because, i cant imagine loving anyone except my Ex, i just need to marry to fulfill an obligation. Pls how do i choose among the two guys

thanks

daylyt:
Hmmm..

Love is not a criteria

You just wanna jump into marriage

I think you should take your time and get over your ex first.

I feel sorry for those 2 guys chasing after you..

demgo:
so for how long should she stay away? Remember her ex is gone for 3years now. The more she don't do anything to counter the situation, to come out of her torture the more she remains in it. This is a psychological issue hope you understand how it works. Thanks all the same. Also remember she won't be getting any younger.

OLAJADON:

so are you suggesting she pick one of the guys that she doesn't love. you as a guy, u know what use to happen in situation when one of the spouse don't love the other.
well I pray it works out with what you have said.

Chicybez:
your criticism is welcome and your matured advise will be appreciated.
After a break up with my Ex, its extremely difficult moving on. Lots of eligible spouse comes to me but i feel so empty for them and now, there are this two that wouldn't give up despite my continuous rejection in words and in my actions. After so many advise and counseling from my mum and friends to give some one a chance. i decided to just go straight to the point and marry instead of the dating phase but the problem is i dont know who to marry between this two guys. mind you, LOVE criteria is not on my bases because, i cant imagine loving anyone except my Ex, i just need to marry to fulfill an obligation. Pls how do i choose among the two guys

thanks