ZarZar:


I told you this before, not all introverts are the same. I know I'm not dull nor do I lack communication skills. I talk a lot, only after I've warmed up to people. Let's say I just entered a room full of people, right? My initial response would be to sit back, size up everyone...then talk. I need to "study" people to know how to relate to them, on their level. The more I don't like someone, the quieter I get around them. Mind you, I'm only that way around people I don't particularly like. If the conversation is just right & I like you, I can talk a doughnut ring around you So yeah, your perception is wrong. Another thing, there's a big difference between introversion & shyness. Perhaps you've met shyness people, not introverts. Introvert means one does socialize & be talkative, but they need space afterwards to "refuel". Because social activity drains our energy. Personally I'm not socially awkward. I can hold my own to the point where people want me around all the time. But I can't do it. I remember one time a friend called me, requesting that I spend some time with her, after I've just been at her house My instant reaction was irritation. I thought, why? Does she think I'm a machine or what? But then I realized it's been A COUPLE OF MONTHS since I've been there. To me it feels like it was just yesterday. So you're somewhat right when you say you have to force "us" to do any form of CONSTANT anything. We need down time.

Then give yourself another name rather than an introvert

FreeSpirited:
Naso

Lolz.... Oya na

forMom:
shior which fart does not smell

anty mine

firstking01:
Then give yourself another name rather than an introvert

I'm an introvert by every definition of the name. I like taking personality tests online & every time I take one, the results come back saying I'm an INTJ. I looked it up & I can see aspects of my personality in the descriptions. I live inwards more than I do in the real world. Many introverted people will tell you how their imaginative world is much more interesting than whatever anyone else have to say in the here & now.

People dey o...hmmm

ZarZar:


I'm an introvert by every definition of the name. I like taking personality tests online & every time I take one, the results come back saying I'm an INTJ. I looked it up & I can see aspects of my personality in the descriptions. I live inwards more than I do in the real world. Many introverted people will tell you how their imaginative world is much more interesting than whatever anyone else have to say in the here & now.

I'm hard to be convinced....well, untiL i meet you out of here, that's if you are willinq.....

FelixFelicis:
Dear wife, I mustn't catch you laughing at another niggas joke, what you mean? I should be the only one who can make you laugh or smile.

seriously u must b kiddin me

I love u already. U have to explain no firther... pack your bag make we go yankari reserve

ZarZar:


I'm an introvert by every definition of the name. I like taking personality tests online & every time I take one, the results come back saying I'm an INTJ. I looked it up & I can see aspects of my personality in the descriptions. I live inwards more than I do in the real world. Many introverted people will tell you how their imaginative world is much more interesting than whatever anyone else have to say in the here & now.

BlackDBagba:
I love my news 8,9,10pm (don't call me, don't text me, don't feed me, don't talk to me )

Sleeping with the lights on

God,as for me,with lights on,no sleep.

ladykolly:
seriously u must b kiddin me

no I'm not

Gentlevin:
Just as i stated above, u just listed exactly wat i would have listed. BUT I DONT TAKE IT AS BAD ATTITUDE. I CALL IT A SOUND POLICY COS IT BENEFITS ALL WHO CARES TO FOLLOW IT. some will keep a dirty plate /pot for 1week b4 dey wash it out. Nonsense...

i could remember my first year in school, i querrelled with all my room mate because that was the first time am leaving home and staying with people i have no idea who they are or were they're from. men it was crazy but i got to learn alot from them

Onyezaza:
i could remember my first year in school, i querrelled with all my room mate because that was the first time am leaving home and staying with people i have no idea who they are or were they're from. men it was crazy but i got to learn alot from them

You even tried staying with them. I prefered to stay off campus cos no one to bother me and in my third year i decided to try staying in d hostel. But i could not bear it seeing dirty pots lying around the room plus their immature attitude. I had to stop staying in d hostel and only visited there once in a week. Am more angry cos am even staying wit one of my sibling who i just have constantly remind to wash off his dirty plates and pots after leaving it for 2 to 3weeks. Sometimes i just feel like living alone.

sekxy:
Okay thanks

ur welcome
nice picture by the way

Raine80:

Soon

definitely u will marry(soon) but is there a spouse now or soon to find one?

I have these expressions like when you sound like an ode I kinda don't need to say it cause my expression would have explained to you...

Alezy:
ur welcome
nice picture by the way

thank u

I easily get depressed and I give up so easily but am really working on this trait of mine another thing is am emotionally unstable, I have a very low emotional quotient cause of this attribute of mine I can't marry a woman I love I will shoot myself in the foot but if it ever happens then she will have a whole lot to deal with.

Alezy:
definitely u will marry(soon) but is there a spouse now or soon to find one?

There is one

sleeping wt d lights off
pushing him away from the bed while sleeping

I'm very stubborn, don't like too much attention, easily irritated esp when I don't like you, a bit bossy, not a big fan of cuddling, I am play , hate serious conversations, makes everyone living on the same roof with me fat by cooking every little opportunity I get, hate eating except it's meat, im a freak , I don't really take anything serious, I don't really like people I don't know around me, I can be quiet for days without nothing being wrong with me, I switch my mood on and off as easily as blinking my eyes..... I hate clingy people, I mostly hang out with guys and I'm a playful flirt so if you're a jealous guy, I'm sorry but you'll just have to get used to it, I don't have a streak of jealousy in me and I hate going out except on occasional dates

Gentlevin:
You even tried staying with them. I prefered to stay off campus cos no one to bother me and in my third year i decided to try staying in d hostel. But i could not bear it seeing dirty pots lying around the room plus their immature attitude. I had to stop staying in d hostel and only visited there once in a week. Am more angry cos am even staying wit one of my sibling who i just have constantly remind to wash off his dirty plates and pots after leaving it for 2 to 3weeks. Sometimes i just feel like living alone.

lol

but I don't know why some people take it as a big task to wash dirty cloth and plate. I don't blame some, they were actually brought up like that

Am a joker and always very sarcastic... He likes it already....

Am a joker and always very sarcastic...

LordOfNaira:
1. I like watching movies in the midnight (horror movies).

2. I enjoy cooking in the midnight while watching these horror movies.

3. I am a very thoughtful person and might come across as boring. I am also a very homely person. I enjoy being home. I work from home and I enjoy it. I don't go to the cinemas, or the beach or the restaurants or anywhere. I stroll or drive around in the evenings.

NOTE: I am not expecting anyone to cope with these. They are things I may be able to adjust or if not, I may never have a spouse.

Check my signature and get REALLY, REALLY scared!!!

Na only you waka come

Raine80:
My attribute would be looking at a problem and wanting to solve it immediately...sometimes it's ok to leave it till the next day day I have learnt to do this ( slowly)

then you call this a bad attitude?
then you must be some Angel.

its better you trash things out as quickly as possible, cos if left to linger may grow into something major. snuff the life out of it before it even starts.

In DMX words "Something Little Becomes Something Major"

pryme:


then you call this a bad attitude?
then you must be some Angel.

its better you trash things out as quickly as possible, cos if left to linger may grow into something major. snuff the life out of it before it even starts.

In DMX words "Something Little Becomes Something Major"

It is a bad attribute it shows impatience. Sometimes it's best to wait as long as it's not a life or death issue .

Raine80:

It is a bad attribute it shows impatience. Sometimes it's best to wait as long as it's not a life or death issue .

it depends on the issue as long as emotions dont get involve, but if it does, then its best to wait (i personally stay for 3 days before discusing it).

But like i said it depends on the issue, some can go against you without realizing it, so its better you let them know as soon as the act is done

FreeSpirited:
We can't shy away from the fact that we all have our good and bad sides. It's always good to know your bad side so that when your spouse is reacting you will be more understanding. You will also be able to handle the situation more calmly.

It's actually better and less stressful for our partner if we plan to change, though we all know its easier said than done.

My negative tendencies which my spouse might have to cope with are:

1 I rarely sweep my room..my younger ones or babe do that for me.

2 No matter how I try, clothes will always litter my room...My wife must a good home-setter

3 When I eat I don't like removing the plate to the kitchen I usually stand up, leaving the plate.... means I will get a househelp

4 I hate going to the market....maybe it might change someday

5 I love disturbing for early morning sex.... ...I prefer early morning sex to any other sex.

6 I use sarcasm a lot and I'm blunt to a fault and very opinionated when need be

7 I can be very playful though I have control over this

8 I'm very forgetful, girls find it annoying. Its actually the little things I do forget not books

These are my major negative attitudes : and I hope to change someday, or my spouse will cope and love me nevertheless. Share yours.

we do have a few bars in common op
I am guilty of no 8, although i always find a way to wriggle through or I tell you bluntly I have forgotten.but books,games,codes no way I never forget those

I am also very blunt and direct (almost military like)in my dealings cos detest drama.

for house chores, I don't joke with those, being an only child made me a man and woman combined

the kitchen is like second nature to me, hence plates,pots etc must be spik and span.(many baes have commented that my girl will enjoy me)

the only chore is detest is huge laundry.(especially when I have a large heap to wash, my hands are never the same after huge washing).bae must knownhow to wash

I fail to understand people sometimes, seeing things from my own POV (though lots of people say I have a good listening ear and quite understanding mindset)

I can be very annoying especially when I am in a volatile mode)

bad temper (learnt how to deal with it a long time ago)

used be a good guy but now I have changed .

hardly care about a situation affecting one especially when I warned you about it before hand.

I can interrogate like kilode,

am a mix of introextroverted, lots of mood swings.
a bit to serious (lots of ladies complain about that but I suprise then when I talk dirty or what I do behind the door*winks*)

hardly call( anything one sided in a no no for me)
I don't know how to flatter or sweet tongue but I do it when I want most times in the flow of a discussion.when i to left alone just lemme be(deep thinker), only sex can pull me out of that mood.

I hate to admit this but i love attention and love, calms me down

ZarZar:
I'm very introverted:
I don't like to go out much. Asking me to go out becomes a bargaining game
I really don't like people much I'm always polite though, just don't expect me to hang around your friends all the time. They're YOUR friends after all, not mine.
I can't pretend, which closely relates to the point above. I won't hang around people I don't like just because. It drains me.
OK this one is weird, I don't know how to express certain feelings e.g. excitement. So no, I won't squeal like a pig or clap like a seal to show how excited I am, I do that inside. On the outside I simply smile That can easily be mistaken for being ungrateful or whatever, but really, the feeling is there, I just don't know how to express it.
I like to be left alone sometimes to "recharge" & ponder about stuff. DO NOT DISTURB
Sometimes I have a hard time controlling my emotions Once my temper is lost, honey, you'll need a hound just to find it Thankfully, I don't stay angry for too long.
I'm brutally honest, which is often mistaken for rudeness. Meh.
Oh & I'm jealous too. I love hard, that's why

my kind of woman, lets get started bae, we havwnt got the whole year you know

Cannonleo:
my kind of woman, lets get started bae, we havwnt got the whole year you know

Good to know. Your name, is your zodiac sign Leo by any chance?

ZarZar:


Good to know. Your name, is your zodiac sign Leo by any chance?

nah I don't do astrology but am a may guy so you help me interpret.

my birthday is 2days from now.

waiting for Your analysis

Cannonleo:
nah I don't do astrology but am a may guy so you help me interpret.

my birthday is 2days from now.

waiting for Your analysis

Lol, I'm lazy to write right now but here's what I found. Do you agree with what they're saying?