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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by berryice(f): 5:00pm On May 11, 2017 |
I have experience something like dah...knwn the guy for few weeks...when I went to see him...he told me to go to d market nd cook Banga soup for him,on our first date...I was like huh nigga...I didnt move an inch.to marry nor hungry me reach like dah...ve lil respect on a first date nigga,he then said I should serve him nd his friend food he prepared...I just did dah, don't want to b rude in his friend present...wen I was going he didn't give me tfare...I didnt bother to ask. Til date he didn't call me,like I care...nonsense 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by ayomutu(m): 5:04pm On May 11, 2017 |
In the first place why did you go to his house as your first date ole ole olojukokoro |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Lightening: 5:09pm On May 11, 2017 |
Nofuckgiven: You date only MEN that cook? From your confession, you have dated at least two men that cook. Please is dating one of your hobbies? If your school of thought is working, why hasn't one of those ''men that cook'' married you? Okay happy dating! 2 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Eaugusta(f): 5:09pm On May 11, 2017 |
sinaj:I see nothing wrong with it. It depends on how he presented it and the circumstances that led to that. Yes, I am not the very good type, if it wie to be washing of clothes, I would have declined because it will look as if it's planned. If the asking you to cook iss came in a rude manner, u can instantly and codedly make your point (make him understand its not a responsibility) without his friends noticing what is happening and from his response, u can tell his kind of person. People go wrong without even knowing it 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Marrtynze(m): 5:11pm On May 11, 2017 |
My own is just imagine her without that hair she's on |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by liricyst(m): 5:12pm On May 11, 2017 |
Geez! He is a woman beater because he asked her to cook? LOL! missomo: 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Gassa007: 5:13pm On May 11, 2017 |
missomo:Shuuu! |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nackzy: 5:16pm On May 11, 2017 |
I rebuke your type in Jesus name...Amen |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by afroxyz: 5:17pm On May 11, 2017 |
See ashawo wey dem wan elevate to house wife |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by TheVictorious(m): 5:19pm On May 11, 2017 |
junnyjake: Funny enough, the guy may not mean any of the things she insinuated! 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nofuckgiven: 5:21pm On May 11, 2017 |
mypassions:Firstly,you do not know if Foluronsho Alakija cooked for her husband on the first date after they met. Stop using married people to compare two people who have known for just two weeks and have barely agreed to date each other. Secondly,just because one woman happened to hate men and end up embittered and alone doesn't mean she is a feminist,Chimamanda is a feminist but she is happily married with a son. A man hater is just like a woman hater. They are not feminists. Stop confusing yourself and others! I am a feminist and I believe in equal rights for men and women. I don't hate men because I love my dad,brothers and my other male friends. As for the peeing positions,that has nothing to do with feminism or this thread for that matter. Yes women can pee while standing if they wear skirts or gowns and yes women can stay on top during sex and ride a guy. All that is up to the couple to decide mutually,it has nothing to do with equal rights. Now I am done. 3 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nofuckgiven: 5:23pm On May 11, 2017 |
Lightening:Same reason you have not wifed all the ladies that have cooked for you. 3 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by murmee: 5:28pm On May 11, 2017 |
oyetpel:Very good point. The guy has no right whatsoever to order the girl around on a first date or even on any date at all. The girl is NOT his wife! 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by junnyjake(m): 5:29pm On May 11, 2017 |
TheVictorious: lolzz, let's even look at it like this. - He wouldn't have invited her over to his house on a first date if he held her in high regard. - What kind of a first date would I want to have my friends around. - it's obvious she must have overestimated her importance, to this the guy wants anything serious than fùčk. - After dropping her off, I could bet he was the one who did the dumping. - but that guy is something sha, having access to my kitchen is a privilege, and so I can't permit every Aisha, folake, chioma into my kitchen. I'd also need to be impressed with your culinary abilities before giving you the opportunity to cook for my friends 3 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by princessayesha(f): 5:31pm On May 11, 2017 |
He has no such right...marry her first then ask her to cook |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by udemtional: 5:32pm On May 11, 2017 |
This Bae is nonsense...! ask me why? a sensible woman cannot be so proud of her foolishness. true men who suffer to make it in life maintain their resources, and not lavish it as the young man in a high way. i think you are interested in those robber out their who live life of fast food and restaurant. all the best..OP turn de borad nobody she help
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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by TheVictorious(m): 5:32pm On May 11, 2017 |
junnyjake: True, exactly my thoughts. Especially the emboldened. 3 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by dimmikel: 5:33pm On May 11, 2017 |
I think the guy was wrong. You need to treat a lady like a special guest on her first visit to ur crib. After that she's no longer a first timer |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Incrizz(f): 5:38pm On May 11, 2017 |
Heavance: Aww nice you.. I'm actually shocked that there can be found a cool headed fellow on NL. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Avalani(m): 5:46pm On May 11, 2017 |
Same shirt NwamaziNwaAro: |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by sinaj(f): 5:49pm On May 11, 2017 |
Eaugusta:According to her story,a guy m getting to knw came to pick me from my house to his own house for the first time nd tells me to cook for him nd his frnds I dnt evn knw. Do I look like a chef to him or what I dunno bout u but everything is wrong with that for me. It's a different thing if he is your bf or ur frnd u've known long. If you like cook, wash cloth, clean his house with ur tongue, a guy that doesn't like u or av feelings for u will still dump u. 2 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by phizle(f): 5:50pm On May 11, 2017 |
Don't perform wifely duties to a guy you are not married to. It was wrong of him to have asked you to cook, especially when you are just getting to know him and not yet in a relationship with him. He probably felt you would be at his beck and call, trying to impress him, knowing his status. I personally feel he was trying to take advantage of you. But you proved otherwise to him. You did the right thing dear. Don't let any negative comments make you feel bad. Most men know many ladies are desperate out there, then try to capitalise on that. It's his loss and not your loss. So stop saying you lost a potential man. Besides you were still getting to know him. His job status and house doesn't guarantee he would be a good husband. Some key things are important, other than materialistic stuff 3 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by bezimo(m): 5:52pm On May 11, 2017 |
Seriously?? This mentality of western women and the correlation with high divorce rate. Obviously came from a poorly brought up setting.. There are traditional women roles, modernization can't change that. But on a first date..... Ehmmm. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by laudate: 5:53pm On May 11, 2017 |
Femlexx: Translate, pls! |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Myself2(m): 5:53pm On May 11, 2017 |
rumenase: Yes nah shebi you dey dis wit dem |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by SafeDavid(m): 5:57pm On May 11, 2017 |
princessayesha:Oh well, he was wrong on the way he went about it. If I were him. I'd start the cooking and ask her to give me a hand. Gradually shed take over. I guess that's why we're all different. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Iyou: 5:58pm On May 11, 2017 |
You are a radical feminist and that can not work in Africa especially Nigeria....As a woman you need to do that even if you don't like it,you don't expect your guy to go cooking for you young lady ::::these things only happen in Western countries. I must advice you and other ladies,,,,,even if you are the bread winner,respect your man/husband,swallow pride because if no man comes for you,you will remain at home. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by sukkot: 5:59pm On May 11, 2017 |
Joavid:correct mama. eku ijoko madam |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by liz4eno(f): 6:12pm On May 11, 2017 |
First time I came to visit a potential bf he also asked me to cook,but it was kinda late around 8pm so I told him I don't cook at night besides if he wanted me to cook he would have picked me earlier cos I had to wait for him at a junction for long,,,he was cool with it,the next day I cooked,,long story short,not jus because I cooked,,but of cos he found a wife in me,,today we r so into ourselves soon it'll be our traditional wedding,, well different stroke for different folk,,I actually love cooking and I love him so much. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by mypassions(m): 6:17pm On May 11, 2017 |
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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by mypassions(m): 6:19pm On May 11, 2017 |
Your mama train you well jare, the beauty of a woman is her character not her facial beauty. liz4eno: 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by facealone05(m): 6:21pm On May 11, 2017 |
You would av give him another chance,I thinks d guy is just happy dt u are around him |
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