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I don't think the babe is wrong or the guy himself, she probably felt on a first date , he should impress her and make her feel loved, the guy maybe concluded that he has landed her heart but i ask myself if i would allow any babe cook for me on a first date or soon thereafter , naah cos I dont trust you that soon to eat your food. My aunt always warned me never to eat any babes food, that women could never be trusted.

bkool7:
Maybe you and the op have not been told .
its actually a MEN'S WORLD .
you ladies just live in it.
The man was merely testing you, and need I tell you you failed ?

Testing me as the president of nigeria wey him be ba? If I slap you ehn

ekems2017:
Hmmm. Well If you enjoy cooking you will not be saying this. It doesn't mean the guy wanted to use you. You probably don't know if he wanted a wife and saw you as a potential one. You missed out.

Maybe if it was sex you will have gladly given to him.

tell her my sister, I Pity her husband cuz cooking is a skill nd he must learn it mumu girl,u think say we dey UK hug?

you dont like cooking and any way cooking is a skill for all and a pride for a lady check your self out thats is one of the way to find king not a wife beater

Beey:
I beg to differ with you on this one.How do you invite someone on a 1st date when it should be all about knowing one another, then bring friends over and then tell her to cook?That should be a time for just the two and if the guy isn't cheap he should have at least taken her to dinner for a 1st date.

look whether 1st date or not a woman is suppose to show her cooking skills..that the best way to be loved by a man ..that is the secrect of we men ok..the idiot girl cant cook

maxwell60:
You can't even spell "idiot" some you will just online and be making foolish and senseless comments I think somebody should educate some of you here on how to respond to comments and please making a comment is not compulsory so, instead of fooling yourself just ignore the post.Don't be deceived by the number of people that liked your comment because they are as dumb as you.

thanks idiot....why fly no go support shit...shame to you

mypassions:
You spoiled the whole thing by trying to be tribal here, this show how uncultured you are. It pain you so well because you knew I was saying the truth about you being a lesbian, a Yoruba man won't even date an ugly woman like you. I still ask Jide what he liked about a ugly woman like you. I know what you want, I shouldn't reply so you will be happy right? You just mess with the wrong Nigga! You have been creating public nuisance all over Nairaland without nobody given you the respond you deserve, that's why you feel you can be rude to anybody. You talking about making money instead of advising your broke ass, I will feed your broke ass for good 10yrs. Let this be your last time in this life you will ever call yourself a woman, you have no attributes of a woman. I don't respect women like you, I see them as shit. Most rude women are ugly because they always want to past their frustration on people, I think that's why jide dump your silly ass. You know in your heart how ugly you look, that's why you refuse to put your real picture on your profile and even your Facebook. I will be watching you from now on, let me see you abuse anybody on this forum, I will mess you up big time. AMERICA GORILLA!!!

You are a useless fool of a drunk father and whorish mother. Look at this stupid liar oh! Keep on disgracing yourself and your useless generation if you even have any. Who the hell is Jide? Boor and broke bastards like yourself with prostitutes as sisters who move around sleeping with anything on skirt or has enough money to pay for their broke ass. Nigga you eat shit for a living. One again you a broke gay ass fool.
You better shut that hole you call a mouth,bastard idiotic animal.
See how moronic and stupid you are. Your mates are busy hustling and trying to make themselves better the only thing you know how to do is run around with different dirty whores and infecting yourself and others with diseases.
Useless ugly afonjastic bastard. No wonder your women say you guys allow them to cheat on your pathetic ass. Broke ass foolish waste of sperm!
Coward imbelistic goat. When you are a coward,how won't your woman cheat on you. Its niggas like you who marry their dead ancestors just to secure a green card. Useless village champion selling off your father's properties just to come over to the same America you are insulting.
You shall die a pauper you devil!!
Ugly idiots always trying to marry Igbo women just to help their bloodline!! Ugliness is ingrained in your useless tribe,even your useless sister and mother and yourself aren't even up to half of the ugliest Igbo woman. Piece of moronic shit!!
Kiss my ass and burn in hell,pathetic loser.
You had better give up now because I work online and I am ready to serve your stupid chauvinistic ass with as many insults as I can get. I won't blame any woman who kills you because you are already useless to everyone including your pathetic self!! Bring it on!! You go die here today!! You haven't seen anything yet!!
Even from this fool's profile it is obvious he is a thief and yahooyahoo boy who steals from people and resell the items online!! One day your cup would be full and EFCC would throw you into kirikiri like others!!

Revolva:
look whether 1st date or not a woman is suppose to show her cooking skills..that the best way to be loved by a man ..that is the secrect of we men ok..the idiot girl cant cook

I still maintain that no man should ask the girl to cook on a first date.There's plenty of other times she could do the cooking but absolutely not on 1st date & to make matters worse, this man even brings his friends over.At the risk of sounding arrogant, am gonna say that I too wouldn't do any cooking on a 1st date.If he can't buy dinner, then he is just cheap & most likely stingy.Period!

[quote author=laudate post=5643

And yes, there is no need to use vulgar language to get your points across. [/quote]was dat suppose to b a justificatn,,"wat if she cannt cook".. i thank God i live in a world diff. frm NL,,as much as i lik homemade food gurls that ar nt my bae cum cook fr me,, they bring up d offer ,,bring money lemme ... wu eatery epp
you cannt xpect sum1 lik me to take a date home n she wil tel me she cannt cook .. my bae asides cookin ,,she wash my cloths n @time brush my teeth fr me... am yet to see hw that lower her standard b4 me,,or makes her my slave cos she is free as air.
in naija our gurls ar turning crazy formin "slay queen" n i even wish vulgar language is enuf to get my point across!

FakoMaybach1:
The level of hypocrisy on social media stinks to high heavens, some of the ladies supporting the girl do worse things to win a man's heart.

To the Op you need counseling, the guy really needed to let you In..In as in into his heart, home and life but you messed up with a capital "M"

Let me educate you guys that are well to do have something to loose, they dont eat anything a lady brings to them, i for one dont let female visitors cook for me, we all know ladies can be dangerous...When a man loves a woman she becomes his mother, and last i checked a mother feeds her son and not Tasty fried chicken.

Well i agree from the picture you posted you are still young, time dey your side..and to all those shouting on the first date, if he had given her money will she refuse it because na first date? No woman has ever turned back money to me and told me "Eh this is our first meeting i cannot accept your money" but when other matters arise i hear that "First Date" balderdash..Abeg make una park well

Can I also discipline him when he acts silly? I mean since I'm his mother

Idreal22:
I washed my husband clothes and clean his house on my first date with him, and now we are the most happiest couple in the world, ......... so my sister with what u are doing I can see that u have another alternative that is why u are misbehaving , change ur ways and forget about equal right for male and female, the bible clearly let us understand that our husband is the head of the family just as Jesus Christ is the head of the church

Desperation at its peak

Revolva:
look whether 1st date or not a woman is suppose to show her cooking skills..that the best way to be loved by a man ..that is the secrect of we men ok..the idiot girl cant cook



thanks idiot....why fly no go support shit...shame to you

And a man should show his spending skills too. Take her shopping on a regular 1st date and spoil her

SafeDavid:
Oh well, he was wrong on the way he went about it. If I were him. I'd start the cooking and ask her to give me a hand. Gradually shed take over.
I guess that's why we're all different.

Take over fire. I'd just stay in the kitchen and keep you company.

Iyou:
You are a radical feminist and that can not work in Africa especially Nigeria....As a woman you need to do that even if you don't like it,you don't expect your guy to go cooking for you young lady ::::these things only happen in Western countries. I must advice you and other ladies,,,,,even if you are the bread winner,respect your man/husband,swallow pride because if no man comes for you,you will remain at home.

Say you personally can't cook for your lady. Other men can and do cook

gprincead:
The girl ugly sha.

The guy needed a serious relationship with u by asking u to cook. He went out and bought the food to show u he can afford it.

Ur laziness made u lose not just a boyfriend but potential decent husband that will prefer eating in the house instead of outside.

there are no obligations in dating so i dont understand why she has to cook for him.

Every girl who comes to your house including your girlfriend (whatever that means) is a guest. if you share the apartment together, then you should take turns to cook unless it is already agreed that she should cook. Marriage is a different ball-game where obligations actually exist.

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michaelandre:
weldone maaa!!!! I can beat my chest and said that this story Is fabricated. because how would a guy that just know u for few weeks just see u one for the first time. tell u to just go inside his kitchen and start cooking for him. please lets be sincere does it makes sense infact it is totally stupid to even reason that way. because doesn't know who u are. nobody should believe does nonsense up there. she fabricated the story just yo massage her ego and make her feel impotant. u know girls can lieeeeee. its not knew

that's what I think too .all these lie lie blogs sef.

ekems2017:
Hmmm. Well If you enjoy cooking you will not be saying this. It doesn't mean the guy wanted to use you. You probably don't know if he wanted a wife and saw you as a potential one. You missed out.

Maybe if it was sex you will have gladly given to him.

Even if i am a renowned chef and cooking is my first love and hubby, why would i cook? I should cook to increase my chances of being the wife of a man that wants me to cook for him and his friends on the first date. What kind of husband will that be? Abeg even if a lady is 40yrs old, marriage should not be a goal that leads her to desperation for husband.

Why did she eat the food that was bought for her? Why did she follow him to his house on a first date? Whats wrong about her helping him to cook? Relationship is a give and take thing. You don't only receive.

ImaIma1:
Even if i am a renowned chef and cooking is my first love and hubby, why would i cook? I should cook to increase my chances of being the wife of a man that wants me to cook for him and his friends on the first date. What kind of husband will that be? Abeg even if a lady is 40yrs old, marriage should not be a goal that leads her to desperation for husband.

[[s]quote author=mypassions post=56445377]Your <sub>baseless points proved you are one of those Ladies with no life experience, all you have in your brain was acquired from Nairaland. Had it been I knew you were this local and senseless, I wouldn't have gone into argument with you in the first place. I doubt you really in the USA or ever been there because you lack american women charisma, intelligence and have no class at all. What we talking here is about us not tribe. only the cowards that hide under the umbrella of a tribe because of their insecurities. You knew deep down you that you are very ugly, that's why you went straight with the tribal insult which I will never go into with you. I'm more expose to go into tribal argument but I am sure of one thing all tribe have beautiful women and being light skin doesn't automatically mean a woman is beautiful. In as much as I knew igbos have many beautiful women and same time they have many ugly ones too which you are one of them. Plus, marrying a handsome husband or beautiful wife doesn't guarantee someone of having cute babies. I'm married to a Yoruba woman with two kids(Boys), I can bet my life that you can never have a cute kids as mine. I would have post their pictures here but I respect their privacy. I can't count how many times from different places people from your tribe look and admire them, some even goes as far as asking if they were born here. Some will ask me a question I hate so much if I am igbo because of my kids cuteness, which I always correct them politely that is really a bad orientation to feel any person looking good is igbo.

The idiot Funmi Iyda that said that rubbish is a product of prostitution, she was telling the world about her mother cheating and how are father never care about it since he met her mother in a brothel. Funmi is a faluire to Africa, Yoruba tribe and to herself. A woman that fu$k dido all through her life, a woman passed her menopause, a woman that comes out marriage with F9. She was so frustrated and angry her tribesmen never look her side till she passed her menopause stage. I feel so sorry for her, many years of konji is not easy. So what do you expect from a woman of such?

I need to buttress this fact to you that living abroad is not an achievement and not everybody living in Nigeria wish to travel. I also want you to know that some Nigerians here are living a comfortable life with no stress at all. Not too long I realize I have been having argument with a dunce with a toddler mindset, the argument started looking childish to me when you start going tribal. Just as they say 'Never argue with an idiot, they will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.'

I learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it. I wish I realize earlier I was arguing with an idiot and a pig, I wouldn't have replied you at all. Don't even bother to reply because I won't reply you anymore. Go for a therapy so they can find solution to your sickeness( Feminism Fever ) that you think it was feminism. Let me summarize your own life in a brief: MANY HEARTBREAKS - LONELINESS - DEPRESSION - HATE - FEMINISM - LESBIANISM [/quote]</sub>[/s]
Rubbish stupid useless trash! Keep on dreaming by the time you wake up it must have been too late! Just take a map and drive straight to hell,when you get there tell the devil how hopeless and frustrated you are before burning forever in the abyss!
You are so pathetic!! Who dash monkey banana? Look at his ugly and bleached face with fake jewellery everywhere!
Ole barawo!! Olee buruku!! Ode you no get shame!!
Ranting like a mad dog in heat period!!
Go and die!! Frustrated old gay lord who sucks white dicks for a living!!
Yahooyahoo boy that used his family for rituals!!
You are a disgrace to your family!!
If you know all this is true,quote me again like the bastard that I know!! Gullible fool

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majorbravo:
It cant be the first date, why d hell would any decent girl have a first date in the guy's crib? What did she expect? A french chef in a halloween costume serving them both cuisine? She chose to have a date in the guy's crib, which means spending quality time together and that involves anything that can be done at home, not at some restaurant. If you choose a date at an amusement park, do you wait till you get there and say uh uh, i'm scared of heights? I dont know what she expected when she accepted a date at her man's crib. BTW If it was an actual date why were his friends there? Dude probably didn't even see it as a date to begin with. And i bet he didn't call her after.

nice analysis.

FakoMaybach1:
The level of hypocrisy on social media stinks to high heavens, some of the ladies supporting the girl do worse things to win a man's heart.

To the Op you need counseling, the guy really needed to let you In..In as in into his heart, home and life but you messed up with a capital "M"

Let me educate you guys that are well to do have something to loose, they dont eat anything a lady brings to them, i for one dont let female visitors cook for me, we all know ladies can be dangerous...When a man loves a woman she becomes his mother, and last i checked a mother feeds her son and not Tasty fried chicken.

Well i agree from the picture you posted you are still young, time dey your side..and to all those shouting on the first date, if he had given her money will she refuse it because na first date? No woman has ever turned back money to me and told me "Eh this is our first meeting i cannot accept your money" but when other matters arise i hear that "First Date" balderdash..Abeg make una park well

Dude shut up. A lady I'm dating or whatever is not and can't be my mother like WTF?

ekems2017:
Why did she eat the food that was bought for her? Why did she follow him to his house on a first date? Whats wrong about her helping him to cook? Relationship is a give and take thing. You don't only receive.

He invited her to his house. He should entertain her if that means buying food. If i invite a guy to my house, i could cook for him or buy him food not ask him to buy his food when he is coming or enter the kitchen to cook.

Everyone should hold up for a minute and listen to some wise advice.
First of all, there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG in bringing a lady to your house on a first date. It's a moment of bonding and getting to know each other and there's no better place to let her know you than your house cuz she'll see pictures, know your style etc. However bringing your friends as well on a first date is fcking stupid and it doesn't make any sense at all.

Secondly, it is the duty of a woman to cook in a relationship. Period. However on a first date, the cooking should be done by the man or both of them. It's WACK and crazy for a guy to let a woman enter his kitchen and cook by herself on a first date(i swear some guys are crazy lol.. .)

thesuave10:
Everyone should hold up for a minute and listen to some wise advice.
First of all, there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG in bringing a lady to your house on a first date. It's a moment of bonding and getting to know each other and there's no better place to let her know you than your house cuz she'll see pictures, know your style etc. However bringing your friends as well on a first date is fcking stupid and it doesn't make any sense at all.

Secondly, it is the duty of a woman to cook in a relationship. Period. However on a first date, the cooking should be done by the man or both of them. It's WACK and crazy for a guy to let a woman enter his kitchen and cook by herself on a first date(i swear some guys are crazy lol.. .)

Crazy and egocentric.

The woman is right on this one.
But I see in the end she still couldn't resist being a typical chop n clean mouth naija babe.

[[s]quote author=mypassions post=56446826]Somebody feel so pain here because we no bow for them like some weak men. I proud of my skin, my look, my tribe and my country. My profile says it all. You are ugly this is why you can't upload your picture, you know this and everybody on here knew this. I saw your picture at first but when I called you ugly, you remove it immediately. This is one of the reason why I said I doubt you ever been in to USA at all if not you will know authentic watch when you see one. For your information that's a pure Rolex that cost fortune that you can never afford. I have receive message from people telling me they enjoy and love how I deal with your silly ass. In our mind, we know who the ugly is Even the make up no help you self. We no travel abroad go snap picture or go do copy copy feminist or go lick white ass (I must be an American By force). We go only on shopping and business only, no no WEAKNESS!!! [/quote][/s]
Keep giving your useless life hope foolish idiot!
I have already dealt with your pathetic ass!
Bastard son of a lunatic father!!
Bleached out fool!! Shameless yahooyahoo ritualist!
That is all your tribe is known for!!Agbero local tout like you!!
Keep looking for white cocks to suck till you die of frustration. Thought you said you won't quote me again. You have proven you are a bastard and I have also gotten messages from people who said I should keep bashing your stupid ass!
Lying useless pig!! Foolish idiot who has not even crossed Lagos borders!!
Keep forming what you are not and stealing from others to live a fake life. Like I said one day you shall be caught and thrown into jail where you belong.
Quote me again. Only a yahooyahoo boy can have all the time in the world to exchange words online. Responsible men don't have such time because they are busy working hard to earn a decent living.
Fool of the highest order!!
The fool has removed his bleached and ugly face oh!! Chai! See this stupid hypocrite!! I have exposed you!! Don't worry soon those in the force(Army and the rest) online here would soon trace you to that hole you are hiding in the slums of Lagos and arrest your broke sorry ass!!

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mypassions:
Jealousy is a terrible disease, ugly women are always bitter. I have been here since 2008, I have never had any argument with people but I think I tried dealing with your silly ass. Sorry, live with the pain. There is always difference between a woman and a bitch. I respect women but give shit to bitch just as I did to you. I was trained to bow for queen not bitches. I know jealous people like you that tag successful men Yahoo or Ritualist, if it's a successful woman, they will tag her olosho or too proud. Imagine how you see abroad as something very important, this show the level of your mentality. Abroad that people go to like pure water these days, I never knew there is still people like you. You need cover your face with long size towel, so backward. Poverty is really a terrible disease. I have advice for you, too much of dido affect the brain. Omo Oju Ori Ola Ri.... You need exposure please, you really lacking this. My last reply to your ugly face. BYE FOREVER!

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Why you dey run na? The fear of EFCC is the beginning of wisdom for a yahooyahoo boy oh!!
Come and talk useless bastard!! I thought you know how to talk,after men like this idiot would say women have bad mouth when his own stinks to high heavens! You deserve to be raped to death through your asshole or beaten up by real men because you are a useless foolish weak idiot who only exchange words online with women because he can't face his fellow men outside in real life!
Pathetic broke piece of shit?!
Come back and talk trash again or have you given up so soon??
Look at your dirty stinking mouth, I pity any woman who would end up with this God forsaken piece of dirt!! You are even more useless than the word 'useless'! Hopeless anumanu!
Agwo tagbukwa gi ebe ahu,thunder gbagbukwe amu gi ebe ahu,oku kpokwa gi,devilish son of a bitch!!

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[[s]quote author=mypassions post=56451942]Jealousy is a terrible disease, ugly women are always bitter. I have been here since 2008, I have never had any argument with people but I think I tried dealing with your silly ass. Sorry, live with the pain. There is always difference between a woman and a bit$h. I respect women but give poo to bit$h just as I did to you. I was trained to bow for queen not bitches. I know jealous people like you that tag successful men Yahoo or Ritualist, if it's a successful woman, they will tag her olosho or too proud. Imagine how you see abroad as something very important, this show the level of your mentality. Abroad that people go to like pure water these days, I never knew there is still people like you. You need cover your face with long size towel, so backward. Poverty is really a terrible disease. I have advice for you, too much of dido affect the brain. Tell the Army officer to find trace to the reason why your life is so miserable at this stage.Omo Oju Ori Ola Ri.... You need exposure please, you really lacking this. My last reply to your ugly face, stop spreading STD and make sure you treat so it won't affect your lesbian partner. BYE FOREVER![/quote][/s]
The same thing again? Better go and die because it seems you have already gone bunkers!
That weed you are taking is driving you insane. Why are you lacking words all of a sudden??
Educated illiterate!!
Come and talk na!! Bastard idiot!!!
Simple grammar you can't construct!! Olodo rabata!! Isi aki,dullard.inho,dunce,coconut head!