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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Akjwyzepal(m): 6:17pm On May 31, 2017
lol. I can only laugh at u old man. When u're 80 u will wish u were 30, when u're 30 u wish u were 80yrs.we already knw u a perv.ert, i will give u two medals one for being da.ft and d second for being an old fo.ol.
SirMichael1:


Retárd, age isn't a number and that's why you must not quote someone who doesn't quote you and shut him up.

I gave my opinion, give yours and let live.

I don't have time for kids
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 6:18pm On May 31, 2017
Maxi112:
which youth? our finished youth grin

the difference between you and them is "religion" I don't understand what you meant by indecent dressing.... do you expect a lady to swim on gown or club /party with blouses? if you're living a boring life, it's not their fault ni.

bolded... nobody will blow your trumpet for you, continue! grin

I don't judge people based on their dressing; nah!


Really. You think girls of my religion don't dress indecently?

Who's even talking about religion?

I hope you won't encourage your child to wear rags so that she won't live a boring life if being decent means being boring to you. On second thoughts, if that's what you want for her, go ahead.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 6:20pm On May 31, 2017
PDPGuy:


Depending upon the jurisdiction, clothing that covers the genital areas and the n-i-p-p-l-e-s (for women) are generally acceptable.

So are bum shorts and bras acceptable?

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 6:28pm On May 31, 2017
LalaLushness:

When they don't realise in some parts summer exist .. mtcheew
Abeg free the Op biko is like talking to someone from North Korea #waste of precious calories
Abeg looking for my bikini n pumpum shorts for dis heatwave grin

The way you reason at times could be funny, Bumbae. Saw your comment on another thread this morning, you were so quick to pull the "Naija mentality" thing and now you talking of Op not knowing summer exists in some countries... What does that have to do with the topic? Have seen few of your pictures on here that were greatly admired, liked 1 or 2 myself. Did you expose em boobz and thighs? Nope and you still slayed those pictures... So why should you expose your body to get approval from dudes when you could dress responsibly and still turn heads.



Op, on no account should you justify that barbaric act called rape tho...

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 6:31pm On May 31, 2017
SirMichael1:


Majority? You refuse to take corrections yet again. These are your personal findings. You didn't conduct a wide range of research from different part of the country and you dare say majority?!

A girl walks in rags doesn't make her to be disrespected. It's her choice. Clothings and adornments isn't a yardstick for measuring decency or chivalry. Celebs wears crazy attires, don't they.

This is 2017. Everybody is bad but not everyone is corrupt

So, how was jamb?

You are the one misunderstanding me. Or are you defending indecent dressings? My post has nothing to do with the number of people who are actually decent in their act or not but those that are decent in their mode of dressing.

And yes, her choice of clothing could be a reason for her to be disrespected that's the honest truth. Again I grew up with guys that are notorious for disrespecting girls and they don't hold back their reasons for it which usually has to do with their mode of dressing which they always feel is an invitation.

If celebrities wear indecent clothes does that make is good and acceptable? Aren't they part of the reason?

Not everybody is bad and not everybody is corrupt.

I actually have no business with jamb anymore unless the day my kids would want to write theirs.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 6:31pm On May 31, 2017
LalaLushness:

When they don't realise in some parts summer exist .. mtcheew
Abeg free the Op biko is like talking to someone from North Korea #waste of precious calories
Abeg looking for my bikini n pumpum shorts for dis heatwave grin

Lol @ North Korea! grin grin grin #dead

I'm done with this thread babe, so how are you? How's Hackney! Fvck I miss London like crazy cry
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by PDPGuy: 6:31pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


So are bum shorts and bras acceptable?
Of course, you wouldn't wear those to the office or school, or bank.
But it's legal to wear such on the streets.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 6:32pm On May 31, 2017
Aderola15:


The way you reason at times could be funny, Bumbae. Saw your comment on another thread this morning, you were so quick to pull the "Naija mentality" thing and now you talking of Op not knowing summer exists in some countries... What does that have to do with the topic? Have seen few of your pictures on here that were greatly admired, liked 1 or 2 myself. Did you expose em boobz and thighs? Nope and you still slayed those pictures... So why should you expose your body to get approval from dudes when you could dress responsibly and still turn heads.



Op, on no account should you justify that barbaric act called rape tho...

It has everything to do with it .. there are Nigerians all over the world you travel back n forth etc
You can't just generalise and say if you dress a certain way you are a prostitute it is not fact ... Noticed Nigerians tend to force their opinion on others even when it is not Fact !
Exposing body as you call it may not be for dudes why does everything a woman does have to evolve around men ! Why? Not all do that some people love their body and dress how they feel comfortable .

When did I mention rape ?

Check the pic below are they all prostitutes ?

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Akjwyzepal(m): 6:33pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


And if I am a virgin and believe virginity should be kept till after marriage? Shallow, old school and uncivilized right? But hey, don't take my word for it.
God bless u jawe. Even if u want to have se.x it would be in a matured way and kept confidential. Not the way naija gals now flaunt their stewpidity online. Imagine gals come online to post shits. Sex is overrated jawe, if dy av sex let them kip it to their selve and nt try to corrupt those that aint in their hoe league.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 6:34pm On May 31, 2017
Aderola15:



Wearing shorts is different from dressing indecently.

There are body parts that shouldn't be flaunted carelessly.

Help me understand indecently? I'm ok with nudism and nudists. I respect people on the quality of their character and not because of their choice of clothes. I value and respect freedom of choice.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 6:35pm On May 31, 2017
Dimples182:


Lol @ North Korea! grin grin grin #dead

I'm done with this thread babe, so how are you? How's Hackney! Fvck I miss London like crazy cry

Lol make una agree to disagree no point ..
where you at Wales?? Yes girl it is like 23 degrees you know we all going mad haha
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Akjwyzepal(m): 6:36pm On May 31, 2017
Dimples182:


Lol @ North Korea! grin grin grin #dead

I'm done with this thread babe, so how are you? How's Hackney! Fvck I miss London like crazy cry
fake people. U can wear pant nd bra in london street. Sha dnt wear it here.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 6:41pm On May 31, 2017
PDPGuy:

Of course, you wouldn't wear those to the office or school, or bank.
But it's legal to wear such on the streets.

Why aren't they allowed in schools, offices or banks but yet are allowed on the streets? Remember, anything goes on the street that isn't even close to decent so that point isn't valid.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Akjwyzepal(m): 6:41pm On May 31, 2017
MzLarem:
Lol...since when wey I don't port smiley
na u o. Lngst time

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 6:41pm On May 31, 2017
LalaLushness:


Lol make una agree to disagree no point ..
where you at Wales?? Yes girl it is like 23 degrees you know we all going mad haha


You follow football, is it called the uefa cup? lipsrsealed Lol. I don't know what it's called but it's been played in Cardiff Stadium on Saturday so Cardiff is lit this weekend. 200,000 people coming to watch the game. I can't wait to join their party.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Akjwyzepal(m): 6:45pm On May 31, 2017
Dimples182:


Help me understand indecently? I'm ok with nudism and nudists. I respect people on the quality of their character and not because of their choice of clothes. I value and respect freedom of choice.
if u're a stripper just tell us i could patronize u someday and if u sell ur nude pics how much per pics? #mtn 100?
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 6:45pm On May 31, 2017
Dimples182:


You follow football, is it called the uefa cup? :-XLol. I don't know what it's called but it's been played in Cardiff Stadium on Saturday so Cardiff is lit this weekend. 200,000 people coming to watch the game. I can't wait to join their party.
Lol yh its UEFA champs league final think its on the 3rd Saturday
Will be watching it at home sad
Lucky you its so Lit in the stadium .. *green eyes over here *

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 6:46pm On May 31, 2017
Aderola15:


The way you reason at times could be funny, Bumbae. Saw your comment on another thread this morning, you were so quick to pull the "Naija mentality" thing and now you talking of Op not knowing summer exists in some countries... What does that have to do with the topic? Have seen few of your pictures on here that were greatly admired, liked 1 or 2 myself. Did you expose em boobz and thighs? Nope and you still slayed those pictures... So why should you expose your body to get approval from dudes when you could dress responsibly and still turn heads.



Op, on no account should you justify that barbaric act called rape tho...

Thank you, and no, I never justified rape nor do I condone it.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 6:48pm On May 31, 2017
They say truth is bitter.she is right a woman shouldn't be exposing her precious body.dear keep it up you are really a woman not just a woman but great one at that.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by DaveHert(m): 6:49pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


And if I am a virgin and believe virginity should be kept till after marriage? Shallow, old school and uncivilized right? But hey, don't take my word for it.
You can choose to be whatever you want on social media. Thank God you said I shouldn't take your words for it. You have a small mind, and you need to look into the world with an open mind.

People are no longer defined by how they dress. Africans do that shït, with all your cultural and religious upright you still can't be measured with the liberal societies.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Akjwyzepal(m): 6:55pm On May 31, 2017
rebirthforgoody:
They say truth is bitter.she is right a woman shouldn't be exposing her precious body.dear keep it up you are really a woman not just a woman but great one at that.
Good bless u for being reasonable. U are one out of the few reasonable people we have here.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 6:58pm On May 31, 2017
DaveHert:
You can choose to be whatever you want on social media. Thank God you said I shouldn't take your words for it. You have a small mind, and you need to look into the world with an open mind.

People are no longer defined by how they dress. Africans do that shït, with all your cultural and religious upright you still can't be measured with the liberal societies.

Hahaha, yea well not believing something doesn't mean they aren't true right? But anyways if being against something wrong and bad is equivalent to me having a small mind the again, I accept the label with pride. smiley

People will always be defined by how they dress whether it is actually right conclusion or not. Yes, I am an African and proud of that fact. I ain't gonna borrow anyone's culture all in the name of civilization especially if it is wrong and bad.

No matter what societies allow these days, it can't change a wrong to right. Shallow mind speaking.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 6:59pm On May 31, 2017
Akjwyzepal:
Good bless u for being reasonable. U are one out of the few reasonable people we have here.





Thanks.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by PDPGuy: 7:00pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


Why aren't they allowed in schools, offices or banks but yet are allowed on the streets? Remember, anything goes on the street that isn't even close to decent so that point isn't valid.
Decency laws are generally limited to public places like the streets or the beach. Private businesses can enforce whatever dress code they so desire.
My overall point is that people shouldn't be judged on what they wear, neither should one's respect be earned by how a woman dresses.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Akjwyzepal(m): 7:03pm On May 31, 2017
DaveHert:
You can choose to be whatever you want on social media. Thank God you said I shouldn't take your words for it. You have a small mind, and you need to look into the world with an open mind.

People are no longer defined by how they dress. Africans do that shït, with all your cultural and religious upright you still can't be measured with the liberal societies.
oh my God. Why na. Y is it so hard for people to comprehend a simple post like this? I'm sure u didn't read everything. Let me tell u what she is saying in a nutshell. Dnt fully blame guys that don't respect ladies because some gals that dress indescently make guys think they are/most gals are cheap. u get wat she mean now?

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 7:04pm On May 31, 2017
PDPGuy:

Decency laws are generally limited to public places like the streets or the beach. Private businesses can enforce whatever dress code they so desire.
My overall point is that people shouldn't be judged on what they wear, neither should one's respect be earned by how a woman dresses.

It will. The way you dress is the way you'll be addressed. It can't change even if peoples sense of modesty and decency is greatly reducing.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by DaveHert(m): 7:06pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


Hahaha, yea well not believing something doesn't mean they aren't true right? But anyways if being against something wrong and bad is equivalent to me having a small mind the again, I accept the label with pride. smiley

People will always be defined by how they dress whether it is actually right or not. Yes, I am an African and proud of that fact. I ain't gonna borrow anyone's culture all in the name of civilization especially if it is wrong and bad.

No matter what societies allow these days, it can't change a wrong to right. Shallow mind speaking.
I asked if you were a virgin, you went on to talk of keeping virginity till wedding night and shoot yourself on the foot by saying I shouldn't take you by your words. I would have taken you seriously if you're a virgin. Not dating, never dated and always decently dressed, preaching decency...but if you're not a virgin, probably been in few relationships and would still be in more before you find prince charming, you don't have the moral uprightness to preach decency. Now, I just reasoned like you.

You should learn from Dimple, you're too shallow and quick to condemn. Just because a girl wore a mini dress doesn't mean she should be disrespected. It's not her dress that defines her but character and personality. It would actually be a boring world to have everyone covered in Jihab.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by DaveHert(m): 7:09pm On May 31, 2017
Akjwyzepal:
oh my God. Why na. Y is it so hard for people to comprehend a simple post like this? I'm sure u didn't read everything. Let me tell u what she is saying in a nutshell. Dnt fully blame guys that don't respect ladies because some gals that dress indescently make guys think they are/most gals are cheap. u get wat she mean now?
A girl isn't cheap just because she's indecently dressed. Is that how you as a guy define cheap girls?.

Try wooing girls on crop tops at the cinema just because you define cheap girls by how they dress and see what comes out of it.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 7:15pm On May 31, 2017
DaveHert:
I asked if you were a virgin, you went on to talk of keeping virginity till wedding night and shoot yourself on the foot by saying I shouldn't take you by your words. I would have taken you seriously if you're a virgin. Not dating, never dated and always decently dressed, preaching decency...but if you're not a virgin, probably been in few relationships and would still be in more before you find prince charming, you don't have the moral uprightness to preach decency. Now, I just reasoned like you.

You should learn from Dimple, you're too shallow and quick to condemn. Just because a girl wore a mini dress doesn't mean she should be disrespected. It's not her dress that defines her but character and personality. It would actually be a boring world to have everyone covered in Jihab.

Actually, me telling you not to take my word for it doesn't mean I was lying. But you can't judged me with that either because I believe in keeping myself till after marriage cause I'm practicing it.

Again who's talking about hijab? People and their mentality sha, who said only those in hijabs dress decently? My point is you'll always be judged by the way you dress. And most guys won't respect girls that don't respect their selves and their bodies.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 7:20pm On May 31, 2017
rebirthforgoody:
They say truth is bitter.she is right a woman shouldn't be exposing her precious body.dear keep it up you are really a woman not just a woman but great one at that.


Thank you for getting my point and not being sentimental as most people on this thread

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by DaveHert(m): 7:20pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


Actually, me telling you not to take my word for it doesn't mean I was lying. But you can't judged me with that either because I believe in keeping myself till after marriage cause I'm practicing it.

Again who's talking about hijab? People and their mentality sha, who said only those in hijabs dress decently? My point is you'll always be judged by the way you dress. And most guys won't respect girls that don't respect their selves and their bodies.
Thank God you used "Most" now. Have they finished respecting those that respect their bodies?. Don't girls who respect their bodies in accordance to your definition of decency get used and dumped by most guys?.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Akjwyzepal(m): 7:23pm On May 31, 2017
DaveHert:
A girl isn't cheap just because she's indecently dressed. Is that how you as a guy define cheap girls?.

Try wooing girls on crop tops at the cinema just because you define cheap girls by how they dress and see what comes out of it.
lol. I won't talk at all, let me flaunt an Iphone7 then let see who will do the talking. My guy if u av low self esteem that's when u wil be scared to toast any lady. If u dnt look unkempt, maybe cute too and u're outspoken. She either choose to b ur frnd or nt. Most crop top reveals a lady tommy and as long as the crop top isnt exposing any sexual area, its nt indecent, most ladies wear high waist jeans or jeggings under crop top, so its nt indescent

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