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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 9:18pm On May 31, 2017
sarutobie:

Of course, and the problem of any butt sampling,slutty dressed female who wants 'respect ' ..none shall be given to them, but a folded green paper between their twats..

k
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by jay2smart19(m): 9:19pm On May 31, 2017
bpee:
are u saying expensive clothes can't be worn without being half unclad? Are there not super rich ladies who look hot and slay who still do not expose their bodies?
na guilt d worry am jor. justifying shit. my girl's clothes cost gon and are descent. dos cheap rags na Im no de cover body. oro oshi

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Maxi112: 9:22pm On May 31, 2017
jay2smart19:
eya.... kai. hmmmmm crying for u
cry well.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Blessed779: 9:22pm On May 31, 2017
Fufu

Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by jay2smart19(m): 9:22pm On May 31, 2017
Dimples182:
This is some country mindset angry

No, you should not judge people by what they wear, that's shallow. Because a woman wears a short dress or skirt does not mean she is less of a woman or human being.

The fact that this is coming from another woman is just sad.
may God bless u. and give u descent kids dat will respect u. that lady is just a disgrace.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by evexx1(f): 9:24pm On May 31, 2017
jay2smart19:

na guilt d worry am jor. justifying shit. my girl's clothes cost gon and are descent. dos cheap rags na Im no de cover body. oro oshi


How can your girl's clothes cost anything when you're looking like N100?

Seriously?
If someone doesn't agree with your opinion, it doesn't mean you should insult them.

You look POOR!
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by jay2smart19(m): 9:24pm On May 31, 2017
Maxi112:
cry well.
eya. kai kai kai kai. its a pity
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Etuagievin(m): 9:24pm On May 31, 2017
My brother I can't respect a girl half unclad. Some above me opined that dress doesn't matter, my brother it does; the way you are dressed is the way you will be addressed . our mother's that dressed decently were still attractive to our fathers. The notion of dressing SEXY has taken a pitiable dimension. Satan is certainly at work.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by PDPGuy: 9:24pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


It will. The way you dress is the way you'll be addressed. It can't change even if peoples sense of modesty and decency is greatly reducing.
Well, we can agree to disagree. Point being that I don't primary address people by what they wear.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Wolexdey(m): 9:26pm On May 31, 2017
@ Op, I commend you.

Most of those Indecent girls/Ladies are carriers of strange illnesses.


They look for customers to share in their miseries... Many of them are home breakers. Their minds are just to polluted to see decency as a right thing to do.

Please Ladies, do the world the favor of decency, if not for your sake, how about generations behind.

The Parents are not helping either.
Entertainment such as secular songs,movies etc, have contributed greatly to the abuse of decency.
Even, the politicians, those set of Ladies are there big time customers. Little wonder, they can't govern meaningfully.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Maxi112: 9:27pm On May 31, 2017
jay2smart19:
eya. kai kai kai kai. its a pity
pity yourself not me.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by jay2smart19(m): 9:29pm On May 31, 2017
Maxi112:
pity yourself not me.
I must pity u oooo. cos u sound like a fast food. flashy, see-through, affordable and open to all. kai kai kai
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by silibaba: 9:29pm On May 31, 2017
lefulefu:

biko is it ur body cheesy?
let we guys be the judge cheesy
no spoil market for us cheesy.wana keep on viewing dem ukwus cheesy.

shutp up angry

i know say below nah wetin dey ur mind angry

Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by DaveHert(m): 9:30pm On May 31, 2017
Vorpal:



Yes Mr western mentality, how has such dated for them? Increasing rates of divorces, kids of single parents, baby mamas all over the place, homosexuality, bestiality every thing is just going fine on the other side cause their society is gold standard.
Are those things you mentioned not happening in Nigeria(Africa). What happened to all the moral preaching your mosques/churches have been preaching against these.

Most of these girls who're quick to condemn are horrible fùckers. All this is attention seeking, and for guys, last time I checked the indecently dressed girls came from homes with brothers and fathers. Have you as a person ever tried to tell your sister or cousin who's indecently dressed to go and have a change of cloth?, funny enough you could do that easily behind some keypad to people you don't pay their bills.

Really funny how people reason.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by jay2smart19(m): 9:31pm On May 31, 2017
evexx1:



How can your girl's clothes cost anything when you're looking like N100?

Seriously?
If someone doesn't agree with your opinion, it doesn't mean you should insult them.

You look POOR!
eya.......

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Maxi112: 9:33pm On May 31, 2017
jay2smart19:
I must pity u oooo. cos u sound like a fast food. flashy, see-through, affordable and open to all. kai kai kai
k
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 9:33pm On May 31, 2017
silibaba:


shutp up angry

i know say below nah wetin dey ur mind angry
haba bros warris dis? shocked sad

Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 9:34pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


Again with the religion.. Did I mention anything like religion or are you trying to say only Muslim women dress decently? Christian women too dress decently so don't bring religion into it.

with all due respect mi lady..you need not say anything about religion if you follow this...laila illa muhammad rasulullah...so its obvious where you are coming from or speaking from.again a lady dressing indecently(aspa naija thinking/culture) does not give a man the right to disrespect her..hell she can walk around naked and that gives no man the right to touch her..its just like rape..if you are in the room with a woman and she spread her legs wide open..that does not mean go and enter..UNTIL SHE says you can come and enter..thats what am trying to say..infact those ladies that cover well sef as even worse..but i get your point as pa our culture in nigeria..but i have visited an asian country b4 and 95% of the women wear bum short even old women..so a woman have the right to wear whatever she want to wear and we must learn to tolerate each others views and beliefs.have you heard of NUDIST B4..people that like to walk around naked

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 9:36pm On May 31, 2017
frenzyduchess:
all I can see I a muslim who is caged thereby resorts to criticise what she wish she could do,my friend ,why don't you face your mosque,with all your covering and all ,your men still treat Muslim wives as second class, with no voice, I will listen to talk about respect when you and your brothers hit your head on the same floor inside the same mosque, nonsense

Lol. I shake my head for you. You think I can't dress anyhow I like if I want to? Of course I can, religion isn't the only reason stopping me but self respect.

Stop bringing religion into this matter cause it has nothing to do with it. If you wanna talk about religion, make a post about it.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Ezionye(f): 9:38pm On May 31, 2017
Nma27:
Are u for real? The way we dress? Anyway you are entitled to your opinion.

What is your own opinion? Cos I cudnt decipher any from that up there

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by fof1: 9:38pm On May 31, 2017
Maxi112:
op go get a life... jealousy will do you no good. it's their life not yours.


mind your business please.

you can't buy expensive cloth is not their fault.

you can't dress like them isn't their fault.


your thread reeks of jealousy



UR RESPONSE STINKS. A VERY GENIUNE POINT RAISED CAN'T BE SET ASIDE. WHAT'S D JEALOUSY ABOUT FOR POINTING OUT D MALADY OF INDECENCY IN WOMEN PROVOCATIVE DRESSING ANGERS U. PLS D OP WAS AND IS ON POINT. MODERATION IS KEY IN EVERY AREA OF HUMAN LIFE. ONCE FREEDOM IS AN ALBATROSS TO OTHERS WHEN OVER STRETCHED. LEARN A THING TODAY.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by jay2smart19(m): 9:38pm On May 31, 2017
Maxi112:
k
nice.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Yewandequeen(f): 9:38pm On May 31, 2017
Am right behind you OP.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Consray(f): 9:40pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


Really? So you mean only Muslims dress modestly? Maybe you have a thing against Muslims, I don't know nor do I care.

Please go over my post again and point out the phrase or sentence that denotes religious mindset. Or do other religions encourage indecent dressings? There are many Christians I see who dress very decently, head coverings aside.

If you are taking it personal, sorry but the truth is always bitter.
the truth is always bitter dear

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 9:43pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


Lol. I shake my head for you. You think I can't dress anyhow I like if I want to? Of course I can, religion isn't the only reason stopping me but self respect.

Stop bringing religion into this matter cause it has nothing to do with it. If you wanna talk about religion, make a post about it.
my friend go and sit down and stop shaking your hijab covered head spreading the odour from your hair everywhere on this thread, self respect that you dont have in your mosque and homes, even with your covering most of you hijab wearing people don't wear pants under for quick access ,so mind your business no one is holding you from wearing your black hijab ,black stockings and black hand glove under hot sun, so sush it , your men don't respect y'all even with your covering, so what is your problem?, why not concentrate on your brothers

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by tosyne2much(m): 9:45pm On May 31, 2017
Fabulocity:
Lol which one is immoral dressing again? I never knew clothes could affect or determine the level of one's morality lol. I understand that you might have your preferences when it comes to dressing, and a certain kind of dressing which you perceive as "immoral" or more suitably, indecent could be a turn off. That's no problem. But the problem is when you now tag such people that don't dress up to your taste as wayward. That's very wrong. A girl could just be very comfortable in her body and she may have no reservations about showing some skin. That doesn't make her a slut!
Appearance shows the manner my dear. At least to a very large extent, the way you appear is a reflection of what you have inside of you

You can't dress like a roadside mechanic and expect people to mistake you for a doctor. Things don't happen that way dear
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 9:46pm On May 31, 2017
cristianisraeli:


with all due respect mi lady..you need not say anything about religion if you follow this...laila illa muhammad rasulullah...so its obvious where you are coming from or speaking from.again a lady dressing indecently(aspa naija thinking/culture) does not give a man the right to disrespect her..hell she can walk around naked and that gives no man the right to touch her..its just like rape..if you are in the room with a woman and she spread her legs wide open..that does not mean go and enter..UNTIL SHE says you can come and enter..thats what am trying to say..infact those ladies that cover well sef as even worse..but i get your point as pa our culture in nigeria..but i have visited an asian country b4 and 95% of the women wear bum short even old women..so a woman have the right to wear whatever she want to wear and we must learn to tolerate each others views and beliefs.have you heard of NUDIST B4..people that like to walk around naked

Such is the greatness of your ignorance. Who told you it's all Muslim girls that dress decently?? God, some people are just so unbelievable. I had lots of non Muslim course mates who dressed more decently than even some Muslims. Maybe you are the kinds that can't do without associating things to religion.

Keep trying to excuse indecency, you might actual encourage some to join you to push it forward.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Maxi112: 9:47pm On May 31, 2017
fof1:




UR RESPONSE STINKS. A VERY GENIUNE POINT RAISED CAN'T BE SET ASIDE. WHAT'S D JEALOUSY ABOUT FOR POINTING OUT D MALADY OF INDECENCY IN WOMEN PROVOCATIVE DRESSING ANGERS U. PLS D OP WAS AND IS ON POINT. MODERATION IS KEY IN EVERY AREA OF HUMAN LIFE. ONCE FREEDOM IS AN ALBATROSS TO OTHERS WHEN OVER STRETCHED. LEARN A THING TODAY.
and you think what you term moderation cant be seen as indecency by her?

ladies like this are envy of what they cant afford.

I'm not trying to promote indecent dressing but it shouldn't be the yardstick to disrespect ladies that dress to suit them.


we should learn to mind our business

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 9:47pm On May 31, 2017
DaveHert:
Are those things you mentioned not happening in Nigeria(Africa). What happened to all the moral preaching your mosques/churches have been preaching against these.

Most of these girls who're quick to condemn are horrible fùckers. All this is attention seeking, and for guys, last time I checked the indecently dressed girls came from homes with brothers and fathers. Have you as a person ever tried to tell your sister or cousin who's indecently dressed to go and have a change of cloth?, funny enough you could do that easily behind some keypad to people you don't pay their bills.

Really funny how people reason.

Your post is just riddled with assumptions for a dude is supposed to sound enlightened and objective.

The western bit i brought to counter his point was to show to him that every society has it's flaws and we are all striving to achieve a better society. So nobody should sound like one society is better than the other!

********


Yes such things exist in Nigeria, but here we preach against the acts and remind them what society expects from them in order to keep things sane.

Wtf! Do you take me for? Harping on something i don't practice, is that how you use to do?

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by poik(m): 9:50pm On May 31, 2017
bpee:
are u saying expensive clothes can't be worn without being half unclad? Are there not super rich ladies who look hot and slay who still do not expose their bodies?


this world don spoil finish, really. can u imagine. So because its expensive it must be indecent? you see what Hollywood has done to us?
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Kondomatic(m): 9:50pm On May 31, 2017
Dimples182:


Her body is none of your damn business! You can not say that she deserves to be hurt and cheated because she dressed differently. Get off your high horse and STFU. Men are attacking us and you jump on board and condone women being mistreated because of what they wear. You self righteous bigot! You promote the rape culture. What you are saying is if women dont do as they are told or expected to do then they deserve to be mistreated. You think women who don't wear mini skirts and dresses don't get dumped and heartbroken? I won't reply you again because I can't reason with morons!
You're the slowpoke actually, you just don't have anybody to tell you.

There's a repercussion for every action you take, when I see a man dressed in rags, I will assume he's mad. If I see guy on boxers walking a busy street, the first impression is that he's mad or high on Ibadan weed. Our mode of dressing matters and we are addressed by the way we dress

There's what we regard as the dressing of a LovePeddler and any woman clad in it is first perceived as prostitute regardless of what she's inside.

The world is becoming morally bankrupt because of morally debased individuals who are bent on turning taboos to norm in the name of civilization. I feel sad living in this generation of weak people where everything has to be toned down because it's offensive, including the truth.

The OP is saying the obvious truth, dressing may not always make us but they influence public perception of us. If you want to go nude then go nude where nudity is allowed not on the streets.


Your dress code is a window into your subconscious. You're free to go Unclad but you're not free to force the world to respect you.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Maxi112: 9:50pm On May 31, 2017
Yewandequeen:
Am right behind you OP.
why wont you be behind her, even if you dress the so called indecently you wont trigger anything.


i don't expect you to stand against this thread.

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