AHCB:
Oh so you think and believe men don't struggle to break barriers? You don't men are given 'pot of gold' just because they're men? You think men don't work relentlessly hard in other to meet with societal standards and expectations?

Hello, please answer me this, what do you do for a living? And kindly ask your dad, if any of what you mentioned was given to him on a 'pot of gold' like you said.

You need to Stop dilly dallying around the truth. You very know what I meant.

A woman Cannot dream big Or aspire to great heights and achievements in a patriarchal society because a society such as that do not believe that those are roles befitting of a female.

AHCB:
I'm as shocked as you. But I'm laughing here.

That's total execution, the type usually given to those rejected asswipes we call purified losers.

Me too.

Okies27:
. It's not a show of strength but just an understanding of what a man and a woman represents. And how they should live in the society, their place of work etc.

Lol. Discordant, Uncorrelated Excuses.


however you wish to suave what is being discussed. still doesn't change the fact that only Dolls, Puppet, Slaves, People without Self worth submit to Mere mortals.

Evaberry:


I really don't know how.
but it's just how it is

evn if u are a virgin cos I know is a lie wat make ur breast fall is most guy have press and suck it a woman dat breast feed a baby her breast is diff from dose dat havent born. u lot a lot of guy suck it dat why

FTrebirth:
i'm not a muslim and i don't support that position. i can vote a qualified female as president over a lesser qualified male candidate.

if you go to Twitter and see response on that thread you will see many people actually support that position including women.

the point of gender equality is educating people to do away with such mentality they acquired through their religion and backward cultural values.

You just over simplified the point of gender equality by your comments. it's not about demanding stuff just because you own a penis or vagina.

Estharfabian:
the society we found ourselves in as ingrained male supremacy in almost all facet. so it is expected of them to be in the forefront always. there are to do this, and that. Learn this and that. wield this, and that. we are supposed to be subservient, Submissive, receptive...

if they do not take the lead on certain areas, we dare not take the lead, because well, We are harbour A Vagina.

I really do not want to go all personal with this. it's something you are well aware of. the status quo is and has always been skewed against women.

a couple James and Jane are driving in jane's car and they have a flat tyre. who should "take the lead" in fixing d flat tyre? A community employs self help to solve its power problems. sometimes it involves carrying ladder and climbing electrical poles and handling naked wires. which gender should "take the lead"? I remember while growing up, there's what they called civil defense.it entailed landlords in my area taking turns 2 provide security at night 4 members of d community. in this instance, would it have been better in d name of gender equality 4 wives and mothers 2 " take the lead" while d men slept away at night?

lovelygurl:


Ehn ehn? Happy married life in advance. I pray you don't have to create another account to to whine about your healthy relationship. The stress you've gone through should be rewarded

Lol

Estharfabian:

You need to Stop dilly dallying around the truth. You very know what I meant.

A woman Cannot dream big Or aspire to great heights and achievements in a patriarchal society because a society such as that do not believe that those are roles befitting of a female.

example below

lexy2014:
a couple James and Jane are driving in jane's car and they have a flat tyre. who should "take the lead" in fixing d flat tyre?

Lol. Uncorrelated analogy.


I learnt how to Change A tire At 17. it's my car, I would change it.

So, she should if she knows how to. We shouldn't dismiss chivalry though.

proudafrogal:


example below

Exacly. that Is one of the hindrances.

Stereotypes, Putting women in a box. Underestimating their Worth and capabilities because they're women.

proudafrogal:


if you go to Twitter and see response on that thread you will see many people actually support that position including women.

the point of gender equality is educating people to do away with such mentality the acquired through their religion and backward cultural values.

You just over simplified the point of gender equality by your comments. it's not about demanding stuff just because you own a penis or vagina.

why does nairaland censor pen!s to joystick but leaves vagina?
Seun come see o

Cinderella5:
Something to massage men's ego, even the broke and ugly ones will be so happy reading this

So to be Ugly should give u lesser ego abi?
Some points sha....lame tho...

Estharfabian:
Lol. Uncorrelated analogy.


I learnt how to Change A tire At 17. it's my car, I would change it.

So, she should if she knows how to. We shouldn't dismiss chivalry though.

very very correlated my dear after all we are talking about equality. pls check my post again. I dropped a few more analogies u will fancy. if u learnt how 2 change a tyre how many girls out there do u think also learnt how to?who taught u?let me guess....don't tell me a man taught u

lexy2014:
very very correlated my dear after all we are talking about equality. pls check my post again. I dropped a few more analogies u will fancy. if u learnt how 2 change a tyre how many girls out there do u think also learnt how to?who taught u?let me guess....don't tell me a man taught u

dude, No one is dragging your 2-inch pënis with you.


I hope you've assimilated that point fez? now, go and learn The meaning of gender Equality mbok.

Estharfabian:
dude, No one is dragging your 2-inch pënis with you.


I hope you've assimilated that point fez? now, go and learn The meaning of gender Equality mbok.

sweetheart its like u really love penis cos u have been using d word copiously. well am happy 4u. Its like u have some really sweet experiences u can't 4get. Back 2d matter, I agree I no nothing about gender equality. can u please teach me

tsalmjohn:


So to be Ugly should give u lesser ego abi?
Some points sha....lame tho...

yes, when you are broke and ugly, you should be quiet forever.

Estharfabian:
Culture is dynamic.


the African culture is Not dogmatic. we can't keep holding our progress by some unslated codes some stone men lived by.

Stoning men alive is never our culture it is jungle justice unleash to people as a result of anger.
We african always rush to embrase white culture that never do us good.

Estharfabian:
Lol. Uncorrelated analogy.


I learnt how to Change A tire At 17. it's my car, I would change it.

So, she should if she knows how to. We shouldn't dismiss chivalry though.

just 2 add, am sure u learnt changing tyres cos u showed interest and u made urself available 2b taught. It wasn't "given". am sure it goes d same way with attaining gender equality

Dimples129:
Op... Google Equal rights for women then come back and read your post. All those points you made are negative and neither sex should do it. The problem is the fact that men are encouraged to impregnate and be promiscuous is the problem because it's women they are impregnating and cheating on and not amongst themselves. The problem in the world today is your mindset, that men can do evils because they're a man forgetting that they will do that evil to women.

Gender equality is about treating both genders with respect and nothing to do with what you pointed out.

Equity.....not equality..I hope you get this and others who say equality. Equity is appropriate.

Cc. sexybbstar

Cinderella5:
yes, when you are broke and ugly, you should be quiet forever.

I get your actual point now.

tsalmjohn:



I get your actual point now.

thnks hun

chisco82:

Stoning men alive is never our culture it is jungle justice unleash to people as a result of anger.
We african always rush to embrase white culture that never do us good.

this your comment sha. she didn't mention jungle justice at all. you are completely off.

proudafrogal:


if you go to Twitter and see response on that thread you will see many people actually support that position including women

only three kinds of people support that view:
- male supremacists
- muslim extremists (which also includes brainwashed women masked with hijabs who have been tied with a lifelong enslavement by their husbands and imams )
- the clueless

no rational thinker in this modern age would give that a thumbs-up.

the point of gender equality is educating people to do away with such mentality the acquired through their religion and backward cultural values.

totally agreed! and the society i live in does not abhor women taking bold steps into various fields of human endeavours like their male counterparts. i will have a daughter someday, and she must enjoy her rights.

You just over simplified the point of gender equality by your comments. it's not about demanding stuff just because you own a penis or vagina.

nope!

i was forced to say that since the nairaland version of feminists slash gender equality chanters are making it seem like they're being oppressed or devalued by male folks, which is not true. some of them occupy big offices and have male subordinates who answer them with "ma". so, what are they crying for?

chisco82:

Stoning men alive is never our culture it is jungle justice unleash to people as a result of anger.
We african always rush to embrase white culture that never do us good.

You misconstrued my Post. stone men. Not Stoning men.

proudafrogal:


why does nairaland censor pen!s to joystick but leaves vagina?
Seun come see o

if the reverse was the case you would still complain.

well, nairaland is gradually removing censors from certain seemingly obscene terms, like..

pussy - formerly kitty-kat
dick - formerly manhood
erection - formerly attention
vagina - womanhood
cum - erupt
bitch - formerly naughty lady, etc.

FTrebirth:
only three kinds of people support that view:
- male supremacists
- muslim extremists (which also includes brainwashed women masked with hijabs who have been tied with a lifelong enslavement by their husbands and imams )
- the clueless

no rational thinker in this modern age would give that a thumbs-up.



totally agreed! and the society i live in does not abhor women taking bold steps into various fields of human endeavours like their male counterparts. i will have a daughter someday, and she must enjoy her rights.

nope!

i was forced to say that since the nairaland version of feminists slash gender equality chanters are making it seem like they're being oppressed or devalued by male folks, which is not true. some of them occupy big offices and have male subordinates who answer them "ma". so, what are they crying for?

well when you encounter those kinds of feminists you talk about attack them and specify why, don't just make blanket statements because by doing that you are just giving the male supremacists, Muslim extremists (you claim to disagree with)and the ignorant ones like the OP a reason to think they are right.

I wan fear o

FTrebirth:
if the reverse was the case you would still complain.

well, nairaland is gradually removing censors from certain seemingly obscene terms, like..

pussy - formerly kitty-kat
dick - formerly manhood
erection - formerly attention
vagina - womanhood
cum - erupt
bitch - formerly naughty lady, etc.

proudafrogal:


I wan fear o

we at the sexuality section are usually first to know.

Estharfabian:



it doesn't surprise me anymore sef. I've seen enough asslicking bullshii to last me a lifetime...

they should keep kissing their Ass, savour the taste of their Anal juice while at it.

Lool

Jigba:


Lol

Lol

Daboomb:


LIAR! You are a woman ...or at best, a SHE-male!

Stop this arrant Hypocrisy!

How many Men have you seen crying about Gender Equality or saying they are at one disadvantage or the other?

Men take it by the scruffs and work hard to be recognised, they dont want success handed over to them, if they dont deserve it.

And please, stop all these lies, do women in your family also dont have right to BUY HOUSE OR LANDS and build it?
Which useless family is that and where is it from?

Miilions of Women own properties all over the place, it is the broke-azz and mentally lazy ones who attribute their failure in life, to their GENDER.

You cant expect EQUAL PAY, when your PRODUCTIVITY IS NOT EQUAL.
Women who are more productive than Men, get paid more than the Men and you dont see the Men complaining of being marginalized.

Do more, if you want more. Its that simple.

Real, intelligent and successful Women who got to the TOP by dint of their HARD-WORK and INTELLIGENCE (not those who bleeped their way to the Top!) dont ever want to hear this nonsense called GENDER EQUALITY because they know it is an insult to all the hardwork they have done, to get to where they are.
It is cheap, lazy and brain-dead women that need it for a "leg-up" in the society because they are just not qualified and intelligent enough to compete and succeed.

GENDER is and will NEVER be equal or the same.
Everyone reaps what they sow, irrespective of their gender.

You know the truth, but it's a threat to men ego and it's a weak man that the words GENDER EQUALITY give nightmares. I'm not she or she-male but a proud father of four brilliant and beautiful daughters. People with your primitive mindset are why it's important for Nigeria to enact the law.
Yes, a woman can buy land with their own money where I come from, but a woman can not own (family) land there is a difference. Any man who sees genders equality as a threat is a low esteemed individual.

Estharfabian:

You need to Stop dilly dallying around the truth. You very know what I meant.

A woman Cannot dream big Or aspire to great heights and achievements in a patriarchal society because a society such as that do not believe that those are roles befitting of a female.

What tha hell are you yapping about? A woman can not dream big? What manner of nonsense are you vomiting, child. What is hindering a woman or any woman from dreaming big if not her mind.

Patriarchal society or not, I've mentioned names in my previous post of women who aspire big and achieve big despite being born in a Patriarchal society. So I wonder where your thoughts is spewing from.

Look kid, nobody is stopping you from achieving what you want to achieve, the only person who can stop you, is you! No one else.